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What the heck! Trans women get periods apparently

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charcoalandsugar · 21/11/2025 12:42

https://eu.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period

AIBU that this is the most ridiculous thing for a company to claim.

"Can a transgender woman have a period? Absolutely. Many trans and gender-diverse people menstruate. Whether you’re a woman, a man, non-binary or agender, your body may menstruate too."

How some trans women get their period

How some trans women get their period – Modibodi EU

Menstruation is a part of many people’s lives. Find out how some trans women get their period and how you can be a supportive friend.

https://eu.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period

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Pedallleur · 21/11/2025 15:01

Daysgo · 21/11/2025 14:34

Lunacy. How can a man menstruate??

If they did science would have solved any issues years ago.

Lalgarh · 21/11/2025 15:02

Gymnopedie · 21/11/2025 14:08

Now listen up. You're not being kind to the men who might be 'on' when they go for the cervical smear they've demanded (and sometimes got.) Cos they're a biological woman, innit.

Someone send out a bat signal for Dame Katy Denise

ThatCyanCat · 21/11/2025 15:02

Lalgarh · 21/11/2025 15:02

Someone send out a bat signal for Dame Katy Denise

Make sure she has a chair!

madaboutpurple · 21/11/2025 15:03

What will be next, later in life they will be menopausal and they might start a rock group and sing about it. I have done nothing but laugh about this. Good grief. My periods used to almost make me feint at times these people are welcome .Is it April 1st by any chance.? Will they be having babies I wonder.?

sillygoof · 21/11/2025 15:05

HermioneWeasley · 21/11/2025 12:51

That would be violent misgendering. You can’t say trans man is any sort of woman.

What is violent misgendering? That’s a new one on me.

Helleofabore · 21/11/2025 15:06

How to support trans women during their period

Advise them to seek a change in their prescription and eat a better diet.

Society has a significant issue if those people who support these male people in fetishising female human body functions think that they are being 'kind', because they certainly don't realise that their 'kindness' is only going one direction. To support a male person with a fetish.

There is no 'kindness' in this behaviour towards supporting women and girls who need support with menstrual issues.

Helleofabore · 21/11/2025 15:07

sillygoof · 21/11/2025 15:05

What is violent misgendering? That’s a new one on me.

In fact, under CPS guidance for domestic abuse, family members who do not use a male person's demanded pronouns and the other female language changes they demand, can be considered domestic abusers.

https://archive.ph/JAegv

Domestic abuse is listed elsewhere as a type of 'violence against the person' as per below:

