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To ask if you’re having a flu vaccine?

205 replies

MzGG · 02/12/2025 11:10

My GP surgery has text me to inform me that I’m duet flu vaccine. I’m going to book myself in.

Will you be having one too?

OP posts:
Redpeach · 02/12/2025 14:13

PInkyStarfish · 02/12/2025 12:53

Absolutely not. I have a great immune system.

Do you think it will weaken your already great immune system? just curious as i am undecided

Luxio · 02/12/2025 14:26

Qualityroses · 02/12/2025 14:04

I've never had flu. I'm never ill. I've only ever had a couple of colds in my whole life and thats it. I don't feel the need for a flu jab.

This is a really odd reason not to get the flu jab. Hmm

I too was fit and healthy and hardly every got so much as a sniffle but I still found myself hospitalised with flu.

AutisticAndMore · 02/12/2025 14:32

SweetBaklava · 02/12/2025 12:24

Yes I’ve had mine, and I do every year. I’ve had the flu once in my life and it was absolutely horrendous, was off work for nearly two weeks. Drives me batshit when people say they have flu when it’s just a cold! If have the flu you 100% know you do 🙄

And it drives me nuts when people post myths about flu. Flu can be asymptomatic, mild, moderate or severe. Not everyone is unable to get out of bed.
https://www.cedars-sinai.org/newsroom/yahoo-life-why-does-the-flu-make-some-people-sick-but-not-others

(This does not mean that you shouldn’t get the flu vaccine)

Yahoo! Life: Why Does the Flu Make Some People Sick but Not Others?

Yahoo! Life recently interviewed infectious disease specialist Jonathan Grein, MD, director of Hospital Epidemiology at Cedars-Sinai, about why some people seem to be more susceptible to the flu than other people.   Grein told Yahoo! Life the short ans...

https://www.cedars-sinai.org/newsroom/yahoo-life-why-does-the-flu-make-some-people-sick-but-not-others

ChoccieCornflake · 02/12/2025 15:17

Redpeach · 02/12/2025 14:13

Do you think it will weaken your already great immune system? just curious as i am undecided

It absolutely will not weaken it - it will strengthen it. The vaccine basically presents a safe version of flu to the immune system so the immune system knows what to look out for and is therefore quicker off the mark in repelling flu if you ever encounter it.

Vaccines are basically like showing pictures of burglars to security guards so that if the burglars come along, the security guards are well prepared to repel them

APatternGrammar · 02/12/2025 15:23

PInkyStarfish · 02/12/2025 12:53

Absolutely not. I have a great immune system.

Hopefully you actually don‘t (how could you actually know) as having a great immune system makes influenza much more dangerous. It leads to a cytokine storm and is the reason so many young people died in the 1918 epidemic.

And yes, as PP has said, having flu tells you nothing about your symtoms. I have tested positive for flu and been completely asymptomatic, and you can also have mild cold symptoms. Getting the vaccine is not only because it can be bad, but also because it can be mild and without knowing what you have you can pass it on to elderly relatives and infants etc.

itsthetea · 02/12/2025 15:24

i used to get flu when younger and it floored me for a month at a time

i take the jag

Doyouthinktheyknow · 02/12/2025 15:30

Had mine. I’m a mental health nurse working in a general hospital and A&E so need all the help I can get! 😷

Alittlefrustrated · 02/12/2025 15:30

This is only the second year I haven't had it - retired from NHS, where we were more or less forced to have both flu and covid vaccines (not that I minded).
I don't qualify for NHS now.
My DP and DS have had the jab/spray. They are both laid low with flu symptoms at the moment. I presume it's some other virus going round. I can't afgord to catch it, I've got a really busy week!

ghostyslovesheets · 02/12/2025 15:31

Yep had mine in September

caringcarer · 02/12/2025 15:40

I already had mine on early October as I'm asthmatic.

hennipenni · 02/12/2025 15:58

I will be having both Flu and covid vaccines, I’m immunocompromised due to having had a bone marrow transplant 3 months ago so complications from either virus could end badly for me.

Oioiqueen · 02/12/2025 16:00

Had mine in October. I'm eligible as DH is immunosuppressed. Our doctors surgery won't do mine so I just book it at Boots on a day off. Kids have the injection at school. We managed to time it so that we all had the jab within a day of each other.

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Choux · 02/12/2025 16:05

Can those of you who have paid to have one in the last couple of weeks advise where they got it. I forgot to get one in the autumn and am struggling to find national chains still doing them in my area. Perhaps I need to pop into a local independent chemist?

Funnywonder · 02/12/2025 16:06

I had mine last week. My son is immunosuppressed and, due to mental health issues, won’t be able to have the vaccine himself. So if the rest of us have had it, he’s a bit less likely to become ill.

Cheshire71 · 02/12/2025 16:13

Had mine a month ago

tinyspiny · 02/12/2025 16:15

We had ours in October . I’ve had proper flu once and lost about 3 days and I also had swine flu when it went round and that made me really ill , although the antivirals made me feel worse .

Boomer55 · 02/12/2025 16:15

MzGG · 02/12/2025 11:10

My GP surgery has text me to inform me that I’m duet flu vaccine. I’m going to book myself in.

Will you be having one too?

Nope. Not interested.

OtherS · 02/12/2025 16:21

I was away when they were released, but it was the very first thing I did when I got home, even before going shopping. I had flu a few years ago and ended up in hospital barely able to breathe, then a few months later my lower body went numb. Turns out I'd developed multiple sclerosis, which is often (usually, I believe) kicked off by a virus. I was 29, very fit and very healthy. I now have days when I struggle to get out of bed. Understandably, I am now absolutely terrified of flu as it could cause me to relapse, so wouldn't consider socialising with anyone who hadn't had a jab.

For those people who don't bother as they don't get ill; firstly, that was once me and now look, and secondly, you can still be carrying the virus and passing it on to people who do get ill. Please, please, please get the jab - it literally saves lives.

ChristmasMantleStatue · 02/12/2025 16:25

I had mine last week- much later than usual.

The last time I had flu was in 2018. I lost my hearing in one ear and it's never returned.

Funnywonder · 02/12/2025 16:40

People talking about ‘proper’ flu - you do realise you can have ‘proper’ flu with very few symptoms or no symptoms? You never forget a bad bout though. It’s horrific.

unsync · 02/12/2025 16:42

Had mine in October.

TimeForATerf · 02/12/2025 16:44

I’m not entitled to a free one as I don’t have any medical issues and am in my fifties, I paid for one about two months ago in Tesco, think it was about £18. My employer used to pay for them but I’m retired now so happy to fund it.

TubeScreamer · 02/12/2025 17:06

Choux · 02/12/2025 16:05

Can those of you who have paid to have one in the last couple of weeks advise where they got it. I forgot to get one in the autumn and am struggling to find national chains still doing them in my area. Perhaps I need to pop into a local independent chemist?

Local independent pharmacy

ChristmasMantleStatue · 02/12/2025 17:10

I got mine at a local independent pharmacy. It cost £19.99. I'm actually eligible for a free one at the medical centre, but this one is more convenient and the pharmacist is an absolute genius with jabs- I can't even feel the 'sharp scratch' that they always tell you to expect. Grin