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Excessive use of Toilet roll

58 replies

Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:32

We having a few issues with having to reflush constantly but since lodger been away this has gone! So we know it’s cause the lodger uses 1/2 toilet roll everytime he goes to the loo.

its ridiculous amount of toilet he goes through compared to us 2 females who have used 1/4 of toilet roll since he been away for Christmas for 5 days.

AIBU to ask lodger to reduce amount of excess toilet roll he uses?

OP posts:
NewYearNewMee · 27/12/2025 11:33

I’m sorry, you’ve only used 1/8 a toilet roll each in 5 days?! Are you wiping with a hope and a prayer?

CarrierbagsAndPJs · 27/12/2025 11:34

Who sorts the toilet every time he clogs it?

Mrsclausemunchingonamincepie · 27/12/2025 11:34

We had 6 of those double size rolls on Christmas Eve afternoon.
Got half a roll left...

LarkAscendingRose · 27/12/2025 11:35

He might be using too much but you don't use enough

Andthatrightsoon · 27/12/2025 11:35

Get a single sheet dispenser. Or everyone uses their own - they could be colour-coded. Tell him the loo pipe was blocked and you had to call a plumber. Or just don't police people's toilet habits. Poor bloke.

HugglesAndSnuggles · 27/12/2025 11:36

Do you two not even wipe? I can’t believe you’ve used so little over 5 days! There’s two of us in the house and three toilets so it would be difficult to estimate precisely how much we use per day, but I’d say it’s got to be at least one roll. That’s based on how often I need to purchase a new packet of loo rolls.

SoftDay · 27/12/2025 11:37

Ah, OP, do ye not poo?! Or do you produce special teflon-coated miniature poo nuggets that leave no residue?!
Leave off monitoring this poor chap's toilet habits! He must have a nice clean bum, which is reassuring! 😅

TrumpDerangementSyndrome · 27/12/2025 11:38

Yeah well unless every poo you two do is a Lucky Barry then I'm afraid I just don't believe this.

Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:41

We have used in 5 days - 3 toilet rolls compared to the 10 toilets rolls he uses alone for himself in 5 days so????

OP posts:
Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:42

He doesn’t use it for his bum he uses it cleaning the toilet? We have bleach and toilet brush which are brand new every single month!

OP posts:
saveforthat · 27/12/2025 11:44

Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:42

He doesn’t use it for his bum he uses it cleaning the toilet? We have bleach and toilet brush which are brand new every single month!

How do you know this?

GKG1 · 27/12/2025 11:45

NewYearNewMee · 27/12/2025 11:33

I’m sorry, you’ve only used 1/8 a toilet roll each in 5 days?! Are you wiping with a hope and a prayer?

This gave me a proper belly chuckle! Op I don’t even know how to answer this 😆

Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:54

Problem is we have is the toilet will eventually need a plumber as the amount he uses will clog the toilet! So who then pays?

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Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:55

saveforthat · 27/12/2025 11:44

How do you know this?

We go into the loo after and half the paper is down the toilet!

not even flushed away and you can see bleach on it! And he 6ft 4 and always even after cleaning leaves shit on the back of toilet?

OP posts:
thenightsky · 27/12/2025 11:56

Is anyone else getting ads for crotchless knickers popping up? Grin

Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:57

I suppose if he sat forward half the poo would be down the loo - not skidded down back of the loo! Cause he so tall and weighs 30 stone! He a very big bloke!

maybe the toilet too small? But would you change toilet to fit the needs of a lodger

OP posts:
Lovenliving · 27/12/2025 11:58

Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:42

He doesn’t use it for his bum he uses it cleaning the toilet? We have bleach and toilet brush which are brand new every single month!

He is doing the cleaner thing by using something disposable.

Nevermind17 · 27/12/2025 11:58

In my experience, men tend to poo more frequently than women. My husband, sons and brothers all go multiple times a day, which I find bizarre as an ‘every other day’ kind of woman. They also use toilet roll for erm, ‘other activities’. Men always use far more than women.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 27/12/2025 11:59

TrumpDerangementSyndrome · 27/12/2025 11:38

Yeah well unless every poo you two do is a Lucky Barry then I'm afraid I just don't believe this.

Lucky Barry😂😂😂😂

Never heard of this before. Love it!

BillieWiper · 27/12/2025 12:01

It sounds like you use an unnaturally small amount. But I can see your frustration.

I guess you can just withold the toilet rolls and keep your own in your room. When it runs out just say nothing, use yours and he will have to buy more?

You'd think it should even out as men often don't use any at all for a wee. I think?

TalulahJP · 27/12/2025 12:10

you buy a new bog brush every month? why? just get the silicone one that lasts and first go rusty.

id speak to him about the loo roll though.

Eyeshadow · 27/12/2025 12:17

I would but slighter cheaper loo roll as it’s thinner.

My DD is autistic and uses so much toilet paper.
It is not a hill I’m going to die on and due to many blocked toilets, I buy cheaper loo roll so it’s thinner.

I think this is one of those that comes with having a lodger.
Is he good in other ways?
If so, I’d let it slide for a while but if there are other issues then it’s perhaps worth a rethink.

Jackiepumpkinhead · 27/12/2025 12:19

Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 11:57

I suppose if he sat forward half the poo would be down the loo - not skidded down back of the loo! Cause he so tall and weighs 30 stone! He a very big bloke!

maybe the toilet too small? But would you change toilet to fit the needs of a lodger

No, I would evict the lodger.

Heathotstuff · 27/12/2025 12:19

Eyeshadow · 27/12/2025 12:17

I would but slighter cheaper loo roll as it’s thinner.

My DD is autistic and uses so much toilet paper.
It is not a hill I’m going to die on and due to many blocked toilets, I buy cheaper loo roll so it’s thinner.

I think this is one of those that comes with having a lodger.
Is he good in other ways?
If so, I’d let it slide for a while but if there are other issues then it’s perhaps worth a rethink.

Any suggestions on cheaper toilet rolls?

he leaves rubbish all over his floor like he lives in a tip!
he breaks the brushes! This is why he uses so much loo roll as he sits right back on loo so it’s goes all down back of toilet

OP posts:
NautilusLionfish · 27/12/2025 12:20

LarkAscendingRose · 27/12/2025 11:35

He might be using too much but you don't use enough

And so it balances out

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