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Who are people who find Christmas offensive

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Blopi · 22/11/2025 06:43

It really boils my piss when organisations curtail Christmas stuff as it may offend people.

Who are these people who find Christmas offensive? In my life I have worked and met people from various religions, cultures and countries. NOT one found Christmas and things that go with it. I didn’t work with Jehovah Witnesses but they don’t get offended. Most said they decorated their homes, wore Xmas jumpers and ate food which was suitable or tailored to their religion. Those who didn’t decorate their homes love seeing trees lit up.

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SweetnsourNZ · 22/11/2025 13:19

Ginmonkeyagain · 22/11/2025 07:18

That's surely more to do with the Americanisation/globalisation of language as Americans have called it holiday season for ages due to tne proxmity of Thanksgiving and Christmas.

Yes, I think their holiday season starts with Halloween and ends on Valentines Day

ballroompink · 22/11/2025 13:20

CurlewKate · 22/11/2025 12:40

No-that’s Lent.

Advent is the same - it is a sombre period of reflection and waiting.

CaptainMyCaptain · 22/11/2025 13:21

ilovesooty · 22/11/2025 13:18

What higher powers?

She thinks the government have organised this rather than just businesses trying to sell to the widest market (capitalism basically). As for the 'winter biscuits' who knows. Maybe the middle of November is just a bit too early for Christmas biscuits. Maybe it didn't happen.

SweetnsourNZ · 22/11/2025 13:23

I never known anyone to actually be offended by Christmas because they have a different religion. Have met non religious people who don't celebrate it themselves, but they don't get offended.

cardibach · 22/11/2025 13:23

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 22/11/2025 09:23

People are being rather disingenuous here.

There are many many examples of companies / councils avoiding the word Christmas in favour of "festive season" or similar for years.

No doubt this was done to be inclusive.

Pointing it out - and that it's ridiculous because non Christian communities probably couldn't give a damn - does not mean you're part of a stupid Mail reading right wing conspiracy.

The levels of patronising admonishment on this thread.. it's like a James O'Brien phone in.

Festive season is accurate though. Christmas is the 12 days from Christmas Day. The rest is the festive season, surely? I mean, we call it Christmas colloquially but it’s not a big scandal to not do that.

HeadNorth · 22/11/2025 13:26

dogsandbudgey · 22/11/2025 13:08

It was a friend of mine who was temping at the school. I don’t care if it’s true or not, my point is that people like to cause mayhem by saying things that may offend

I don’t care if it’s true or not pretty much sums up the 'they are cancelling christmas' case.

Saucery · 22/11/2025 13:27

‘Winter Biscuits’ is more likely a vain attempt to keep the children from exploding into a frenzy of Christmas anticipation in November.

MurdoMunro · 22/11/2025 13:31

It’s so sad when traditions that define our culture get banned, not surprising some turn that sadness into anger and lashing out. I mean what happened to ‘kids are identifying as cats and pissing in litter trays in school corridors’? We used to do that every September but now it’s just…gone. We really should have referendums before the government goes around banning our festivities

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 22/11/2025 13:36

I have never come across one solitary person who does! Not of any religion or no religion or anything else there could conceivably be.

Ive known people who condemn over consumerism but that’s a valid point I think.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 22/11/2025 13:38

I don’t think it’s offensive or being offended by Christmas to call some things “winter” or “festive” or “Yule” or whatever because Yule and the general winter celebration came first (plus it also doesn’t matter or stop individuals doing as they like)

cardibach · 22/11/2025 13:42

Mothership4two · 22/11/2025 10:02

How much would you like to bet it's got a Christmas section?

I’m very much assuming the ‘live trees’ are being sold in a Christmas Tree section and are called that to distinguish them from artificial ones, not to try to avoid using the word Christmas.

seaelephant · 22/11/2025 13:43

I'm offended by it due to Christians coopting a Pagan tradition, plastering their God's name over it and removing all the alcoholic revelry

cardibach · 22/11/2025 13:44

Rosscameasdoody · 22/11/2025 10:05

Do you not think that shops selling ‘countdown calendars’ are part of the reason that the understanding of ‘advent’ is dying out ?

Advent calendars don't count advent down anyway. They go from December 1st, not the beginning if advent which is 4 Sundays before Christmas. I encountered someone on another thread who thought advent always started on Dec 1st, so actually I think calling them advent calendars is part of the reason the understanding of advent is dying out.

ExtraOnions · 22/11/2025 13:51

Gosh these right-wing types are a bunch of snowflakes - imagine getting so worked to about what “word” is used … I thought they were all for people / businesses being able to use whatever word they wanted, as it’s “free speech” .. and that word might be “Winter” “Festive” of “holiday”

What makes me laugh (as a Catholic), is that those shouting loudest probably haven’t seen the inside of a church, since school.

I can 100% assure you that Jesus does not mind that decorated trees, fruit cakes, and overpriced markets, do not reference his birth.

