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Who are people who find Christmas offensive

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Blopi · 22/11/2025 06:43

It really boils my piss when organisations curtail Christmas stuff as it may offend people.

Who are these people who find Christmas offensive? In my life I have worked and met people from various religions, cultures and countries. NOT one found Christmas and things that go with it. I didn’t work with Jehovah Witnesses but they don’t get offended. Most said they decorated their homes, wore Xmas jumpers and ate food which was suitable or tailored to their religion. Those who didn’t decorate their homes love seeing trees lit up.

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MasterBeth · 22/11/2025 10:27

Rosscameasdoody · 22/11/2025 09:59

Does anyone really have to issue an outright ban though ? The notion that putting up a tree or designating a ‘Christmas’ market, or any other public Christmas event is going to offend others can be enough in itself.

Our local Christmas market has always been designated as such, up until this year. Now it’s a Winter Fayre. The Christmas trappings still appear but the the actual word doesn’t appear in any of the advertising. Someone, somewhere has made that decision on behalf of everyone. It may not be a ban, but l do think there’s a certain amount of policing going on by those who take it upon themselves to be offended on behalf of other cultures and denominations, who in reality haven’t raised any objections.

Why are you assuming the change must have happened in case anyone is offended?

Why do you talk about it in terms of "banning" or "policing"?

This is the right wing narrative that you seem to have bought into.

When Opal Fruits became Starburst or WHSmith became TGJones it wasn't because the wokerati were worried that people were offended by their former names, it was for solid commercial reasons.

Why can't someone have decided that Winter Fayre might be a better name to bring more people in? To distinguish it from the kind of big city Christmas Markets you get in Birmingham and Manchester? To keep people visiting even if they've done their Christmas shopping?

There could be any number of valid commercial reasons that you are unaware of but you are jumping on this "offence" narrative. Why?

Mothership4two · 22/11/2025 10:27

Rosscameasdoody · 22/11/2025 10:17

Lights, festive trappings and even a reference to keeping your belly ‘merry’ with the range of foods on offer. But not a Christmas market.

Well it runs until January so not Christmas and I expect is intended to encompass Christmasness (using 'merry' and 'festive'). South Bank do have other Christmas events.

Yes I know technically there are 12 days of Christmas, but it's not widespread in practice (other than taking down decorations).

Periandtired · 22/11/2025 10:28

💯!!

Ivelostmyglasses · 22/11/2025 10:29

Rosscameasdoody · 22/11/2025 10:17

Lights, festive trappings and even a reference to keeping your belly ‘merry’ with the range of foods on offer. But not a Christmas market.

Councils have multi use branding to take them through the Winter season. Businesses need more than one off Christmas events to survive so Councils with successful markets have winter events right through. It's no anti Christmas conspiracy.

ilovesooty · 22/11/2025 10:30

Smilesinthesunshine · 22/11/2025 10:24

Why do you click on a post if it bothers you so much?

She might want to challenge what's being stated. I agree with her. People can do that without their decision to engage being questioned.

MasterBeth · 22/11/2025 10:30

ilovesooty · 22/11/2025 09:40

"agenda" 😂

Absolute right wing talking point word.

ItTook9Years · 22/11/2025 10:31

I work with a number of people that do not celebrate Xmas for religious reasons “, including JWs who do not come into the office during December in order to avoid all the decorations and Xmas food in the canteen.

I myself hate Xmas. Not for religious reasons, but because it’s so over the top and it seems to be very hard for other people to understand. I will politely say “I don’t celebrate Xmas” which seems to prompt people into cajoling me to join in. Just leave me alone! I’m sick of it already and it’s not even December yet!

Ginmonkeyagain · 22/11/2025 10:32

Also Christians don't have a monoply on midwinter fesitivals of feasting and lights.

