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Do you tip the hairdressers?

131 replies

AlwaysHopefull89 · 01/11/2025 18:52

First time I went to a new place today. Paid £290 for cut and colour (short hair).

I was really pleased with the colour and cut!!

two different ladies I had, one for cut and one for colour.

I found they were sort of ‘hovering’ around me when I left, even helped me put my coat on.

aibu to have not tipped them? I feel awful 😢 I don’t usually go to the hair dressers often at all and now I’m worried I should have done? I feel now they may have been expecting it.

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/11/2025 09:02

MagdaLenor · 02/11/2025 08:57

Or just pay the price set, rather than faff?

He’s the best hairdresser I’ve had in years, so I like to show my appreciation.

TwoTuesday · 02/11/2025 09:04

I wouldn't tip on top of a £290 bill, that's insane

Storyplots · 02/11/2025 09:06

OhDear111 · 01/11/2025 20:54

No. They pay staff properly and I pay enough for that to happen. No one tips the TA in a school who is kind to dc or the bus driver. We just seem to choose random jobs and forget others.

I’ve been to the same hairdresser for over 25 years. They get my repeat business. As for a Christmas present of £100 for the nail salon! Words fail me.

Exactly this. It makes no sense, and never has in this country. It’s different in the U.S. where in some states some servers are paid below the minimum wage and need to top it up. But just like the Uk always do they pick the worst parts of US culture to replicate even when it doesn’t fit here.

When I was younger I used to go over and above in retail and call centre jobs and I’d get no tip , then in waitressing jobs I’d get tipped for sometimes doing the bare minimum.

Never was tipped as a TA either, although I did get some presents sometimes.

I’ve noticed that there’s an option to tip for counter service nowadays? What the heck? What am I tipping them for?

This is just greedy management trying to get their staff a pay rise without it affecting their pockets.

Barcodescanner22 · 02/11/2025 09:08

I’ve always tipped because my mum did. My daughter did an apprenticeship and although earning less than £5 an hour (the apprentice wage at the time) she had to buy all her own equipment, scissors, sharpening, dryers, straighteners etc etc.
two hours work would pay for sharpening or a prescription

Storyplots · 02/11/2025 09:09

RoamingToaster · 02/11/2025 08:50

Says who?

I just wish people would set their prices accordingly. It’s just a faff and creates awkwardness.

I loved Japan where it’s considered rude there so not done at all.

Same as in Korea where I used to live. It wasn’t the done thing to tip and I loved that. Made you feel as if when you did receive good customer service it was more genuine
too.

notatinydancer · 02/11/2025 09:10

AlwaysHopefull89 · 01/11/2025 18:57

@BowlyLarrim actually really regretting paying that price to be honest I probably won’t be back. It’s a shame

That is a huge amount of money. I wouldn’t have tipped. I usually round up.

GCSEmum2025 · 02/11/2025 09:10

I always tip and if I’m paying as much as £290 then I’d be even more likely to tip.

GehenSieweiter · 02/11/2025 09:14

Barcodescanner22 · 02/11/2025 09:08

I’ve always tipped because my mum did. My daughter did an apprenticeship and although earning less than £5 an hour (the apprentice wage at the time) she had to buy all her own equipment, scissors, sharpening, dryers, straighteners etc etc.
two hours work would pay for sharpening or a prescription

That's not the fault of paying customers though.

GehenSieweiter · 02/11/2025 09:14

GCSEmum2025 · 02/11/2025 09:10

I always tip and if I’m paying as much as £290 then I’d be even more likely to tip.

Why? Those are crazy prices.

NoNewsisGood · 02/11/2025 09:16

Nope, never. They set the prices and should charge what they need/want.
On the whole though, I don't 'get' tipping. Especially now that the UK has a minimum wage, it's not like in the US or in previous generations in the UK where tipping would have been something the 'better offs' did to 'help' the service classes. Now there are fixed prices for those services and they should be set for sustainability of the business and to pay staff appropriately. I know, in reality, there are many people working full time who are struggling financially. But, do we start tipping the shelf stackers in Asda if they help us find the eggs? It's too tricky to work out who might need the extra help just based on industries, or individual companies these days

OhDear111 · 02/11/2025 10:15

When a student is at university they pay for materials and equipment. Don’t see why apprentices cannot? They will have their scissors for decades if they look after them. At least they are earning money.