VIOLENCE AGAINST THE PERSON
Violence against the person is grouped into five high-level categories – Homicide, Death or serious injury by
unlawful driving, Violence with injury, Violence without injury and Stalking and Harassment.
Homicide
1 Murder
4.1 Manslaughter
4.10 Corporate manslaughter
Where an organisation is deemed responsible for a person’s death. This offence differs from the basic
HOCR rule of recording based on the initial report to police and is only recorded once an inquest
concludes with a verdict of unlawful killing or the PPS authorise a charge (or direct that it is not in the
public interest to do so).
4.2 Infanticide
Applied to infants under 12 months killed by the mother while of disturbed mind.
Death or serious injury caused by unlawful driving
These offences differ from the basic HOCR rule of recording based on the initial report to police and are
only recorded once the investigation confirms the offence is made out, ie a person is charged or PPS
recommend prosecution.
4.4 Causing death or serious injury by dangerous driving
4.6 Causing death or serious injury by careless driving when under the influence of drink or drugs
4.8 Causing death or serious injury by careless or inconsiderate driving
4.9 Causing death or serious injury by driving: unlicensed drivers etc
37.1 Causing death by aggravated vehicle taking
Violence with injury
2 Attempted murder
4.3 Intentional destruction of viable unborn child
4.7 Causing or allowing death of a child or vulnerable person
5D Assault with intent to cause serious harm
Includes offences of grievous bodily harm (GBH) with intent and wounding with intent. These offences
are recorded where there is clear evidence of a deliberate attempt to inflict serious bodily harm regardless
of level of injury sustained.
5E Endangering life
This classification is additionally split within PSNI to provide a data series for explosives offences and
firearms/ammunition offences.
8N Assault with injury
This classification is further split:
Grievous bodily harm or Wounding - where injury may result in permanent disability; more than minor
permanent disfigurement; broken bones; fractured skull; compound fractures; substantial loss of
blood; internal injury; lengthy treatment or serious psychiatric injury (based on expert evidence); and
shock (when accompanied by expert psychological evidence)
Assault occasioning actual bodily harm (AOABH) – injuries ranging from grazes, scratches and
reddening of the skin to simple broken nose or broken finger. Also includes non-visible injury causing
more than a passing moment of pain or discomfort which has an adverse impact on the victim.
Poisoning to aggrieve
Non-fatal strangulation - The Justice (Sexual Offences and Trafficking Victims) Act (Northern Ireland)
2022 created the offence of ‘Non-fatal strangulation’, recording commenced 26th June 2023.
8P Racially or religiously-aggravated assault with injury
The legislation behind these racially or religiously-aggravated offences does not exist within Northern
Ireland and therefore this classification does not apply. Records are instead classified to 8N Assault with
injury and are included in the racist and faith/religion hate crime strands.
8S Assault with injury on a constable
Where a police officer was the victim of GBH/wounding with intent, GBH, Wounding or AOABH in the
course of their duty.
8T Assault with injury on an emergency worker (other than a constable)
Within Northern Ireland these offences are classified to 8N Assault with injury (where the injury is minor)
and 105A Assault without injury (where no injury has been sustained).24Violence without injury
3A Conspiracy to murder
3B Threats to kill
Where an individual fears that the offender’s threat is real and may be carried out.
11A Cruelty to children/young persons
13 Child abduction
14 Procuring illegal abortion
36 Kidnapping
104 Assault without injury on a constable
Where, in the course of their duty, a police officer was the victim of an assault where no injury was
caused.
105A Assault without injury
Offences where, at the most, a feeling of touch or passing moment of pain is experienced by the victim.
Summary offences, closely associated with actual bodily harm (see classification 8N). Includes, amongst
other offences, common assault and aggravated assault. From 1 April 2003 only includes assaults
involving no injury, please note that this change was introduced a year earlier in England and Wales on
1 April 2002.
105B Racially or religiously-aggravated assault without injury
The legislation behind these racially or religiously-aggravated offences does not exist within Northern
Ireland and therefore this classification does not apply. Records are instead classified to 105A Assault
without injury and are included in the racist and faith/religion hate crime strands.
106 Modern slavery
Includes offences such as holding a person in slavery or servitude, requiring a person to perform forced
or compulsory labour and arranging/facilitating travel of another person with a view to exploitation.
Stalking and harassment
8L Harassment
Harassment offences are those incidents where no other substantive notifiable offence exists, but when
looked at as a course of conduct are likely to cause fear, alarm or distress. Within Northern Ireland this
classification is further split into harassment and intimidation offences.
8M Racially or religiously-aggravated harassment
The legislation behind these racially or religiously-aggravated offences does not exist within Northern
Ireland and therefore this classification does not apply. Records are instead classified to 105A Assault
without injury and are included in the racist and faith/religion hate crime strands.
8Q Stalking
Stalking legislation was introduced in Northern Ireland on 27th April 2022, through the Protection from
Stalking Act (Northern Ireland) 2022. Offences of “stalking” and of “threatening and abusive behaviour”
are recorded from this date.
8R Malicious communications
The recording of malicious communications offences started for the first time in Northern Ireland from 1st April 2017. This classification also includes offences relating to 'revenge porn'; new legislation on
disclosing private sexual photographs and film with intent to cause distress was introduced in June 2016.
8U Controlling or coercive behaviour
The Domestic Abuse and Civil Proceedings Act (NI) 2021 introduced the “domestic abuse offence” within
Northern Ireland on 21st February 2022, enabling the recording of abusive behaviour occurring on two or
more occasions against an intimate partner, former partner or close family member, ie within the definition
of domestic abuse used in Northern Ireland and where abusive behaviour includes controlling or coercive
behaviour, psychological abuse, emotional abuse, financial abuse and economic abuse.
-end-

Rugbymom67 · 21/11/2025 15:08

Honestly just fuck off Modibodi! I don’t know why I expected better of a company for periods. But I did!

FranticFrankie · 21/11/2025 15:08

What a load of old cobblers
No uterus no bleeding so why would trans identifying men need period pants?
Just nonsense
I believe I've read that the abdominal 'cramps' are related to bowels.

(Comment was made after a video of a trans identifying man was rolling around on his bed in apparently in agony)

Rugbymom67 · 21/11/2025 15:10

Has anyone listed alternative period wear providers? Because I am done with supporting any company who chats this complete and utter minimising shit. 💩

Fluffsicles · 21/11/2025 15:11

charcoalandsugar · 21/11/2025 12:48

No it doesn’t it clearly states that it’s the hormones that can cause periods.