I love the sppoky pagan aspects of midwinter fesivals. It is part of the European Christaams tradition but it is also.older - Romans used to celebrate a mid winter festival calles Saturnalia that involved presents, feasts, bringing greenery indoors and telling ghost stories.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/11/2025 10:33

LaughingCat · 22/11/2025 10:05

It’s literally called the Birmingham Frankfurt Christmas Market 😂😂😂

Here, here’s the website a 2-second Google would have found you before you made an eejit of yourself again, @Blopi thebfcm.co.uk

That's embarrassing for those posters, but it's also a really interesting phenomenon.

The market in question is very clearly called a Christmas Market, but those posters had somehow convinced themselves otherwise. Is this because they made incorrect assumptions? Because they have been consuming a whole load of misinformation online? Some other reason?

Where are people getting these ideas from?

Fetaface · 22/11/2025 10:33

I do not decorate my home. I do not find it offensive just can't be arsed as there is no reason to decorate it!

MasterBeth · 22/11/2025 10:34

Rosscameasdoody · 22/11/2025 10:17

Lights, festive trappings and even a reference to keeping your belly ‘merry’ with the range of foods on offer. But not a Christmas market.

Christmas has the monopoly on "lights"?

It gets dark by 4 o'clock!

Rosscameasdoody · 22/11/2025 10:36

MasterBeth · 22/11/2025 10:34

Christmas has the monopoly on "lights"?

It gets dark by 4 o'clock!

Twinkling fairy lights. Is that better ?

ilovesooty · 22/11/2025 10:37

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/11/2025 10:33

That's embarrassing for those posters, but it's also a really interesting phenomenon.

The market in question is very clearly called a Christmas Market, but those posters had somehow convinced themselves otherwise. Is this because they made incorrect assumptions? Because they have been consuming a whole load of misinformation online? Some other reason?

Where are people getting these ideas from?

Tik Tok probably. There's a reason Reform targets it.

bigboykitty · 22/11/2025 10:38

Smilesinthesunshine · 22/11/2025 10:24

Why do you click on a post if it bothers you so much?

That's kind of how it works on forums. If people post made up nonsense, you can call them out. See the rest of this thread

WorriedRelative · 22/11/2025 10:42

Ginmonkeyagain · 22/11/2025 10:14

Oof we are in the business of enforcing Christams traditions, I would like to put in a bid for returning to the tradition that Christmas STARTS on 25 December and carries on until 6 Jan. None of this putting up your decorations on 1 December and taking them down on 26 December wokery.

Absolutely! All these people bemoaning the loss of Christmas are usually the worst for not understanding advent or the twelve days of Christmas. They probably have a fairy on their tree too.

GagMeWithASpoon · 22/11/2025 10:44

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/11/2025 10:33

That's embarrassing for those posters, but it's also a really interesting phenomenon.

The market in question is very clearly called a Christmas Market, but those posters had somehow convinced themselves otherwise. Is this because they made incorrect assumptions? Because they have been consuming a whole load of misinformation online? Some other reason?

Where are people getting these ideas from?

Normally it’s based on some form(however far removed of “truth”) . People with an agenda trawl the internet for the “thing” , whilst ignoring all the other things that are not the “thing”. Then it goes all over social media, lots of engagement, some genuine , some not. Several posters of “my hairdresser’s cousin said/saw” or reiterating previous similar fabricated stories as fact and proof of past precedent. A lot of people don’t bother to fact check and there’s a high degree of confirmation bias.

Prime example is the Tesco evergreen tree. So many posters mentioned it, completely ignoring the dozens upon dozens of trees actually called Christmas trees. People see what they want to see. At least this one is funny.

A very depressing one was DD’s school being in lockdown. Multiple posts on FB and comments on articles about terrorism, what does the government know, yet another one,what is going on, schools under attack, and so , so much more absolute crap, hysteria and made up bullshit stated as fact. The reason for the lockdown was actually a suicide attempt, which left a child (that was already struggling) , severely injured. It was infuriating. No willingness to fact check or at least attempt to acknowledge the truth, even from some of the parents!

Ivelostmyglasses · 22/11/2025 10:44

Rosscameasdoody · 22/11/2025 10:36

Twinkling fairy lights. Is that better ?

