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To never shop at Pets Corner again

139 replies

Dacatspjs · 11/11/2025 07:19

I have a number of pets, I have to say mine aren't that bothered by fireworks, they seem to see the others are alright and all keep each other calm.

I'm not that bothered by neighbours having fireworks. If theyre big organised displays you see the advertising locally so know they might be louder, longer, brighter. If they are in homes then people tend to do what they can and let you know on Facebook. Maybe tighter regulation to stop yobs buying them to throw down the street. But my point is I'm not an expert in the subject and I dont know really whether we need change or not.

But. When you are the CEO of a pet company, making millions from "caring" about pets, I do think it is beyond hypocrisy to have a professional firework show in your garden and not tell animal owners locally so they can prepare.

The company Facebook page is building engagement by posting about the dangers of fireworks, all the while the CEO has a party that resulted in the death of a horse.

I won't be shopping there again, and it was my preferred pet shop.

You can't make millions from pet are and not care about pets. And for me that doesn't mean caring about your own pets, it means caring about all pets.

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JadeSquid · 11/11/2025 07:21

If the display was in early November then they should be expecting fireworks anyway

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 07:24

Good god I’m sick of the whinging about fireworks.

Grow up, desensitise your pets and stop whinging.

vivainsomnia · 11/11/2025 07:24

Yeah, that's pretty shocking. I'm so grateful my dog isn't bothered at all.

ilovesooty · 11/11/2025 07:48

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 07:24

Good god I’m sick of the whinging about fireworks.

Grow up, desensitise your pets and stop whinging.

My cats aren't bothered but one of my friend's cats is terrified every year. How do you suggest that she is desentisied?

Pepperedpickles · 11/11/2025 07:50

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 07:24

Good god I’m sick of the whinging about fireworks.

Grow up, desensitise your pets and stop whinging.

You do realise you can’t desensitise many pets, don’t you? What an ignorant response. You’d rather animals die for the sake of a few colourful bangs.

PinkyFlamingo · 11/11/2025 07:50

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 07:24

Good god I’m sick of the whinging about fireworks.

Grow up, desensitise your pets and stop whinging.

Sick of idiotic statements like this. So easy to state that on here where it's impossible with cats

JadeSquid · 11/11/2025 07:51

PinkyFlamingo · 11/11/2025 07:50

Sick of idiotic statements like this. So easy to state that on here where it's impossible with cats

Maybe it is cruel to keep them then.

WonderlandWasAllAHoax · 11/11/2025 07:52

In fairness, people should expect fireworks around this time of year. It’s not like it was a random evening in February.

DisplayPurposesOnly · 11/11/2025 07:53

Grow up, desensitise your pets and stop whinging.

What about wildlife?

Dacatspjs · 11/11/2025 07:55

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 07:24

Good god I’m sick of the whinging about fireworks.

Grow up, desensitise your pets and stop whinging.

Like I said, mine aren't bothered.

But you are entitled to your opinion. I just expect the CEO of a large pet retailer to hold a different opinion to you, and not cash in around fireworks by selling calming products, build engagement giving advice and build pet loving credentials online.

I expect him to live and advocate for his brand. The fact it is simply a tool to line his pocket doesn't sit well with me.

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Halloweeeeeeeeen · 11/11/2025 07:55

I don’t agree with fireworks being used by amateurs, it should be professional displays only. However he hasn’t actually done anything wrong, many firework displays have been going on around the country which are near animals including horses, our local one at the cricket club is very near a stables and they will also be affecting wildlife around the area as well as pets. If you go to professional displays at the local park it is still going to be affecting wildlife nearby.

Guildford321 · 11/11/2025 07:57

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 07:24

Good god I’m sick of the whinging about fireworks.

Grow up, desensitise your pets and stop whinging.

You can't desensitise horses against fireworks. Same with lots of rescued animals. You don't always have to be selfish and an idiot you know. Have a day off.

Guildford321 · 11/11/2025 07:58

JadeSquid · 11/11/2025 07:51

Maybe it is cruel to keep them then.