LaughingCat · 22/11/2025 13:56

KTheGrey · 22/11/2025 13:10

I feel a proper Lenten Advent Calendar would involve various non treats / small sufferings. A sachet of fish oil, or stale bread crumbs, or kale; perhaps a small demand for charitable giving. Maybe a guilt evoking picture of a lamb called Mint Sauce and a recipe for a vegetarian Sunday Roast. Like church in a cardboard chapel.

🤣

cardibach · 22/11/2025 14:05

Rosscameasdoody · 22/11/2025 10:56

This. We live in a high immigration area and this is also our experience.

Edited

I fit the description in the first sentence pretty well. I’m not ‘offended’ by Christmas and neither do I think anyone else is. It’s a myth that ‘the left’ want to get rid of Christmas (or the labelling of events as Christmas events). When things are called something different there always turns out to be a reason which isn’t to do with ‘offence’ and there are lots of made up examples (like with the Birmingham market upthread).
The only people ‘offended’ seem to be those who are working themselves up about non existent banning/policing of their Christmas and I’m pretty sure none of them fit the first sentence description. They have pretty clear motives for doing it.

CandlesAndClementines · 22/11/2025 14:06

@SweetnsourNZ yes i think that distinction fits and the people I have spoken to have not been offended they have just said it's totally forbidden to them .

PGmicstand · 22/11/2025 14:06

I've yet to meet one. My friendships include people who are Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, JWs, Catholics, Christians, Pagans, agnostics and atheists.
They don't all celebrate Christmas, but that's as far as any of them concern themselves.

CandlesAndClementines · 22/11/2025 14:07

If really hot countries were having a water festival on the two hottest days of the year I would join in.

cardibach · 22/11/2025 14:21

MurdoMunro · 22/11/2025 12:48

Maybe these folk need to hijack another festival and have a month to let rip with traditions like going round after dark yelling at street lamps, eating Proper English Egg and Chips with glitter on and giving presents like black nylon socks while declaring ‘it was good enough in my day ya snowflake’.

Not many people do much with Imbolc in England and the weather’s still pretty gloomy then too.

I’ve had an Imbolc party the last two years. Good excuse for an outdoor fire when I’ve had a guts full of winter…

GuyForksAndKnives · 22/11/2025 14:23

MurdoMunro · 22/11/2025 12:48

Maybe these folk need to hijack another festival and have a month to let rip with traditions like going round after dark yelling at street lamps, eating Proper English Egg and Chips with glitter on and giving presents like black nylon socks while declaring ‘it was good enough in my day ya snowflake’.

Not many people do much with Imbolc in England and the weather’s still pretty gloomy then too.

That's nuts but it cracked me up!

cardibach · 22/11/2025 14:23

dogsandbudgey · 22/11/2025 12:57

I think our government think an idea up then try to run with it to cause mayhem. Although I do hear of a local school not making Christmas biscuit this year in H.E they made winter biscuit instead lol as to not offend any religions. Sometimes I wonder if we all try to pussyfoot around everyone else too much. Christmas should be celebrated freely to whomever wishes to celebrate it, in what every way they chooose. Those that may get offended should just think of it as a celebration they don’t participate in and move on rather than cause a racket. Plenty of things could ‘0ffened’ me but the world doesn’t revolve around me so I let people have their moments and I get on with my own life.

What idea has ‘the government’ thought up and run with?
I’m confused.
You may have noticed people freely celebrating Christmas every time you have left your house recently. And I don't believe the school example. These things are always ‘I heard if’ with no specifics or proof.

GuyForksAndKnives · 22/11/2025 14:25

KTheGrey · 22/11/2025 13:10

I feel a proper Lenten Advent Calendar would involve various non treats / small sufferings. A sachet of fish oil, or stale bread crumbs, or kale; perhaps a small demand for charitable giving. Maybe a guilt evoking picture of a lamb called Mint Sauce and a recipe for a vegetarian Sunday Roast. Like church in a cardboard chapel.

Small sufferings would include a picture of Ant and Dec and another one of Amanda Holden.

cardibach · 22/11/2025 14:27

KTheGrey · 22/11/2025 13:10

I feel a proper Lenten Advent Calendar would involve various non treats / small sufferings. A sachet of fish oil, or stale bread crumbs, or kale; perhaps a small demand for charitable giving. Maybe a guilt evoking picture of a lamb called Mint Sauce and a recipe for a vegetarian Sunday Roast. Like church in a cardboard chapel.

I used to work in a boarding school. We actually had a Lenten Calendar a bit like this, with 40 days of nice deeds to do for others to cross off. It was quite stressful.

cardibach · 22/11/2025 14:32

seaelephant · 22/11/2025 13:43

I'm offended by it due to Christians coopting a Pagan tradition, plastering their God's name over it and removing all the alcoholic revelry

We’re supposed to remove the alcoholic revelry? I didn’t get that memo. Damn. I’ve been Christmassing all wrong.