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To think that contestants should be banned from telling us their sob stories on game shows?

177 replies

mumofoneAloneandwell · 22/11/2025 20:21

You Know Yes GIF

Now i am secretly rooting for the other person to beat you 😬

Bring back contestants who want the money for a boob job!

OP posts:
lemonraspberry · 23/11/2025 11:54

RJ2023 · 23/11/2025 11:08

When they do the interviews on The Apprentice I've noticed that the only purpose of one of the female interviewers is to make the candidates cry. She does it to every candidate every year and it drives me nuts.

Interviewer: "So I heard your cat was run over by a bus a couple of weeks ago. What do you think it would mean for little Leo if you were to win?"

The interviews used to be the best episode but I can't watch it.

I know the one you mean. Seemed to be a bit of good cop vs bad cop (i.e. Linda plant) set up with Claude having the middle ground & mopping up the remains.

I agree the interviews have gone downhill in recent series but in fairness the proposed businesses have been pretty dire, plus most of the contestants have more of a big brother quality about them.

Runlikesomeoneleftgateopen · 23/11/2025 11:57

Definately.
I blame the likes of X factor and BGT.I
We all go through stuff, each and every one of us, that's how life is.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 23/11/2025 12:14

lemonraspberry · 23/11/2025 11:54

I know the one you mean. Seemed to be a bit of good cop vs bad cop (i.e. Linda plant) set up with Claude having the middle ground & mopping up the remains.

I agree the interviews have gone downhill in recent series but in fairness the proposed businesses have been pretty dire, plus most of the contestants have more of a big brother quality about them.

They seem to double up with Karren and Tim as team supervisors, or whatever their official title is.

Surely it can't be accidental that Tim is so nice whilst Karren is... much less so?!

MyThreeWords · 23/11/2025 12:17

Northquit · 23/11/2025 09:31

All the reality shows do it to different levels. Some of them do it nicely. But I'm interested in their sewing or throwing not what their nighty hangs next to on the washing line.

I like the sound of 'Sewing or Throwing'! A show in which sad contestants tell us about their sadness and then are allocated to either sewing a dress or throwing some darts to see which activity draws them more effectively towards cathartic tears of grief-tinged joy (or joy-tinged grief or whatever).

MaturingCheeseball · 23/11/2025 12:23

I remember when Judith Keppel won the million and they were trying to hype it up with, “What will you do with this life-changing sum?!” and she politely responded, “Well, we’ll have a nice Christmas.”

But it’s the same with Pointless: Alexander asks “And what are you going to do with your £1,473 ?” and each of the pair describes how they’re planning a trip to Patagonia, a new kitchen and giving the rest to charity.

x2boys · 23/11/2025 12:23

RightOnTheEdge · 23/11/2025 11:51

I used to be raging when people would win the lottery and then say they were staying in their council house and keeping their ancient car because they don't like to splash out.
It seemed like such a waste when I could have had it 😆🤣🤣
I just try not to read anything about it now.

Lol me too and they were not going to give up their minimum job in a factory getting up at 5am everyday because they enjoyed the work and company
They might splash out on a new tv and week away in Rhyl but that' would be it 🤣

Joalla · 23/11/2025 12:25

Oh my god, yes, I agree so much. I don’t even want to watch Dragons Den any more because of the applicants swimming in self pity and faux heroism.. it’s horrendous. Emotional blackmail, lack of boundaries, sob stories galore.. YUCK! Let’s start a ‘ bring back dignity’ campaign.

fluffiphlox · 23/11/2025 12:26

Yes. I’m with you. Normal life events treated like traumatising catastrophes.

RightOnTheEdge · 23/11/2025 12:45

x2boys · 23/11/2025 12:23

Lol me too and they were not going to give up their minimum job in a factory getting up at 5am everyday because they enjoyed the work and company
They might splash out on a new tv and week away in Rhyl but that' would be it 🤣

😂😂😂

Bruisername · 23/11/2025 12:58

Tbf, the ones who do leave their old life behind and buy a big house etc etc tend to be the ones who end up miserable/divorced/bankrupt

ObelixtheGaul · 23/11/2025 13:40

Even when there isn't a sob story, I am increasingly irritated by the obsession with the contestants' lives. I love Sewing Bee and Pottery Throwdown, but am bored to tears when we get to the final and they pad it out with relatives talking about how amazing the contestant is, etc.

