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The 2 child benefit cap lift will be cancelled out by the weekly benefit cap

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Pinkbowls · 12/11/2025 13:24

I keep seeing all this talk about families with 6+ kids “racking it in” if the two-child benefit cap is lifted, and honestly, it’s hogwash. Here’s the reality:

If the Labour government does lift the two-child cap, it will mainly help low-income working families and families who are claiming disability benefits. These households aren’t subject to the cap, so the poorest families and those who genuinely need extra support for a third or fourth child are the ones who will benefit.

For a single adult with two children outside London, the monthly benefit cap is around £1,832 (~£423 per week). In London, it’s higher, about £2,108 per month (~£486 per week).

Now let’s break it down roughly for someone renting privately:

  • Assume the standard allowance + personal allowance for the adult + child elements (for 2 kids) = around £1,200–£1,300/month.
  • Private rent in many parts of the UK, and especially in London, can easily eat £800–£1,200/month.
  • Add council tax support (which helps a bit, but only partially) and you can see that most of the cap is already taken up.

So in reality, lifting the two-child cap doesn’t suddenly create a pile of extra cash. For families on benefits but below the cap, the extra child element for a third or fourth child may only leave a modest amount after rent and council tax.

The idea that parents with 6+ children will suddenly be sitting on a fortune is completely overblown. The system is designed so that the support goes to those who genuinely need it, not to families already comfortably above the threshold.

The main winners of this policy will be:

  • Low-income working families who are earning enough to be under the cap and can actually receive the child element for additional children.
  • Families claiming disability benefits, who aren’t subject to the cap at all.

It’s important to separate myths from reality: this is about helping the most vulnerable and supporting working families, not about rewarding large families for being on benefits.

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autumn1610 · 12/11/2025 17:58

Pinkbowls · 12/11/2025 16:44

Most of that goes on rent for a lot of people. Even outside of London private rents can be high.

So does my salary/ bills they take the majority of my salary and I don’t have much left over and get zero help apart from a slight reduction in council tax so a just live pay check to paycheck pretty much with not a lot of fun money. Tbh I didn’t realise it’s as much as the figures you’ve listed and I also realise a lot of people won’t get the full amount, but that does seem higher than I expected. I do think there should be a better more fairer way so it doesn’t seem as a big a slap in the face but what that is I couldn’t even tell you

Simonjt · 12/11/2025 17:58

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If my friend relied on NHS wheelchairs he would have spent the last 19 months completely bed bound. Would that basic shelter be fully wheelchair accessible, that includes wider doorways, step free access, a hoist, full wetroom, rooms big enough to get around furniture, all sockets in reach, adapted kitchen. Would the basic food include all prepared foods that can be prepared by someone with extremely limited hand and arm function? What about laundry and housework, he can’t do any of that, would he under your system be expected to live in filth?

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 17:58

Lou7171 · 12/11/2025 17:56

If people put half as much energy into tackling the ever widening gap between the rich and the poor as they do benefits bashing, people might see their standard of living and wages improve. Instead they go after the poorest in society because it makes them feel better about themselves. Pathetic really.

Anyone reading this thread on universal credit, please ignore them. I once worked for a housing association and the majority of mums were trying their bloody hardest while the father of their children were nowhere to be seen. To a pp, no I don't think these women or their children should have just the basics in life. As a civilised (and wealthy!!) country, we should be trying our fucking hardest to give our children the best start in life. Absolutely disgraceful comments on this thread.

Well said. The punching down on here is awful.

Joeninety · 12/11/2025 17:59

No incentive to actually work......As it's been for decades.

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 17:59

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 17:56

You think that he should lead a basic life with no luxuries.. like a steak.. thats where you said it

Yes. Where did I say he should have NO food, NO heating?
food - yes. Steak - not through government.
heating - yes. Zoo visits - not through government.
etc

141mum · 12/11/2025 17:59

MossAndLeaves · 12/11/2025 13:54

Could you comfortably live off that?..

Then get a job

Bootsies · 12/11/2025 18:00

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If there were such facilities, my life would be soooo much easier. I would not care 24/7, I could work and have a really good income. I could have holidays, go out for meals, have a social life. I would have free time, I would have a LIFE, you know. and if the care is good, it would benefit DC as well.

carers get 83 per week. residential care would be in the region of 4-5k per week for someone like DC. Carers save the state a bombe. There is a reason why there isn't enough residential care as it is much cheaper to throw disabled people and carers under the bus.

I have to say I am really upset that some people believe that disabled people like DC and carers like myself should be satisfied with the absolute basics and not enjoy any quality of life despite working around the clock. I currently work part time and care for 2 DC with very complex needs. I either work or care. I get zero break. you will be relieved to hear that we are pretty poor and do not enjoy much quality of life. no holidays, no meals out, cutting back ok food and many other basics. Life is pretty shit for us. hurray, eh?

