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To think Reform could be a little less smug?

124 replies

PersephonePistol · 18/01/2026 23:37

Top of the polls, defections, no doubt do very well in the local elections in May.

But could they be a little less smug about it all? I’m not saying they shouldn’t big up the good stuff (from their perspective) that’s going on but they’re treating the next election like it’s in the bag.

I’m not sure it’s a terribly good look.

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PandoraSocks · 19/01/2026 12:36

I think Farage has become over-confident and is in danger of digging his own, and his party's, grave.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 19/01/2026 12:41

The notion that anyone could feel smug over adding Robert Jenerick/Nadhim Zahawi/Nadine Dorries to their party is frankly hilarious and shows just how little the Reform lot have between their ears.

PandoraSocks · 19/01/2026 12:42

Dollymylove · 19/01/2026 12:24

Well Labour are not exactly doing such a good job are they? They have made in clear in every way possible that they despise the Britisb electorate.
Every time 2 tier Kier opens his gob he pushes more voters into the arms of Nigel.
He has the charisma of a sack of spuds
(Although a sack of spuds is generally quite useful) 🤣

So why is Reform's polling on the slide? Why did Reform lose in Caerphilly when the polls, the bookies and Farage himself thought Reform had it in the bag? How do you explain this poll 👇

To think Reform could be a little less smug?
Americano75 · 19/01/2026 12:56

'Smug' is NF's default setting.

Crikeyalmighty · 19/01/2026 13:03

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 11:57

To paraphrase - you believe people are stupid and gullible and are being sold a lie.

Is there something else you would rather people did, what is that?

Unfortunately I cannot change people’s prejudices and beliefs single handed - if they believe all the country’s ills are caused by a certain number of immigrants who have no right to be here that won’t change, same with believing ‘the south gets it all’ ( it doesn’t - see regenerations in last 12 years in Manchester, Liverpool, Newcastle etc- compared to say Bristol or Southampton or Swindon) - if they can’t see that an MP who basically isn’t interested remotely in his own constituency and spouts views about total independence whilst themselves having an EU passport , so no issue for him moving around , or a deputy basing themselves mainly in Dubai isn’t exactly what they are preaching then clearly thinking beyond the obvious is not doable for many. You cannot base a whole philosophy on simply not liking foreigners ( unless they are rich ones of course and funding you) - that way of working is going so well in the USA at the moment - and maybe he should be reflecting on the fact that the immigration situation was nothing like it is now when in the EU when we had particular agreements of return in place . Why would you vote for a party too that now has a ton of the exact people plenty wanted to never hear from again ? The problem is it’s pretty hard for current gvt to turn anything around on shirt buttons, a great deal of the population have now sussed out, especially if lower paid and renting and often with children that they are little worse off doing much less hours , people 55 plus with strong pension funds thinking bollocks to working and now no longer contributing much tax or NI , younger people struggling to have any aspirations work wise, so many just’save up or cadge off parents and ‘go travelling’ for 18 months - etc, etc - it’s a complete minefield - I do get that people are fed up but unfortunately I think the reasons run far deeper than it being the current gvt and simply voting for a bunch with the same mindset as the previous bunch including many of the same people won’t get to the roots of the issue - those people are in it for themselves and couldn’t now get arrested in commercial world outside of politics.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 19/01/2026 13:04

Americano75 · 19/01/2026 12:56

'Smug' is NF's default setting.

To misquote Churchill, never has one been so smug over so little.

sleepwouldbenice · 19/01/2026 13:13

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 11:57

To paraphrase - you believe people are stupid and gullible and are being sold a lie.

Is there something else you would rather people did, what is that?

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spitofyou · 19/01/2026 13:14

They have absolutely nothing to be smug about.

Conservatives are only 4 points behind them. They’ve dropped four points already. They’re becoming the worst of the Tory party.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/01/2026 13:15

PandoraSocks · 19/01/2026 12:36

I think Farage has become over-confident and is in danger of digging his own, and his party's, grave.

Let's hope so!

chaosmaker · 19/01/2026 13:16

ToWhitToWhoo · 19/01/2026 00:25

Well, personally I think that Reform should fuck off to the far side of fuck!

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That's neither far nor nasty enough for that plc

rainandshine38 · 19/01/2026 13:26

I wish they would all just fuck off personally. Why people vote for these grifters is beyond me!

LlynTegid · 19/01/2026 13:30

rainandshine38 · 19/01/2026 13:26

I wish they would all just fuck off personally. Why people vote for these grifters is beyond me!

Protest, a belief (with some justification) that the other parties have failed.

Remember people were happy to vote in large numbers for the Tories when Boris Johnson was leader, and his lying and laziness except in the bedroom was well known.

