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To wonder what on earth has happened to Stacey Solomon’s instagram?!

177 replies

Dabralor · 21/11/2025 18:13

Hello.
I will preface this by saying that I do like Stacey, SYLO is a brilliant show.
However. Her instagram has become completely extraordinary recently - it’s constant selling for Amazon. One day it’s random Christmas decs, the next day it’s Oura rings. She was trying to flog a jetwash earlier this week!
She used to do crafty bits and easy recipes and show us lots of pics of her ducks and nice kitchen. But now it’s just incessant flogging of crap!

Each thing she shills seems to follow a certain pattern:

  1. here’s a thing she’s doing using an item while chatting. Item is front and centre but never mentioned.
  2. shortly after comes an update ‘so many of you are asking….here’s the amazon link
  3. she then tells us to keep it in our baskets for reasons, I don’t know.

Last night she was wittering on about making an Amazon storefront to load all her tat onto, whatever that is.

The formula is incessant. She can’t be short of money so why the change in direction and obsession with Amazon, I wonder? Aibu that it never used to be this blatantly sales-y?

OP posts:
Whatsmyusername94 · 22/11/2025 10:00

She earns 57k a month

AquaLeader · 22/11/2025 10:01

If anyone cares to look at the 'How Content Works' page on Mumsnet, it clearly states:

"We sometimes use affiliate marketing links, which means that when you buy a product through a link on our site, we may earn a commission. We are part of the Amazon Associates programme and may earn from qualifying purchases, along with other commission-based partnerships."

kerstina · 22/11/2025 10:01

Yes sadly it’s everywhere. Really admire Ben Fogle but even he promotes clothing ranges and dog trackers on his instagram page. I guess it is modern day equivalent to television adverts.

SilverPink · 22/11/2025 10:04

CryMyEyesViolet · 22/11/2025 09:51

I dunno - the money is going to jeff bezos if it doesn’t go to an influencer, and rather even a morsel of it stays within the UK economy so I’d rather Stacey get a cut and reduce Amazon’s big corporate profits ever so slightly when I make my purchases.

Yes, that is true too, although I meant in general, whether it’s something from Amazon, M&S, Zara, wherever. Having said that I follow some influencers for ideas then source similar from charity shops and vinted 😆

Coffeeishot · 22/11/2025 10:05

Wonderknicks · 21/11/2025 18:19

Just unfollow her?

Yes this she is just a "marketer" for brands now, which is a shame people just want to waste a bit of time scrolling and being entertained, not bombarded with "buy this shit" .

Sartre · 22/11/2025 10:08

Isn’t this her full time job now? She tried to be a singer and it failed, I think she did a little bit of TV presenting or Loose Women but that wouldn’t pay mega bucks so she’s become an ‘influencer’? The whole premise of influencing is to get free shit you then advertise on your platform and you get paid for that if you’re big enough too.

Coffeeishot · 22/11/2025 10:11

She has her tv programmes though, but i guess this is her job now,

Northquit · 22/11/2025 10:12

Amazon affiliate cookies are very short. She needs you to check out to make any money.

RedToothBrush · 22/11/2025 10:42

A friend of mine has a Instagram she uses for multiple reasons - partly personal, partly community and partly business and she said that engagement levels through Instagram had fallen through the floor recently and they were now getting more engagement through Facebook than previously. She puts out largely the same content through Insta, Facebook and Ticktok.

She thinks that Instagram has just become advertising with the algorithms just pushing more and more of them rather than human engagement with accounts you are following and actually interested in and that lots of people were so fed up of it they were simply disengaging or even deleting Instagram and were switching back to Facebook because the algorithms were less aggressive in pushing products on you.

She was surprised because Instagram was trendy and Facebook thought of as dying, but actually she's getting way more interactions through FB now.

It's like Insta and influencers have almost jumped the shark in forgetting what followers want to see and why they followed particular accounts in the first place and have commercialised too much.

Moltenpink · 22/11/2025 11:09

YepIChangedMyNameForThis · 21/11/2025 19:02

It has blown my mind too. At first when reading above I thought it was the seller selling the jet wash that was paying but assume it is the umbrella of Amazon.

