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Cleaner/receptionist did my hair at the salon

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Brood · 15/11/2025 17:47

An incident happened at my hairdressers today and I’m wondering if I was the unreasonable one. Before I get into that, I have been going to this salon for about 15 years. I attend between once a week and once a month.

In the past year, there have been issues I’ve been unhappy about. I’ll name two.

I like to get my hair blow dried on Sunday to do me for the working week. On one occasion, the stylist called over a girl working there cleaning the salon and told her it was an opportunity for her to learn. She blow dried and curled half my head of hair while the stylist did the other side. I paid full price but the side the unqualified girl did fell out before I got home.

Another time this unqualified girl rubbed in my colour and washed my hair even though I was booked in with the professional. I again paid full price but my colour wasn’t done right - she missed bits and didn’t put it at the start of the root and I had to wash it myself after 2 days.

I booked in to get my hair done today. The stylist was about 30 minutes late starting - this can be pretty typical, which can be a bit irritating if I’ve rushed to get there on time & could have been getting a coffee in the time I’m sitting waiting. It’s even more annoying that no staff members approach me to inform me how long the delay will be instead walking by me ignoring me.

When the hairdresser eventually came out, she sat me down & cloaked me up & went off to mix my colour. Then she disappeared into the staff kitchen. The same girl from before who works on reception and helps out sweeping the floor etc. came over and started rubbing in my colour independently. She got it all over my face, in my ears and down the back of my neck. After about an hour she came back to wash it out. During the wash, she applied very little pressure and I could tell when I got up the colour wasn’t properly washed out, she applied no conditioner and my hair was full of knots.

The stylist I was booked in with came over and told me this girl was going to start to blow dry my hair. I told her I would prefer to wait until she was ready to do it explaining I had booked in with her. I stressed that I had booked in with her for my colour and wash too. She said she was running behind. I told her if she didn’t have time to do it, I’d prefer to go home and do it myself. I then got up and went to pay. She followed me and I explained that when I ring a professional hairdressing salon to get my hair done, I want it done by a professional. I was told on the phone a professional would be doing it.

I explained that I had got my hair done before at hairdressing colleges and booked in with a student there where I would be charged half price. I explained that the girl who did my hair was not a student, had no hairdressing training and if I wanted an unprofessional job, I could do it myself and save my time and money.

I also said that it should be made clear on the phone if there is no professional available and that it’s not fair to the customer or the girl to be put in the position we were put in.

They asked me if they could clean the dye off me as it was all over my face and neck. I pointed out that it was that way because I had been placed in the hands of someone who wasn’t a professional

The stylist said sorry but I didn’t feel she really meant it. She said things got backed up and she felt it would be better for me to get my hair done with someone rather than no- one. I mean, really?! The manager seemed horrified but she was fully aware of what was going on. I think she was more horrified that they were being called out on it.

Am I the unreasonable one in this situation. Is it too much to expect that if I book in to get my hair professionally done and I am being charged professional prices that I get a professional job?

I came home with wet hair full of knots and spent about 15 minutes removing dye with nail varnish remover. I had a planned date but ended up cancelling it

Do you think this is ok?

OP posts:
MintDog · 15/11/2025 18:13

Just walk with your feet. I'm about to walk from my hairdressers about 30 years loyal service! Never does what I ask for, and because I'm considered their 'oldest' client doesn't even bother treating me like a client. Last time I went I had to get my own gown and ask for a cup of coffee! Still charged me the full £125 though.

Brood · 15/11/2025 18:14

ShamrockShenanigans · 15/11/2025 18:06

I thought it wouldn’t happen again.

And nor would it if you hadn't have sat there and let it happen.

They are completely in the wrong but quite why you allowed it to happen again, is beyond me.

I think that’s why I got up and left. I was blindsided when she started rubbing the colour in and then realised after she had started that the stylist had disappeared. I was growing increasingly annoyed that the stylist hadn’t reappeared when the time came wash it out and the unqualified girl was doing such a bad job at washing it out (it took about 30 minutes) and it still wasn’t washed out properly, I sat there and told myself that I’ll wait and see if they try to repair this but if the unqualified girl is assigned to blow dry it, I told myself I’d leave. I am annoyed I didn’t say anything sooner

OP posts:
Hankunamatata · 15/11/2025 18:15

Well done op for calling them out. Hope they didnt make you pay the full price for half a job

Steeleydan · 15/11/2025 18:18

RoseAlone · 15/11/2025 18:00

I have no idea what having your colour rubbed in means. I've never had a colour rubbed in in my life!

Me neither, or gone to a hairdressers on a Sunday

Brood · 15/11/2025 18:18

Dartmoorcheffy · 15/11/2025 17:51

Good for you on pulling them up on it. Did you get any money off?

The manager came over and said I didn’t have to pay. I think she just wanted me out of there. I was thinking they should have been paying me - the cheek. Having said that, if they charged me, I would have paid. They said it’ll never happen again. It’s very disappointing because to me it feels like they’re treating customers very unfairly

OP posts:
Brood · 15/11/2025 18:19

Steeleydan · 15/11/2025 18:18

Me neither, or gone to a hairdressers on a Sunday

It means the put the colour on your hair. Yeah, they open on Sunday, which is another reason why I like this salon. They’re closed on Mondays

OP posts:
Hons123 · 15/11/2025 18:21

You were far too nice. You should have put an end to it the first time an untrained person approached your hair. You should not have agreed to anyone, apart from the professional stylist you booked. Even if it involved getting up and leaving with wet hair. You were far too polite to your own detriment, put up with this shite for far too long.

