Mid argument with boyfriend

[Whatwouldyoudo111]

Will try to keep this short and sweet, however I need opinions.

As per the title, mid argument with boyfriend as I feel he has lied to me about where he stayed on two separate occasions earlier in our relationship (have been together for 13 months). He has denied this, but regardless during this argument I spitefully brought up his ex partner, insinuating she is a plain Jane (yes I know) and he came back to me and said she isn’t she has great tits a great ass and an athletic body she’s fit. He then reaffirmed she does have great tits!

He has since apologised and has said he said it to hurt me, but I honestly feel he’s crossed a serious line in already a pretty serious predicament we were in.

wwyd? AIBU? For the record he is 33.

Honestly, most people leave this sort of drama behind in their early 20s.

Oh grow up.

Your title said you were mid argument with your bf. Things sounded ongoing, rather than over. With additional context, I can see how you might have felt.

On MN, people are constantly being told off for speaking poorly of other women, so I'm not surprised that this happened to you. Your jealousy and anger may be justified to some extent, but it's because of HIS behavior and not hers. She didn't cause trust issues; he did.

FWIW, life is too long to live with someone you can't trust right from the beginning. I'm sorry he has treated you poorly- you were right to end things.