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Butternut squash soup for dinner

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NoPinkPlease · 15/12/2025 10:14

AIBU or is butternut squash soup on its own not enough for dinner?

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Bjorkdidit · 15/12/2025 11:03

Depends on how hungry you are.

But I'm just here for the weirdly illogical eating rules such as how it's a suitable meal for one time of day and not another plus all the people bound to a 'main meal of the day', as if what else they eat doesn't count as food.

HollyChristmas · 15/12/2025 11:03

Depends what you've eaten in a day . We've gone to a cafe at lunchtime had a toastie and shared some chips so just soup later is enough .
If you've not had much during the day then soup isn't great for your main meal .

bridgetreilly · 15/12/2025 11:04

Soup with bread, cheese, salad and a pudding, then yes. Soup on its own, definitely not.

worrisomeasset · 15/12/2025 11:06

On its own, not enough. Accompany it with some Welsh rarebit on toast and you've got yourself a full dinner.

TheChosenTwo · 15/12/2025 11:06

I’d be fine with soup for dinner - I’m on MJ and a small dinner is what I’d have ideally every night. Although I find soup boring and only really have it for lunch on the odd occasion dd has made some for us.
No one else in my family would be satisfied on a bowl of soup for dinner - it’s not an evening meal for us ever.

TheendofmrY · 15/12/2025 11:10

Depends on what you had for lunch, whether there’s bread with it and how hungry you are 🤷‍♀️. I wouldn’t serve that to family or guests on its own for dinner but I’d have it myself if I fancied something but wasn’t all that hungry, and it would think it wasn’t anyone else’s business.

MaturingCheeseball · 15/12/2025 11:11

I can just imagine dh’s face if after a 15-hour day I presented him with a bowl of soup.

Actually I’m having one of those Cofent Garden butternut squash soups for lunch. But with bread and butter!

ImFineItsAllFine · 15/12/2025 11:13

Assuming it's the main meal of the day, as a bare minimum I'd want some protein as well.

SwallowsandAmazonians · 15/12/2025 11:17

Yes, with bread.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 15/12/2025 11:19

I love homemade soup for dinner. Maybe cheese and crackers with it or bread. But also totally fine on its own.

SuperSharpShooter · 15/12/2025 11:20

bridgetreilly · 15/12/2025 11:04

Soup with bread, cheese, salad and a pudding, then yes. Soup on its own, definitely not.

This ^
We have soup for tea once a week or so. Always with a toastie/buttie/bread and butter/croutons etc
I usually make a massive pan so multiple bowls are consumed by hungry teens.
If its only a bowl/portion each (usually taken from the freezer) we tend to have a pudding that night too.
Soup on its own would'nt fill my lot up!

Littlebuddh · 15/12/2025 11:20

Just soup I'd be starving not enough.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 15/12/2025 11:20

bridgetreilly · 15/12/2025 11:04

Soup with bread, cheese, salad and a pudding, then yes. Soup on its own, definitely not.

salad and soup is madness... you can't mix temperatures like that!

IceIceSlippyIce · 15/12/2025 11:27

As my main meal? Insufficient.

Having already had a main meal that day, absolutely no problem.

BellaBlister · 15/12/2025 11:27

I love butternut soup for dinner. Total comfort food. I do make it quite a thick texture though so its extra filling. Must have bread with it for dunking.

mondaytosunday · 15/12/2025 11:30

I make my own, and it’s very filling - for lunch. It doesn’t have enough protein though and I’d say even a generous portion is about 400-450 calories. That’s not enough unless you have a main meal at lunch time.

Mikart · 15/12/2025 11:30

I'm making carrot and lentil soup to eat about 5, with some olive bread. I had breakfast at 10 and wont eat in-between.

ilovesooty · 15/12/2025 11:32

Why does bread have to be crusty?

I often have soup, toast and fruit for dinner - not soup on its own usually.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 15/12/2025 11:33

These replies! And we wonder why half the country is overweight

SoLongLuminosity · 15/12/2025 11:33

If it'd homemade and not too liquid.

Add toasted seeds.

And if you're hungry a few hours later just eat again.

SeaToSki · 15/12/2025 11:34

I would want some green vegetables in any dinner (salad would count) and some first class protein. So if the soup came with a bacon sandwich and a salad, I would be thrilled.

Blisteringlycold · 15/12/2025 11:36

no

isitmytime · 15/12/2025 11:36

I love soup for dinner but it had to have bread along with it and I prefer it to have some kind of protein in it.
it’s my favourite can’t be bothered cooking dinner and always have done in the freezer

gannett · 15/12/2025 11:37

Obviously it depends how hungry you are and/or how much you ate for lunch. Sometimes soup is a perfectly decent dinner and sometimes it is not.

Jellycatspyjamas · 15/12/2025 11:38

HoneyParsnipSoup · 15/12/2025 11:33

These replies! And we wonder why half the country is overweight

Sorry what? A bowl of soup and some bread is hardly over eating.

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