I know how I feel, so I know that’s not unreasonable, but interested in other views.
DD2 was invited to a party and me and a friend agreed to lift share (we take, they bring back).
on the morning she messaged to say party girl’s friend offered to bring them from venue to their house so easier fir friend to pick up from there. No problem.
that night dd2 told me they were 4 in back of ca with only 3 seats. I’m really against this and dd2 knows that so she said she had to have a seatbelt and then 2 shared another seatbelt.
im so angry that this decision was made without checking with me, id never agree to it and would have gone to get her.
there is a reason its illegal.
i suppose I would just never do it and can’t understand how others think it’s ok.
dd2 is 12, no phone and was in a hard position.
in hindsight, I should have checked that there were enough seats (especially as I know my friend has form for doing the same), but it was a last minute change and I didn’t realise that I should even check (I assume people follow the law). Lesson learnt.
how do others feel? Am I particularly uptight (not that I would change my stance).