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She stole my sherry trifle!

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GoldAndSilverBells · 23/12/2025 14:26

In a certain big supermarket this morning, I was getting a few last minute things, and I grabbed a sherry trifle. The last one! As I popped it into the trolley, a woman next to me sighed and huffed and puffed, and asked a shop assistant near me if they had any more. He said 'no, sorry.' The woman asked if any more were coming in tomorrow. He said 'I don't think we'll be having any more now til after Boxing day.' The woman scowled at me. I thought 'bloody hell it's not my fault I got the last one.'

I walked around the store and got some more things I needed, with the trifle placed at the bottom of the trolley where nothing could crush it, and the bloody woman seemed to be 10 feet behind me for the next 10 minutes I was in the store.

The last item I wanted was a loaf of bread. I reached up to check the dates, and popped the bread into the trolley. I started making my way back to the checkout, and noticed the trifle was gone! Shock The woman in question was practically jogging to the self checkout! I followed quickly, and sure enough, she had my fecking sherry trifle! I said 'are you kidding me?! You've taken my bloody trifle!' She said 'no I didn't! I found this mixed in with the cheeses, it's mine.'

I knew she was lying, as there was no more left after I took mine, and now she has one and mine is gone! She definitely took my sherry trifle! I told a member of staff, but they said there's really nothing they can do, as technically no-one has stolen anything. I was so pissed off! Never going to get another one the day before Christmas, and I'm not chasing around the county to look for one. Also, this store is the only one I have seen selling sherry trifles!

On the way out, she smirked at me and said 'Merry Christmas!' I was like Shock

AIBU to hope the sherry trifle gives her the shits?! Hmm

I went back in and got a raspberry trifle by the way, but I'm so pissed off.

P.s. No, I'm not making my own. It's too late to source all the ingredients now anyway!

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PatriciaRocks · 23/12/2025 19:57

MerryAndBrightLaLaLa · 23/12/2025 19:44

What’s a smolley?

A small trolley

dottiedodah · 23/12/2025 20:01

She sounds rude and entitled .I must admit after 30 odd years of Christmas food shops ,I now go at 6.30 am! Its lovely and quiet. Still a few of us but nothing like the bunfight at 10.00. Plenty of trifles ,cream,and everything else.back home for 8.45 .packed away and bacon sarnie .mug of tea. Bliss!

Somethingneedstochange78 · 23/12/2025 21:03

I’m pinching that word smolley.😂😂😂

ARunByFruiting · 23/12/2025 21:06

MerryAndBrightLaLaLa · 23/12/2025 19:44

What’s a smolley?

I'm guessing it's one of the small trollies as opposed to the big bastard trolley? 🤔

ProfMummBRaaarrrTheEverLeaking · 23/12/2025 21:14

Why couldn't she buy a bottle of sherry, lob some into the container of whatever trifle was left, and let it marinate in the fridge? Or is it not the same? I'm afraid I am ill informed in the ways of the trifle.

But yes, she's a massive cunt.

Jonnyenglish · 23/12/2025 21:19

PragmaticIsh · 23/12/2025 19:01

This has been copied and updated for turkey two hours ago by someone in the Dull Men's Club on facebook:

Oh. My. Giddy. Aunt. 😳

I've just been a victim of a crime 😟

Well, I'm not sure if it was a crime, technically. It feels like I've been robbed though? Except I didn't actually own the thing in the first place. I'm confused.

Basically, being a proper 'Last Minute Larry' I left it until today to get the all important Christmas Day turkey. Went to my usual budget supermarket - shelves were bare. Oh dear.

So I tried another one quite close to it, a bit more pricey but not too bad.

But it was mayhem there 😞. Took ages to park but when I did, I grabbed literally the last smolley there (small trolley, copyright - me) and powered through the chaos like a Temu Max Verstappen. Headed straight for the turkeys.

And.... TWO LEFT 😍😍😍.

Granted, it was a full one whereas I only wanted a crown but it'll do - there was no way I was going home to Mrs Lyons with a fat chicken hoping she'd believe it was a small turkey. A whole turkey is fine, any port in a storm and all that.

