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To be so jealous of Katy Perry getting to sleep with Justin Trudeau

155 replies

KittyMacNitty · 26/10/2025 20:39

I am a married mother of 2 teens, happily married to my Dh of 20 yrs and faithful, yet I am feeling fiercely jealous of KP and her dalliance with Justin, former President of Canada.

I just find him so deeply, hugely attractive. I do not know why.

Am I insane or is this reasonsable?

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Empress13 · 27/10/2025 06:12

Insane the end

Ablushingcrow · 27/10/2025 06:17

A man that has turned Canada into Tranada is deeply unattractive.

notthisagain2025 · 27/10/2025 06:18

BeanQuisine · 27/10/2025 06:11

He's certainly handsome and in a strong-nosed, big-boned, bright-eyed and manly way. (I presume the poster who finds him "feminine" goes more for the Incredible Hulk or King Kong look).

But he's far too much of a public celebrity for me to find him personally attractive. He's also probably a lot of hard work, given his history.

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Nah. I (and the other commenters who mentioned how effeminate he is) might as well say you probably find (insert the most effeminate man alive) to be masculine based on your belief that Trudeau is masculine.

Matt Damon in the Bourne Identity was masculine. Not huge, or King Kong esque at all, just in good shape and masculine.

It's about the way men move, smile, dance, walk and present themselves. Trudeau is effeminate. His face is semi masculine, but quite pretty.

Many women just find him very effeminate in the way he smiles, moves and behaves. You don't believe so, that's fine.

But of course everyone is absolutely entitled to be attracted to him or not and find him effeminate or not, and that doesn't mean anybody else is wrong..

zupro · 27/10/2025 06:19

Saying I don't fancy him because he's effeminate means we don't find the thought of fucking a woman appealing and are attracted to masculine men, not feminine ones.

What's an example of a masculine man you find attractive? JT doesn't have feminine features so I'm curious.

elprup · 27/10/2025 06:21

AhWeNoss · 26/10/2025 21:49

First Orlando Bloom and then Justin Trudeau (will happily forget about Russell Brand!). Also happily married but I do wish I knew how she does it!

Well, she’s clearly stunning, which probably helps! She has gorgeous eyes. I love her dress here:

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15228737/Loved-Katy-Perry-holds-hands-Justin-Trudeau-officially-confirm-romance-celebrating-singers-birthday-Paris.html

zupro · 27/10/2025 06:24

Matt Damon in the Bourne Identity was masculine

Isn't that the whole playing an expertly trained operative? I find Maximus in Gladiator very masculine & attractive but do not fancy Russel Crowe at all!

notthisagain2025 · 27/10/2025 06:26

zupro · 27/10/2025 06:19

Saying I don't fancy him because he's effeminate means we don't find the thought of fucking a woman appealing and are attracted to masculine men, not feminine ones.

What's an example of a masculine man you find attractive? JT doesn't have feminine features so I'm curious.

His face is quite pretty and his mouth is effeminate, he moves in an effeminate way. Matt Damon as Bourne was very masculine. Liam Neeson is always very masculine, some of that is his height, but more of it is in the way he moves and speaks. Ben Affleck is generally pretty masculine presenting. Martin Freeman is actually very masculine. Those are just off the top of my head.

It doesn't matter anyway, Trudeau comes across as effeminate to many women. And that's fine. If you don't agree, that's fine too.

zupro · 27/10/2025 06:26

I saw a side by side comparison of him next to Fidel Castro and he is the SPITTING IMAGE

I don't see it but Fidel is giving me strong Liam Neeson vibes

BeanQuisine · 27/10/2025 06:27

notthisagain2025 · 27/10/2025 06:18

Nah. I (and the other commenters who mentioned how effeminate he is) might as well say you probably find (insert the most effeminate man alive) to be masculine based on your belief that Trudeau is masculine.

Matt Damon in the Bourne Identity was masculine. Not huge, or King Kong esque at all, just in good shape and masculine.

It's about the way men move, smile, dance, walk and present themselves. Trudeau is effeminate. His face is semi masculine, but quite pretty.

Many women just find him very effeminate in the way he smiles, moves and behaves. You don't believe so, that's fine.

But of course everyone is absolutely entitled to be attracted to him or not and find him effeminate or not, and that doesn't mean anybody else is wrong..

Edited

"Many", or just you and the other poster?

I don't even know what you mean by "effeminate", it seems to be a term from another era and is probably more meaningful for women of a certain "guys & gals" vintage and cultural background.

