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Working families £18k worse off than benefits claimants after budget

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shoelances · 30/11/2025 23:14

This is madness. Can the last taxpayer in the UK please close the door behind them.

www.msn.com/en-gb/money/other/households-on-handouts-to-be-18-000-better-off-than-families-on-modest-wages/ar-AA1RqxlQ

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Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:20

JenniferBooth · 02/12/2025 17:11

So is childcare so surely if its ok to put the elderly at risk by forcing ppl to do the job who really dont want to do it then its ok to do that to other groups no? Why should it only be the elderly who should be potential collateral damage?

They should be forced to do any work that is going. Too many people take the piss out of their fellow citizens coming up with reason why they can't work. Half benefits and I bet these roles would be filled within a month.

UserFront242 · 02/12/2025 17:21

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:18

The young men who could aren't doing it because it is easy to collect the dole and play on a X box.

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Picking veg does not pay NMW, and you are homeless when the season is over.
Brexit is what is to blame for crops going unpicked, not young men playing XBox at home.

dreamiesformolly · 02/12/2025 17:22

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:20

They should be forced to do any work that is going. Too many people take the piss out of their fellow citizens coming up with reason why they can't work. Half benefits and I bet these roles would be filled within a month.

Sources?

Southernecho · 02/12/2025 17:24

Marshmallow4545 · 02/12/2025 16:05

I don't think it's a terms and conditions issue. People have used the analogy of hospitality and I think it's fair in terms of zero hour contracts, antisocial hours and low pay. There are still lots of people willing to work in the sector because it's intrinsically more desirable work. I would choose a job in a restaurant over a care home any day of the week. Most people would. That's the problem we have. The work is undesirable yet hugely in demand. We do need to effectively push people into the sector.

It was easy to sponsor someone from abroad to come and work in care in the UK. You didn't need any evidence that they were particularly good at the role or had a specific skillset. Since July rules have been tightened though so we will see where that takes us when we can no longer import our carers and need to rely on our own population to care for our vulnerable people. I still stand by the fact that nobody will do these undesirable jobs unless they are incentivised sufficiently. This will involve some carrot but also a lot of stick. It's too easy now just to choose to stay on benefits and not work.

Have you ever been involved with the long term unemployed?

Many are unemployable and their number is about 300k, the rest of the 1.6m are churn, short term.

My DD was a carer when she was at Uni, its a complex job, often involving handing out the clients meds & in the community, usually requires a car, which rules out huge numbers of the unemployed.

The main requirement is empathy, which vast numbers don't have (as can be seen on many MN threads) followed by literacy skills, again, many long term employed don't have this.

Tories managed to get huge numbers to leave the sector (vaccines) and many more have left to work in higher paid roles, even in supermarkets.

The Indians and Africans who have come here to look after my neighbour, don't stay, the many Indian women i've met, have all gone home/left care, they simply couldn't live on the money they were earning, same with the African men.

Her care is now done by crisis teams directly employed by the NHS.

Forcing people who are unsuited to care roles, is a quick way to wreck the morale of those who don't want to be in the sector, no one enjoys working with people they would literally have to clean up after.

JenniferBooth · 02/12/2025 17:25

UserFront242 · 02/12/2025 15:20

A few posters have said that part time working should not be allowed, but your point proves that part time is sometimes all there is available, be it due to caring responsibilities or the nature of the job.

If you are in a job where you don't know what hours you are doing week to week, you can't get another that slots around your non-existent rota. So you end up doing less hours (but still have to put your life on hold in case more hours are offered), get a UC top up, and then get berated on here for being lazy and not working more.

And if you are feeling ill and need a GP appointment how do you know when to book one. You would have to cancel if work decided they need you Rinse and repeat then you could get worse and end up in A and E

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:25

dreamiesformolly · 02/12/2025 17:22

Sources?

It is my thoughts and lived experience. I have come across lots of people who would take a job if the government didn't give them a comfortable enough live.

dreamiesformolly · 02/12/2025 17:27

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:25

It is my thoughts and lived experience. I have come across lots of people who would take a job if the government didn't give them a comfortable enough live.

Ah, OK. The good old 'thoughts and lived experience.'

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:29

dreamiesformolly · 02/12/2025 17:27

Ah, OK. The good old 'thoughts and lived experience.'

The government should test it. Half benefits in April and watch the vacancies disappear. We used to be a nation of shop keepers now we are a nation of piss takers.

UserFront242 · 02/12/2025 17:30

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:29

The government should test it. Half benefits in April and watch the vacancies disappear. We used to be a nation of shop keepers now we are a nation of piss takers.

THERE ARE NOT ENOUGH JOBS

Novemberstorm · 02/12/2025 17:31

Benjithedog · 02/12/2025 17:01

I’m sorry but that’s laughable. You have a duty to try to support yourself and your family it’s not up to the Taxpayer to pay you to stay at home. . Most taxpayers would not have an issue with helping to support those in full time work and on a low wage. I certainly have no problem with it. They are contributing. And once the children are in school that wage becomes their own apart from taxes. But there’s a common thread again running through this it’s mums, mums, mums. Where are the FATHERS who should be supporting their children? It may not be a popular fact but the reason why children live in poverty is because the FATHERS don’t contribute to their children l’a upbringing This is the real problem and that is not the fault of the taxpayer

Aside from errant fathers there seems to be many men who are not prepared to provide for their family and put in the work/ extra hours. Years ago men knew what was expected of them. Of course there are still good men, and well done to them. They are true diamonds.

Feminism allowed this to happen to some extent by shifting responsibility away from men.