That would require a womb.
I think their phrasing is confusing. It reads fine if it were to say "Those who identify as male, but have female physiology, can have periods" But they have tried not to cause offence and just said "Men can have periods".

Lalgarh · 21/11/2025 15:13

Oddly enough I did this morning, quite before this thread, see an ad for Modibodi. It had a very skinny young (cis) woman in their pants. I've never worked out if they are meant to be worn instead of tampons/ towels/ ye olde Hoiked tissue paper wedge or as a backup. I mean, why use that and then have to soak it or whatever and then laundering. I did wonder if they would try and enlist Dylan thingy. I guess they will

Waitingfordoggo · 21/11/2025 15:14

The more I think about it, the more incensed I am by the section about how to support your male friends or family members who pretend to be women.

Be a good ally. Be kind. Don’t ask intrusive questions (like ‘how come you think you’re having a period when we both know you’ve got a cock and balls?’)

WHY on a website which is entirely centred around women and women’s bodies, is there a whole section instructing us to Be Kind to men? And not just any men but men who intrude in and attempt to colonise our spaces, our experiences, our lives?

We aren’t allowed anything just for ourselves- even the things we don’t want but are stuck with, like periods. I’m fuming at the gaslighting.

madaboutpurple · 21/11/2025 15:15

Has anyone told them there is a song Only women bleed. Will they be blaming their periods for their bad moods.? PMS etc. What next I ask will they be complaining about?

Waitingfordoggo · 21/11/2025 15:15

@Lalgarh Some use them as backup, some use them on their own. As for why: much better for the environment and our budgets.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/11/2025 15:16

Another ‘gem’ from that website, ‘Bottom line is, people of all genders menstruate. Trans women’s periods are just as real and valid as anyone else’s, so…’. blah blah…

(Why am I wasting time on this when I’ve got 14 horrible houseworky jobs to do??)

PuppiesProzacProsecco · 21/11/2025 15:17

The human race has run it's course. It's time for a giant asteroid/deadly zombie plague/nuclear Armageddon/insert your choice of world ending catastrophe.

JFDIYOLO · 21/11/2025 15:20

Menophilia is an unfortunate fetish with some men, including some transwomen and non-binary members of the male sex.

Littlejellyuk · 21/11/2025 15:23

TheKeatingFive · 21/11/2025 14:45

She is summarising TRA logic.

I'm not surprised that you are confused

Thank you for that. 💕
I honestly thought the poster was being serious and I'd stepped into the Twilight zone. 😫

Crambino · 21/11/2025 15:24

Well I honestly couldn’t care less who buys and wears the pants, whatever floats your boat, live and let live etc.

I do think it is ridiculous that they say ‘some’ trans women don’t have a uterus though. I’m quite tempted to e-mail them to ask for clarification about the identity of transwomen with a uterus, because it’s not an identity I have come across before…

charcoalandsugar · 21/11/2025 15:24

But if anyone can have a period and some trans women (men) have uterus’s, then why did the NHS substitute the word woman with ‘Uterus havers’ to make things clear. Or ‘cervix havers’ . If that wasn’t insulting enough now we can’t even define ourselves as a body part. 😂

OP posts:
FairKoala · 21/11/2025 15:24

senua · 21/11/2025 12:47

"Can a transgender woman have a period?
It doesn't say transwoman. It says transgender woman i.e. transman.

Is this company saying that as a transman, you might believe you are a man but you can’t change your female biology?

Helleofabore · 21/11/2025 15:25

Waitingfordoggo · 21/11/2025 15:14

The more I think about it, the more incensed I am by the section about how to support your male friends or family members who pretend to be women.

Be a good ally. Be kind. Don’t ask intrusive questions (like ‘how come you think you’re having a period when we both know you’ve got a cock and balls?’)

WHY on a website which is entirely centred around women and women’s bodies, is there a whole section instructing us to Be Kind to men? And not just any men but men who intrude in and attempt to colonise our spaces, our experiences, our lives?

We aren’t allowed anything just for ourselves- even the things we don’t want but are stuck with, like periods. I’m fuming at the gaslighting.

Absolutely.

Hey women! Be kind and let your male friend / partner fetishise your body's functions.

Muffinmam · 21/11/2025 15:28

This ridiculous rhetoric from the left just pushes more people towards conservatism.

The concerning thing is while people are arguing whether or not a genetic male can release menstrual blood from their uterus every month (they can’t) then we aren’t discussing the real issues.

tobee · 21/11/2025 15:29

Who owns this stupid and ridiculous company? Anybody know?

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