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If I see any more comments on Mumsnet of it's just a dog

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Lifeneedsaresetagain · 05/12/2025 22:29

Do people not realise that for those who welcome them into the family they are part of the family. And if you have a dog and say it's just a dog, I'm not sure you should have one.

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Notadame · 06/12/2025 23:36

YeOldeGreyhound · 06/12/2025 23:35

It can be both. A badly behaved dog that is enabled by an owner that does not care.
But I am not sure how forcing a dog to walk on its hind legs and being dumped outside actually helps. The dog will not understand. But that poster wont engage with the owner as they would have had their arse handed to them. Coward.

I wouldn't worry as I doubt that ever actually happened!

YeOldeGreyhound · 06/12/2025 23:36

Notadame · 06/12/2025 23:36

I wouldn't worry as I doubt that ever actually happened!

I agree with you on that one.

BeQuirkyMintScroller · 06/12/2025 23:38

All I am taking from this thread is that I'd probably enjoy a drink down the pub with @YeOldeGreyhound and @NeverDropYourMooncup

with our dogs. Obviously.

YeOldeGreyhound · 06/12/2025 23:40

BeQuirkyMintScroller · 06/12/2025 23:38

All I am taking from this thread is that I'd probably enjoy a drink down the pub with @YeOldeGreyhound and @NeverDropYourMooncup

with our dogs. Obviously.

Did someone say pub? 😄

If I see any more comments on Mumsnet of it's just a dog
CrazyGoatLady · 06/12/2025 23:43

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OmNomShiva · 06/12/2025 23:48

YeOldeGreyhound · 06/12/2025 23:35

It can be both. A badly behaved dog that is enabled by an owner that does not care.
But I am not sure how forcing a dog to walk on its hind legs and being dumped outside actually helps. The dog will not understand. But that poster wont engage with the owner as they would have had their arse handed to them. Coward.

The owner was either absent or didn’t dare speak up when I marched the dog out.

Someone complained thinking it was MY DOG who was threatening kids in the pub playground - when in fact I was the only one who dared get up and get it the hell out of there.

CrazyGoatLady · 06/12/2025 23:57

OmNomShiva · 06/12/2025 23:48

The owner was either absent or didn’t dare speak up when I marched the dog out.

Someone complained thinking it was MY DOG who was threatening kids in the pub playground - when in fact I was the only one who dared get up and get it the hell out of there.

Once upon a time, in the land of things that never happened...

OmNomShiva · 06/12/2025 23:59

CrazyGoatLady · 06/12/2025 23:57

Once upon a time, in the land of things that never happened...

Baffling how you so wish something didn’t happen.

Why is it so implausible to you ?

Why the need to diminish a situation I was forced into by a twat of a dog ?

Silvercoconut · 07/12/2025 00:04

HotWaterCosts · 05/12/2025 22:48

Don’t be ridiculous. It’s just a dog.

Say it's a dog.
Don't say "just" which minimises its importance to someone.
My dogs are my everything, I love them more than I can articulate - my sole mission is to make their lives happy, and in return they enrich mine immensely.
They are dogs yes, but NOT just dogs.

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I would recommend getting a dog.

OmNomShiva · 07/12/2025 00:19

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It was at the White Horse Inn in Overstrand, in July 2013.

You can be as condescending as you like, I don’t care.

Just along the coast from there, when I was a kid, I stood in a stone-cold dog turd on the beach at Hemsby.

Dogs have never done anything at all to improve my life, they’ve just constantly and repeatedly been antisocial pricks.

Hallywally · 07/12/2025 00:20

I love my cats very much and they are a part of my family but they will never be as important as my children are to me and I’ll never love them in the same way or to the same level that I love my children. I would love to have a dog again would shower it with love and very much see it as very important to me and a part of my family but it would never be on par with my human children.

YeOldeGreyhound · 07/12/2025 00:27

OmNomShiva · 07/12/2025 00:19

It was at the White Horse Inn in Overstrand, in July 2013.

You can be as condescending as you like, I don’t care.

Just along the coast from there, when I was a kid, I stood in a stone-cold dog turd on the beach at Hemsby.

Dogs have never done anything at all to improve my life, they’ve just constantly and repeatedly been antisocial pricks.

I pulled up to the kerb on my motorcycle in a city centre to text someone. A drunk man came up to me and pissed on my leg.
Ban all men.
City centre living means you see lots of human turds too.

