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To think that contestants should be banned from telling us their sob stories on game shows?

177 replies

mumofoneAloneandwell · 22/11/2025 20:21

You Know Yes GIF

Now i am secretly rooting for the other person to beat you 😬

Bring back contestants who want the money for a boob job!

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Pushmepullu · 23/11/2025 10:11

The Wheel drives me mad, husband insists on watching it. There’s the overly effeminate/ gay contestant, there’s the disabled contestant and there’s the contestant from a different culture. All with a sob story that tugs at the celebrities heart strings. They all want to take the wider family on holiday to an expensive location, or ‘back home’ and put down a deposit on a house. How much do they think it’ll cost to take 22 people to Disney? Don’t think they’ll be much left for a deposit on a car let alone a house.

iSage · 23/11/2025 10:12

MinnieCauldwell · 23/11/2025 09:57

Judith Keppel is the cousin of Queen Camilla, they have quite a resemblance.

Judith Keppel does have amazing general knowledge/deductive reasoning skills - I used to watch 'Eggheads' and she hardly ever got a question wrong.

It would be interesting to see how Queen Camilla would fare on a quiz show. She left school with one O Level but apparently she's been an avid reader all her life, so I think she'd do OK. It's surprising how much random general knowledge you can amass just by reading, even things that don't interest you, you remember because it was mentioned in a novel you enjoyed 20 years ago.

ChopstickNovice · 23/11/2025 10:13

Bruisername · 22/11/2025 20:41

DD(15) and I have a running joke that whenever something bad happens to us ‘it’s our story for x factor’

oh Simon, a few months ago I stubbed my toe and then the dog had to go to the vet and we thought he might have cancer but he didn’t in the end and then someone stole our wheelie bin’

I laughed out loud at this

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 23/11/2025 10:15

SchnizelVonKrumm · 23/11/2025 07:46

The Repair Shop is the worst for this. If the item meant that much to you, why was it left in the shed to go mouldy? The ones that annoy me are where the sob story is basically that Grandad was in the armed forces in WW2. Yeah, him and every other man of that generation mate 🙄

I suppose "we've never had the heart to throw this out because it was once lovely but we haven't been able to afford to get it fixed/find someone who could do it" doesn't sound as good 😅

I'm sure people make those stories up. You clearly don't get your object accepted for repair unless there's a good story behind it, and if you can possibly drag in an elderly relative or a winsome child at collection time, so much the better.

Bruisername · 23/11/2025 10:15

ChopstickNovice · 23/11/2025 10:13

I laughed out loud at this

it lightens a bad moment tbf - DD has had a really tough year and whenever the next bit of bad news drops we’ll say ‘ah well, something else for the X factor list - now you just need some singing lessons’

lemonraspberry · 23/11/2025 10:15

Theunamedcat · 23/11/2025 10:05

Gareth gates might have lost anyway to will young but he wouldn't have lost so significantly had will not suddenly confirmed he was gay before the final suddenly its not about the singing

Wasnt there a big brother contestant who wanted to send a neighbour to America for heart surgery? He went from being behind to winning (i dont mind this one he was a winner either way because the public would have rallied if he lost guaranteed)

So many sobbing stories these days

The first big brother winner is who you are thinking of. But he only revealed what he was going to do with the money after he had won the competition. He became a favourite & won it because he was the one who challenged nasty nick who was trying to rig the voting.

Bruisername · 23/11/2025 10:17

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 23/11/2025 10:15

I'm sure people make those stories up. You clearly don't get your object accepted for repair unless there's a good story behind it, and if you can possibly drag in an elderly relative or a winsome child at collection time, so much the better.

Yes it’s never ‘ah this is an original steiff bear from early twentieth century Germany. My great grandfather who it belonged to was a leading Nazi but we would love to have it restored so we can remember his more innocent days’

iSage · 23/11/2025 10:21

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 23/11/2025 10:15

I'm sure people make those stories up. You clearly don't get your object accepted for repair unless there's a good story behind it, and if you can possibly drag in an elderly relative or a winsome child at collection time, so much the better.

My repair shop story, were I ever to go on it.

"Well, I bought it on a whim from eBay for £20 about 10 years ago and it sort of worked, then my husband tried to fix it using WD40 and completely broke it and since then it's been gathering dust on top of the wardrobe and I think about getting it properly repaired from time to time but I can't really be arsed."

mumofoneAloneandwell · 23/11/2025 10:22

Bruisername · 23/11/2025 10:17

Yes it’s never ‘ah this is an original steiff bear from early twentieth century Germany. My great grandfather who it belonged to was a leading Nazi but we would love to have it restored so we can remember his more innocent days’

😄

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x2boys · 23/11/2025 10:23

iSage · 23/11/2025 10:12

Judith Keppel does have amazing general knowledge/deductive reasoning skills - I used to watch 'Eggheads' and she hardly ever got a question wrong.