It's cruel to give existing animals a good life? Yes, OK, about breeding more but what do you suggest with all the existing animals? Put them all down so that bell ends can set explosions off?

ForLoveNotMoney · 11/11/2025 08:03

My horse was injured this year because of fireworks. I’m now faced with a huge vet bill, a broken horse and also a bill to repair my fence after horse blindly galloped through it in terror.

You can’t desensitise horses. Fireworks are completely pointless in my opinion

JadeSquid · 11/11/2025 08:03

Guildford321 · 11/11/2025 07:58

It's cruel to give existing animals a good life? Yes, OK, about breeding more but what do you suggest with all the existing animals? Put them all down so that bell ends can set explosions off?

If it is cruel to keep cats because they cannot be desensitised to human life, then you'd have to phase them out over time. Stop breeding, yes, and then just let them die off naturally.

Dacatspjs · 11/11/2025 08:06

Halloweeeeeeeeen · 11/11/2025 07:55

I don’t agree with fireworks being used by amateurs, it should be professional displays only. However he hasn’t actually done anything wrong, many firework displays have been going on around the country which are near animals including horses, our local one at the cricket club is very near a stables and they will also be affecting wildlife around the area as well as pets. If you go to professional displays at the local park it is still going to be affecting wildlife nearby.

He hasn't done anything wrong legally. But to me he has morally. I expect senior managers at a pet company to like pets. Just like I expect senior leaders for a health company to be interested in health or those who work for a restaurant to have a interest in food and hospitality.

He advocates for his industry and pets, that needs to come across in how he behaves, not just what he says to sell products.

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PegDope · 11/11/2025 08:11

JadeSquid · 11/11/2025 08:03

If it is cruel to keep cats because they cannot be desensitised to human life, then you'd have to phase them out over time. Stop breeding, yes, and then just let them die off naturally.

Are you well?

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 08:11

Pepperedpickles · 11/11/2025 07:50

You do realise you can’t desensitise many pets, don’t you? What an ignorant response. You’d rather animals die for the sake of a few colourful bangs.

You absolutely can.

Its called conditioning.

Keepingthingsinteresting · 11/11/2025 08:13

Do you have the Iink to a news report about this please @Dacatspjs ?

Keepingthingsinteresting · 11/11/2025 08:13

Do you have the Iink to a news report about this please @Dacatspjs ?

tapaw · 11/11/2025 08:18

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 07:24

Good god I’m sick of the whinging about fireworks.

Grow up, desensitise your pets and stop whinging.

How the fuck do you desensitise a scared dog? I’m 7 years in with mine and he’s lived in a busy family home since birth. Vacuum sounds, household sounds etc. He was a young dog during Covid so that did impact him. I’ve done everything I can to help him and he is still terrified and shaking every time there’s fireworks. This year we had NINE days of extensive fireworks in a row. Well he was shaking and terrified every night. No desensitisation. We tried driving with the radio on to drown out the noise. All 4 of us were trying to help him. As usual nothing worked.

I actually thought that he was so terrified that he could die from it as he gets older.

it’s such an ignorant comment to say you’re sick of “whinging” to “grow up” and “desensitise”. Do you treat all problems like that?

please do fucking tell me how to “desensitise”.

anyway. Op yanbu, the CEO has no real shits to give about the pets.

Pepperedpickles · 11/11/2025 08:20

Keepingthingsinteresting · 11/11/2025 08:13

Do you have the Iink to a news report about this please @Dacatspjs ?

It’s the headline story on the daily Mail.

ilovesooty · 11/11/2025 08:21

SomethingInTheAirToday · 11/11/2025 08:11

You absolutely can.

Its called conditioning.

Don't be silly. Do tell me exactly how you apply this to cats?

JadeSquid · 11/11/2025 08:22

PegDope · 11/11/2025 08:11

Are you well?

Why because I am saying that if it is cruel to keep cats, we should stop doing it?

hattie43 · 11/11/2025 08:24

He’s an idiot , it feels like a Gerald Ratner moment for those old enough to remember. I hope people vote with their feet