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To think I am being stalked by benefit fraud people?

128 replies

Secretnamechange123 · 27/11/2025 16:00

No. I don’t take any recreational drugs, I’m not schizophrenic, I don’t hear voices and I am not being paranoid. Just thought I’d clear that up.

For the last few weeks down my road there’s been a few different cars turn up every morning and stays until later afternoon. The driver almost always stays in the car.

i am a genuine benefits receiver and I need assistance to move, so they won’t catch me wandering the streets, or popping out shopping/gym, unless I have available help, which is possibly once a month. Yes, for a whole month I am stuck inside. They would have seen my meds turn up in a boots pharmacy van, my shopping delivered which is usually time when my neighbours are home to help me. I live alone, I have no support, I don’t know what they are trying to catch? Their car is very unassuming but I live on a street with mine and my neighbours are attached and no more houses for half a mile.

Theyre not stalking my neighbours because they’re not on benefits, so I am guessing it can only mean it’s for me. I don’t have any criminal background, I basically sit in my house for weeks on end, do you think someone is trying to get me into trouble for no reason?

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 28/11/2025 03:25

I would ask someone to go and ask them what they are doing. It's a reasonable question when they are hanging about so much. Do you have a street Whatsapp?

TeenageSu1cideDontDoit · 28/11/2025 04:09

Barney16 · 27/11/2025 16:44

I would ring 111 and report them if it's worrying you.. Some random sat out side my house for ages once and I went out and asked what he was doing, he said his nan used to live in my house which was theoretically possible but he quickly drove off. Could your neighbour challenge him for you?

I don’t think the NHS can do anything about people sitting in their cars outside someone’s house.

Catwalking · 28/11/2025 06:45

sorry if some1’s said this already, i’ve only just seen this post ( no time to read all)
Checkout the reg no”s of the cars online, see if mot’s are up-to-date etc.

also report same to the police? Police can only build complete picture if there are reports from a collection of sources.

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