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The 2 child benefit cap lift will be cancelled out by the weekly benefit cap

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Pinkbowls · 12/11/2025 13:24

I keep seeing all this talk about families with 6+ kids “racking it in” if the two-child benefit cap is lifted, and honestly, it’s hogwash. Here’s the reality:

If the Labour government does lift the two-child cap, it will mainly help low-income working families and families who are claiming disability benefits. These households aren’t subject to the cap, so the poorest families and those who genuinely need extra support for a third or fourth child are the ones who will benefit.

For a single adult with two children outside London, the monthly benefit cap is around £1,832 (~£423 per week). In London, it’s higher, about £2,108 per month (~£486 per week).

Now let’s break it down roughly for someone renting privately:

  • Assume the standard allowance + personal allowance for the adult + child elements (for 2 kids) = around £1,200–£1,300/month.
  • Private rent in many parts of the UK, and especially in London, can easily eat £800–£1,200/month.
  • Add council tax support (which helps a bit, but only partially) and you can see that most of the cap is already taken up.

So in reality, lifting the two-child cap doesn’t suddenly create a pile of extra cash. For families on benefits but below the cap, the extra child element for a third or fourth child may only leave a modest amount after rent and council tax.

The idea that parents with 6+ children will suddenly be sitting on a fortune is completely overblown. The system is designed so that the support goes to those who genuinely need it, not to families already comfortably above the threshold.

The main winners of this policy will be:

  • Low-income working families who are earning enough to be under the cap and can actually receive the child element for additional children.
  • Families claiming disability benefits, who aren’t subject to the cap at all.

It’s important to separate myths from reality: this is about helping the most vulnerable and supporting working families, not about rewarding large families for being on benefits.

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Frannieisnthappy · 12/11/2025 22:56

Candystripes85 · 12/11/2025 22:42

Sorry you are mistaken. Her whole house gets paid for. She previously owned a house with her ex. They split up and sold the house. As she had the kids with her, she was entitled to social housing. She put a bid in on a new build scheme in our area which offered part ownership and part social housing rented. She put her £100k from the previous house on the new one (that was her share that she owned outright). The rest of the house which is rented from social housing is covered by UC. So she is in fact living in a new build with absolutely no rent or mortgage to pay, plus all the other benefits that come with it. Yes she put £100k of her own money to buy her share, but how is she allowed to purchase a property with £100k and then go straight on to benefits and get all her expenses covered by the tax payer.

Then I have another friend whose mum inherited a lot of money after living in a council house her whole life (wasn’t entitled herself but she lived with her mother who was). She claimed benefits from the moment she came to the country 40 years ago and never worked. Bought a house outright with her large inheritance and then went straight back to living on benefits. In my opinion, she should have been made to repay everything she had been paid, before being allowed to purchase a property and go back to claiming.

This is why I’ve said in another comment, that people are so naive to the benefits culture in this country. People genuinely believe that every one on benefits needs it, they have a hard life and they don’t have bills covered. It’s really not the case!

Her whole house doesnt get paid for only the part that is rented.

You have said yourself she has purchased a percentage outright using her divorce settlement.

And on the rented part it will only be based on her circumstances - what she earns, local housing allowance, children and required number of bedrooms.

Shared ownership has strict affordability checks in place which take into account all types of income.

I would say your friend has probably been quite sensible to secure stable housing which could be cheaper than UC paying the rent for a whole privately let property.

OonaStubbs · 12/11/2025 22:57

SpaceRaccoon · 12/11/2025 22:56

If we carry on with the trajectory of making it hard for responsible working people to have children, and beneficial for the feckless to have many, we'll eventually wind up with too small a tax base to sustain any of it.
In fact, we may already have arrived at that point.

It's inevitable. The longer we leave it, the worse it will get. Best to make the harsh but necessary changes now rather than kicking the can down the road for future generations to deal with.

ruethewhirl · 12/11/2025 23:00

Leavesfalling · 12/11/2025 22:45

Does it though? Or is it just a bit of a 2023 put-down that has no real meaning anymore. "Bile" is also a little trite and overused these days. But nice try.