Plopped the turkey in my trolley, then saw another stressed Larry like me finding the last one and being equally as relieved as I was.

With that worry behind me, despite the store looking like a soft play for adults with people barging into each other at every turn, I could relax and saunter about the place getting a few extra bits and bobs 👍

Even though I had a smolley and not a huge trolley, it was still a nightmare maneuvering it around as the store was jam packed with shoppers (I can't stand last minute shoppers; they always get in the way of my last minute shopping 😒).

As such, instead of trying to beep beep through a crowd to get the goose fat I spotted at the end of the aisle, I parked my trolley by a display stand of Quality Street tins and wandered down on foot for the fat.

I wasn't gone long, admittedly I did look at some black pudding slices after I picked up the goose fat, but then I returned to my smolley.

AND MY BLOODY TURKEY WAS GONE 😫😫😫

The smolley was there, and some pigs in blankets I added the same time as the turkey, so it was definitely mine. But someone had stolen my precious turkey!!!!

Like I said at the start, I'm not sure if this a crime or not but I genuinely did feel like a victim 😢

They couldn't have got far, I wasn't that long. So I left the smolley, again, and scoured the vicinity for anyone with a turkey. And, just down the shampoo aisle, there was a fella with a turkey heading towards the self service.

So I went on to him. I said "excuse me, where did you get that turkey from as mine has just been taken?"

"The turkey section" he told me, matter-of-factly.

"Oh really" I said sarcastically, "as there's none left there?"

"I must've had the last one then" he said.

I remember the guy who took the last one after me, I'm not good with faces but I remember that chap had a very small face as opposed to his head size. This was definitely not him, he had a regular face in proportion to his head.

He 100% stole my turkey, it was obvious.

But... In the absence of any hard proof I had to let it go. It was either that or insisting he join me at security to ask them to check the CCTV footage. Which admittedly is a bit much for something which wasn't actually mine to start with 🙄

Well I hope he either overcooks it and it's dry and rubbish, or he undercooks it and spends Boxing Day on the toilet.

Merry Christmas, you turkey thieving get 😒

its a good group that is at times

Potteryclass1 · 23/12/2025 21:35

Shop bought sherry trifle is awful. She did you a favour.
so easy to make at home, even if you cheat and use ready-made Custard and squirty cream.

grumpygrape · 23/12/2025 21:48

Ready made custard is OK but squirty cream, please, a thousand times no.
Oh, and before we go any further, there is no place for jelly in trifle.... 🤬

GoldAndSilverBells · 23/12/2025 22:10

BustyLaRoux · 23/12/2025 18:28

Oh I would have had to have run out into the car park right behind her and blocked her car in with mine. I would have steadfastly refused to move my car until she handed MY trifle over. Two can play at that game and I am cunt!

😆

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coleslaws · 23/12/2025 22:16

This is awful. How nasty. This is why I avoid the supermarkets at Christmas like the plague!!!!!

TheaBrandt1 · 23/12/2025 22:18

Her actions sure fail the “what would Jesus have done” test

GoldAndSilverBells · 23/12/2025 22:35

TheaBrandt1 · 23/12/2025 22:18

Her actions sure fail the “what would Jesus have done” test

LOL very true!

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MamsKnit · 23/12/2025 23:43

TheaBrandt1 · 23/12/2025 22:18

Her actions sure fail the “what would Jesus have done” test

Jesus would have turned it into 5 trifles just as he multiplied the loaves and fishes.

mondaytosunday · 24/12/2025 01:26

Thank the gods. Sherry trifle is disgusting.

Eenameenadeeka · 24/12/2025 04:35

What a rude woman, I hope she trips over and drops it.

JMSA · 24/12/2025 07:07

Sorry OP, but I did have to chuckle when you said she was practically jogging to the checkout. What a horror!
Hope you have a lovely Christmas, even if it is trifle-less.

