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To play audio on my phone on train?

183 replies

ThreeWordUsername · 17/01/2026 23:00

Would IBU to start loudly playing some ads for headphones from my crappy tinny phone speakers on the train?

Given the number of other people blaring shite from their own they are unlikely to be affected much tbh.

OP posts:
landlordhell · 18/01/2026 14:36

LadyJaneEarlGreyTea · 18/01/2026 14:06

I’m not criticising you, I would have agreed with you but I’ve tried it and learnt that someone unreasonable enough to play music out loud doesn’t respond well to polite requests. On holiday last year someone a few sun beds down from me was playing what sounded like Radio 2 out loud on their phone. I left it for a while but then decided to politely ask them to stop rather than seethe. It turned out to be a couple in their 70s who were very hostile when I asked politely, with a smile, for them to turn the volume off. I pointed to my teenagers, who were wearing headphones, as an example of being considerate, in the most friendly way I could. They said they would turn the volume down and I thought a compromise had been reached. Nope. They turned the volume back up and after a while I went back to ask them to turn it around again, they were incredibly rude to me. They did leave eventually but for the rest of the holiday they stared at me in the restaurant and the woman kept following me around the buffet, I didn’t imagine this, she was virtually touching me she was so close. Now I have to seethe because there’s clearly no reasoning with selfishness. If I found myself in the same situation on holiday again I would just leave the area as it really had an unpleasant impact on the rest of my stay. This was quite a’nice’ hotel.

What a nutter!

Ansjovis · 18/01/2026 14:47

The worst for me is when someone has a toddler who they are pacifying with a tablet. I get that repetitive content is good for their development but my development is already complete and I have no need to hear it!

EmpressaurusKitty · 18/01/2026 15:06

I’d describe the bloke in this article who says he listens to podcasts without headphones because he wants to spark debate as a self-important wanker but the Metro probably wouldn’t allow that in their comments.

Redpeach · 18/01/2026 15:49

Ansjovis · 18/01/2026 14:47

The worst for me is when someone has a toddler who they are pacifying with a tablet. I get that repetitive content is good for their development but my development is already complete and I have no need to hear it!

And then they argue that it's noisy screen or crying, like their child only has 2 states of being

landlordhell · 18/01/2026 15:51

EmpressaurusKitty · 18/01/2026 15:06

I’d describe the bloke in this article who says he listens to podcasts without headphones because he wants to spark debate as a self-important wanker but the Metro probably wouldn’t allow that in their comments.

Agree.

CremeCarmel · 18/01/2026 21:05

Minjou · 18/01/2026 09:40

I agree. And it should be slow and painful

And we can all sing their favourite play aloud music as it happens.

envbeckyc · 19/01/2026 19:04

I put my air pods in and play music to block out the noise from other passengers who do not seem to realise they are being antisocial!

Years ago an iPhone came with a charger and headphones, now you just get a cable!

I bought my Daughters new iPhones for Christmas and air pods so they wouldn’t be ‘those children’ on the school bus!

ElevensesKing · 21/01/2026 08:49

I sat next to a woman on the train yesterday who had ear phones on but talked about a potential inheritance she was about to receive. A grandparent had left her £300k in their will with another £300k - £500k+ due to her after the sale of property and assets.

All this was discussed on a busy commuter train with little concern for her security or privacy. I was amazed at how little concern the woman had about who else was listening in and that she'd made herself a target.

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