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Who was unreasonable me or the people on the makeup counter

322 replies

Lounde · 02/01/2026 21:15

So we are away for a break and I forgot to pick up my make up bag. Thought you know what I’ll just buy the basics again as it’s probably good to have a second lot for the car anyway. I don’t have tonnes and tonnes of make up but I invest in the formulas I prefer. I thought I’d just pick up an eyeliner, mascara, lipstick, foundation, blush, concealer and a gloss. I knew my account was going to take a hit but I rarely treat myself so thought why not.

I explained the situation to the girls on the counter (think Chanel, Dior, Charlotte Tilbury etc) and they said they could help me pick some things out.

We were on our way to a nice lunch. I said in a very courteous and polite manner “please do you mind just slapping on some of the make up for me as I’m in a bit of a rush and stopping has delayed us”. Got told I would have to book an appointment. In this completely dead stand with 4 people literally just stood around. No appointment was available for two hours apparently.

I bought the products but it just left a bad taste in my mouth. I wasn’t looking for a full beat. Just some foundation and eyeshadow. Literally 2 min job.

I ended up spending around £300

OP posts:
Strikethepower · 02/01/2026 22:54

FerrisWheelsandLilacs · 02/01/2026 22:44

MAC charge for that service. It used to be redeemable as credit but can’t easily see if that’s still the case, but if you want foundation etc applying it’s an hour long appointment.

It takes more than a few minutes to apply a full face of make up on a strangers face, it’s not like doing your own makeup that you’re in the habit of doing. Maybe longer if you’re using products you’ve chosen rather than their go-tos.

You wouldn’t go to a beauty salon, pay for your hair colour and cut and ask them to quickly do you a free manicure because you’ve already paid a lot for your hair. And then say it’s fine if they do the hour long manicure in ten minutes since you’re not paying. This is essentially what you were asking.

That explains it - I went to MAC to buy a eyebrow pencil - I asked for help, the assistant put it on the back of their hand - I bought it but it’s the wrong shade, what a waste and I thought I wouldn’t return.
I should have gone to Space NK - the one in our town at least is fabulous, they spend ages helping you choose by putting stuff on your face. I recommend them to so many woman…it’s such a lovely experience to shop there.

BlackCatDiscoClub · 02/01/2026 22:54

I had a make up booking at a Chanel counter in a department store. I left looking like a clown, having guilt bought things I didn't need. She was so proud of it she took a picture for her portfolio so I guess she was still learning but didnt tell me that. I had to wipe it all of to go back into work, think huge black caterpillar eyebrows and red overlined lips.

CoastalCalm · 02/01/2026 22:54

You could have just used the testers and done it yourself ?

TY78910 · 02/01/2026 22:55

Ahugaday · 02/01/2026 22:50

It’s not really a free makeover at £300. And if you are working at a make up counter like those mentioned I’m sure you have training to apply some foundation because that is literally the job - to help you pick out the correct shade/ formulation. Especially as the PP stated she doesn’t wear a lot so I don’t think it was expected to have full contouring/ highlighting and a MUA hour long job!

That’s not really the point. It’s not a service they offer. They offer a makeover by appointment, slapping on a bit of foundation isn’t a service, nor should it be expected just because someone spent £300. That’s like going in to curry’s and buying a £1000 tumble dryer and expecting them to dry your trousers because you got caught out in the rain.

icycoldbutnosnow · 02/01/2026 22:55

Lounde · 02/01/2026 22:53

Well I asked politely as I saw 4 woman standing around. Thought if you don’t ask you don’t get. Got my answer and accepted their response courteously. I’d hoped they could’ve helped me out.

Not sure why people are trying their best to paint me out to be this entitled twat.

£300 sounds a lot. But I’m 32. Without kids.

Edited

Clearly you haven’t accepted their response because you’re very upset by it!

GalaxyJam · 02/01/2026 22:56

notnorman · 02/01/2026 22:14

Are you a drag artist?

Because she wears make up?

SoftBalletShoes · 02/01/2026 22:57

Northerngirl821 · 02/01/2026 22:09

They provide a service where they use their training and expertise to help people explore what products might suit them and understand how to use them to best effect.

They aren’t there to quickly apply your already chosen make up because you’re in a rush and can’t be arsed to do it yourself!

I disagree - this was a customer who had just spent 300 pounds. (And might therefore might have spent more.) The issue appears to be that OP really didn't have time for a makeup service.

Lounde · 02/01/2026 22:57

GalaxyJam · 02/01/2026 22:56

Because she wears make up?

Really disgusting attitudes towards women who like to wear a bit of makeup on this thread. I favour a light and natural look. Multiple products are needed as we have multiple facial features 🤷

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GalaxyJam · 02/01/2026 22:57

CoastalCalm · 02/01/2026 22:54

You could have just used the testers and done it yourself ?

Surely no one would use an eyeliner/lipstick etc tester on their actual face? Imagine the bacteria on them. I’d only use a tester on the back of my hand.