I'm really not interested in how they always loved art at school and made their own clothes at the age of five.

I loved the first series of 'The Piano', and, much as I get the 'healing power of music' theme, it started to irk me that, talented as they were, the ones that got chosen all also had some big backstory of overcoming odds. Of course the little blind girl in series one was absolutely stunning, but some of the decisions definitely felt more as though the judgement wasn't about the playing so much as the importance of the piano to the individual according to the judges.

It was also annoyingly ageist. I think somebody must have said something, because in series two they actually chose an older gentleman, who of course had a dementia story. Dear old John who just loved playing the piano at 70 didn't have a chance against the child prodigy or the attractive 20 - something with mental health issues or a troubled home life.

It sounds really callous, I know, and it isn't that I don't appreciate success in the face of adversity, it's just the feeling that the considerable ability of these people is getting swamped and the real competition is who has suffered the most trauma.

Zov · 23/11/2025 13:52

Isittimeformynapyet · 23/11/2025 10:50

Thank you for The Despair Shop 😂

That made me laugh too. @MinnieCauldwell The Despair Shop! 😆

Zov · 23/11/2025 13:54

MaturingCheeseball · 23/11/2025 12:23

I remember when Judith Keppel won the million and they were trying to hype it up with, “What will you do with this life-changing sum?!” and she politely responded, “Well, we’ll have a nice Christmas.”

But it’s the same with Pointless: Alexander asks “And what are you going to do with your £1,473 ?” and each of the pair describes how they’re planning a trip to Patagonia, a new kitchen and giving the rest to charity.

😆

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 23/11/2025 15:00

There's a contestant, George, on this year's Strictly who was obviously uncomfortable going for the sympathy vote and even refused to disclose in his intro that he was injured one week. But they somehow got him to dedicate a dance to his mum and talk for five minutes about her cancer diagnosis. I do wonder if he now feels ashamed, as I would hate myself for using my mum like that.

Isittimeformynapyet · 23/11/2025 17:11

Bruisername · 23/11/2025 12:58

Tbf, the ones who do leave their old life behind and buy a big house etc etc tend to be the ones who end up miserable/divorced/bankrupt

I'm willing to risk it.

OonaStubbs · 23/11/2025 17:25

I used to like that quiz show 100% on Channel 5 where the only time any of the contestants even spoke was the winner confirming that they'd return for the next show.

VeryV · 23/11/2025 17:29

MinnieCauldwell · 22/11/2025 21:02

The Wheel, The Despair Shop and bloody Strictly with the the fucking dead Nana stories and how they must honour them by getting to sodding Blackpool. I just FF or mute now.

This is why I have given up on strictly. The stories detract from the dancing. I watch it to see the dancing and the progression, not to know about the backgrounds. ‘Race around the world’ does it as well. There is no getting away from it.

VeryV · 23/11/2025 17:40

Joalla · 23/11/2025 12:25

Oh my god, yes, I agree so much. I don’t even want to watch Dragons Den any more because of the applicants swimming in self pity and faux heroism.. it’s horrendous. Emotional blackmail, lack of boundaries, sob stories galore.. YUCK! Let’s start a ‘ bring back dignity’ campaign.

Your ‘bring back dignity’ campaign can run alongside my ‘get a grip’ campaign.

thenightsky · 23/11/2025 18:41

Zov · 23/11/2025 10:46

I have actually stopped watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire now, because of the tedious and boring ramblings of the contestants, going through every one of the four fecking answers, and explaining in fine detail why that was isn't the answer, and THAT one isn't the answer, and THAT one isn't the answer, so it must be THAT one blah blah blah fucking BLAH. You know the answer, just say it you boring twat! Hmm

On some of the 'episodes' one single contestant would be on for 40 minutes! Because they chatted sooooooo much shit about the answers. They often blathered on and on about all the places they have travelled too, in order to get to the answer!