RaininSummer · 12/11/2025 18:00

SouthLondonMum22 · 12/11/2025 17:35

carers allowance is taken pound for pound from UC payments. No one is getting CA's on top of UC.

Yes they do effectively because carers element is added to their claim and there are NEETS doing this but probably not on the figures as being a carer means you don't have commitments to seek work. This means ultimately they are more unemployable after being treated as carers for a long time from a young age.

Simonjt · 12/11/2025 18:00

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 17:55

where did I say that?

If you want him poor enough that he can’t afford a steak, then you’re surely aware he wouldn’t be able to heat his home, a steak is food, specialist clothing would be the equivalent to several steaks.

lessglittermoremud · 12/11/2025 18:01

People are annoyed because affordability should dictate how many children you have. We stopped at 3 and made sure we couldn’t have any more because number 3 had been a surprise and we couldn’t afford any more children.
A family in our road has an oldest child with SEN and the family have gone on to have lots more children, they are perfectly within their rights to have as many children as they wish, however neither parents appear to work and although I can’t see what happens behind closed doors, they outwardly appear fairly comfortably housed etc.
My DH works 6 days a week averaging almost 60 hours a week, I work between 24-32, we aren’t entitled to claim anything. Many people are taking on 2nd jobs due the cost of living, so any talk of increasing benefits for people will always be emotive.

Chafing · 12/11/2025 18:02

RaininSummer · 12/11/2025 17:53

But that number does not include their housing if they rent so they actually do get more than 800 unless they have no rent.

My 21 year old had to claim UC for a while this Summer. He lives in his uni city. The maximum housing benefit for a single 21 year old was 80 per week. His rent - one room in a modest shared flat - is 120 a week. He got 73 a week of UC, the first 40 of which went straight on rent. Then he had to pay other bills, food, clothing and travel to interviews on 33 a week. He was absolutely penniless. We had to help him out repeatedly.

He was trying to live on about 120 a month. Hardly the lap of luxury.

Leavesfalling · 12/11/2025 18:02

Youdontseehow · 12/11/2025 16:41

maybe, but you only need to read on here to realise many, many women are left in the lurch with their DC when their partners take off.

Add in people who become ill, injured or widowed and I reckon there’s a significant amount of people having DC they thought they could afford then their circumstances changed.

Remember also we have a falling birth rate coupled with an aging population so we actually need people to be having DC.

I just dont see why working people have to earn less to give more money to people on benefits. Or for a nation of nearly 70 milion to pay people to have children. Cut your coat to suit your cloth and dont be a parasite.

That should be the over-all policy and approach to this. And then people can claim a safety net (which is what benefits should be) rather than a lifestyle choice, which should be rigorously assessed in person and apply to individual circumstances.

Hyasinth · 12/11/2025 18:02

PeanutChunky · 12/11/2025 17:37

Remember also we have a falling birth rate coupled with an aging population so we actually need people to be having DC.

My no doubt unpopular view, is that the kids of someone on benefits who has lots of children, are not all going to grow up to be hard-working taxpayers who solve the problems of an ageing population. It would be great if that was the case but I really don’t see it happening.

If I am going to subsidise people to have children, I would like to be able to choose the people I subsidise.

And I would not start by subsidising people who have been unable to get their own lives together as they are highly unlikely to bring up children in such a way that they will become contributors themselves

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 18:02

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 17:59

Yes. Where did I say he should have NO food, NO heating?
food - yes. Steak - not through government.
heating - yes. Zoo visits - not through government.
etc

Government funded steak 😂I have seen it all now.
If someone on UC can budget and afford a steak, then fair play to them. They might have cut back on something else to do so.

Or are you suggesting that people on benefits get food parcels delivered? Fuck it, just have them on Huel. Can't have them enjoying their food can we.

feellikeanalien · 12/11/2025 18:02

Hyasinth · 12/11/2025 17:30

According to entitled.com an unemployed 18 year old living rent free with family in my area should get around £316 per month.

IME many also manage to claim carer’s allowance for another family member who is also on benefits. That brings the monthly amount up to over £500.

No incentive at all to go out and get an entry level job which involves getting up and out of the door every morning. And once that habit is lost, it is really difficult to regain it…and the MH issues become real.

Carers allowance is deducted from UC.

Simonjt · 12/11/2025 18:03

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 18:02

Government funded steak 😂I have seen it all now.
If someone on UC can budget and afford a steak, then fair play to them. They might have cut back on something else to do so.

Or are you suggesting that people on benefits get food parcels delivered? Fuck it, just have them on Huel. Can't have them enjoying their food can we.

They’ll complain huel is too expensive!

