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To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?

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fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 08:50

from the government in Northern Ireland that is published online? Surely we don’t do these things any more such as mixing baby rice with milk and advising people to feed their very young children rice crispies and cornflakes for breakfast and advising people to give juice with meals! Surely this is bad advice, I am honestly surprised that the government have been allowed to publish this crap. I have no doubt people still do these things which is an individual parenting choice but surely the government shouldn’t be advocating for this?

To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
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Octavia64 · 09/01/2026 09:29

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 09:26

They had porridge with cow milk, tbs ground almonds, raisins and a bit of cinnamon this morning.. with a glass of water (they both failed to drink the water but it was on the table...)

So not very protein based today.

They often have bagels with salmon and cream cheese or scrambled eggs. Occasionally they will have like a burrito with beans and eggs.

I have one veggie and one allergic to all fish and seafood so protein is tricky!

Cripes I did not have the time for that when getting out of the house to nursery and work.

porridge in the winter sometimes but no time for cooking in the mornings.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 09/01/2026 09:29

Coffeeishot · 09/01/2026 09:01

Again what is wrong with juice with meals ?

Not the point, I know, but a lot of people refer to squash as ‘juice’.

Bournetilly · 09/01/2026 09:30

fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 09:07

Why does juice need to be introduced to young children at all? If you tried to send juice into school in a water bottle for your child it would be removed.

Depends on the school. You could take any drink at my DCs school in a water bottle, they don’t check them.

I agree with you about the baby rice but there’s nothing wrong with cornflakes.

Firstfood · 09/01/2026 09:31

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 09:27

I gave my kids steamed (and cooler) squash for their first food. And cucumber / melon sticks so suck on. We did baby led weaning.

this is my second child but my older one is almost a decade older I did baby rice mixed with milk as first food for him too then moved onto mashed up veggies. Watching this thread with interest because the ingredients is literally just rice (albeit finely ground)

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 09:31

Octavia64 · 09/01/2026 09:29

Cripes I did not have the time for that when getting out of the house to nursery and work.

porridge in the winter sometimes but no time for cooking in the mornings.

I do wfh so am very lucky in that respect...

Natsku · 09/01/2026 09:31

Agree. They ought to be advising not to introduce juice at all, its not healthy and it can lead to children refusing to drink water which will cause issues when they start school. In my country the advice is water or milk only for drinks and for breakfast porridge or bread/toast with ham or cheese or similar and some lettuce/slice of tomato/bit of cucumber. Same food they serve at breakfast in nursery and breakfast clubs.

Disturbia81 · 09/01/2026 09:32

Aside from juice it looks great, and a realistic way of getting stuff into kids.

EarringsandLipstick · 09/01/2026 09:32

OP, you’re off your rocker!

are there some suggestions here I might not personally choose (eg Rice Krispies & juice)? Yes.

However, it’s not terrible nutritional advice, and as part of a balanced diet throughout a day, it’s fine, and manageable for many parents, who for various reasons, may struggle around suitable nutrition.

No advice should be looked at in isolation.

And no diet is perfect - I’m fairly big on home-cooked meals, very little processed or prepared food (for example, we never get takeaways, I really hate them, but I accept that’s my own oddity, and that it’s quite normal for people to have them occasionally) but we like our sweet food, I bake, I buy chocolate bars, kids have daily treats.

My kids are now 18, 16 & 14 so diet is different but even when they were small, they got regular treats.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 09:32

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 09:31

I do wfh so am very lucky in that respect...

Well, exactly, whereas lots of parents are in a rush to drop their kids at childcare or breakfast club and need something quick and that their kids are guaranteed to eat.

ChattyCatty25 · 09/01/2026 09:33

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 09/01/2026 09:02

It's really high in sugar and therefore bad for teeth. Yes, drinking it with a meal is better than in isolation, but eating whole fruit and drinking water is much better for both gut and dental health.

Drinking water with meals dilutes your stomach acid, and can give you stomach pains.

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 09:33

The other drink my dentist was utterly scathing about was milk alternatives for kids... said it was wrecking teeth. Added sugar being an issue but also lack of calcium.

LayaM · 09/01/2026 09:33

A child who lived on this diet would absolutely thrive. There's nothing whatsoever wrong with juice at mealtimes as long as the rest of the diet is balanced and healthy.

stackhead · 09/01/2026 09:33

I get the message re. teeth brushing. At least 30 minute gap here.

I'm curious though as people keep referring to packet cereals as expensive - a box of rice krispies is 95p (the supermarket version). Porridge oats are more expensive (especially with toppings), bagels & cream cheese definitely more expensive. I'll take the UPF argument but they're not more expensive!