It would be interesting to see how Queen Camilla would fare on a quiz show. She left school with one O Level but apparently she's been an avid reader all her life, so I think she'd do OK. It's surprising how much random general knowledge you can amass just by reading, even things that don't interest you, you remember because it was mentioned in a novel you enjoyed 20 years ago.

Absolutely, my general knowledge is good becsuse of this
I was an average student ,not highly academic
But I know all kinds of random facts, becsuse I always enjoyed reading
Often I dont know where I know stuff from.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 10:32

RightOnTheEdge · 23/11/2025 09:50

Judith Keppel on Who Wants To Be A Millionaire.

I think that her being already well off maybe did give her an advantage in that it would make it easier to gamble if you are not 100% sure of the the answer but are fairly sure, where someone who's life could be changed by a few thousand might opt to take the money.

I agree with you thiugh that people who complain it's not fair are ridiculous. It's a competition and she won fair and square. It was also exciting and great tv to see someone go all the way!

I saw a clickbaity-type article the other day about how Judith says she hasn't spent any of the money - except maybe treating herself to a celebratory Gregg's steak bake or something (posh equivalent!)

It was all about how wise and amazingly sensible she is, but to me, it just underlines that she was already wealthy and didn't need the money anyway. You'd hardly call somebody foolish for winning a million and spending a third or half of it on a decent mortgage-free family house, would you?

I know there's no law against rich people winning, but it does seem a huge shame when, instead of absolutely transforming somebody's life for the better, a big win will just mean having their accountant shuffle a few figures on the balance sheet of their personal wealth portfolio.

I was a contestant on a radio gameshow with a £1m prize, and the woman who won the million later appeared on The Weakest Link, where she won a few thousand. As it had been on the radio, her face obviously wasn't well-known to the general public. She had every right to enter and win, of course; but I was watching hoping that somebody else who actually needed the money would win instead of her!

Zov · 23/11/2025 10:33

mumofoneAloneandwell · 22/11/2025 20:42

😄😄😄

I'm obsessed with the idea of him stressing trying to thinking of something bad thats happened to him and that having to do

Edited

😆 I know right!

Thing, apart from 93 year old Grandad George dying, you get George's whole life story too, and told what a legend he was and what a hero he was, and how all the young 'uns in the family looked up to him, and aspired to be like him.

All their family parties would have been damp squibs without him, and he lit up every room he walked into. I salute you George, you were an icon. <<<sobs>>> 😖

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 10:38

lemonraspberry · 23/11/2025 10:15

The first big brother winner is who you are thinking of. But he only revealed what he was going to do with the money after he had won the competition. He became a favourite & won it because he was the one who challenged nasty nick who was trying to rig the voting.

Craig Phillips - he went on to have a reasonable TV career in DIY shows (he was a tradie, wasn't he?). He seemed a really nice guy, so good for him.

We used to enjoy Big Brother at the beginning, when it was just ordinary people in an extraordinary situation, but they pushed it further and further - first going for flamboyant, overdramatic, performative types; then moving on to people who seemed very mentally unstable and absolutely should not have been paraded on TV for everybody to mock and judge them.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 10:42

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 23/11/2025 10:15

I'm sure people make those stories up. You clearly don't get your object accepted for repair unless there's a good story behind it, and if you can possibly drag in an elderly relative or a winsome child at collection time, so much the better.

I always wonder how many of the people will be truly overwhelmed with joy to have such a precious family treasure (which coincidentally happens to have a high open-market value too) restored and back in their lives again... and then stick it straight on eBay as soon as the camera crew has left.

Zov · 23/11/2025 10:46

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 09:20

Oh, that drives me insane on Who Wants To Be A Millionaire, when they ruminate self-indulgently at length over the ridiculously easy starter questions, in some kind of attempt to show how smart they are, and how brilliant their reasoning skills.

By all means spend time carefully considering and logically thinking through the options for the genuinely difficult questions that can win you life-changing money; but nobody cares about you tediously drawing out (with anecdotes and personal experience) why it simply can't be any of the other possibilities for "How many wheels does a tricycle have?" to win £100.

I have actually stopped watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire now, because of the tedious and boring ramblings of the contestants, going through every one of the four fecking answers, and explaining in fine detail why that was isn't the answer, and THAT one isn't the answer, and THAT one isn't the answer, so it must be THAT one blah blah blah fucking BLAH. You know the answer, just say it you boring twat! Hmm

On some of the 'episodes' one single contestant would be on for 40 minutes! Because they chatted sooooooo much shit about the answers. They often blathered on and on about all the places they have travelled too, in order to get to the answer!

MaturingCheeseball · 23/11/2025 10:46

Yes, the first BBs were really good.

