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Nursery closing early Xmas eve and still paying

296 replies

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 15:31

Aibu for being annoyed they are charging the whole day but we have to collect before 12?

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purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 16:44

FenceBooksCycle · 13/12/2025 16:43

Do you like getting paid on your Annual Leave days? So do the people who work at the nursery.
Do you still have to pay your mortgage/rent and coucil tax on days you aren't using your house? So does the nursery business.

You get paid monthly presumably. You have the money to pay your monthly bill. YABU to expect it to be less. If they made all the other weekdays of the year £0.07 more expensive in order to make this one day £18 cheaper you'd still pay the same across the year (which they would have to do as their costs would be the same) so don't be petty.

This doesn't form part of their annual leave. It's a work day

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purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 16:44

JoeTheDrummer · 13/12/2025 16:38

Many of us need nursery to be open Xmas Eve to provide childcare while we ourselves are doing “hard hard work for shit pay”, especially if we are paying for a whole day!

Exactly.

I'm going to clear my deceased mother's house

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FuzzyWolf · 13/12/2025 16:45

I think it’s normal to pay for it. Very few people have a nursery that is pay for just what you use.

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 16:46

Atorwave · 13/12/2025 16:38

You pay a termly fee

the term ends at midday on Christmas Eve

enjoy your time in Spain OP!

No I don't pay a term. I get an invoice that is for a term but I have my child enrolled 10 hours a day 5 days a week, 52 weeks of the year

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ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/12/2025 16:46

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 16:44

Exactly.

I'm going to clear my deceased mother's house

What do you mean ‘exactly’? You said your child isn’t in nursery that week anyway, you don’t need the childcare

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 16:46

FuzzyWolf · 13/12/2025 16:45

I think it’s normal to pay for it. Very few people have a nursery that is pay for just what you use.

I'm being paid for a day I can't use? They are charging but not providing

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Atorwave · 13/12/2025 16:49

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 16:46

No I don't pay a term. I get an invoice that is for a term but I have my child enrolled 10 hours a day 5 days a week, 52 weeks of the year

You have posted other threads about your dissatisfaction with this nursery, yes?

SisterMaryImmaculate · 13/12/2025 16:49

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 15:34

I actually will be in Spain, it's after a conversatopn I had today

Will Jacob Marley be able to find you there?

Cyclingmummy1 · 13/12/2025 16:51

I, too, would object to being charged for a service that wasn't available.

Jk987 · 13/12/2025 16:51

It’s Christmas Eve, the staff want to get home to their families! Why can’t Dad pick him up?

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/12/2025 16:52

Jk987 · 13/12/2025 16:51

It’s Christmas Eve, the staff want to get home to their families! Why can’t Dad pick him up?

Her kid isn’t in nursery the whole week
anyway

TheNightingalesStarling · 13/12/2025 16:52

Those 5 days a week 52 weeks a year include the days the nursery is shut (bank Holidays, often between Christmas and New year, staff training etc). The fee takes that into account already.
As it takes into account the fact not every year has the same number of weekdays.

safetyfreak · 13/12/2025 16:53

My nursery close early on Christmas Eve but they are returning the money.

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 16:55

TheNightingalesStarling · 13/12/2025 16:52

Those 5 days a week 52 weeks a year include the days the nursery is shut (bank Holidays, often between Christmas and New year, staff training etc). The fee takes that into account already.
As it takes into account the fact not every year has the same number of weekdays.

No we aren't charged for days nursery is shut, including training days

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TimeToStopLurking · 13/12/2025 16:56

Our nursery closes for two weeks over Christmas and New Year and we still have to pay

vanillalattes · 13/12/2025 16:56

Cyclingmummy1 · 13/12/2025 16:51

I, too, would object to being charged for a service that wasn't available.

Exactly. All these people saying "nah, it's fine" - would you pay your hairdresser for an appointment she didn't carry out? Your window cleaner? Would you happily pay a lawyer a half day rate only for them not to do any of the work?

SamphiretheTervosaur · 13/12/2025 16:59

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 16:43

What if you nail tech stopped half way through, becUse it's Xmas eve. Is nursery not a service

You'd run your diary to end at the right time

They have a half day finish. It's not unusual and would be in their timetable

SamphiretheTervosaur · 13/12/2025 17:00

TimeToStopLurking · 13/12/2025 16:56

Our nursery closes for two weeks over Christmas and New Year and we still have to pay

Same argument as teacher's getting all that holiday... pay, and payment, is spread over the year

Ponderingwindow · 13/12/2025 17:04

Nursery fees are averaged out over time. Ours was just a flat fee each month which was nice and easy for budgeting and payment.

Any days off or short days are accounted for in the overall charges. if they started adjusting for those days, it would simply mean an increase on other days. You would still pay the same total amount. It would just be more complicated.

its the same as my pay. I get a paycheck every week regardless of what if I work or if I’m on leave. My employer could just raise my salary and then not pay me on leave days. That would make it harder for me to budget and more complicated for the payroll office.

BobblyBobbleHat · 13/12/2025 17:04

SamphiretheTervosaur · 13/12/2025 17:00

Same argument as teacher's getting all that holiday... pay, and payment, is spread over the year

"all that holiday", most of which is unpaid, yet rather a lot of work still has to be completed.

Tana433 · 13/12/2025 17:07

i think this is fairly standard. I worked in a nursery over 10 years ago and on Christmas eve we gave the children lunch and then asked for them to be collected before 2pm at which time we closed. Nursery workers have family too.

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 17:10

Tana433 · 13/12/2025 17:07

i think this is fairly standard. I worked in a nursery over 10 years ago and on Christmas eve we gave the children lunch and then asked for them to be collected before 2pm at which time we closed. Nursery workers have family too.

Really, I thought you had no family. Do you also not have jobs? Happy for the owner to profit the money!

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HappyFace2025 · 13/12/2025 17:10

purplehairrinse · 13/12/2025 17:10

Really, I thought you had no family. Do you also not have jobs? Happy for the owner to profit the money!

???

Coco9910 · 13/12/2025 17:12

Our nursery is closed between Christmas and New Year but we still have to pay for those days even though they aren’t open.

MILLYmo0se · 13/12/2025 17:16

Nurseries open on Christmas Eve?! Wow, I don't think there's any creches in Ireland that open that day, they ll close either Friday/Monday or Tuesday this year and the majority don't open between then and Jan 2 ( or the 5th this year given how it falls)