Here's AI explaining it too

No, a person does not get paid just because you looked at a page or clicked their <a class="break-all" href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&source=web&rct=j&url=<a class="break-all" href="https://affiliate-program.amazon.com/&ved=2ahUKEwiqoZX69oORAxUoQ0EAHXLbLbkQy_kOegQIARAB&opi=89978449&cd&psig=AOvVaw1xuEuHMBtB0MtHTQDp18ng&ust=1763838061752000"" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">affiliate-program.amazon.com/&ved=2ahUKEwiqoZX69oORAxUoQ0EAHXLbLbkQy_kOegQIARAB&opi=89978449&cd&psig=AOvVaw1xuEuHMBtB0MtHTQDp18ng&ust=1763838061752000" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Amazon affiliate link. Commissions are earned only when a qualifying purchase is made through that link.
Here is how the Amazon Associates Program compensation works:

  • No Pay Per Click (PPC) or View: Affiliates are not compensated for simply driving traffic (clicks or views) to Amazon. The program operates on a performance-based model focused strictly on completed sales.
  • Qualifying Purchases: An affiliate earns a commission only when a user clicks their unique link and buys a product.
  • The 24-Hour Window: Once you click an affiliate link, a "cookie" is dropped that tracks your activity for 24 hours. The affiliate gets a commission on any eligible items you purchase during that session, not just the specific product they linked to, provided the purchase happens within that 24-hour window (or if the item is added to the cart within 24 hours, the window extends to 90 days for that specific item).
  • Commissions Vary: The percentage earned (typically between 1% and 10% depending on the product category) is based on the final sale amount of the items purchased, not the number of clicks

I am so shocked at this.

This is crazy! I clicked on an mumsnet link to a £5 Amazon book yesterday, I’ve just spent a fortune on other Amazon gifts this morning, so mumsnet get commission on all that? I had no idea. I’m not especially bothered as mumsnet is my favourite website Smile

Qwerty098 · 22/11/2025 11:13

We all know influencers earn money from the ‘clicks’ what is deceitful is posting ‘I can’t remember how much I paid for this (tat) but here’s the link for you to check…. Or the minuscule #ad or #aff that’ is a different shade slightly to background so it’s not obvious when you first look

Kreepture · 22/11/2025 11:30

Nightow · 22/11/2025 09:34

Course it does...the fee she earns gets passed back to the customer as increased prices. As a retail accountant, if marketing costs increase and we need to maintain our margins, prices go up. This also fuels inflation.

shock horror, major corp passes the cost of paying for advertising onto the customer.

Shadesofscarlett · 22/11/2025 11:59

sadly a lot of these instagrammers make you feel like they are your friend, but they really are grifters.

DevilsIvyy · 22/11/2025 12:15

It’s just sell, sell, sell on her Instagram now.

Sasssquatch · 22/11/2025 12:17

LancashireButterPie · 22/11/2025 08:37

Im not very SM savvy and dont have Instagram but is there a charity affiliated link that I can click?
I'd quite like to divert a few pounds from Amazon's profits to a hospice.

Our primary school PTA uses https://www.easyfundraising.org.uk

lots of other organisations do too. Same principle as an aff link or using Quidco or top cash back except the school etc gets the cut

You shop. Your cause gets money. For free.

You shop. Your cause gets money. For free.

Join 2.5m people raising free cashback donations as they shop with 8,000+ retailers.

https://www.easyfundraising.org.uk

MarginWalker · 22/11/2025 12:49

Instagram doesn’t pay its creators. Someone can get millions of views, net meta a boatload in ad revenue, and get nothing. TikTok pays in some countries. YouTube pays.

Do also realize making content costs money. Sometimes there are 5 people or more behind the scenes shooting, editing, doing all the grunt work.

It’s very hard to get by on social media revenue and I bet by the time the big offers come in you are so in the poverty mindset that you just grab at every opportunity.

MarginWalker · 22/11/2025 12:51

RedToothBrush · 22/11/2025 10:42

A friend of mine has a Instagram she uses for multiple reasons - partly personal, partly community and partly business and she said that engagement levels through Instagram had fallen through the floor recently and they were now getting more engagement through Facebook than previously. She puts out largely the same content through Insta, Facebook and Ticktok.

She thinks that Instagram has just become advertising with the algorithms just pushing more and more of them rather than human engagement with accounts you are following and actually interested in and that lots of people were so fed up of it they were simply disengaging or even deleting Instagram and were switching back to Facebook because the algorithms were less aggressive in pushing products on you.

She was surprised because Instagram was trendy and Facebook thought of as dying, but actually she's getting way more interactions through FB now.

It's like Insta and influencers have almost jumped the shark in forgetting what followers want to see and why they followed particular accounts in the first place and have commercialised too much.

