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Felt sick over customers wearing disposable gloves when shopping

180 replies

noggla · 09/11/2025 14:25

Do they not understand that this is worse for germ cross contamination than bare hands? Doctors, nurses, anaesthetists, dentists, vets etc change their gloves with every patient or more often if a messy job.

Shoppers with disposable gloves touch hundreds of stuff, face, money, cards etc.

This particular couple I saw wearing disposable gloves which had holes in the knuckles. This is caused by sweat breaking down the material in the DG. Then as they left the shop, they took off their gloves with their teeth and popped them into their coat pockets. That made me feel sick

I do wish someone would tell them that their protection is rubbish. I would love to see their faces on showing the results of Petri dishes with their gloves being swabbed v hands washed 15 mins earlier.

OP posts:
fivebyfivefaith · 11/11/2025 13:59

BlueJuniper94 · 11/11/2025 13:12

What kind?

Usually an FFP2

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 11/11/2025 15:34

BlueJuniper94 · 11/11/2025 06:31

Well they should! You're holding onto their basket or trolley and they don't wash their hands after the bathroom....

Why should I?

I’m responsible for the cleanliness of my own hands and no-one else’s.

If I went round worrying about what all the other shoppers do with their own hands, I’d end up a nervous, snivelling Mumsnet wreck.

BlueJuniper94 · 11/11/2025 19:53

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 11/11/2025 15:34

Why should I?

I’m responsible for the cleanliness of my own hands and no-one else’s.

If I went round worrying about what all the other shoppers do with their own hands, I’d end up a nervous, snivelling Mumsnet wreck.

Edited

Don't see how you can be responsible for the cleanliness of your hands without considering the liklihood of their contamination from surfaces contaminated by others.... but ok.

user1470226590 · 11/11/2025 20:43

Has any of you experienced problems with VINTED buyer? I would like to know your opinions and advise on this matter please

I have been using Vinted to sell off items that I no longer wear.
I just sold a hardly worn Mint Velvet parka coat ( I put on weight so doesn't fit me any longer). I put photos of the coat from every angle and I got an offer for & I accepted and post it on the same day. Despite the buyer received the packaging she delayed collecting it for some reason. Finally she collected the parcel today & soon after I received a message from her claiming that the coat had a burnt/ singe in the front of the coat. She informed Vinted, the payment suspended until we come to an agreement .
Basically, she was telling me that I mislead her with my listing but from the photos I posted it is crystal clear that there was no burnt or singe to it.
I packed it very well, if it got damaged during transportation shouldn't she be taking it up with YODEL? If it has happened during the transit shouldnt she have taken the photos of the packaging when she collected the parcel? Obviously the parcel would have been damaged before the coat got a burnt or singe.
She told me that "she wasn't going to leave a bad review" !! for not informing her the damage before I sold it to her but there was 100% no damage to it before I put it on the Vinted or before I post it.
I just need your honest opinions on this matter. I am incredibly upset for being accused of being dishonest also feel that she is trying to pull a fast one. I think she wants it heavily reduced to get it for next to nothing .
I have already got in touch with Vinted obviously it takes 48 hours for them to get back to me in the meantime it would be hear your wise advises
Thank you in advance for all your input and opinions

hcee19 · 11/11/2025 22:59

The buyer is trying to pull a fast one, hoping you will knock down the price. I would ask her to return it to you. There are many scammers out there and she seems like one of them. I find it hard to believe a burn mark could have been created in transit.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 12/11/2025 10:40

@user1470226590

I think you’ve mis-posted ?

Wooky073 · 12/11/2025 15:45

lets hope they are not care workers popping in for supplies on their way home from work !

usernamealreadytaken · 13/11/2025 13:34

HungreeHipp0 · 09/11/2025 15:20

There's a woman on my bus every morning that wears a face mask and disposable gloves. As soon as she's off the bus she removes it all to light a fag. Clearly wants to choose lung cancer over daily germs. Who are we to stop her. Whatever gets people through their day.

Perhaps she has the germs and doesn't want to pass them on, like how facemasks were supposed to work during Covid - they were never meant to stop you catching, more to stop you passing on.

NormasArse · 13/11/2025 20:41

XenoBitch · 10/11/2025 20:39

I wash my hand after I use the loo, or before preparing food.
I don't wash them after shopping, before I go into a shop. I certainly do not wash them mid shopping.

You probably shower every day too. Who knows how many shopping trips those gloves have had…

noggla · 14/11/2025 08:30

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Ohhh so you are actually bashing elderly specifically now?
Sorry, can't get on board with you.
You sound very unpleasant.

Jazzcatt · 15/11/2025 19:36

I just don't think this is an actual problem.

