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To think the problem with wealth inequality is that rich people don't know how rich they are?

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Neeroy · 17/11/2025 09:04

Article in the Times today saying that people earning six figures 'don't feel rich'.

Because they are surrounded by six figure earning peers they are comparing themselves to people who have more rather than the 90% of the population that have far less. This is why the budget is poorly received in the news, because rich people think they already shoulder too high a burden when in fact compared to everyone else they still have far more disposable income. Even if they have to cut down on the number of holidays they go on. They aren't sitting in the dark under a blanket. Or only making food that doesn't require turning on the oven.

I don't think they realise how so many people have to live.

www.thetimes.com/article/1fb46414-8f65-436f-8f95-451d69626148?shareToken=8061d939633164c0dfbd805240c8e008

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GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:44

Tiramisutully · 18/11/2025 08:39

I can fathom how the other half live thanks. I grew up in poverty, didn’t want that for my kids, studies hard from a very early age and both my husband and I earn well.

This option was open to any and all of my classmates at school - the majority of which found it more fun to mess around at school and many of whom are on minimum wage jobs or are on out of work benefits.

You cannot whine about having little to live off if you haven’t taken all opportunities offered to you and worked hard.

You've absolutely no idea what might have been going on in the lives of your classmates though, and it's naive to assume you all had the same starting point.

HornungTheHelpful · 18/11/2025 08:49

hamstersarse · 17/11/2025 19:35

Who'd have thought?
Lower taxes increase tax revenue by like, erm, attracting business.

I can only think that people would rather continue in their envy politics than actually fixing the problem

Except now - at least for large multinationals - it can't be cut below 15% because of Pillar 2 (international tax agreement between most of the countries of the world).

People are so fixated by the "nasty corporate tax avoiders" that they fail to realise what is really going on in the world. It is more comfortable to take the easy view that current problems are caused by nasty faceless corporations than by a set of societal ills that we all need to work to solve. The reality is that tax avoidance is seriously significantly reduced since, say, the 1990s when it clearly wasn't causing significant harm and yet it is causing it now? Seems unlikely

Tiramisutully · 18/11/2025 08:50

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:44

You've absolutely no idea what might have been going on in the lives of your classmates though, and it's naive to assume you all had the same starting point.

Are we saying that no one growing up in poverty has a chance to study? I think that quite patronising to them.

Boohoo76 · 18/11/2025 08:50

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:44

You've absolutely no idea what might have been going on in the lives of your classmates though, and it's naive to assume you all had the same starting point.

Well despite being the only one on free school meals in my primary class, I am probably one of the highest earners.

OneAmberFinch · 18/11/2025 08:52

Neeroy · 17/11/2025 23:11

A quick post fired off whilst eating breakfast has certainly taken off!

In my haste to post and go to work I don't think I worded my OP necessarily how I would have with more thought.

Wealth inequality means people cannot fathom how others are living. I do agree with the distinction between rich and mega rich. But it's interesting that people are caught up on the disposable income part. Giving examples of £3k mortgage and £2k childcare and that's where the £100k goes. Without any awareness that if you don't have the money for a deposit and don't even earn £3k a month that 'only' having e.g. £900/month left as disposable income seems a privilege only afforded to 'rich' people.

It is obscene the amount of power billions can buy. E.g. Elon Musk and generations of family wealth who never need to work and live off their investments. And that is mega rich. But honestly, earning £100k year means you then expand your lifestyle to fit your earnings. And fair play to you. You do what you want with your hard earned money. But you are considerably richer than c.90% of the population.

Try using this calculator. £100k household income. 2 adults. 2 children aged 0-13. £300/month council tax. Your income is higher than 89% of the population. Even when you add in £3k housing costs you're still richer than 71% of the population.

2 adults earning £40k each and you're still in the top 69%. Rich is relative.

ifs.org.uk/tools_and_resources/where_do_you_fit_in#tool-results-section

£100k household incomes are something which are achievable by people from all but the most deprived backgrounds. Two mid career teachers on London could be on this salary. My DH is from a struggling family, mine upper working class - our families include plumbers, nurses, admin staff, teachers, construction labourers, care workers. Why would you think we are so very detached from their realities?

The way a "normal" person earns a £100k household income is by moving to London and coupling up.

And once you are in London you are in a new reality and all the numbers are different and the childminders also cost £2k and your mum isn't around. But you haven't magically transformed into a millionaire.

What you are saying probably does come in at a certain income point (I work in the City and have definitely met the kinds of people I think you're talking about, agonising over having to go to a slightly cheaper ski resort) but our point is just that a) huge fixed outgoings which aren't "luxuries" and b) inflation and tax drag over the last 3 years have had a huge impact, and many of the lower £100k earners are potentially genuinely struggling, not just relative to their peers.

CowTown · 18/11/2025 08:53

PP didn’t “have the same starting point” as those featured in the article, yet here she is—thriving as a net contributor.