Not my experience as a creator at all. There are different crowds on each platform. Her crowd might have moved but the engagement and views I see on Instagram is very high. Do realize they are both owned by exploitative crappy Meta.

Blondiney · 22/11/2025 12:54

Greed.

YABU to follow her in the first place.

Beentheretoolong · 22/11/2025 13:15

Blondiney · 22/11/2025 12:54

Greed.

YABU to follow her in the first place.

Why is making a living greed? She’s found a way to make a living that pays her why is that greedy compared to top executives, bankers, footballers etc, etc?

TidyCyan · 22/11/2025 13:54

Beentheretoolong · 22/11/2025 13:15

Why is making a living greed? She’s found a way to make a living that pays her why is that greedy compared to top executives, bankers, footballers etc, etc?

Agreed it's not greedy. It's not her fault that some people haven't caught up that people who have presented on daytime TV and have their own cleaning products with Zoflora aren't filming reels in their house for fun.

Lolabear38 · 22/11/2025 16:43

OhCobblers · 22/11/2025 06:51

My issue isn’t really with SS as I don’t follow her. It’s more the influencers who bang on about certain clothing brands pretending they’re “obsessed” with them (get tons for free) Matalan , Mint Velvet, F&F etc who then flog them on their Vinted accounts or Preloved IG accounts 5 mins later. They talk about Tesco etc but it’s really all about their Chanel or Demellier bags!

So what though? Really, so what? It’s a sales tactic, salespeople have been around for hundreds of years and these are not new tactics. It’s a new platform, but the sales methods themselves are the same. It’s no different to watching ads in the middle of Corrie. I’ve bought loads of things that I love after seeing them on Instagram and chances are I probably wouldn’t have known about them otherwise. It doesn’t cost me anything extra and I just don’t understand why people are getting so het up about it 🤦🏻‍♀️

Empress13 · 22/11/2025 16:45

It’s called earning a living to which she’s by all accounts good at

Robinredbeast · 22/11/2025 18:08

I don’t think most folk have an issue with the Amazon affliate scheme as it appears - an influencer pushes an item, you click on the item and if you buy it, they earn commission.

I think what has shocked a few folk that if in that same transaction you bung in a few other essentials, they earn commission on those too. I know there are limitations on cookies etc but in theory you are earning them extra on items and they are not clear on this.

Stacey sister was pushed on this but ignored/refused to acknowledge the cookie part of it….so they know it’s sneaky

I find it hard to believe the multimillionaires Stacey Solomon needs the “pennies” she earn from pushing tomato ketchup. She - and the others - are banking on you adding more to your basket to push up the commission. It has to be worth her while although it’s not like she needs it ffs

Beentheretoolong · 22/11/2025 18:21

Robinredbeast · 22/11/2025 18:08

I don’t think most folk have an issue with the Amazon affliate scheme as it appears - an influencer pushes an item, you click on the item and if you buy it, they earn commission.

I think what has shocked a few folk that if in that same transaction you bung in a few other essentials, they earn commission on those too. I know there are limitations on cookies etc but in theory you are earning them extra on items and they are not clear on this.

Stacey sister was pushed on this but ignored/refused to acknowledge the cookie part of it….so they know it’s sneaky

I find it hard to believe the multimillionaires Stacey Solomon needs the “pennies” she earn from pushing tomato ketchup. She - and the others - are banking on you adding more to your basket to push up the commission. It has to be worth her while although it’s not like she needs it ffs

How do we know she doesn’t need it though? Unless you are her accountant you don’t know what her disposable income is and what her finances are. What’s wrong with earning every penny you can when you can? She works in a precarious industry and work could dry up at any time.
I don’t believe any one of us would turn a pay rise down even if you were managing perfectly well on your current salary.

Laura95167 · 22/11/2025 18:48

Dabralor · 21/11/2025 18:29

Wait hang on @Sprookjesbos - so. If I buy the tatty light-up Christmas trees she’s flogging today, then a cookie sits in my phone and sends Stacey commission for other things in my basket too? That I chose myself without her? Is that seriously right?!

So theres different types of affiliate.

Simplistically... Theres one they do with amazon where say if I sent you a link to a pink umbrella. If you click the link and buy the umbrella I get say 10% but if on that page you see a blue umbrella and click to that and buy that, the metadata (cookie) will show you found the blue umbrella via my link for the pink one so I indirectly brought you to amazon and ill get 5% of that purchase.

It isnt every purchase, only certain ones but yes if you follows Stacys link and buy what she recommended she will get a %, but if you buy something else she MAY get a smaller % of that purchase