When Millionaire first started, the early rounds whizzed by with quick fire answers. So much better.

thenightsky · 23/11/2025 18:48

ObelixtheGaul · 23/11/2025 13:40

Even when there isn't a sob story, I am increasingly irritated by the obsession with the contestants' lives. I love Sewing Bee and Pottery Throwdown, but am bored to tears when we get to the final and they pad it out with relatives talking about how amazing the contestant is, etc.

I'm really not interested in how they always loved art at school and made their own clothes at the age of five.

I loved the first series of 'The Piano', and, much as I get the 'healing power of music' theme, it started to irk me that, talented as they were, the ones that got chosen all also had some big backstory of overcoming odds. Of course the little blind girl in series one was absolutely stunning, but some of the decisions definitely felt more as though the judgement wasn't about the playing so much as the importance of the piano to the individual according to the judges.

It was also annoyingly ageist. I think somebody must have said something, because in series two they actually chose an older gentleman, who of course had a dementia story. Dear old John who just loved playing the piano at 70 didn't have a chance against the child prodigy or the attractive 20 - something with mental health issues or a troubled home life.

It sounds really callous, I know, and it isn't that I don't appreciate success in the face of adversity, it's just the feeling that the considerable ability of these people is getting swamped and the real competition is who has suffered the most trauma.

I've only recently seen a couple of clips of The Piano programme and assumed you had to be disabled or disadvantaged to apply.

YouGuessSo · 23/11/2025 18:48

Zov · 22/11/2025 20:31

I agree. Maybe I'm a heartless, cold, old fish, but IDGAF about the lives, or personal battles in life, or sob stories, of people on TV shows! (I'm not overly interested in hearing about peoples shit in real life truth be told. We've all got a story to tell.)

Sooooooooooo many shows are ruined because of this... It started with Pop Idol, and trickled into X Factor, and Britain's Got Talent. Then it started to spill over into shows like 60 Minute Makeover, and 10 Years Younger, and The Big Build, and Ground Force etc. No-one was allowed on these shows without a sob story.

NOW it's on Ambulance, 24 Hours in A & E, and similar 'reality tv shows' of the emergency services and so on. The actual police/paramedics/midwives/nurses/doctors etc. have all got a (sob) story to tell now. I did laugh the other week when one young resident doctor (in training) was giving us a story of how he was so upset as his grandad died a few months ago. At 93. He was 93 dude. 93!!! Many people tend to die at that age. Some people die younger!

I don't miss TV, it sounds exhausting.

YouGuessSo · 23/11/2025 19:05

MyThreeWords · 23/11/2025 08:58

Completely agree, OP. You'd think, on the face of it, that shows about dancing, sewing, baking, being in a jungle, getting your old heirloom repaired would all be interestingly DIFFERENT from each other, but in reality they are all becoming the same show.

The name of this show is "I Am Sad and Therefore I Want ...".

As a minor detail, the various iterations of this show cover different desires of the sad people:

I am sad and so I want to win at dancing.
I am sad and so I want to win at baking.
I am sad and so I want to win at being in a jungle
I am sad and so I want to win at sewing
I am sad and so I want to win at making pots
I am sad and so I want my dad's old bicycle to be mended (and I promise to cry when I see it all shiny)

EDITED TO ADD: I am sad and so I drive ambulances and chat compassionately to poorly people.

Edited

I read an article not long ago that had the UK as the second most depressed nation globally, this will be one reason why.

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 23/11/2025 19:28

Runlikesomeoneleftgateopen · 23/11/2025 11:57

Definately.
I blame the likes of X factor and BGT.I
We all go through stuff, each and every one of us, that's how life is.

Add in the pinky plonky music and the I'm doing this for ,add in a relative ,dead friend.
Nope you're doing it for yourself🤮

OonaStubbs · 24/11/2025 00:04

I'm guessing it must draw viewers or they wouldn't do it. But it certainly puts me off watching.

Theunamedcat · 24/11/2025 06:00

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 23/11/2025 19:28

Add in the pinky plonky music and the I'm doing this for ,add in a relative ,dead friend.
Nope you're doing it for yourself🤮

"The piano of doom"

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