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The bloody service charge!

434 replies

Ilovemychocolate · 23/12/2025 08:55

Went out to eat twice yesterday…we are in Bath for a festive visit.
Both times our bill came with service charge added.
Both times I sent it back and requested they remove the service charge.
Now I know it’s Christmas, but adding the service charge, without informing the customer it’s completely their choice to pay it, is a year round practise.
I am not against tipping, but it infuriates me when it’s automatically added to my bill with the expectation I will pay it!
An I unreasonable to ask the restaurant to remove it every time?

OP posts:
billandtedsexcellentadventure · 26/12/2025 21:11

I don’t tip. I’m on minimum wage and no one tips me.

PollyBell · 26/12/2025 21:11

I presume there is a sign or it is printed on the menu? Don't they have to advertise it?

Gonnabefine · 26/12/2025 21:42

I am one of the 'never tippers'. The price is the price. If you want to be paid more, put the price up.

Greenmouldycheese · 27/12/2025 00:27

I always take it off and tip what I want.

Crochetandtea · 27/12/2025 18:08

Redpeach · 25/12/2025 03:03

If i went on a date with a tip/service charge quibbler, it'd be the last one

My husband doesn’t believe in tipping. He is a bit tight though. Thankfully he has many other redeeming features.
I am less inclined to tip nowadays unless the service is excellent. I

TheRosesAreInBloom · 27/12/2025 19:10

MaybeNotNo · 23/12/2025 10:10

Not really.

Why should they tip at all. The server will be paid at the very least minimum wage. Why tip there? Do you tip the cashier at Next when youre shopping, or the customer service agent on the phone when you call them about your electricity bill?

Exactly! Ifthe restaurants want/need more to cover the costs, why can’t they state the price they want for each dish on the menu. That way everyone knows where they stand. The tipping culture is distasteful and mind boggling!

I hate tipping and don’t go out to offend anyone who’s service is good but, a) that is their job and put simply, b)I want to pay the price on the list for the items I choose. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Rafting2022 · 29/12/2025 18:46

TheRosesAreInBloom · 27/12/2025 19:10

Exactly! Ifthe restaurants want/need more to cover the costs, why can’t they state the price they want for each dish on the menu. That way everyone knows where they stand. The tipping culture is distasteful and mind boggling!

I hate tipping and don’t go out to offend anyone who’s service is good but, a) that is their job and put simply, b)I want to pay the price on the list for the items I choose. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Couldn’t have put it any better!

Lastfroginthebox · 30/12/2025 07:48

sweetpickle2 · 26/12/2025 09:52

“I don’t care about considering other people's feelings” is a weird hill to die on @Lastfroginthebox

That's not at all what I said and if you thought for a minute, you would realise that.

MaybeNotNo · 31/12/2025 11:07

Wrenjay · 26/12/2025 21:05

I have, as a professional, that it is the ignorant who complain or under tip!

A professional what?

I disagree with tipping. I'm a Senior Manager in a professional setting.

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