The “sad back story” is even in job applications. Dd threw in the towel with one application: long list of victim tick boxes with plus/minus points. But then to top it all off was a final section asking if the candidate had any challenging stories to tell them. I can’t imagine what the HR dept was thinking - they’ve obviously watched too many game shows!

x2boys · 23/11/2025 10:49

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 10:38

Craig Phillips - he went on to have a reasonable TV career in DIY shows (he was a tradie, wasn't he?). He seemed a really nice guy, so good for him.

We used to enjoy Big Brother at the beginning, when it was just ordinary people in an extraordinary situation, but they pushed it further and further - first going for flamboyant, overdramatic, performative types; then moving on to people who seemed very mentally unstable and absolutely should not have been paraded on TV for everybody to mock and judge them.

As an aside I was once watching Stephan Graham on a Talk show ,he was talking about one of dramas he had appeared in
And he said he got talking to an extra who informed him she had always like him since he had won Big Brother ,she had mixed him up with Craig Phillips 😂😅

Isittimeformynapyet · 23/11/2025 10:50

MinnieCauldwell · 22/11/2025 21:02

The Wheel, The Despair Shop and bloody Strictly with the the fucking dead Nana stories and how they must honour them by getting to sodding Blackpool. I just FF or mute now.

Thank you for The Despair Shop 😂

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 10:56

MaturingCheeseball · 23/11/2025 10:46

Yes, the first BBs were really good.

The “sad back story” is even in job applications. Dd threw in the towel with one application: long list of victim tick boxes with plus/minus points. But then to top it all off was a final section asking if the candidate had any challenging stories to tell them. I can’t imagine what the HR dept was thinking - they’ve obviously watched too many game shows!

I'd have given them that old Boswell 'riddle' from the thread a few years back - it certainly 'challenged' a fair few of us on here to be tearing our hair out and begging for mercy.

MaturingCheeseball · 23/11/2025 10:59

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 10:56

I'd have given them that old Boswell 'riddle' from the thread a few years back - it certainly 'challenged' a fair few of us on here to be tearing our hair out and begging for mercy.

Whassat then? Sounds intriguing…

RJ2023 · 23/11/2025 11:08

When they do the interviews on The Apprentice I've noticed that the only purpose of one of the female interviewers is to make the candidates cry. She does it to every candidate every year and it drives me nuts.

Interviewer: "So I heard your cat was run over by a bus a couple of weeks ago. What do you think it would mean for little Leo if you were to win?"

The interviews used to be the best episode but I can't watch it.

iSage · 23/11/2025 11:09

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 10:56

I'd have given them that old Boswell 'riddle' from the thread a few years back - it certainly 'challenged' a fair few of us on here to be tearing our hair out and begging for mercy.

That was because the OP relayed it incorrectly. It was solved when someone came along with the correct wording

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3475828-Did-we-ever-find-out-about-Boswell

Did we ever find out about Boswell? | Mumsnet

'There once was a man called Boswell. For short they called him Bos, and he walked up the post office steps.' Did we ever find out the answer/what t...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3475828-Did-we-ever-find-out-about-Boswell

PaulineMush · 23/11/2025 11:38

MaturingCheeseball · 23/11/2025 10:59

Whassat then? Sounds intriguing…

Don't go there - it really isn't.

Oh, I see that @iSage has posted a link. Grrrrr.

iSage · 23/11/2025 11:43

PaulineMush · 23/11/2025 11:38

Don't go there - it really isn't.

Oh, I see that @iSage has posted a link. Grrrrr.

That's a link to the solution😄You're right it's not particularly exciting, clever or funny as a riddle. Its legendary status on MN is undeserved.

RightOnTheEdge · 23/11/2025 11:51

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 10:32

I saw a clickbaity-type article the other day about how Judith says she hasn't spent any of the money - except maybe treating herself to a celebratory Gregg's steak bake or something (posh equivalent!)

It was all about how wise and amazingly sensible she is, but to me, it just underlines that she was already wealthy and didn't need the money anyway. You'd hardly call somebody foolish for winning a million and spending a third or half of it on a decent mortgage-free family house, would you?

I know there's no law against rich people winning, but it does seem a huge shame when, instead of absolutely transforming somebody's life for the better, a big win will just mean having their accountant shuffle a few figures on the balance sheet of their personal wealth portfolio.

I was a contestant on a radio gameshow with a £1m prize, and the woman who won the million later appeared on The Weakest Link, where she won a few thousand. As it had been on the radio, her face obviously wasn't well-known to the general public. She had every right to enter and win, of course; but I was watching hoping that somebody else who actually needed the money would win instead of her!

I used to be raging when people would win the lottery and then say they were staying in their council house and keeping their ancient car because they don't like to splash out.
It seemed like such a waste when I could have had it 😆🤣🤣
I just try not to read anything about it now.