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 13:36

sleepwouldbenice · 19/01/2026 13:13

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I'm not sure that will produce the outcome you think it will

TestTubeTina · 19/01/2026 13:50

Immigration has dropped off the radar now that Trump has completely lost the plot.

Without that to shout about, Reform are a big nothing-burger.

JohnBullshit · 19/01/2026 14:00

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 12:01

What evidence do you have that anyone thinks Reform are a panacea that will deliver a utopia? I don't think anyone thinks that.

They're the only available option to send a signal to our rulers that we need an emergency halt on immigration to the UK. That's pretty much it. The rest can be dealt with further down the line, but people see the house on fire and there's only one option for putting that fire out. It probably won't work, but it's better to try than watch the whole thing burn. That's what they're thinking. Farage and Reform get a lot of criticism from the right.

I call it as I see it. There's a lot of support for Reform where I live, and they voice their faith and confidence in very clear terms on social media. Nigel will put things right, apparently.

sleepwouldbenice · 19/01/2026 14:08

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 13:36

I'm not sure that will produce the outcome you think it will

Believing the idea that immigration is the cause of all issues and reducing it will solve all problems requires a complete reset of understanding and context. I can't think how else to achieve it

Soonenough · 19/01/2026 14:10

But isn't being a smug part of their manifesto? Surprised they don't have a banner saying Told You So at their conference.

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 14:17

sleepwouldbenice · 19/01/2026 14:08

Believing the idea that immigration is the cause of all issues and reducing it will solve all problems requires a complete reset of understanding and context. I can't think how else to achieve it

Isn't believing that rapid mass immigration causes no problems at all and that it can continue indefinitely not just as silly and requiring it's own complete reset, understanding and context?

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 14:18

JohnBullshit · 19/01/2026 14:00

I call it as I see it. There's a lot of support for Reform where I live, and they voice their faith and confidence in very clear terms on social media. Nigel will put things right, apparently.

Maybe the problem is democracy itself, if we can't trust the demos.... could it be time to rethink?

drivinmecrazy · 19/01/2026 14:21

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 12:01

What evidence do you have that anyone thinks Reform are a panacea that will deliver a utopia? I don't think anyone thinks that.

They're the only available option to send a signal to our rulers that we need an emergency halt on immigration to the UK. That's pretty much it. The rest can be dealt with further down the line, but people see the house on fire and there's only one option for putting that fire out. It probably won't work, but it's better to try than watch the whole thing burn. That's what they're thinking. Farage and Reform get a lot of criticism from the right.

I think that we’ve all learnt that this isn’t the way to go.
isn’t this how labour got into government?
I think the quote that’s relevant here is that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

If only we were strong enough to really go for something different.

im really heartened about the increased support for LibDems and the Greens, but fear that people either don’t really want change or they’re afraid about what change really means

HappydaysArehere · 19/01/2026 14:37

The reason they are apparently popular is the gullible public believe they are different from the alternatives. They say they will stop the boats etc and yet when pressed have no viable idea of how to do this. Farage says “We will send them back”. Good luck with that. He wants us (and so does Trump) to privatise our National Health Service which will then be open to American business. When he wants any new ideas he goes down the pub to find out what suggestions are being bandied about. As for Jenrick joining them I can’t see that lasting as Jenrick is a corrupt, untrustworthy ambitious and unpleasant piece of work. He believes he will be seen as a big fish in a large pool of inadequates and aims to be the leader. It is up to the other parties to supply a credible alternative. That is our only hope. Firstly Starmer needs backbone or he should be replaced along with our less than able Chancellor.

deadpantrashcan · 19/01/2026 14:39

Tessisme · 19/01/2026 12:07

We in NI don’t get a say in who ends up in power, yet we are ultimately ruled by them, despite our toothless devolved government. So if you lot vote in Reform, fuck you very much in advance.

Yep, right there with you in Scotland. They’ll get in. The newspapers win again. Beyond predictable.

sleepwouldbenice · 19/01/2026 15:12

BlueJuniper94 · 19/01/2026 14:17

Isn't believing that rapid mass immigration causes no problems at all and that it can continue indefinitely not just as silly and requiring it's own complete reset, understanding and context?

Yes it is? No one has said that immigration doesn't need addressing, so rather an inflammatory statement here?
So a considered, thought out approach to immigration, without misinformation, exaggeration and vile hate mongering, that looks to manage down immigration, its impact on sectors of the economy, addressing issues like integration, language, culture, trade and investment, without the hate... would be useful ...
Ie the opposite of reform in terms of approach
And also dealing with the 1001 other issues that are really causing the decline of the country as well perhaps?

topcat2014 · 19/01/2026 15:30

All politicians love to boast and crow, it's the nature of the beast

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 19/01/2026 15:52

sleepwouldbenice · 19/01/2026 13:13

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Yes, preferably before voting. The day after the Brexit referendum, a trending search on Google from UK residents was "what is the EU?"