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to think that he should mind his own bloody business.....

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pregnantpopcornprincess · 11/06/2008 09:38

I rushed to nursery this morning to drop DD off and as usual there were no spaces but there was a lovely big disabled one. I nipped in there, dropped DD off and ran back out to the car (I must have only been 5 minutes tops!), jumped in, popped the car into reverse and this old man holding a toddler jumped behind my car and started banging on the window.

The stupid idiot could have got himself and the child killed. I slammed the anchors on to avoid hitting him and then the penny dropped - I was about to get an ear bashing (in front of a busy nusery, full of people).

I wound down the window and he was off 'have you got a blue badge?' to which I replied, 'no I haven't thanks but I'm in a rush - good day to you'. I did up the window and tried to drive off. He junped in front of the car again - still holding the child so I carefully manouvered around him and drove off to see him shaking his fist and shouting.

Now, I know I shouldn't have parked there as I'm not disabled but if he was actually disabled himself then how on earth was he able to find the energy/mobility to run and jump behind and in front of my car all the time holding a toddler.May be he wants a badge so badly that he was willing to be run over in order to qualify!!!! Some people make me so mad. It's hard work trying to get DD to nursery (it opens at 8) and to get to work on time (I start at 8.30 and the journey can take up to 45 minutes depending on traffic) without having to stop and deal with some idiot who thinks he's a traffic warden, is clearly retired and probably has all the time in the world!!!!

I'm sure there are some that don't agree with me but I had to vent my frustration and I'm hoping there are some other working mothers out there who are also pushed for time, who can sympathise with me.

Oh, and I will park there again if there are no spaces and it saves me loosing my job.

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sophiajane · 11/06/2008 15:53

PPP - please don't take it to heart. I wish you all the best with your pregnancy.

CrushWithEyeliner · 11/06/2008 15:53

Leave her alone FFS it is not her fault!

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lou33 · 11/06/2008 16:01

I am not entirely sure how you think that such an arrogant op would get any sympathy tbh

i agree with herbie, and whilst i am sorry you are so concerned abut your pregnancy, it is a separate issue from parking in a disabled spot because you were running late

lucyellensmum · 11/06/2008 16:19

Was it the only space? If it were the only disabled space i wouldnt have parked there, if it were one of several i might have done if i were going to be very quick. We have parked in disabled space once when the shop was nearly closing and v unlikely that anyone else going to come along.

Damn daft to post here - i mean, didn't you realise you were going to have your intestines barbequed for this?

I guess the unanswered point is, if the guy was disabled and unable to get into a space then he had every right to rant. If not, no harm done and YANBU.

All the best with the baby xx

sophiajane · 11/06/2008 16:20

don't tar and feather ppp - hormonal selfishness, it was hardly the crime of the century. Don't any of you ever screw up and feel guilty about it? Her posting proved she knew she was in the wrong but she felt that the man was overly aggressive and it was strange using a toddler in his mission tbh. I would never block someone's path with a child to prove a point however valid.

2shoes · 11/06/2008 16:28

only read the op(so flame me)
tough shit..you parked in a disabled bay. you did not have a blue badge. well done on the man for calling you on it. talk about selfish

lou33 · 11/06/2008 16:34

no

her post came over as cocky and arrogant, and being pregnant is a separate issue

we do still have control over our brains and decisions we make when we are pg

helibee · 11/06/2008 16:34

i understand ppp feels bad, so no more comments about that .

sophiajane - to disabled people it may not be the crime of the century but it affets them in a BIG way. I'm a disabled mum and i cannot tell you how upsetting it is when dh takes me out and people drive into disabled spaces and then run into somewhere. We had to wait half an hour for a space once so that we could go shopping. I use a wheelchair and i need the extra space at the side to get in to it so i can't just park anywhere. So it may not seem a big deal to you but it is to those affected.

Tonightsthenight · 11/06/2008 16:35

Actually sophiajane, her posting didn't prove she was wrong. She was flippant and rude and said she'd do it again given half the chance.

She may be coming over all contrite now, but only because she's so breathtakingly selfish it took a flaming for her to understand why she was in the wrong.

Tonightsthenight · 11/06/2008 16:35

prove she knew she was wrong.

Tonightsthenight · 11/06/2008 16:37

Hormonal selfishness? Didn't notice that before. What a crock of shit, people can act like an arse just because they're pregnant? Give me a break.

hatrick · 11/06/2008 16:37

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MehgaLegs · 11/06/2008 16:41

The whole thing reeks of attention seeking though I'm afraid. Even the name popcorn princess provokes IMO.

"Oh, and I will park there again if there are no spaces and it saves me loosing my job."

If it wasn't for that last sentence ppp I could almost give you the benefit of the doubt but it gives the impression that you are very self centered and uncaring.

lou33 · 11/06/2008 16:42

actually, she later said he ran down the side of her car, and tapped on her rear passenger window

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2shoes · 11/06/2008 16:50

well the op is welcome to dd's disability. then she can have dd's blue badge to go with it.

lou33 · 11/06/2008 16:50

but you only have her pov that he was putting anyone in danger

lou33 · 11/06/2008 16:53

"he ran down the path to the back of the car so he could bang on my rear window"

he was on a path, doesnt sound like he was putting anyone in danger to me

sophiajane · 11/06/2008 16:54

Tonightsthenight - think calling my opinions a "crock of shit" is a bit OTT - is a discussion board and would be a tedious one if we all agreed. No need to get offensive.

lou33 · 11/06/2008 16:54

and also, you are forgetting that this whole incident would not have occurred at all, if she had not parked in a disabled bay

2shoes · 11/06/2008 16:55

what lou said(tried to post something similar but internet died)

Tonightsthenight · 11/06/2008 16:57

Sorry SJ - I totally and utterly refute your assertion that pregnancy in some way excuses the OP's behaviour.

How's that?

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