TwoBagsOfCompost · 07/12/2025 00:40

HotWaterCosts · 06/12/2025 12:49

OP, can you answer this. You (like others) said you would save your dog over a stranger’s child. Does that mean you would be upset but understanding if someone else saved their animal over your daughter in a fire, and they let her die as they chose to save their dog instead? Just to be clear.

I'd 100% save my cat first before a stranger's child or other (human) family member, and I'd completely understand if a stranger saved their pet before my (human) family member.

I saved my cat from the streets of a big city when she was only a couple weeks old and weighed less than a small loaf of bread. She's now 15 years old. She's family to me. She's a cat, but she's a member of my family. Others don't have to understand or agree.

OmNomShiva · 07/12/2025 00:44

YeOldeGreyhound · 07/12/2025 00:27

I pulled up to the kerb on my motorcycle in a city centre to text someone. A drunk man came up to me and pissed on my leg.
Ban all men.
City centre living means you see lots of human turds too.

That’s grim, that guy should be arrested.

Notadame · 07/12/2025 01:09

Silvercoconut · 07/12/2025 00:04

Say it's a dog.
Don't say "just" which minimises its importance to someone.
My dogs are my everything, I love them more than I can articulate - my sole mission is to make their lives happy, and in return they enrich mine immensely.
They are dogs yes, but NOT just dogs.

It shouldn't be your "sole mission" to make your dogs happy, that isn't healthy. It isn't healthy for your "sole mission" to be making anyone happy tbh, human children included.

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 07/12/2025 01:16

Notadame · 07/12/2025 01:09

It shouldn't be your "sole mission" to make your dogs happy, that isn't healthy. It isn't healthy for your "sole mission" to be making anyone happy tbh, human children included.

My dog's sole mission seems to be to make me happy. And she does, so I try to make her happy too. She's my best friend. I suppose she's my life, pretty much.
And I'm not even a dog person really, I love cats more.

MangaKanga · 07/12/2025 01:19

But you think it's healthy to sit viciously psychoanalysing strangers on the Internet in the middle of the night, just because you are not an animal person yourself, and lack the imagination to put yourself in their shoes?🤔

MangaKanga · 07/12/2025 01:20

What's healthy is getting out and touching grass, which is what these guys have you doing every day.🥰

If I see any more comments on Mumsnet of it's just a dog
CrazyGoatLady · 07/12/2025 01:30

Just having a quiet snigger at the thought of some angry wee bam sat furiously writing a superhero movie script about avenging their childhood dog turd trauma by going round pubs evicting errant dogs.

Sorry doll, Hollywood's not coming for you!

ThatHonestFox · 07/12/2025 07:08

To other people he may just be a dog. To me he is my best friend. He is one of the reasons I’m still alive after going through a horrifically traumatic experience. He was the one who knew when I needed a cuddle, or just needed someone to be there. In the middle of the night when I would be sobbing he was the silent presence that comforted me.
He doesn’t come everywhere, for his own sake I wouldn’t put him in a position that was unsafe or uncomfortable for him.
I take him to local cafes and the pub which he loves as he gets lots of attention. There are plenty of places that don’t allow dogs so if people do have an issue with them they can go to those places.

ohnotthisagain2020 · 07/12/2025 08:02

if you see any more comments saying "it's just a dog" you'll do what? Cope, presumably.

A child bites a dog - nothing at all will happen to the child beyond a scolding. A dog bites a child - it can and in most cases should be put to death.

This is because, as society and the law recognises, it is - compared to a child - just a dog.

You are entitled to your own beliefs about your pets. People generally only remind you that it's "just a dog" when you're being precious, entitled or acting mental.

Notadame · 07/12/2025 08:05

MangaKanga · 07/12/2025 01:19

But you think it's healthy to sit viciously psychoanalysing strangers on the Internet in the middle of the night, just because you are not an animal person yourself, and lack the imagination to put yourself in their shoes?🤔

I am an animal person, as I've said multiple times on this thread. I've had pets all my life. I foster mother cats and their kittens for rescues. Why have you assumed I'm not an animal person?

And I was awake with my sick baby, who was asleep on me.

PandorasJam · 07/12/2025 08:12

Wellstonethecrows · 05/12/2025 22:47

You started a thread about dogs being family members.
I made a comment, as I'm entitled to.
It wasn't offensive or nasty.
So why you feel the need to tell me to butt out in such an unpleasant way I don't understand.

It's a mental issue, isn't it.
Much like treating dogs as human children.

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