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Been banned from my local nail salon

347 replies

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:21

I started going to a new salon a few months ago. I went three times and to be honest, I was never totally happy with the service I had been receiving. The atmosphere wasn't as welcoming as I liked and the results weren't what I was happy to pay for. So I decided to just do my own from now on.

My mum goes to the same nail salon, and the owner asked her why I had cancelled my appointments. Because she was put on the spot, my mum told her that I was now working Saturdays as well, so couldn't go anymore.

Yesterday I was getting my hair done and the owner of this old salon walked in and sat down next to me. She clocked it was me, sort of looked me up and down in surprise, and turned away from me. It was a bit awkward but it's not the end of the world, in my view.

This morning I've woken up to this email from them:

"(My name),
This message serves as formal notice that you are prohibited from booking or receiving services at any of our nail salons across the (local) area, effective immediately.
This decision has been made at ownership level following a review of your conduct. We have concluded that you provided false and misleading information regarding your availability and intentions as a client. On that basis, we believe your actions amount to a misrepresentation of circumstances and may be considered fraudulent in nature.
As a business, we reserve the absolute right to refuse service where we believe honesty and trust have been compromised. This determination is final.
Any current or future appointments made under your name, or on your behalf, will be cancelled without notice. Do not contact the business regarding this matter.
(Owner’s name)"

AIBU or is this really not necessary? I'd understand if I was a long standing client who had been going for years, but I'd been three times. I don't really see what's fraudulent about it?!

OP posts:
MetaCertificateAnnotationsJudgmentFINAL · 14/12/2025 13:23

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:21

I started going to a new salon a few months ago. I went three times and to be honest, I was never totally happy with the service I had been receiving. The atmosphere wasn't as welcoming as I liked and the results weren't what I was happy to pay for. So I decided to just do my own from now on.

My mum goes to the same nail salon, and the owner asked her why I had cancelled my appointments. Because she was put on the spot, my mum told her that I was now working Saturdays as well, so couldn't go anymore.

Yesterday I was getting my hair done and the owner of this old salon walked in and sat down next to me. She clocked it was me, sort of looked me up and down in surprise, and turned away from me. It was a bit awkward but it's not the end of the world, in my view.

This morning I've woken up to this email from them:

"(My name),
This message serves as formal notice that you are prohibited from booking or receiving services at any of our nail salons across the (local) area, effective immediately.
This decision has been made at ownership level following a review of your conduct. We have concluded that you provided false and misleading information regarding your availability and intentions as a client. On that basis, we believe your actions amount to a misrepresentation of circumstances and may be considered fraudulent in nature.
As a business, we reserve the absolute right to refuse service where we believe honesty and trust have been compromised. This determination is final.
Any current or future appointments made under your name, or on your behalf, will be cancelled without notice. Do not contact the business regarding this matter.
(Owner’s name)"

AIBU or is this really not necessary? I'd understand if I was a long standing client who had been going for years, but I'd been three times. I don't really see what's fraudulent about it?!

Post your story on their google reviews. That will have greater impact and inform people who care.

Blarghism · 14/12/2025 13:24

The is only one real answer to this message of course. I've looked it up to get the proper legal terminology correct... you may want to grab a pen to write this down as it's quite technical and has a lot of legalese in it... The correct reply is... "lol".

Imdunfer · 14/12/2025 13:26

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:21

I started going to a new salon a few months ago. I went three times and to be honest, I was never totally happy with the service I had been receiving. The atmosphere wasn't as welcoming as I liked and the results weren't what I was happy to pay for. So I decided to just do my own from now on.

My mum goes to the same nail salon, and the owner asked her why I had cancelled my appointments. Because she was put on the spot, my mum told her that I was now working Saturdays as well, so couldn't go anymore.

Yesterday I was getting my hair done and the owner of this old salon walked in and sat down next to me. She clocked it was me, sort of looked me up and down in surprise, and turned away from me. It was a bit awkward but it's not the end of the world, in my view.