You might be surprised to learn that I don't give a flying shit whether you consider my vocabulary sufficiently contemporary. But nice attempt to deflect from what I was actually saying.

24kPalamino · 12/11/2025 23:00

ruethewhirl · 12/11/2025 22:38

Oh, I'm not having any trouble understanding the 'context' of the bile you've been spitting on this thread.

Perhaps own your bigotry.

Ah got you.

So you’ll know that specific response was sarcasm.

But generally, yes, I have an issue with the government taking more of my money against my will, to give to other people to have more babies and not work. I am starting to wonder why anyone would actually bother working.

But I’m supposed to happily hand over my taxes; because that’s a ‘nice’ thing to do.

I couldn’t care less what you think of my posts. It’s quite reassuring to me that many hard working taxpayers are waking up to this unfairness.

Starconundrum · 12/11/2025 23:02

Why does noone look up?

Massive corporations, conglomerates, the pyramid scheme that is pensions and finance. Those are what are taking your money.

It's not the people.

Support each other or you'll lose everything.

FlyMeSomewhere · 12/11/2025 23:03

Outside9 · 12/11/2025 22:22

I think children shouldn't be made to suffer in impoverished conditions because their parents don't have sufficient income.

And you're painting a specific narrative. Most people who claim benefits actually work.

It doesn't feel like most of them work! I don't mind helping low income working families to have top.up bit what I don't want to pay for all the so called single mothers who have lots of kids and a daddy that's laughing whilst we pay to feed abs house his kids! I would like stricter classification on what passes as a disability and needs money! Someone who is able to.work without issue doesn't need a pip payment just for the sake of it, people cannot just sit at home claiming anxiety and depression as though sitting at home is a cure!.they need to work. And mothers need to stop labelling so many kids as disabled! The future is bleak if this doesn't change!

ruethewhirl · 12/11/2025 23:03

24kPalamino · 12/11/2025 23:00

Ah got you.

So you’ll know that specific response was sarcasm.

But generally, yes, I have an issue with the government taking more of my money against my will, to give to other people to have more babies and not work. I am starting to wonder why anyone would actually bother working.

But I’m supposed to happily hand over my taxes; because that’s a ‘nice’ thing to do.

I couldn’t care less what you think of my posts. It’s quite reassuring to me that many hard working taxpayers are waking up to this unfairness.

PIP claimants who are working still have to pay tax on their salaries too. Just saying.

FlyMeSomewhere · 12/11/2025 23:04

Starconundrum · 12/11/2025 23:02

Why does noone look up?

Massive corporations, conglomerates, the pyramid scheme that is pensions and finance. Those are what are taking your money.

It's not the people.

Support each other or you'll lose everything.

Why do I need to support serial breeders that never work a day in their lives?

Starconundrum · 12/11/2025 23:05

FlyMeSomewhere · 12/11/2025 23:04

Why do I need to support serial breeders that never work a day in their lives?

For the same reason people support you.

Freud2 · 12/11/2025 23:06

Lilylolamillie · 12/11/2025 19:07

Well this has cheered me up no end .. left for work (office) at 6.30 this morning and just home. And have work to pick up this evening as we’re so busy. I have no choice as there have been so many redundancies in my company since the last budget that everyone has more work to do and has to do it for fear they may be next. This is all unpaid.

My mortgage and bills swallow a huge proportion of my income (SE - small house) so I don’t have money for holidays or luxuries. I don’t have savings.
The welfare bill in this country is insane and something has to be done. No one should be better off on benefits than working. I’m not saying support shouldn’t be there for those who need it but god it’s so demoralising slogging away non stop for all hours only to know I’ll be taxed even more to pay more in benefits.

I wish those claiming welfare would appreciate for many of us working we don’t live in luxury, have to pay full price for everything and are now working longer hours as companies make more and more cuts to staff due to the NI hike.

I’m sure we won’t get a pay rise in April and so I’ll have to cut back further still to fund increases in tax and the inevitable increase in council tax and utility bills.