GarlicSound · 02/01/2026 22:57

icycoldbutnosnow · 02/01/2026 22:48

They’re not free. Sephora and Charlotte tilbury charge for the experience.

You're talking about "An Experience" or a full makeover for a big event. Not simply "applying the makeup", as they do for any customer saying they don't know what shade/coverage to choose.

Lounde · 02/01/2026 22:58

icycoldbutnosnow · 02/01/2026 22:55

Clearly you haven’t accepted their response because you’re very upset by it!

Well I accepted it in the moment. I thought it was a bit off in my head but I wasn’t an arse about it.

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TY78910 · 02/01/2026 22:58

Lounde · 02/01/2026 22:53

Well I asked politely as I saw 4 woman standing around. Thought if you don’t ask you don’t get. Got my answer and accepted their response courteously. I’d hoped they could’ve helped me out.

Not sure why people are trying their best to paint me out to be this entitled twat.

£300 sounds a lot. But I’m 32. Without kids.

Edited

I appreciate you asked politely and took the answer then moved on. But you clearly felt that was unacceptable, hence this thread which is why you’re getting those responses.

icycoldbutnosnow · 02/01/2026 22:58

GarlicSound · 02/01/2026 22:57

You're talking about "An Experience" or a full makeover for a big event. Not simply "applying the makeup", as they do for any customer saying they don't know what shade/coverage to choose.

They do not offer a full face of makeup. They will (sometimes) apply foundation. That’s it. Not adding on eyeshadow etc.

Yorkshirelass04 · 02/01/2026 22:59

I think it is poor customer service and wouldn't make me want to return.

If they aren't MUAs then can just say that?

SoftBalletShoes · 02/01/2026 23:00

Lounde · 02/01/2026 22:09

No I didn’t. I said if it was no bother could you please just apply some of the make up as I am running very late. Obviously got my answer and left it at that.

Im not the rude, entitled person people are weirdly trying to portray me as.

To be fair, I imagine it's quite hard to apply makeup very quickly to someone else's face, and if you said you were running very late, they probably were put off by that. If there hadn't been a time issue, I think they should have done it.

ETA: If they had offered a compromise like concealer, face powder, and eyeshadow, would you have agreed? To do foundation well takes time, and you could do the lipstick in the car. You can't really do eyeliner and mascara in a rush because then you run the risk of stabbing the customer in the eye.

Lounde · 02/01/2026 23:00

Well I just recalled being 18 and my sister and I going to a counter in House of Fraser. The lovely woman went through the products/gave up tips on how to apply it. It was a lovely experience. The woman who helped us was my mother’s age and she said she had such a lovely time with us. We didn’t even buy a single product back then! I was hoping for a tiny bit of time especially as I had spent a fair amount

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GarlicSound · 02/01/2026 23:01

icycoldbutnosnow · 02/01/2026 22:58

They do not offer a full face of makeup. They will (sometimes) apply foundation. That’s it. Not adding on eyeshadow etc.

Really? If I had the spare money, I'd test this theory by going to a similar store and pretending to be a complete novice with a large credit facility.

I bet they would 😆

HisNotHes · 02/01/2026 23:01

At the point they said no I’d have said “actually I think I’ll leave it” , not buy the items, then go to another place and ask them to do it instead.

Charlize43 · 02/01/2026 23:01

Since you were buying it anyway, I don't understand why you couldn't have gone to the toilets and just put it on?

Pepperedpickles · 02/01/2026 23:01

GalaxyJam · 02/01/2026 22:57

Surely no one would use an eyeliner/lipstick etc tester on their actual face? Imagine the bacteria on them. I’d only use a tester on the back of my hand.

Most make up counters have testers specifically for make overs and disposable mascara wands / brushes / sponges etc so there is no double dipping.

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 02/01/2026 23:02

You might be much better off doing your own make-up, OP, especially as you know how you like it.

I was once given a make-up demo at a cosmetics counter in Debenhams, after booking a time in advance. The teenage girl who did it just painted foundation onto my face and didn't blend any of it in. I only lived five minutes from the store but was embarrassed to have to walk home looking like that! Bless her...

Pepperedpickles · 02/01/2026 23:02

icycoldbutnosnow · 02/01/2026 22:58

They do not offer a full face of makeup. They will (sometimes) apply foundation. That’s it. Not adding on eyeshadow etc.

This is not true. It’s completely at the discretion of the consultant and the particular counter.

GalaxyJam · 02/01/2026 23:03

Pepperedpickles · 02/01/2026 23:01

Most make up counters have testers specifically for make overs and disposable mascara wands / brushes / sponges etc so there is no double dipping.

Yes, for make overs. Not for the customer to use on themselves like the PP was suggesting.

Lounde · 02/01/2026 23:04

HisNotHes · 02/01/2026 23:01

At the point they said no I’d have said “actually I think I’ll leave it” , not buy the items, then go to another place and ask them to do it instead.

Edited

If I had time I probably would have gone elsewhere but I went to my favourite brand as I am familiar with the products and was in a time crunch.

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Okiedokie123 · 02/01/2026 23:05

£300 on make up seems like tonnes and tonnes to me.