This morning I've woken up to this email from them:

"(My name),
This message serves as formal notice that you are prohibited from booking or receiving services at any of our nail salons across the (local) area, effective immediately.
This decision has been made at ownership level following a review of your conduct. We have concluded that you provided false and misleading information regarding your availability and intentions as a client. On that basis, we believe your actions amount to a misrepresentation of circumstances and may be considered fraudulent in nature.
As a business, we reserve the absolute right to refuse service where we believe honesty and trust have been compromised. This determination is final.
Any current or future appointments made under your name, or on your behalf, will be cancelled without notice. Do not contact the business regarding this matter.
(Owner’s name)"

AIBU or is this really not necessary? I'd understand if I was a long standing client who had been going for years, but I'd been three times. I don't really see what's fraudulent about it?!

She's batshit crazy!

Accusing a lapsed customer whose mum told a white lie to avoid a difficult scene of fraud, She is WAY too fragile to be running her own business.

2dogsandabudgie · 14/12/2025 13:26

Why would the nail salon even want your email address? I have used the same hairdresser for years, never asked for it neither have my dog groomers.

LittleMi55Nobody · 14/12/2025 13:27

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:21

I started going to a new salon a few months ago. I went three times and to be honest, I was never totally happy with the service I had been receiving. The atmosphere wasn't as welcoming as I liked and the results weren't what I was happy to pay for. So I decided to just do my own from now on.

My mum goes to the same nail salon, and the owner asked her why I had cancelled my appointments. Because she was put on the spot, my mum told her that I was now working Saturdays as well, so couldn't go anymore.

Yesterday I was getting my hair done and the owner of this old salon walked in and sat down next to me. She clocked it was me, sort of looked me up and down in surprise, and turned away from me. It was a bit awkward but it's not the end of the world, in my view.

This morning I've woken up to this email from them:

"(My name),
This message serves as formal notice that you are prohibited from booking or receiving services at any of our nail salons across the (local) area, effective immediately.
This decision has been made at ownership level following a review of your conduct. We have concluded that you provided false and misleading information regarding your availability and intentions as a client. On that basis, we believe your actions amount to a misrepresentation of circumstances and may be considered fraudulent in nature.
As a business, we reserve the absolute right to refuse service where we believe honesty and trust have been compromised. This determination is final.
Any current or future appointments made under your name, or on your behalf, will be cancelled without notice. Do not contact the business regarding this matter.
(Owner’s name)"

AIBU or is this really not necessary? I'd understand if I was a long standing client who had been going for years, but I'd been three times. I don't really see what's fraudulent about it?!

was you getting your hair done on a saturday when your mum had fibbed you work on a saturday ?

ZenZazie · 14/12/2025 13:27

No wonder you felt the vibe was off tbh

nobodysdaughter · 14/12/2025 13:28

Who on EARTH do they think they are? Time for a google review!

CrushingOnRubies · 14/12/2025 13:30

2dogsandabudgie · 14/12/2025 13:26

Why would the nail salon even want your email address? I have used the same hairdresser for years, never asked for it neither have my dog groomers.

I book a lot of beauty stuff like nail and hair appointments online. Handy because you get an automatic reminder a couple of days before.

ThatBlackCat · 14/12/2025 13:30

I would not stand for this. I would email them back and tell them 'I don't know why my mother lied to you however I don't owe you a reason for not using you anymore. In fact I stopped going because of the atmosphere wasn't welcoming and I was not happy with the results. I have decided to do my own nails. No longer using a service I was not happy with is not fraud. I will however be showing people your email as a warning of how you treat customers. Also, please learn what 'fraudulent' means. It means deceiving to obtain money. I never got any money from you.'

And, I'd post what the email said on facebook in a community group, and name and shame them as a warning to others in your area. I hope you do this at least.

Mummyratbag · 14/12/2025 13:32

Dear Batshit salon owner, I was trying to save your feelings. £40 for badly done nails is ridiculous. Stop harrassing me.

IamnotSethRogan · 14/12/2025 13:32

Condensationon · 14/12/2025 11:22

Meh. So what. You’re not going back anyway.

I mean yeah but it is fucking bonkers, regardless of the fact op wasn't going back again!

Meadowfinch · 14/12/2025 13:33

Just ignore it. The owner is a prat and won't survive long with an attitude like that.