Tiramisutully · 18/11/2025 08:53

HornungTheHelpful · 18/11/2025 08:49

Except now - at least for large multinationals - it can't be cut below 15% because of Pillar 2 (international tax agreement between most of the countries of the world).

People are so fixated by the "nasty corporate tax avoiders" that they fail to realise what is really going on in the world. It is more comfortable to take the easy view that current problems are caused by nasty faceless corporations than by a set of societal ills that we all need to work to solve. The reality is that tax avoidance is seriously significantly reduced since, say, the 1990s when it clearly wasn't causing significant harm and yet it is causing it now? Seems unlikely

Exactly this. People cling on to ‘solutions’ symuch as tax the rich and tax the nasty multinationals when these two options have been bled dry. The ONLY viable option to raise a large amount money in the uk is to increase income tax or VAT.

If Rache Reeves tried to raise significant sums by looking at the smaller (usually very badly designed) taxes she’ll be toast.

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:57

Tiramisutully · 18/11/2025 08:50

Are we saying that no one growing up in poverty has a chance to study? I think that quite patronising to them.

No, of course not, but it's naive to assume that everyone had the same chance, or lack of hindrance. The 'messing around' could havd been just that or it could have been undiagnosed dyslexia, ADHD, autism etc. Home lives are often not what they seem either. It's just naive to not see the bigger picture.

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:58

Boohoo76 · 18/11/2025 08:50

Well despite being the only one on free school meals in my primary class, I am probably one of the highest earners.

And? Read my previous reply.

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:59

CowTown · 18/11/2025 08:53

PP didn’t “have the same starting point” as those featured in the article, yet here she is—thriving as a net contributor.

'Thriving as well net contributor' ..... 🫣

Digdongdoo · 18/11/2025 09:02

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:57

No, of course not, but it's naive to assume that everyone had the same chance, or lack of hindrance. The 'messing around' could havd been just that or it could have been undiagnosed dyslexia, ADHD, autism etc. Home lives are often not what they seem either. It's just naive to not see the bigger picture.

But some people do just mess around and coast through life though. It's stupid to pretend otherwise. Not every well off person was born with a silver spoon in their mouth, not every poor person has been held back by endless barriers.
Of course not everyone has the same chances in life. But some people do just piss away every chance they do get, and some people their best to seek out opportunity. It's not black and white.

CowTown · 18/11/2025 09:10

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:59

'Thriving as well net contributor' ..... 🫣

Someone’s got to be the net contributors in the economy, eh?

Your jealousy and spite toward the previous poster is palpable.

Tiramisutully · 18/11/2025 09:12

Digdongdoo · 18/11/2025 09:02

But some people do just mess around and coast through life though. It's stupid to pretend otherwise. Not every well off person was born with a silver spoon in their mouth, not every poor person has been held back by endless barriers.
Of course not everyone has the same chances in life. But some people do just piss away every chance they do get, and some people their best to seek out opportunity. It's not black and white.

It’s so true. So many bleeding heart liberals had a nice middle class life and just assume that all kids messing around in class have Sen, rather than preferring to mess around. It was decidedly uncool in my school to show any interest in learning. Should we feel sorry for the kids who were determined to be one of the cool kids? I don’t think so. They made my life hell.

Boohoo76 · 18/11/2025 09:14

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:58

And? Read my previous reply.

I did read your previous reply and all I saw excuses. I grew up in a low income home with a dad that was in and out of work and a mum who became seriously ill in her 40’s. I was severely bullied at school, had undiagnosed autism that was treated as mental illness and tried to commit suicide at 16. I also missed a lot of school between 13-16 due to asthma that was exacerbated by my parents smoking.

But I still managed to qualify as a solicitor and earn the elusive six figure salary.

Goldwren1923 · 18/11/2025 09:22

GehenSieweiter · 18/11/2025 08:44

You've absolutely no idea what might have been going on in the lives of your classmates though, and it's naive to assume you all had the same starting point.

There are immigrants who has much worse starting points - who would DREAM of being born with UK passport, free school, excellent free or subsidised universities (not all countries have student loans), and access to jobs that were available here in the last 30 years. Despite any chaos at home.
I know a guy from India who was born in a mud floor hut and eventually was able to make a career and put himself through a top business school in the US.

Many many UK born have no idea how lucky and privileged they are. And they do indeed fritter their opportunities, think they will be ok on a low paying job because what’s the point of aspiring to more, and then whine that someone else has 6 figure salary and they deserve more.

CasperGutman · 18/11/2025 09:24

percypiggy200 · 17/11/2025 22:37

Ok so you are not a net contributor - and you haven’t been - to the country. How lucky that other people are motivated by money and have subsidized you. I’m sure they’d love to know that you pity them.

Just because someone worked in local government you feel able to make such a sweeping statement, that they haven't "contributed" to society? Ridiculous! And offensive. Perhaps our society fails adequately to recognise the contributions made to society by employees of local and national government, but that doesn't mean they don't contribute. Public sector institutions didn't come into being because people wanted to waste money but because they addressed needs that otherwise went unmet or were met only ineffectively and inefficiently.