Allseeingallknowing · 02/11/2025 13:42

TwoTuesday · 02/11/2025 09:04

I wouldn't tip on top of a £290 bill, that's insane

I’d never pay £290 for my hair!

TheGoodEnoughWife · 02/11/2025 14:17

I do not tip hairdresser or nails (same place) however I do go regularly and they run a loyalty card scheme but they hold on to the cards. Don’t know what mine is at but I never pursue it. They have a price list. I pay that. No to tipping but equally no need to give me ‘bonus’ amounts off.

CarpetKnees · 02/11/2025 17:11

GCSEmum2025 · 02/11/2025 09:10

I always tip and if I’m paying as much as £290 then I’d be even more likely to tip.

Why ?
That makes no sense to me at all.

CarpetKnees · 02/11/2025 17:13

No5ChalksRoad · 02/11/2025 07:27

Not really, for highlights/lowlights, cut & style.

It really, really is.

Read the examples of prices other people pay.

Have a look at what Doctors earn per hour perhaps, or paramedics, or police officers, or social workers, or indeed carers who do such vital work in society, and think about how that compares.

bugalugs45 · 02/11/2025 17:18

I do , usually £5 , £10 in December , but I pay about £30 for a cut and that’s it ! At almost £300 I’m not sure I would!

PrioritisePleasure24 · 02/11/2025 17:21

I’m £30 for half hour of a cut and blow. Easy to layer and trim. I do t tend to tip tbh. I sometimes give her the £5 for my fringe (£3) and a bit extra at Christmas.

I would not be tipping at those prices! I’ll stick to my small northern town salon

AlwaysHopefull89 · 02/11/2025 17:31

RoamingToaster · 02/11/2025 06:56

I hate tip culture. I also find the awkwardness of them hovering so off putting.

This is is what happened to me

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notwavingbutdrowning1 · 02/11/2025 17:35

CarpetKnees · 02/11/2025 17:13

It really, really is.

Read the examples of prices other people pay.

Have a look at what Doctors earn per hour perhaps, or paramedics, or police officers, or social workers, or indeed carers who do such vital work in society, and think about how that compares.

But the hairdresser isn't taking home £290 on a £290 haircut. Her hourly rate is probably less than a tenth of that.

FullOfMomsense · 02/11/2025 17:38

I tip for all my hair and beauty appointments, they work hard and charge well but it's just to show my appreciation and it usually means they go above and beyond because they know I tip! I also bring coffee and pastries, but it's not necessary. I have an appointment at least every week so I like to build relationships with them.

Ariana12 · 02/11/2025 19:32

I give the usually much younger trainee around £3-5 for washing my hair and tip the stylist around 10%-12%.

CarpetKnees · 02/11/2025 20:07

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 02/11/2025 17:35

But the hairdresser isn't taking home £290 on a £290 haircut. Her hourly rate is probably less than a tenth of that.

I'm aware of the overheads, but that is still FAR more than any of those highly trained professionals working in incredibly stressful jobs are earning.

I suspect she will be earning a LOT more than £29 of a £290 bill. Or how are all the other normal priced hairdressers making a living ?

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 02/11/2025 20:55

CarpetKnees · 02/11/2025 20:07

I'm aware of the overheads, but that is still FAR more than any of those highly trained professionals working in incredibly stressful jobs are earning.

I suspect she will be earning a LOT more than £29 of a £290 bill. Or how are all the other normal priced hairdressers making a living ?

Presumably the salon is in a high-rent area. You can’t possibly speculate on what an individual hairdresser is earning, based on the price of a cut and colour. Unless it’s the salon owner they’ll just be paid a salary. Average salaries for hairdressers are £20-30,000 - well below the median wage.

Storyplots · 02/11/2025 22:56

AlwaysHopefull89 · 02/11/2025 17:31

This is is what happened to me

I had that with the hairdresser who was quite surly suddenly being chatty with me after she had finished while I got my purse out.

I didn’t even clock that was the reason for the mood change 😂 until after I paid (no tip) and she reverted to being unfriendly again.

Never went back to that hairdresser again.

Mydadsbirthday · 03/11/2025 18:22

Of course you don’t need to tip when you’re paying almost £300. Where is this salon?

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