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To think social housing should be means-tested annually like benefits?

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EqualLedgerJay · 07/12/2025 17:25

Situations change, why should lifetime tenancies exist if income rises? AIBU to think fairness cuts both ways?

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Kirbert2 · 11/12/2025 21:08

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 20:34

Tricky one, depending on circumstances they can be treated as high priority when reapplying. I have a friend with a disabled child who now pays tax on her education, same logic applies.

The only reason I'm in SH is because my disabled son couldn't physically fit into the private rental we were in before he suddenly became disabled. Private rentals aren't adapted for wheelchair users.

If we were turfed out after 5 years, my disabled child would be out in the streets because only SH have adapted properties suitable for wheelchair users.

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:11

Kirbert2 · 11/12/2025 21:08

The only reason I'm in SH is because my disabled son couldn't physically fit into the private rental we were in before he suddenly became disabled. Private rentals aren't adapted for wheelchair users.

If we were turfed out after 5 years, my disabled child would be out in the streets because only SH have adapted properties suitable for wheelchair users.

I’m sure any changes will only affect new agreements. You will be fine.

Kirbert2 · 11/12/2025 21:15

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:11

I’m sure any changes will only affect new agreements. You will be fine.

The next disabled child wouldn't be though.

I'd imagine that those with disabilities would be one of the excluded groups should anything change. Especially with no alternatives as seeing wheelchair users living in the streets obviously wouldn't go down very well.

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:18

I am confused as to how evicting people, even disabled, after 5 years in SH will save the tax payer any money. It makes no sense.

Thechaseison71 · 11/12/2025 21:18

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 20:47

40%.

Can you clarify? What's the 40%

vodkaredbullgirl · 11/12/2025 21:20
Banghead GIF by Ant Hodges

Enough said

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:23

vodkaredbullgirl · 11/12/2025 21:20

Enough said

I hope that is not a private rental wall. He will lose his deposit 😄

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:25

Kirbert2 · 11/12/2025 21:15

The next disabled child wouldn't be though.

I'd imagine that those with disabilities would be one of the excluded groups should anything change. Especially with no alternatives as seeing wheelchair users living in the streets obviously wouldn't go down very well.

Yes, you’re probably right.

vodkaredbullgirl · 11/12/2025 21:25

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:23

I hope that is not a private rental wall. He will lose his deposit 😄

It's ok it's the brick wall at work 😂

PeonyPatch · 11/12/2025 21:29

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 17:46

11 billion. Why is it so hard to admit people are subsidising you? Did you genuinely believe I don’t subsidise you? This is the problem with 53% effectively not paying any tax, they simply don’t understand the burden they’re putting on the ever decreasing percentage of payers with their outrageously selfish demands. It’s unsustainable.

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I agree with you @RadialEffergy
There are a lot of posters in denial on this thread.

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:35

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:18

I am confused as to how evicting people, even disabled, after 5 years in SH will save the tax payer any money. It makes no sense.

It frees up the property for someone else who needs 5 years to get on their feet whilst encouraging people to pay their own way at the end of 5 years. Over the course of 20 years each property would have housed 4 people/families rather than building 3 additional properties. Much fairer to the net tax payer, the tax burden is at world war levels for the top 10%. The situation is extremely serious for the future of the U.K. once brain and wealth drain gathers momentum, it’s is very difficult to recover.

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:38

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:35

It frees up the property for someone else who needs 5 years to get on their feet whilst encouraging people to pay their own way at the end of 5 years. Over the course of 20 years each property would have housed 4 people/families rather than building 3 additional properties. Much fairer to the net tax payer, the tax burden is at world war levels for the top 10%. The situation is extremely serious for the future of the U.K. once brain and wealth drain gathers momentum, it’s is very difficult to recover.

Not everyone can get on their feet though. Not everyone is capable of well paid work, and some people are disabled and will never be able to improve their circumstances.
It would make no sense to force them on the street.
It is easy to talk abut how it will affect your pocket when you wont be the one that is profoundly affected and homeless.

But this will never happen so....

Thechaseison71 · 11/12/2025 21:43

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:35

It frees up the property for someone else who needs 5 years to get on their feet whilst encouraging people to pay their own way at the end of 5 years. Over the course of 20 years each property would have housed 4 people/families rather than building 3 additional properties. Much fairer to the net tax payer, the tax burden is at world war levels for the top 10%. The situation is extremely serious for the future of the U.K. once brain and wealth drain gathers momentum, it’s is very difficult to recover.

So instead people are paying out much higher levels of housing benefit for a private rental? Yeah obviously makes sense NOT. Especially if they didn't need housing benefit at social housing rates

PeonyPatch · 11/12/2025 21:43

I think it’s in everyone’s best interest that those who can work should work.

I don’t believe vulnerable groups should be targeted here e.g. disabled.

However, those single occupants who are taking up a family sized home need to be moved into a smaller property to free it up to those who need the space.