Then when the next budget comes around there’ll be more debt and workers will be taxed more again. And the tax doom loop will continue.

Totally agree. It's the total unfairness that gets to people.

UnhappyHobbit · 12/11/2025 23:07

SleeplessInWherever · 12/11/2025 22:53

I haven’t missed anything.

My cousin rang me last year at 1pm, no money on the electric meter. She’s got my 11 year old god son in the house. I sorted that out.

She rang again at 4pm, no food in for dinner. Still with the same child in the house. I sorted that.

I know for a fact that the reason she didn’t have any of those things is because she’d spent that money on drugs over the weekend. I also know the reason she rang me is because she knows I have the means to fix her self inflicted problems.

She may not have loads of kids. But she’s the same age as me and has never formally worked since the day we left school (the same school).

She does work, cash in hand, but her rent and council tax are all paid by UC and on paper she’s unemployed so on full benefits.

My father has 7 kids. Never formally worked a day in his life. No NI, or tax, ever. He’s a cash in hand builder who also claimed benefits. When I used to bother to visit him, the first thing he’d do is send me to the shop for drink and cigarettes. Ask for a takeaway.

I can’t have missed the game. My family play it.

And before anyone chimes in, yes I’ve reported the above people.

That sounds like a nightmare. I really hope your cousin doesn’t put you through that kind of thing often. I’m curious though. Given your experiences with your family, do you find yourself feeling a mix of gratitude for the benefits system, while also recognizing that it can be misused by some people, and unfortunately often is?

Freud2 · 12/11/2025 23:07

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 12/11/2025 21:57

Inadequate parents should have their children taken into care.

How do we know that the extra benefits are actually spent on the children?

Freud2 · 12/11/2025 23:12

Candystripes85 · 12/11/2025 22:42

Sorry you are mistaken. Her whole house gets paid for. She previously owned a house with her ex. They split up and sold the house. As she had the kids with her, she was entitled to social housing. She put a bid in on a new build scheme in our area which offered part ownership and part social housing rented. She put her £100k from the previous house on the new one (that was her share that she owned outright). The rest of the house which is rented from social housing is covered by UC. So she is in fact living in a new build with absolutely no rent or mortgage to pay, plus all the other benefits that come with it. Yes she put £100k of her own money to buy her share, but how is she allowed to purchase a property with £100k and then go straight on to benefits and get all her expenses covered by the tax payer.

Then I have another friend whose mum inherited a lot of money after living in a council house her whole life (wasn’t entitled herself but she lived with her mother who was). She claimed benefits from the moment she came to the country 40 years ago and never worked. Bought a house outright with her large inheritance and then went straight back to living on benefits. In my opinion, she should have been made to repay everything she had been paid, before being allowed to purchase a property and go back to claiming.

This is why I’ve said in another comment, that people are so naive to the benefits culture in this country. People genuinely believe that every one on benefits needs it, they have a hard life and they don’t have bills covered. It’s really not the case!

Totally agree - there seems to be a naivete among people - especially the left leanings ones that absolutely no one is scamming the system.

OonaStubbs · 12/11/2025 23:14

Freud2 · 12/11/2025 23:12

Totally agree - there seems to be a naivete among people - especially the left leanings ones that absolutely no one is scamming the system.

This is one of the reason why Labour have lost the formerly reliable working-class vote. Being told that "benefit fraud is rare" by people who know nothing about it, while personally knowing that it is rife amongst people in their own community.

WatchingCometsLand · 12/11/2025 23:15

Freud2 · 12/11/2025 23:12

Totally agree - there seems to be a naivete among people - especially the left leanings ones that absolutely no one is scamming the system.

Omg - yes there are people scamming 'the system'. Some are doing it a lot and some of them are doing it a little. You are focusing all your energies on them little ones, while the big ones sit back and laugh at you.