Kittlewittle · 15/11/2025 18:22

I'm surprised you went back after the first incident.

You clearly need to find a new salon, or DIY at home (dye is pretty easy)

Brood · 15/11/2025 18:27

Kittlewittle · 15/11/2025 18:22

I'm surprised you went back after the first incident.

You clearly need to find a new salon, or DIY at home (dye is pretty easy)

I have consistently mentioned it if it came up when I was booking in. The salon did make me feel quite unreasonable for it though. It’s extremely frustrating. I think I’ll be labelled the difficult customer now

OP posts:
Pollyxplummer · 15/11/2025 18:29

The fact that you are a regular, loyal customer is working against you. They no longer feel they need to impress you, they think you're a sure thing. So they treat you how they want, and give their attention to the people they are trying to reel in.

It absolutely shouldn't be like that. But sadly, it is.

Take your business elsewhere.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 15/11/2025 18:29

RoseAlone · 15/11/2025 18:00

I have no idea what having your colour rubbed in means. I've never had a colour rubbed in in my life!

Of course you do.

You know exactly what OP means.

Don't be that person.

TheHillIsMine · 15/11/2025 18:30

Oh come off it. You know it's not okay. Don't do the faux I'm not sure, crap. You're an adult presumably. You know your service was shit.

WLnamechange · 15/11/2025 18:33

Steeleydan · 15/11/2025 18:18

Me neither, or gone to a hairdressers on a Sunday

Today is Saturday?

TheHillIsMine · 15/11/2025 18:35

Brood · 15/11/2025 18:27

I have consistently mentioned it if it came up when I was booking in. The salon did make me feel quite unreasonable for it though. It’s extremely frustrating. I think I’ll be labelled the difficult customer now

Don't let them make you feel unreasonable and who cares if you think you are difficult ? You'd be silly to ever go back though.

Steeleydan · 15/11/2025 18:38

WLnamechange · 15/11/2025 18:33

Today is Saturday?

No shit it's Saturday!!
The OP states she goes to the hairdressers on a Sunday, I just commented I'd never heard of a salon open on a Sunday

ShodAndShadySenators · 15/11/2025 18:42

Brood · 15/11/2025 18:27

I have consistently mentioned it if it came up when I was booking in. The salon did make me feel quite unreasonable for it though. It’s extremely frustrating. I think I’ll be labelled the difficult customer now

You won't be called the difficult customer, you'll be called an ex-customer. Because you won't be going back, will you?

Have they considered what would happen if an accident occurred, like a client getting hair dye in their eye? The receptionist/sweeper-up/dogsbody won't be covered under their liability cover, the business wouldn't be insured. It's a huge Health & Safety issue as far as I'm concerned. They shouldn't be allowing an untrained person to put chemicals on customers, full stop.

wizzler · 15/11/2025 18:43

There is a thread on MN at the moment where someone went to get their hair dyed and ended up in hospital having a skin graft. YANBU to expect a professional to do your hair

Isittimeformynapyet · 15/11/2025 18:43

Steeleydan · 15/11/2025 18:38

No shit it's Saturday!!
The OP states she goes to the hairdressers on a Sunday, I just commented I'd never heard of a salon open on a Sunday

Fight!-fight!-fight!

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 15/11/2025 18:43

Do you usually have the same stylist?

if my hairdresser had done this I’d be fuming. I only have her as she knows me and my hair and she’s lovely too.

that’s so disappointing when you’ve been going so long and have a weekly appointment. Maybe they are too comfy with you now and feel like they can mess you around.

do you have any local options to swap to?

WLnamechange · 15/11/2025 18:44

Steeleydan · 15/11/2025 18:38

No shit it's Saturday!!
The OP states she goes to the hairdressers on a Sunday, I just commented I'd never heard of a salon open on a Sunday

I saw further down the post about the blow-dry on a Sunday after reading the post about 3 times, apologies. But FWIW I've never heard of a salon opening on a Sunday either.

HonoraBridge · 15/11/2025 18:47

This is very poor indeed. If I were you, I wouldn’t go back.

ConnieHeart · 15/11/2025 18:53

ajandjjmum · 15/11/2025 17:51

Seems a very poor way to treat a customer whose been loyal for 15 years!

Even if it was my 1st visit I would expect the service I'd paid for

Isobel201 · 15/11/2025 18:55

YABU, definetly find another salon. I use a hairdresser who only does her own clients even though she rents a chair in a salon.

Pollyxplummer · 15/11/2025 18:56

Steeleydan · 15/11/2025 18:38

No shit it's Saturday!!
The OP states she goes to the hairdressers on a Sunday, I just commented I'd never heard of a salon open on a Sunday

I'm very surprised to hear you haven't heard of this. Surely weekends are the busiest times for salons, as that's when a lot of their customers are going to be available? It would be very bad for business to be closed at the weekend.

In my experience, salons tend to be open at weekends and close Mondays instead. Sometimes Mondays and Tuesdays.

Fundays12 · 15/11/2025 19:01

It seems to me they are doing it because they know your a long standing client and feel able to take advantage. Personally I would be looking for a new salon.

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