BadgernTheGarden · 14/12/2025 13:34

Did you cancel at short notice and give a false excuse rather than say you're not happy with the service? Not that it matters and a totally bonkers message. I would reply and tell them what you really think of them, but your mum might get banned too.

TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 14/12/2025 13:34

I would just reply with an enormous laughing emoji.

Friendlygingercat · 14/12/2025 13:35

I run a business and only once have I sent a message to inform a customer that I no longer wished to do business with her. She was an absolute nightmare and found fault with everything she bought and then tried to get a partial refund. I told her exactly why I was blocking her and wished her luck on finding a new supplier.

Mostly I just add unpleasant or rude customers (or those who dont pay) to my blocked list so they will find out if they try to make another purchase. I dont have time to enter into a long debate.

The owner of this nail salon clearly has too much time on her hands. Whats the problem about no longer being free on a certain day? People's availability changes.

gamerchick · 14/12/2025 13:35

KittyFinlay · 14/12/2025 11:42

I'd post it to facebook/insta and tag them saying, "Just a heads up to everyone that someone must have hacked into (Rusty Nail Salon)'s account and is sending these weird and unprofessional emails. I'm not a customer and haven't been since (date) but hope you manage to get it sorted before anyone else gets one of these!"

Definitely do this.

I don't think I could not do something. It's too batshit.

godmum56 · 14/12/2025 13:36

you don't want to go back, they don't want you back, end of story. Bin the message and move on.

LoyalMember · 14/12/2025 13:36

Ffs, I know hairdressers can get a bit prissy and precious about clients going elsewhere, but daft wee lassies that manicure your nails? They should get a bit of perspective and a life along with it. Gormless pricks...

LegoWig · 14/12/2025 13:37

StephensLass1977 · 14/12/2025 13:18

I agree. I once left a 4.5 out of a max 5* review for a salon in London - eyebrow tint had worn off almost as soon as I got home from the salon. I don't know why I gave such a high rating. Should have been zero stars plus a demand to have them redone. Despite my extremely generous review, the owner called me the next morning, ranting and raving and threatening all sorts. I'd left off HALF A STAR from the maximum, when she should have received 0! But yes she got very nasty and tried to make me retract it (I didn't. And what's wrong with 4.5 / 5 especially if you've messed up??)

Some salon owners can be very weird and ridiculously protective about their place of business. It's like those parents who think you're looking at their kid and start threatening you

Yeah there are some very precious beauty therapists out there. DD once left an honest review of a very bad eyebrow wax (it was truly awful, I saw the results and DD had redness and skin inflammation for weeks afterwards). The owner started stalking her in facebook and demanding that she take the review down. DD stuck to her guns and the shitty operation went out of business a few months later anyway.

MO0N · 14/12/2025 13:40

LegoWig · 14/12/2025 13:37

Yeah there are some very precious beauty therapists out there. DD once left an honest review of a very bad eyebrow wax (it was truly awful, I saw the results and DD had redness and skin inflammation for weeks afterwards). The owner started stalking her in facebook and demanding that she take the review down. DD stuck to her guns and the shitty operation went out of business a few months later anyway.

There is a certain 'narcissistic influencer' personality type, isn't there!

TheFifthTellytubby · 14/12/2025 13:41

"Dear Valued Client,
I'm so sorry that we haven't seen you for a while. I do hope this isn't because you were unhappy with our service, but it would help us immensely if you could complete the enclosed questionnaire so that we can see what we're doing right and where we might improve. As a thank-you for your time, we'd like to offer you a voucher worth 25% off your next appointment. Hope to see you soon. Merry Christmas!
Kind regards
Your Local Nail Salon"

There - fixed it for them. 🙄

spideysmumma · 14/12/2025 13:43

This is MADNESS

Horses7 · 14/12/2025 13:47

YANBU - sledgehammer and nut job!!

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 14/12/2025 13:47

That letter is hilarious. The only reasonable response is to train as a nail technician and then set up a rival nail salon 😆

Yamahahaha · 14/12/2025 13:52

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:26

No, over three weeks notice (they have a 48 hour cancellation policy), and the appointment has already been filled

Not doubting you, but how do you know that?

Agree with PPs - the owner is clearly insane.