Londonrach1 · 24/12/2025 07:26

dottiedodah · 23/12/2025 20:01

She sounds rude and entitled .I must admit after 30 odd years of Christmas food shops ,I now go at 6.30 am! Its lovely and quiet. Still a few of us but nothing like the bunfight at 10.00. Plenty of trifles ,cream,and everything else.back home for 8.45 .packed away and bacon sarnie .mug of tea. Bliss!

It's packed at 6.30am here. Quieter later

Randomlygeneratedname · 24/12/2025 07:30

GoldAndSilverBells · 23/12/2025 14:26

In a certain big supermarket this morning, I was getting a few last minute things, and I grabbed a sherry trifle. The last one! As I popped it into the trolley, a woman next to me sighed and huffed and puffed, and asked a shop assistant near me if they had any more. He said 'no, sorry.' The woman asked if any more were coming in tomorrow. He said 'I don't think we'll be having any more now til after Boxing day.' The woman scowled at me. I thought 'bloody hell it's not my fault I got the last one.'

I walked around the store and got some more things I needed, with the trifle placed at the bottom of the trolley where nothing could crush it, and the bloody woman seemed to be 10 feet behind me for the next 10 minutes I was in the store.

The last item I wanted was a loaf of bread. I reached up to check the dates, and popped the bread into the trolley. I started making my way back to the checkout, and noticed the trifle was gone! Shock The woman in question was practically jogging to the self checkout! I followed quickly, and sure enough, she had my fecking sherry trifle! I said 'are you kidding me?! You've taken my bloody trifle!' She said 'no I didn't! I found this mixed in with the cheeses, it's mine.'

I knew she was lying, as there was no more left after I took mine, and now she has one and mine is gone! She definitely took my sherry trifle! I told a member of staff, but they said there's really nothing they can do, as technically no-one has stolen anything. I was so pissed off! Never going to get another one the day before Christmas, and I'm not chasing around the county to look for one. Also, this store is the only one I have seen selling sherry trifles!

On the way out, she smirked at me and said 'Merry Christmas!' I was like Shock

AIBU to hope the sherry trifle gives her the shits?! Hmm

I went back in and got a raspberry trifle by the way, but I'm so pissed off.

P.s. No, I'm not making my own. It's too late to source all the ingredients now anyway!

Try your local coop! Ours have loads and just put them all to half price.
But yanbu! The cheeky mare!

Ophy83 · 24/12/2025 07:30

What a cow.

It won't be quite the same, but if you can't find another sherry trifle you could get some fruit in alcohol e.g. peaches in cognac to have alongside your trifle.

ImogenBrocklehurst · 24/12/2025 07:54

Netcurtainnelly · 23/12/2025 16:00

Then the police might have come, you wouldhave had everyone staring at you. You might have been banned from the store.
What a kerfuffle for a trifle.

Definitely not worth it.
Op you played it fine.

I think she was probably playing with hyperbole…

CinnamonBuns67 · 24/12/2025 08:22

Oh no I'd have been a bit annoyed too OP. I hope it falls out the fridge and goes splat all over the floor just before shes about to serve it up.

TreesOfGreen99 · 24/12/2025 08:36

@GoldAndSilverBells was it from Tesco? We had their sherry trifle last night and it was watery, couldn’t taste any sherry and was generally a bit meh. Glad we didn’t save it for tomorrow.
Wish I’d bought the raspberry one now but I promise I didn’t pinch yours 😁

GoldAndSilverBells · 24/12/2025 14:14

CinnamonBuns67 · 24/12/2025 08:22

Oh no I'd have been a bit annoyed too OP. I hope it falls out the fridge and goes splat all over the floor just before shes about to serve it up.

Me too! 😆

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GoldAndSilverBells · 24/12/2025 14:14

CinnamonBuns67 · 24/12/2025 08:22

Oh no I'd have been a bit annoyed too OP. I hope it falls out the fridge and goes splat all over the floor just before shes about to serve it up.

Me too! 😆

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GoldAndSilverBells · 24/12/2025 14:14

That posted twice - sorry!

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