SleeplessInWherever · 12/11/2025 23:17

UnhappyHobbit · 12/11/2025 23:07

That sounds like a nightmare. I really hope your cousin doesn’t put you through that kind of thing often. I’m curious though. Given your experiences with your family, do you find yourself feeling a mix of gratitude for the benefits system, while also recognizing that it can be misused by some people, and unfortunately often is?

She’s stopped now. Juvenile perhaps because we are in our 30’s, I told her dad (my uncle). He may well be financially supporting her now, but she’s his daughter.

My own father, I went NC with when I was 21. It was my part time job income I was buying his whisky out of.

I’m grateful for it because we were a low income family, my father did work (informally) but spent it all in the pub. He then left when I was 8 and paid zero maintenance.

My mum wouldn’t have been able to feed us without the support we received, the FSM etc. She’s now got 3 functioning and successful children, all in at least relatively high paying jobs. Not one of us would have been able to push to get to where we are without the state support we received as children.

I’m also grateful for it because I’ve got a disabled child and he will need support from someone for the rest of his life. We won’t always be here. I’d like there to be a supportive system for him to fall back on.

The system is misused and abused, like I made perfectly clear myself. But having been one of the children taxpayers fed when my family were in a real tough spot, I now pay back in and have no issue with it going back to families like ours.

I’d like to see unemployment tackled, people who can work and choose not to. I’d like cash in hand work clamping down on.

But some people aren’t taking the piss, and those people (and certainly their kids!) need the support of those of us who can fund it.

Starconundrum · 12/11/2025 23:18

There were higher rates of unemployment under thatcher and Cameron btw.

People are VERY selective with their memories.

Livelovebehappy · 12/11/2025 23:22

ruethewhirl · 12/11/2025 22:33

No, the reason threads like this exist is because people insist on spouting knee-jerk opinions about things they don't understand. As far as I am concerned people who have been assessed as eligible to receive a benefit do not have to be grateful for it. And 'handed money without having to do anything' is a pretty odd and insensitive way to describe being in receipt of PIP.

PIP needs a massive overhaul. It’s not means tested so you can have a situation where someone on an annual salary of £1 million could be receiving it. Apparently so people working on PIP don’t have to dip into their wages to pay for their ‘counselling’ or health care, so those working for a low salary can have the pleasure of supporting their care instead. It needs to be means tested, and the money they need for care paid to the counsellors and health care providers direct.

Outside9 · 12/11/2025 23:24

FlyMeSomewhere · 12/11/2025 23:03

It doesn't feel like most of them work! I don't mind helping low income working families to have top.up bit what I don't want to pay for all the so called single mothers who have lots of kids and a daddy that's laughing whilst we pay to feed abs house his kids! I would like stricter classification on what passes as a disability and needs money! Someone who is able to.work without issue doesn't need a pip payment just for the sake of it, people cannot just sit at home claiming anxiety and depression as though sitting at home is a cure!.they need to work. And mothers need to stop labelling so many kids as disabled! The future is bleak if this doesn't change!

Respectfully, your feelings are irrelevant to the stats and facts. Many benefits claimants are actually employed.

I do aagree it's best to get people into work

UnhappyHobbit · 12/11/2025 23:27

SleeplessInWherever · 12/11/2025 23:17

She’s stopped now. Juvenile perhaps because we are in our 30’s, I told her dad (my uncle). He may well be financially supporting her now, but she’s his daughter.

My own father, I went NC with when I was 21. It was my part time job income I was buying his whisky out of.

I’m grateful for it because we were a low income family, my father did work (informally) but spent it all in the pub. He then left when I was 8 and paid zero maintenance.

My mum wouldn’t have been able to feed us without the support we received, the FSM etc. She’s now got 3 functioning and successful children, all in at least relatively high paying jobs. Not one of us would have been able to push to get to where we are without the state support we received as children.

I’m also grateful for it because I’ve got a disabled child and he will need support from someone for the rest of his life. We won’t always be here. I’d like there to be a supportive system for him to fall back on.

The system is misused and abused, like I made perfectly clear myself. But having been one of the children taxpayers fed when my family were in a real tough spot, I now pay back in and have no issue with it going back to families like ours.