I do believe it ought to be means-tested - if you are earning above a threshold whereby you would no longer qualify for it then notice needs to be given for you to find somewhere else to live. The argument of security isn’t fair on those who really need the property or those of us who were forced to go into private rentals or mortgages. There simply isn’t enough social housing and it needs to go to those who truly need it.

In hospitals, the equivalent would be referred to as bed blockers.

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:46

PeonyPatch · 11/12/2025 21:43

I think it’s in everyone’s best interest that those who can work should work.

I don’t believe vulnerable groups should be targeted here e.g. disabled.

However, those single occupants who are taking up a family sized home need to be moved into a smaller property to free it up to those who need the space.

I do believe it ought to be means-tested - if you are earning above a threshold whereby you would no longer qualify for it then notice needs to be given for you to find somewhere else to live. The argument of security isn’t fair on those who really need the property or those of us who were forced to go into private rentals or mortgages. There simply isn’t enough social housing and it needs to go to those who truly need it.

In hospitals, the equivalent would be referred to as bed blockers.

There is a shortage of smaller properties in most areas. There is nowhere for the single person in a family home to go.

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:49

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:38

Not everyone can get on their feet though. Not everyone is capable of well paid work, and some people are disabled and will never be able to improve their circumstances.
It would make no sense to force them on the street.
It is easy to talk abut how it will affect your pocket when you wont be the one that is profoundly affected and homeless.

But this will never happen so....

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…..and it’s also easy to keep expecting other people to put their hand in their pocket for increasing amounts whilst virtue signalling on social media about being caring. But, really when you think about it is there anything to really crow about in acting in such a way? It’s like taking 2 homeless people into a restaurant and forcing some random to buy them lunch so you can tell your friends you help the homeless, it’s actually just quite narcissistic and selfish in my opinion. I

Kirbert2 · 11/12/2025 21:49

Thechaseison71 · 11/12/2025 21:43

So instead people are paying out much higher levels of housing benefit for a private rental? Yeah obviously makes sense NOT. Especially if they didn't need housing benefit at social housing rates

and especially if they or their child are wheelchair users and can't physically fit into a private rental.

PeonyPatch · 11/12/2025 21:51

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:46

There is a shortage of smaller properties in most areas. There is nowhere for the single person in a family home to go.

Well, obviously aim for it as best as possible. No system is perfect unfortunately but I do think this needs to be factored in to people’s plans - a lot of people choose to downsize in older age or when circumstances change, it’s quite common.

I do also think the government needs to build more social and affordable housing. No government has really met the target need for this.

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:52

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:49

…..and it’s also easy to keep expecting other people to put their hand in their pocket for increasing amounts whilst virtue signalling on social media about being caring. But, really when you think about it is there anything to really crow about in acting in such a way? It’s like taking 2 homeless people into a restaurant and forcing some random to buy them lunch so you can tell your friends you help the homeless, it’s actually just quite narcissistic and selfish in my opinion. I

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That is a really strange take on things. Maybe stay off the wine.

MaryBeardsShoes · 11/12/2025 21:52

you just don’t understand what social housing is for. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:53

PeonyPatch · 11/12/2025 21:51

Well, obviously aim for it as best as possible. No system is perfect unfortunately but I do think this needs to be factored in to people’s plans - a lot of people choose to downsize in older age or when circumstances change, it’s quite common.

I do also think the government needs to build more social and affordable housing. No government has really met the target need for this.

I think your last point is the best way to deal with this. Not turf people out of their homes. We just need more homes to begin with.

PeonyPatch · 11/12/2025 21:54

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:52

That is a really strange take on things. Maybe stay off the wine.

I don’t agree. I don’t think it’s a strange take.

I don’t include disabled/injured/unwell in this. But families and individuals who can work need to support themselves.

PeonyPatch · 11/12/2025 21:56

XenoBitch · 11/12/2025 21:53

I think your last point is the best way to deal with this. Not turf people out of their homes. We just need more homes to begin with.

I’d also like the government to look at properties that are not in use. I really think housing should be one of their number one priorities.

Kirbert2 · 11/12/2025 21:57

RadialEffergy · 11/12/2025 21:35

It frees up the property for someone else who needs 5 years to get on their feet whilst encouraging people to pay their own way at the end of 5 years. Over the course of 20 years each property would have housed 4 people/families rather than building 3 additional properties. Much fairer to the net tax payer, the tax burden is at world war levels for the top 10%. The situation is extremely serious for the future of the U.K. once brain and wealth drain gathers momentum, it’s is very difficult to recover.

It makes no sense to include those who are disabled though, especially if they need an adapted property and they are only available through SH if you can't afford to buy a house and then also pay for adaptations.

My son will still be disabled in 5 years and will still need an adapted property, I will also still be unable to work as I'm his carer. Nothing will have changed in 5 years and I would be far from the only one where everything would still be the same.

Kirbert2 · 11/12/2025 21:58

PeonyPatch · 11/12/2025 21:54

I don’t agree. I don’t think it’s a strange take.

I don’t include disabled/injured/unwell in this. But families and individuals who can work need to support themselves.

pp IS including disabled people though.

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