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To think all schools should teach children the old traditional hymns

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Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 13:44

Just switching between channels and Songs of Praise came on. It was a run down of the most popular school hymns.complete with recorders It brought back many memories and how important communal singing is. It doesn’t matter what your religion is, everyone should know the most popular hymns as a way of uniting society.

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bemoresloth · 23/11/2025 15:39

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:34

Yes, it can be quite difficult getting a hotel room over the Christmas period.

Maybe you need to read a bit more about Christianity if that is your interpretation.

OttersMayHaveShifted · 23/11/2025 15:40

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:35

I read it as that.

You can be educated about religious faiths without being made to participate in their rituals and festivities. You are being disingenuous - you know full well that nobody said that they didn't want children to be educated. It is beginning to sound as though what you want is not for them to be educated but converted, or at least moulded in British Christian culture.

ilovesooty · 23/11/2025 15:40

pointythings · 23/11/2025 15:36

Well, there's this thing called 'conversation' where people talk to each other at home. So no hymns required.

I wonder why you are so obsessed with hymns, which are inherently Christian, and why you seem to be completely unaware of the existence of folk songs, which would absolutely serve the same purpose? I agree with the benefits of communal singing, by the way - the research on it is pretty clear, and I was working in mental health research at the time the first studies into it kicked off.

But my DS, who has depression, is in a choir. It has benefited him. And they sing a couple of religious items as part of their repertoire, but they also sing ABBA classics (arguably a part of British cultural capital), folk tunes and old school protest songs.

So instead of obsessing about hymns, we could go with 'Blowing in the Wind', 'The Skye Boat Song', 'Scarborough Fair', 'Greensleeves', 'Drunken Sailor' and any one of hundreds more.

When it comes to the Remembrance season, schools intending to sing at memorial services could do this thing called 'learning a song, and rehearsing it, then performing it'.

Your idea that religion and religious songs could in any way be a uniting force is fully ridiculous. Religion is being used to divide right now and we should not fuel that fire.

I'm glad your DS has benefited.
However I don't think the OP is particularly interested in the benefits of communal singing. She is pretty evidently opposed to multiculturism.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 23/11/2025 15:40

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:37

Interesting, you also seem to be seeing what you want to see

No, I see what I see. I don't believe that you're as obtuse as you are pretending to be.

Dymaxion · 23/11/2025 15:40

@NormasArse I think it might have done , the teacher who used to do singing was quite traditional , so we only got to sing obladi when we had a supply, used to make us all giggle , us belting it out in a broad yorkshire accent !

ilovesooty · 23/11/2025 15:41

SeaAndStars · 23/11/2025 15:38

Now we get to it.

Yes. It took some time.

taxguru · 23/11/2025 15:43

strangetimesbelow · 23/11/2025 13:54

No. As a child in the 70s and 80s we were dragged to church, sat in assemblies and made to perform. I see no benefit of communal singing at all. Most friends that I have feel the same way I never made my kids do this while at school. We are all just fine.

Ditto here too. I hated it and gained no benefit at all from communal singing. Luckily I've managed to avoid it in adult life too.

pointythings · 23/11/2025 15:43

SeaAndStars · 23/11/2025 15:38

Now we get to it.

Yep. Bring back indoctrination. Make Britain Christian again. The very last thing we need.

RedTagAlan · 23/11/2025 15:44

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:22

So you don’t want your kids to know why we celebrate Christmas?

Some God sends a fella named Gabriel to a young woman, a virgin, who is engaged to someone else, and tells her, " Get ready my boss wants to impregnate you".

Then this boss fella comes down and somehow impregnates her.

The kid is passed off as someone else's, and a few years later the real dad comes back and organizes for his kid to be tortured and executed ?

Nah.

She likes presents though :-)

But sing about it ? Nah.

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:46

SeaAndStars · 23/11/2025 15:38

Now we get to it.

Get to what exactly- is this another numbers puzzle🤣🤣🤣

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PenelopeSkye · 23/11/2025 15:47

The first time I went to a school assembly as an adult, some 30 years after leaving primary school myself, I felt an overwhelming nostalgia when I heard the school singing ‘Autumn Days’.

Community and togetherness can be so hard to find these days. It’s not even like in the 90s when everyone watched the same TV and talked about it, because there just wasn’t much choice. I think it’s lovely that my children are learning the same hymns that I sang in the 80s. They do also sing other more modern songs that aren’t religious, that I also love.

I get communal singing isn’t for everyone, nothing is, but I adore it, it stirs something in me that I can’t even quite explain. It’s the same as Christmas- going down to the tree in the village and all singing the familiar carols with the rest of the community, the same songs you know will have been sung for years, it just brings everyone together and somehow makes me feel part of something bigger than just my nuclear family and modern life.

ilovesooty · 23/11/2025 15:48

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:46

Get to what exactly- is this another numbers puzzle🤣🤣🤣

I'm sure you understand. I've stated it quite explicitly.

SeaAndStars · 23/11/2025 15:48

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:46

Get to what exactly- is this another numbers puzzle🤣🤣🤣

Haven't you got a roundabout to paint?