I’d like to see unemployment tackled, people who can work and choose not to. I’d like cash in hand work clamping down on.

But some people aren’t taking the piss, and those people (and certainly their kids!) need the support of those of us who can fund it.

Thank you for sharing you story.

I do think it’s very important to hear stories like yours and how families can thrive after receiving state support.

I agree, not everyone is abusing the system and I do feel the benefits system should be appreciated to help those in need.

Freud2 · 12/11/2025 23:35

Livelovebehappy · 12/11/2025 23:22

PIP needs a massive overhaul. It’s not means tested so you can have a situation where someone on an annual salary of £1 million could be receiving it. Apparently so people working on PIP don’t have to dip into their wages to pay for their ‘counselling’ or health care, so those working for a low salary can have the pleasure of supporting their care instead. It needs to be means tested, and the money they need for care paid to the counsellors and health care providers direct.

100 per cent right. When is the Labour party going to wake up to this.

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 23:40

Livelovebehappy · 12/11/2025 23:22

PIP needs a massive overhaul. It’s not means tested so you can have a situation where someone on an annual salary of £1 million could be receiving it. Apparently so people working on PIP don’t have to dip into their wages to pay for their ‘counselling’ or health care, so those working for a low salary can have the pleasure of supporting their care instead. It needs to be means tested, and the money they need for care paid to the counsellors and health care providers direct.

How many people earning £1million or so are claiming PIP? Without those figures, how can you say it is really a problem?

The people I know that work and claim PIP are only able to work because they claim PIP.

ruethewhirl · 12/11/2025 23:41

Livelovebehappy · 12/11/2025 23:22

PIP needs a massive overhaul. It’s not means tested so you can have a situation where someone on an annual salary of £1 million could be receiving it. Apparently so people working on PIP don’t have to dip into their wages to pay for their ‘counselling’ or health care, so those working for a low salary can have the pleasure of supporting their care instead. It needs to be means tested, and the money they need for care paid to the counsellors and health care providers direct.

Any particular reason why you chose to put ‘counselling’ in quotes?

Lilylolamillie · 12/11/2025 23:47

FlyMeSomewhere · 12/11/2025 23:03

It doesn't feel like most of them work! I don't mind helping low income working families to have top.up bit what I don't want to pay for all the so called single mothers who have lots of kids and a daddy that's laughing whilst we pay to feed abs house his kids! I would like stricter classification on what passes as a disability and needs money! Someone who is able to.work without issue doesn't need a pip payment just for the sake of it, people cannot just sit at home claiming anxiety and depression as though sitting at home is a cure!.they need to work. And mothers need to stop labelling so many kids as disabled! The future is bleak if this doesn't change!

Completely agree.

I know colleagues who are single parents with children at secondary school who reduce their hours as their salary is topped up with UC to what they earned working full time. It’s madness. How can you choose to give up full time employment and work part time knowing the state will supplement your income?

With PIP I do think it needs a review as it’s not sustainable to pay so much to so many people. I have a friend who claims due to MS (with a lot of physical issues) and gets the higher rate - she works 3 days a week but is physically unable to work more and so of course she should be supported. Others I know of are blatantly milking the PIP system and it needs to dealt with and people to stop pretending it’s not an issue.

Unless welfare spending is brought under control, taxes for the middle/higher earners will continue to increase, the economy will suffer as they’re not spending and then who will pay for the ever increasing benefits.

Simonjt · 12/11/2025 23:57

Candystripes85 · 12/11/2025 22:04

Jesus this thread is winding me up, I’m making this last comment and coming off. No one claiming benefits should be able to save a single penny. You expect others to pay for you, you shouldn’t get the luxury of saving. If you can afford to save, you are getting paid too much!!

DLA and PIP are rightly not means tested. Without DLA my husband wouldn’t have been able to work, have a clean home, feed himself. He was paying around £1,200 a month in total purely due to being disabled. He was able to save about £50 a week. So under your idea to save money you’d rather the was unemployed and on a far higher level of benefits.

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