HonoraryMummy · 15/11/2025 20:51

I worked in retail during Covid and most of us bought our own disposable gloves. The cost of replacing them after every customer was too much so we used hand sanitiser over the gloves. If we were handling copper coins the copper residue reacted with the hand sanitiser to turn the gloves green. Some customers complained. One woman berated me for my "filthy" (just sanitised) gloves while her little boy picked his nose.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 15/11/2025 20:57

Thanks @EleanorReally and @ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea
That needed calling out.
I hate posts that turn nasty.

winterbluess · 15/11/2025 21:10

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 09/11/2025 15:16

Sod the gloves, as someone working behind the till I wish people would stop licking their fingers to separate notes, and then handing them to me (the notes, not their fingers, I'm not in Zombieland).

When i worked in retail, numerous women would take notes out of their sweaty bras 🤢

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 16/11/2025 08:52

HonoraryMummy · 15/11/2025 20:51

I worked in retail during Covid and most of us bought our own disposable gloves. The cost of replacing them after every customer was too much so we used hand sanitiser over the gloves. If we were handling copper coins the copper residue reacted with the hand sanitiser to turn the gloves green. Some customers complained. One woman berated me for my "filthy" (just sanitised) gloves while her little boy picked his nose.

We didn't wear gloves, we just used gallons of hand sanitiser and washed our hands frequently. The only advantage that I could see of wearing gloves was that it served as a visual reminder to us not to touch our faces. I managed to get right through Covid without catching it (even before they brought in all the PPE stuff) and only caught it right at the tail end (when everyone else had had it and therefore had no sympathy!).

Washing your hands frequently is just as good as wearing gloves. But having the gloves on reminds you not to rub your eyes or lick your fingers - although anyone who regularly works on a till knows not to do this anyway.

HonoraryMummy · 16/11/2025 09:20

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 16/11/2025 08:52

We didn't wear gloves, we just used gallons of hand sanitiser and washed our hands frequently. The only advantage that I could see of wearing gloves was that it served as a visual reminder to us not to touch our faces. I managed to get right through Covid without catching it (even before they brought in all the PPE stuff) and only caught it right at the tail end (when everyone else had had it and therefore had no sympathy!).

Washing your hands frequently is just as good as wearing gloves. But having the gloves on reminds you not to rub your eyes or lick your fingers - although anyone who regularly works on a till knows not to do this anyway.

I only started to wear gloves because my hands were getting red and sore with the repeated use of hand gel. Initially we were each going through a box of gloves every shift and it got very expensive. Our employers offered us the cheap latex gloves but they made our hands sweaty, so we bought nitrile gloves and reused each pair until they tore, but used hand gel over the gloves after every customer. The gel and copper coins stained them but when this was explained to a certain type of customer she (always she) pretended not to understand; clearly they wanted us to destroy our hands.

Amberlynnswashcloth · 16/11/2025 09:21

I have severe OCD and wear gloves when I go on public transport and to shops because I can't stand the idea of touching the same surface that every person in the city has touched and some of them will be ill and won't have washed their hands after going to the toilet. I am plagued by anxiety but have no access to treatment so suffer in silence. Nobody would ever know this though because I just wear normal gloves with the finger tips that work on screens and tills. I wear the same pair all day and when I get home they go in a 60 degree wash. I'd be too embarrassed to wear rubber gloves because I don't like drawing attention to the fact that I have this condition. There are plenty others like me out there but you would never know because we're good at hiding it.

Coco1379 · 16/11/2025 10:55

They may have auto immune issues and are immuno suppressed, which means even a common cold could be more serious - and Covid hasn’t gone away. They are entirely reasonable in wanting to protect themselves.

smithsgj · 16/11/2025 11:27

SauvignonBlanche · 09/11/2025 18:25

It creates a false sense of security.

I thought it was because (a) you can/should wash your hands regularly, but you don't wash gloves, and (b) germs survive for ages on plastic surfaces but only a few minutes on your hands.

Gwenhwyfar · 16/11/2025 11:51

Coco1379 · 16/11/2025 10:55

They may have auto immune issues and are immuno suppressed, which means even a common cold could be more serious - and Covid hasn’t gone away. They are entirely reasonable in wanting to protect themselves.

But they're not protecting themselves. Disposable gloves are for doing one task, not for wearing all the time touching multiple things.

Cara707 · 16/11/2025 14:04

Yuck.

I think it's reasonable to be concerned about viruses at the moment but they're called 'disposable gloves' for a reason.

I have severe OCD and have worn them to shop in the past but they came off the second I was finished in a single shop. I liked using them for the trolley and the self-service check out (which must be pretty covered in faecal bacteria from the 'I-don't-wash-my-hands-after-using-the loo-when-it's-just-a-pee-but-I-do-touch-the-public-toilet-flush etc' brigade). I immediately used sanitizer before getting into the car afterwards and I was extremely careful not to touch my face or anything germy.

Cara707 · 16/11/2025 14:06

Germs can survive (and spread from) unwashed hands for a long time too though.

Halfquarterbag · 16/11/2025 14:12

Are you sure they don’t just have yellow hands?

Cara707 · 17/11/2025 02:24

So sorry to hear you cannot access treatment- it might be worth contacting the charity OCDuk who can advocate for you to get/ get more NHS treatment l. I'm mostly restricted to my house with OCD now - it is such a horrible illness.