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Friend ordered something from business and hasn’t paid

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SmallWorrier · 13/01/2026 22:57

This is a really awkward situation! I recently started my own business where I sell goods that I’ve made. Im lucky it took off quickly and am managing to make it work so far. I mostly sell to strangers as I knew I’d struggle to sell and take money from friends if they ordered. These items are for children.

a couple of friends have ordered for their children and I’ve always sold them much lower than I would to strangers, not making a profit but breaking even on materials. A friend asked about ordering 3 items for her daughter for Christmas, which would usually have come to £30. I told her £10 would be ok. She took the items and her daughter got them for Christmas and has been wearing them however she didn’t pay for them. At the time I offered bank details and she said she’d pay cash. I’ve seen her a few times and last time I mentioned her daughter looked nice in what I’d made and her reply was “oh I’ll pay you at some point.” The woman is usually complaining about being skint however books nice holidays etc. I feel awkward but frustrated as I did them at a cheap price anyway and taking on her order before Christmas meant I couldn’t take on as many other ones (I only take so many a month to make sure they get done in good time and I don’t overwhelm myself). This is the reason I don’t want to take orders from friends!! I’ve asked a couple of times now with no reply. I don’t want to lose the friendship or people think ill of me by pushing it, especially in our small community. WIBU to ask again for the money or should I just let it go?

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Blondeshavemorefun · 22/01/2026 20:31

JHound · 22/01/2026 11:54

I would treat this as an official business. Send her an invoice with “past due”.

See if you can commence small claims proceedings and do not sell to her again.

For £10?

it would cost the op much more then that via small claims

JHound · 23/01/2026 11:57

Blondeshavemorefun · 22/01/2026 20:31

For £10?

it would cost the op much more then that via small claims

I would do it on a point of principle.

But also no idea how much small claims costs here so may not be worth it (I took somebody to small claims overseas and it cost me nothing as I could claim costs and interests so I actually made a bit of money.)

But I would like not bother with this friend anymore. Friends who steal from you aren’t actually friends.

Blondeshavemorefun · 23/01/2026 14:55

JHound · 23/01/2026 11:57

I would do it on a point of principle.

But also no idea how much small claims costs here so may not be worth it (I took somebody to small claims overseas and it cost me nothing as I could claim costs and interests so I actually made a bit of money.)

But I would like not bother with this friend anymore. Friends who steal from you aren’t actually friends.

I’m all for principle but will cost @SmallWorrier £35

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