If a local road needs to be repaired, and a council highways department employee identifies the problem and employs a private contractor to carry out the work, then does that highways worker merely drain the public purse, making no useful contribution, while the contractor's HR manager or finance director is somehow heroically contributing? Of course not. And does a police officer not contribute while a privately employed security guard in a shopping centre does? No.

This attitude undervalues contributions that can't be measured in the crudest financial terms. It also fails to recognise the monetary value of the work the public sector does. Businesses can't create wealth without roads and other infrastructure. They need an educated pool of potential employees. They need law enforcement and social programmes without which crime would soar, towns and cities would be unpleasant and lawless places to be, and businesses would lose out on passing trade and have to spend vastly more on security.

Digdongdoo · 18/11/2025 09:34

CasperGutman · 18/11/2025 09:24

Just because someone worked in local government you feel able to make such a sweeping statement, that they haven't "contributed" to society? Ridiculous! And offensive. Perhaps our society fails adequately to recognise the contributions made to society by employees of local and national government, but that doesn't mean they don't contribute. Public sector institutions didn't come into being because people wanted to waste money but because they addressed needs that otherwise went unmet or were met only ineffectively and inefficiently.

If a local road needs to be repaired, and a council highways department employee identifies the problem and employs a private contractor to carry out the work, then does that highways worker merely drain the public purse, making no useful contribution, while the contractor's HR manager or finance director is somehow heroically contributing? Of course not. And does a police officer not contribute while a privately employed security guard in a shopping centre does? No.

This attitude undervalues contributions that can't be measured in the crudest financial terms. It also fails to recognise the monetary value of the work the public sector does. Businesses can't create wealth without roads and other infrastructure. They need an educated pool of potential employees. They need law enforcement and social programmes without which crime would soar, towns and cities would be unpleasant and lawless places to be, and businesses would lose out on passing trade and have to spend vastly more on security.

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I think it's very widely accepted that "net contributor" refers to finances, so don't get all righteous about other contributions. It is a symbiotic relationship - public sector is funded by private sector. It is true that government jobs (or certainly not as many of them) and the generous pensions wouldn't exist without private sector tax payers. Nobody said it's heroic, but we all make choices about the sector we work in, and things do have to be paid for by somebody.

Differentforgirls · 18/11/2025 09:37

CowTown · 18/11/2025 09:10

Someone’s got to be the net contributors in the economy, eh?

Your jealousy and spite toward the previous poster is palpable.

So explain why I am not a net contributor.

CowTown · 18/11/2025 09:40

Differentforgirls · 18/11/2025 09:37

So explain why I am not a net contributor.

Can you please point me to the post where I said you weren’t?

Show me your financial details, and I’ll be able to help you work it out.

Differentforgirls · 18/11/2025 09:41

CasperGutman · 18/11/2025 09:24

Just because someone worked in local government you feel able to make such a sweeping statement, that they haven't "contributed" to society? Ridiculous! And offensive. Perhaps our society fails adequately to recognise the contributions made to society by employees of local and national government, but that doesn't mean they don't contribute. Public sector institutions didn't come into being because people wanted to waste money but because they addressed needs that otherwise went unmet or were met only ineffectively and inefficiently.

If a local road needs to be repaired, and a council highways department employee identifies the problem and employs a private contractor to carry out the work, then does that highways worker merely drain the public purse, making no useful contribution, while the contractor's HR manager or finance director is somehow heroically contributing? Of course not. And does a police officer not contribute while a privately employed security guard in a shopping centre does? No.

This attitude undervalues contributions that can't be measured in the crudest financial terms. It also fails to recognise the monetary value of the work the public sector does. Businesses can't create wealth without roads and other infrastructure. They need an educated pool of potential employees. They need law enforcement and social programmes without which crime would soar, towns and cities would be unpleasant and lawless places to be, and businesses would lose out on passing trade and have to spend vastly more on security.

Edited

Thank you! The person alse seems unaware that many Local Govt employees earn 6 figures!

Digdongdoo · 18/11/2025 09:45

Differentforgirls · 18/11/2025 09:41

Thank you! The person alse seems unaware that many Local Govt employees earn 6 figures!

So you were a 6 figure earner yourself?

Differentforgirls · 18/11/2025 09:45

CowTown · 18/11/2025 09:40

Can you please point me to the post where I said you weren’t?

Show me your financial details, and I’ll be able to help you work it out.

Edited

Sorry it was someone else.

Differentforgirls · 18/11/2025 09:47

CowTown · 18/11/2025 09:40

Can you please point me to the post where I said you weren’t?

Show me your financial details, and I’ll be able to help you work it out.

Edited

I can work it out myself thank you.

Differentforgirls · 18/11/2025 09:48

Digdongdoo · 18/11/2025 09:45

So you were a 6 figure earner yourself?

None of your business!

Digdongdoo · 18/11/2025 10:00

Differentforgirls · 18/11/2025 09:48

None of your business!

You've got plenty of opinions about other peoples money, why so cagey about your own?