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:03

Simonjt · 12/11/2025 17:58

If my friend relied on NHS wheelchairs he would have spent the last 19 months completely bed bound. Would that basic shelter be fully wheelchair accessible, that includes wider doorways, step free access, a hoist, full wetroom, rooms big enough to get around furniture, all sockets in reach, adapted kitchen. Would the basic food include all prepared foods that can be prepared by someone with extremely limited hand and arm function? What about laundry and housework, he can’t do any of that, would he under your system be expected to live in filth?

But that’s the problem that it’s not funded through correct channels.

funding NHS or whatever channels that he gets appropriate equipment, adjusted housing, carer - ok.
delivering this through cash benefits so people can sort it out themselves- no, because it opens it for abuse by others (NOT like your friend).

and again, basic doesn’t meant zero.

Hyasinth · 12/11/2025 18:04

feellikeanalien · 12/11/2025 18:02

Carers allowance is deducted from UC.

Yes. I know. That is the amount after relevant deductions

Leavesfalling · 12/11/2025 18:05

Bootsies · 12/11/2025 18:00

If there were such facilities, my life would be soooo much easier. I would not care 24/7, I could work and have a really good income. I could have holidays, go out for meals, have a social life. I would have free time, I would have a LIFE, you know. and if the care is good, it would benefit DC as well.

carers get 83 per week. residential care would be in the region of 4-5k per week for someone like DC. Carers save the state a bombe. There is a reason why there isn't enough residential care as it is much cheaper to throw disabled people and carers under the bus.

I have to say I am really upset that some people believe that disabled people like DC and carers like myself should be satisfied with the absolute basics and not enjoy any quality of life despite working around the clock. I currently work part time and care for 2 DC with very complex needs. I either work or care. I get zero break. you will be relieved to hear that we are pretty poor and do not enjoy much quality of life. no holidays, no meals out, cutting back ok food and many other basics. Life is pretty shit for us. hurray, eh?

No one owes you anything in life. You are lucky you Iive in a country where tax payers can finance you at all.

Rescuedogblues · 12/11/2025 18:05

The thought that disabled people and children should struggle, have only basic food and shelter is abhorrent. I cant believe people actually think like this.

Making disabled people's life HARDER and more depressing isn't going to help anyone get to a place they could work.

I am disabled and a carer, my children are disabled. One of my children is at a specialist school. One of my children is getting EOTAS, to get EOTAS means that there is not a SINGLE school in the county or reasonable distance across counties that can meet my child's needs. There is NO school that can have him, but I manage both children on my own and have no option to say "no sorry I cant meet his needs".

And I deserve only basic food and shelter? Whats that? Porridge and a tent? These threads are awful with people who often don't have a clue about disabilities.

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:05

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 17:59

Yes. Where did I say he should have NO food, NO heating?
food - yes. Steak - not through government.
heating - yes. Zoo visits - not through government.
etc

You're honestly disgusting

One day maybe you'll be eating your words and not a steak

Simonjt · 12/11/2025 18:06

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:03

But that’s the problem that it’s not funded through correct channels.

funding NHS or whatever channels that he gets appropriate equipment, adjusted housing, carer - ok.
delivering this through cash benefits so people can sort it out themselves- no, because it opens it for abuse by others (NOT like your friend).

and again, basic doesn’t meant zero.

So food, clean clothes and a clean home isn’t okay and is beyond basic?

Ticklyoctopus · 12/11/2025 18:06

Issueswiththetap · 12/11/2025 17:58

Have you even seen a DLA/PIP form ?
Read the decision makers handbook ?
Had a PIP assessment?
know how much additional evidence you need to provide ?

Yes.

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:06

Chafing · 12/11/2025 18:02

My 21 year old had to claim UC for a while this Summer. He lives in his uni city. The maximum housing benefit for a single 21 year old was 80 per week. His rent - one room in a modest shared flat - is 120 a week. He got 73 a week of UC, the first 40 of which went straight on rent. Then he had to pay other bills, food, clothing and travel to interviews on 33 a week. He was absolutely penniless. We had to help him out repeatedly.

He was trying to live on about 120 a month. Hardly the lap of luxury.

Yeah but when there are millions like that, it adds up.

of course you should be helping him out; in fact he should get no UC whatsoever nor housing benefits, you as parents need to bear this cost until he finds a job.

why is it a government problem and you think you should not be “helping out”?

Leavesfalling · 12/11/2025 18:06

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 18:02

Government funded steak 😂I have seen it all now.
If someone on UC can budget and afford a steak, then fair play to them. They might have cut back on something else to do so.

Or are you suggesting that people on benefits get food parcels delivered? Fuck it, just have them on Huel. Can't have them enjoying their food can we.

I thought BMW were one of the car makes that you can claim for to be paid for by tax payers. Steak wouldn't surprise me at all.

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