JenniferBooth · 02/12/2025 17:32

phantomofthepopera · 02/12/2025 16:49

What people are failing to grasp is that it would cost the taxpayer even MORE if we forced Mums back into work. A mother with two kids pre school-age in my area, paying £1000 a month in private rent would get £1580.76 a month UC. I think we can all agree that would be a pitiful existence raising two children on £500 a month after rental costs for all bills, food and living costs.

If the same Mum worked 16 hours a week, she’d pay no tax. Assuming p/t childcare for both children was £600 for each, she would earn £880 a month in wages and get £2342.23 in UC. Total income after rent and childcare is £1022, so over £500 better off than not working.

If she worked full time, and the children were in full time nursery (£1200 a month each) she’d earn £2037 and pay £270 tax/NI. She’d get £2607.70 in UC and take home £1760 in wages. After rent and childcare she’d have £967 left to live on.

So not only is she worse off after childcare is paid than working part-time, it also costs the taxpayer more for her to go to work full-time.

I think we’d be cutting our noses off to spite our faces if we were to force mothers with young children into full time work. She would suffer, her children would suffer, and the taxpayer would suffer. But maybe some pps would be happy to pay extra taxes to support it just out of jealousy. And if they think someone is getting something they’re not, they can always stop work and try and run a home and raise 2 children on £500 a month.

Thats because its not about money Its about ideology and the perception that someone elses life is easier because they dont work,

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:32

UserFront242 · 02/12/2025 17:30

THERE ARE NOT ENOUGH JOBS

No need to shout. There are loads of jobs people just don't want to do them. They don't want to do them because they can sit at home and live a comfortable life as a piss taker.

Frequency · 02/12/2025 17:34

Halve benefits in April and watch the number of sex workers triple, crime rates skyrocket, addiction rates double as people's mental health spirals, and your local park turn into a tent city.

Novemberstorm · 02/12/2025 17:36

Housing benefit needs to be cut. Painful at first but ultimately it will educate people to make wiser decisions.

UserFront242 · 02/12/2025 17:38

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:32

No need to shout. There are loads of jobs people just don't want to do them. They don't want to do them because they can sit at home and live a comfortable life as a piss taker.

I am shouting because no one listens.
There are 2.4 jobseekers for every vacancy. There are not enough jobs for everyone to be employed.
No one lives a comfortable life on jobseekers. It is £400pm, even less if you are a younger adult. The incentive to find a job is already there. Being broke is stressful and no way to live.

Frequency · 02/12/2025 17:38

Novemberstorm · 02/12/2025 17:36

Housing benefit needs to be cut. Painful at first but ultimately it will educate people to make wiser decisions.

Alternatively, you could cap private rents. Same benefit to the taxpayer but without the massive rise in sex work, addiction, crime, and homelessness.

JenniferBooth · 02/12/2025 17:39

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 16:53

What on earth has that response got to do with my post? Maybe walk away from Siri for a bit?

You said ppl could pick veg. Picking veg is usually a live away from home job.
With me so far??
It will be mostly ppl on UC expected to do this,You said it yourself and/or ppl who live in social housing. And ive explained why ppl in SH cant live away from home to do it Its them who will be expected to but rules and those pesky tenancy agreements mean they cant. Is that clear enough??????????????

UserFront242 · 02/12/2025 17:39

Frequency · 02/12/2025 17:34

Halve benefits in April and watch the number of sex workers triple, crime rates skyrocket, addiction rates double as people's mental health spirals, and your local park turn into a tent city.

Hey, I guess some people here will say sex work is still work. A job is a job.

Benjithedog · 02/12/2025 17:39

Frequency · 02/12/2025 17:34

Halve benefits in April and watch the number of sex workers triple, crime rates skyrocket, addiction rates double as people's mental health spirals, and your local park turn into a tent city.

Yet another excuse. Let’s carry on then and bankrupt the country anything but have people’s mental health affected.

Fearfulsaints · 02/12/2025 17:40

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:32

No need to shout. There are loads of jobs people just don't want to do them. They don't want to do them because they can sit at home and live a comfortable life as a piss taker.

There are 723,000 job vacancies and apparently 11 million people not working for whatever reason. Although I think only 1.7 million are looking for work.

UserFront242 · 02/12/2025 17:40

Novemberstorm · 02/12/2025 17:36

Housing benefit needs to be cut. Painful at first but ultimately it will educate people to make wiser decisions.

Yes, I am certain people would have just chosen not to become ill/disabled/suddenly single.

UserFront242 · 02/12/2025 17:41

Benjithedog · 02/12/2025 17:39

Yet another excuse. Let’s carry on then and bankrupt the country anything but have people’s mental health affected.

Mental health matters.

Frequency · 02/12/2025 17:42

Benjithedog · 02/12/2025 17:39

Yet another excuse. Let’s carry on then and bankrupt the country anything but have people’s mental health affected.

You're okay with sex work, homelessness, and crime then? As long as people don't get depressed or anxious?

dreamiesformolly · 02/12/2025 17:42

Bumblebee72 · 02/12/2025 17:29

The government should test it. Half benefits in April and watch the vacancies disappear. We used to be a nation of shop keepers now we are a nation of piss takers.

Yeah, you'll have to excuse me if I decide to not subscribe to your little thought experiment.

Halve benefits in April and the food banks won't be able to cope. Starvation will increase. Children will suffer. Watch the suicide rates go up and the NHS be stretched even further with the consequences of extreme starvation and general poverty-driven ill health.

All this in a so-called developed nation. Great plan. But hey, so long as you can sit back and feel not a penny is going to the so-called undeserving, eh?

Benjithedog · 02/12/2025 17:43

Frequency · 02/12/2025 17:42

You're okay with sex work, homelessness, and crime then? As long as people don't get depressed or anxious?

It’s called taking responsibility for yourselves rather than expect the taxpayer to pay for everything