PurpleThistle7 · 23/11/2025 15:49

I immigrated to Scotland from the states about 20 years ago and my kids were born here. There’s separation of church and state where I grew up so I was very surprised when my (Jewish) daughter came home singing a song about how baby Jesus loved her. Obviously well aware I chose to move to a Christian country and have (almost) never pulled my kids out of anything - they did the nativities and coloured the Easter story and all sorts. But I did pull them from the assembly run by the school prayer group and I’d pull them from communal Christian singing as well. Too many of the songs speak about ‘us’ and they aren’t Christian so it feels like lying to me. But that’s possibly because I’m both an immigrant and a minor religion so have no cultural connection to the music at all.

They have a weekly assembly and do some singing (much to my son’s disgust, he hates singing) but it’s mostly Fischy music stuff about sharing or friends or recycling or something like that.

Augarden · 23/11/2025 15:54

I agree, it's part of our cultural heritage, whether you actually are a believer or not. And yes, communal singing has proven benefits regardless of how some posters felt bored in assembly 😂

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:55

PenelopeSkye · 23/11/2025 15:47

The first time I went to a school assembly as an adult, some 30 years after leaving primary school myself, I felt an overwhelming nostalgia when I heard the school singing ‘Autumn Days’.

Community and togetherness can be so hard to find these days. It’s not even like in the 90s when everyone watched the same TV and talked about it, because there just wasn’t much choice. I think it’s lovely that my children are learning the same hymns that I sang in the 80s. They do also sing other more modern songs that aren’t religious, that I also love.

I get communal singing isn’t for everyone, nothing is, but I adore it, it stirs something in me that I can’t even quite explain. It’s the same as Christmas- going down to the tree in the village and all singing the familiar carols with the rest of the community, the same songs you know will have been sung for years, it just brings everyone together and somehow makes me feel part of something bigger than just my nuclear family and modern life.

This exactly. Unfortunately the Humanist Society get triggered at the mere mention of Christianity.

it’s everyone in society being able to know the same songs to sing at the same events. As our history and traditions are largely Christian so are the related songs

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Completelybatshit · 23/11/2025 15:55

I’m not sure why you’ve posted on here, you aren’t open to even considering opinions that differ with yours, particularly the idea that the UK is no longer culturally based in Christianity.

Figcherry · 23/11/2025 15:55

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 13:54

I’m not Christian and wouldn’t call it forcing Christianity on anyone. We are a culturally Christian society, the idea is that all kinds know the same songs. When I was a kid, any child would be able to sing All things Bright and beautiful etc

All Things Bright and Beautiful is not a hymn.

Justchillinhere · 23/11/2025 15:56

People do know how to search you tube "old traditional hyms, Scotland England Uk "they can have a sing song at church, home wherever. Its choice, remember singing three craws, thats a classic! Everything changes with time

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:58

PurpleThistle7 · 23/11/2025 15:49

I immigrated to Scotland from the states about 20 years ago and my kids were born here. There’s separation of church and state where I grew up so I was very surprised when my (Jewish) daughter came home singing a song about how baby Jesus loved her. Obviously well aware I chose to move to a Christian country and have (almost) never pulled my kids out of anything - they did the nativities and coloured the Easter story and all sorts. But I did pull them from the assembly run by the school prayer group and I’d pull them from communal Christian singing as well. Too many of the songs speak about ‘us’ and they aren’t Christian so it feels like lying to me. But that’s possibly because I’m both an immigrant and a minor religion so have no cultural connection to the music at all.

They have a weekly assembly and do some singing (much to my son’s disgust, he hates singing) but it’s mostly Fischy music stuff about sharing or friends or recycling or something like that.

But surely, living in another country and your kids being born in that country it’s important for them to become connected to that culture to integrate.

An interesting take for a Jewish person on Jesus though.

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Christmascarrotjumper · 23/11/2025 15:59

Figcherry · 23/11/2025 15:55

All Things Bright and Beautiful is not a hymn.

Of course it is

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 16:00

Figcherry · 23/11/2025 15:55

All Things Bright and Beautiful is not a hymn.

Its first publication was in a book of hymns for children in the mid 19th century - I’ll take that’s as a hymn

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Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 16:00

Justchillinhere · 23/11/2025 15:56

People do know how to search you tube "old traditional hyms, Scotland England Uk "they can have a sing song at church, home wherever. Its choice, remember singing three craws, thats a classic! Everything changes with time

And what’s that got to do with the question

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Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 16:01

Completelybatshit · 23/11/2025 15:55

I’m not sure why you’ve posted on here, you aren’t open to even considering opinions that differ with yours, particularly the idea that the UK is no longer culturally based in Christianity.

im not required to consider something factually incorrect

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RedTagAlan · 23/11/2025 16:03

Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 15:58

But surely, living in another country and your kids being born in that country it’s important for them to become connected to that culture to integrate.

An interesting take for a Jewish person on Jesus though.

I don't get this "integrate" thing.

Is it not really assimilation ?

Why can't we just be different ? Why force conformity?

For sure, the same laws are for everyone, but why culture too?

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