Natsku · 09/01/2026 09:33

(Not that my children don't eat cereal sometimes but I wish I had never introduced it, and I mostly encourage them to have toast or porridge in the morning, youngest often has rye bread with cheese and gherkins)

curious79 · 09/01/2026 09:33

Yes, it’s shit advice. Basically encouraging UPFs from the get go.
My DD never touched baby rice. Whole foods from the start, mashed banana, cooked apple, homemade foods. Porridge for something more substantive.

And this is why you shouldn’t go to the NHS and state bodies looking for nutrition advice. They’ve probably had an organisation like Heinz pay to be included.

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 09:34

ChattyCatty25 · 09/01/2026 09:33

Drinking water with meals dilutes your stomach acid, and can give you stomach pains.

But surely there is water in food?

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 09:34

Womaninhouse17 · 09/01/2026 09:27

Too much unnecessary sugar. Packet cereals are expensive, UPF and poor nutritional value. There are far better breakfasts.

Of course there are better breakfast but government advice needs to appeal to the majority.

EarringsandLipstick · 09/01/2026 09:35

Natsku · 09/01/2026 09:31

Agree. They ought to be advising not to introduce juice at all, its not healthy and it can lead to children refusing to drink water which will cause issues when they start school. In my country the advice is water or milk only for drinks and for breakfast porridge or bread/toast with ham or cheese or similar and some lettuce/slice of tomato/bit of cucumber. Same food they serve at breakfast in nursery and breakfast clubs.

I mean, bread / toast can be really low in nutritional value depending on quality. Regular sliced pan is nutritionally poor tho no harm occasionally.

Rice Krispies / cornflakes will ensure milk intake, likely more so than porridge.

Every choice has pro / cons

Natsku · 09/01/2026 09:35

stackhead · 09/01/2026 09:33

I get the message re. teeth brushing. At least 30 minute gap here.

I'm curious though as people keep referring to packet cereals as expensive - a box of rice krispies is 95p (the supermarket version). Porridge oats are more expensive (especially with toppings), bagels & cream cheese definitely more expensive. I'll take the UPF argument but they're not more expensive!

Porridge is definitely cheaper than cereal where I am, and a little goes a lot further than cereal - 100ml of oats plus 200ml of liquid is enough porridge for an adult let alone a child whereas 100ml of cereal won't fill anyone up.

ElderlyCat · 09/01/2026 09:36

I always find threads like this funny because mumsnet love competitive under eating and who can eat the least UPFs. I weaned my first child the ‘right’ way and at age 9 he’s the fussiest person in our house. The second who I weaned ‘wrong’ eats everything and anything and chooses fruit and veg over most foods. Milk is awful for teeth too.

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 09:36

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 09:32

Well, exactly, whereas lots of parents are in a rush to drop their kids at childcare or breakfast club and need something quick and that their kids are guaranteed to eat.

Peanut butter on brown toast and a banana is better than cereal. And a glass of water or milk takes no longer time to pour than juice.

cantkeepawayforever · 09/01/2026 09:37

The thing is, we have to be careful not to let the perfect be the enemy of the good.

Anyone working in a school, particularly in deprived areas, knows that no breakfast at all, or very high sugar breakfasts (eg breakfast bars), or ‘grab bits from yesterday’s cold McD’s takeaway), are really really common. Cooking may well be impossible for time, capability or logistical reasons (shared kitchens, no money for gas, no kitchen at all, insecure food storage for high value protein options, very limited shopping options)

Giving a ‘good enough’ option that is accessible to everyone, and palatable to those whose exposure to varied tastes is limited, will on average be helpful. The fact that those who are already interested in nutrition, who have time and access to cooking facilities etc, will want to do something ‘even better’ is fine - they do not need to ‘adjust down’.

HarvestMouseandGoldenCups · 09/01/2026 09:37

One glass of 150ml juice a day is one of your five a day but should be limited to this, which they have. Cereals and cereal products (as in grains) are an important source of protein and carbohydrate in the UK. So long as free/added sugars are limited I don’t see the issue with these choices. Children need energy and therefore carbs.

Natsku · 09/01/2026 09:37

EarringsandLipstick · 09/01/2026 09:35

I mean, bread / toast can be really low in nutritional value depending on quality. Regular sliced pan is nutritionally poor tho no harm occasionally.

Rice Krispies / cornflakes will ensure milk intake, likely more so than porridge.

Every choice has pro / cons

Bread tends to be dark more nutritional breads here, not white sliced, and porridge can be made with milk so provides plenty of milk.

JudyMoncada · 09/01/2026 09:37

LayaM · 09/01/2026 09:33

A child who lived on this diet would absolutely thrive. There's nothing whatsoever wrong with juice at mealtimes as long as the rest of the diet is balanced and healthy.

Exactly this.
But this kind of thread is catnip to the orthorexics.
I have brought my kids up with an everything in moderation, nothing in excess approach.