fell out with freinds gf i believe shes being controlling

[ReapersSideKick]

so me and my freind have been freinds for about 4 years she started dating somebody a couple of years ago only once have me and my freind met up without her gf being present ive always let it go because i dont like confrontation and i knew it would only open a can of worms if i said anything but over the last few weeks its got worse if my freinds gf has something planned with a freind of hers or family member me and my freind will arrange something her gf will then cancel her plans and come with us so last thursday i spoke to her about it saying me and my freind should be able to make plans without her always being there at first said we were all freinds and thats why she always wanted to go with us i said no sorry im freinds with your gf weve been freinds since before you started dating your gf should be able to spend time with her freinds without her gf always having to be there she accused me of picking on her then accused me of bad mouthing her freinds which wasnt true its her thats being doing that saying that theres a couple shes freind with who dont make a good couple she makes fun of the way one of them walks behind her back etc but shes went back and told her freinds its been me thats doing this then today she played victim on the bus i heard them both on bus didnt speak to each other but she tried to make out she was scared to walk past me when getting off as if i would have done something to her although i didnt even look at them i only knew they were on bus because i heard theyre voices ive never been violant shes never saw me being violant even we we argued i didnt verbally abuse her or threaten her

Is your full stop key broken as well as your spell check function?

if you cant be bothered responding to my post dont post

Sorry, that was rude. I was just taken aback by the wall of words.
I'm guessing you happened on this forum by accident as people seem to do atm when looking for "relationship advice" online.
I'm guessing you're 13/14 yrs old so a bunch of mainly middle aged women (me included) aren't going to be your best source of advice. I would try again elsewhere if I were you (and use paragraphs)

youd assume wrong im an adult and if i want educated on grammar ill ask elsewhere 😋

School should have someone onsite who can help you out with this kind of thing.

But grammar and spelling and punctuation and capital letters would help, because your post is almost unreadable and the persistent misspelling of the word FRIEND makes me want to scream, frankly. 😂

Deffo - pop along now, and brush up on writing skills, it will help you when you are a grown up xx

im an adult we all are in the situation we all have issues but i believe my freinds gf is being controlling my freind has told me as much saying her gf always has to go to appointments with her if she speaks to her family on phone it has to be done on speaker so her gf can hear if my freinds gf cancells plans to go to groups they both go to she expects my freind not to go either but she goes to her own groups as well

go scream 😋

yeah im past the stage of being patronised thanks anyway

Do you really not see how hard it is to understand your post? The spelling mistakes and bad grammar… wow

nothing original to say then......

Not a single punctuation mark. Not even a lonely apostrophe. Nor a capital letter. Actually quite impressive in a way.

Well done for spelling correctly on your reply for once. Good job 👏

when you gonna think of a better screenname......

@ReapersSideKick …

just a few basics for you

THIS is what capital letters look like, we use them at beginning of sentences ..

this is a dot . A full stop. We use it at the wmd of the sentence

I before E, except after C !!! - is a really helpful little rule,

have another go, and we might be able to read whatever the fuck you are wittering on about ???
mwah 😘

I'm really sorry PPs are being unkind about your spelling and punctuation - you came for advice on friendship not English language tips. However, I'm afraid that I can't read the post due to lack of punctuation because it makes me feel dizzy and I get lost in the text.

If you are unsure about punctuation, maybe you could make it easier to read by hitting the enter/return button at the end of every sentence or main point?

I hope somebody helpful comes along to your aibu soon.

I think she's trying to be helpful, your original post is really difficult to read

Honestly OP if you actually want help you need to rewrite this. It's impossible to read. You can't expect strangers not only to take time to give you advice but to spend ages trying to work out what you're saying.
Your OP reads like one of the particularly dense chapters of Ulysses. Which I also couldn't be bothered to finish.

it is hard to read. Very hard to read and understand.

heres some basics for you ....

i dont care
i dont like repeating myself youve been told if i want grammar lessons ill ask elsewhere

now run along

It sounds like your friend is in a very controlling relationship.

I wouldn't raise it again, I'd just keep seeing her. Don't let the gf create a drama that will isolate your friend. Keep seeing her, even if that means suffering the gf.

But, presumably you do care about gaining a response to your post ?
you have been advised to re-write it, to enable the wise mumsnet readers to glean what you are seeking ??
eh ?

I’m sorry but without proper sentences and punctuation it’s impossible to actually understand what you’re trying to say. Do you really not see that?

Sorry OP, I really struggled to make sense of most of your post, but from a scan, my advice would be stay well out of relationships you are not a part of. It's absolutely none of your business. Don't see them anymore if it annoys you this much.