It's been explained to you repeatedly now. The markets either run after Christmas so no Christmas branding, or they ARE actually called Christmas Markets. In addition people are getting bored of traditional Christmas Markets which causes issues when marketing ones that offer more than hotdogs pretzels wooden ornaments.etc..

Patchedupsocks · 22/11/2025 10:46

The 'don't call it christmas' brigade can jog right off.
I'm a pagan and the fact that christianity hijeacked our winter solstice could piss me right off but it doesn't.
I like the lights and colours in the depth of the winter and celebrate the fact that on the solstice the sun is returning and the long nights are going to start giving way to the light again and pagan calender spring starting on feb 1st.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 22/11/2025 10:48

@Blopi

It's generally white, British born, (and raised,) atheist, social justice warriors who are 'offended' by Christmas. I have yet to meet anyone of any other culture or religion who is offended by Christmas.

In the market town several miles from my village, the post office is run by an Indian family, several restaurants and takeways are run by Pakistani, Turkish, Syrian, and Chinese families, and some of the shops and cafes etc, are run by Indian and Polish people. All of them have Christmas decorations up in their shop/restaurant, including a Christmas tree, and MERRY CHRISTMAS signs.

They all love it, and they celebrate it along with everyone... It baffles me that some councils ban Christmas signs and suchlike, because of a few woke, social justice warriors getting offended on behalf of someone else.

KTheGrey · 22/11/2025 10:49

Ebenezer Scrooge.

MrsSkylerWhite · 22/11/2025 10:50

PegDope · 22/11/2025 06:55

The era of the perpetually offended isn’t it?

Everyone has the right to be offended by anything they want but that doesn’t mean they get to control anyone else.

Who is controlling everyone else?

5128gap · 22/11/2025 10:50

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/11/2025 10:33

That's embarrassing for those posters, but it's also a really interesting phenomenon.

The market in question is very clearly called a Christmas Market, but those posters had somehow convinced themselves otherwise. Is this because they made incorrect assumptions? Because they have been consuming a whole load of misinformation online? Some other reason?

Where are people getting these ideas from?

25 years ago Birmingham City Council introduced the name 'winterval' to describe the various celebrations important to the local population (only 34% are Christian), Hanukkah, Chridtmas and Diwallli. It didn't last long. However in the absence of anything current to support the view that the UK is being 'taken over' and traditional ways of life crowded out, its regurgitated with tedious regularity to support the lie.

SuffolkBargeWoman · 22/11/2025 10:50

PegDope · 22/11/2025 06:55

The era of the perpetually offended isn’t it?

Everyone has the right to be offended by anything they want but that doesn’t mean they get to control anyone else.

But they're not, are they?
No-one is offended, it's just made up crap to sell papers/ get clicks for advertising revenue.

orangemapleleaves · 22/11/2025 10:50

TBF I would probably be taken aback if someone asked me how I was celebrating Diwali. I don't mind making it more general have a lovely break/festive season where I live because assuming that or speaking as if everyone celebrates Christmas makes me a look a bit naive.

Ivelostmyglasses · 22/11/2025 10:51

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 22/11/2025 10:48

@Blopi

It's generally white, British born, (and raised,) atheist, social justice warriors who are 'offended' by Christmas. I have yet to meet anyone of any other culture or religion who is offended by Christmas.

In the market town several miles from my village, the post office is run by an Indian family, several restaurants and takeways are run by Pakistani, Turkish, Syrian, and Chinese families, and some of the shops and cafes etc, are run by Indian and Polish people. All of them have Christmas decorations up in their shop/restaurant, including a Christmas tree, and MERRY CHRISTMAS signs.

They all love it, and they celebrate it along with everyone... It baffles me that some councils ban Christmas signs and suchlike, because of a few woke, social justice warriors getting offended on behalf of someone else.

The evidence shows that it is only reform Councils without Christmas lights this year. Actual evidence from one of the Council s themselves. The rest is made up.