Glindaa · 27/10/2025 06:30

Doesn’t this belong in celebrity gossip ?

notthisagain2025 · 27/10/2025 06:30

zupro · 27/10/2025 06:24

Matt Damon in the Bourne Identity was masculine

Isn't that the whole playing an expertly trained operative? I find Maximus in Gladiator very masculine & attractive but do not fancy Russel Crowe at all!

It was the way he moved, not to mention his excellent arse kicking skills. But the bit that made me weak at the knees was when he was cutting Marie's hair in the bathroom, and the two of them sort of tried to move past one another and started snogging and the way that played out.

He was not enormously muscular, and he's like 5' 10" which is a nice height but not toweringy tall. And it was a calm moment, where nobody was fighting, but he just oozed masculinity.

DierdreDaphne · 27/10/2025 06:30

TheNinny · 26/10/2025 21:23

yanbu to find him attractive but i find the pairing of them really weird. i’d rather shag Mark Carney 😬

👍👍😅

LadyRoughDiamond · 27/10/2025 06:30

TheNinny · 26/10/2025 21:23

yanbu to find him attractive but i find the pairing of them really weird. i’d rather shag Mark Carney 😬

I’ve had a crush on Mark Carney for ages.

Trudeau looks the type to cry after sex.

Glindaa · 27/10/2025 06:31

FoxtrotOscarFoxtrotOscar · 26/10/2025 20:42

OP, thank you for one of the best thread titles I've seen on here in yonks!!! 😆

Really?! 🙄

zupro · 27/10/2025 06:32

@notthisagain2025 granted I don't think I have ever seen JT move but it's interesting how tastes differ, Ben Affleck isn't masculine to me, the dyed beard for one is naff, Martin Freeman does not give me masculine energy at all & I do not find him attractive. A masculine attractive man imo who I do fancy is Tom Hardy in Taboo.

No one has to agree of course but I find it interesting how tastes & impressions are so subjective particularly when it comes to men. I think Katy is attractive but I don't think she's a great beauty or anything.

notthisagain2025 · 27/10/2025 06:34

BeanQuisine · 27/10/2025 06:27

"Many", or just you and the other poster?

I don't even know what you mean by "effeminate", it seems to be a term from another era and is probably more meaningful for women of a certain "guys & gals" vintage and cultural background.

Many. It's been a world wide talking point for years and years and years and years. Here's one article from 2013, really easy to find loads more macleans.ca/news/canada/the-feminine-mystique/

And of course you know 😂 This is getting desperate now 😆

notthisagain2025 · 27/10/2025 06:36

zupro · 27/10/2025 06:32

@notthisagain2025 granted I don't think I have ever seen JT move but it's interesting how tastes differ, Ben Affleck isn't masculine to me, the dyed beard for one is naff, Martin Freeman does not give me masculine energy at all & I do not find him attractive. A masculine attractive man imo who I do fancy is Tom Hardy in Taboo.

No one has to agree of course but I find it interesting how tastes & impressions are so subjective particularly when it comes to men. I think Katy is attractive but I don't think she's a great beauty or anything.

Tom Hardy is really hot in Taboo and also I loved him as Alfie Solomon, but in real life (interviews etc) he gives me a slightly feminine vibe. Love him, regardless.

zupro · 27/10/2025 06:38

i’d rather shag Mark Carney

Hard to believe there are only 7 yrs between them, I didn't realise JT was that old, what's he doing to look young I wonder. I thought Mark was older.

holachicatita · 27/10/2025 06:38

Recently took my daughter to a Katy Perry concert and it was the cringiest concert I've ever been to. Her behaviour on stage was bizarre to say the least. I know she was putting on a show but not for one second did she stop and just chat normally to the audience. Even when she brought a few kids on stage it was all so over the top, like she was playing a role. So hard to explain but she gave me the complete ick that night.

BeanQuisine · 27/10/2025 06:42

notthisagain2025 · 27/10/2025 06:34

Many. It's been a world wide talking point for years and years and years and years. Here's one article from 2013, really easy to find loads more macleans.ca/news/canada/the-feminine-mystique/

And of course you know 😂 This is getting desperate now 😆

No, I had no idea, but then I don't normally pay any attention to celebrity trivia and none of my friends (female or male) use terms like "effeminate".

It really is a laughably dated concept.

periperiwinkle · 27/10/2025 06:42

Oh my god, I misread this as Katie Price and then the penny dropped.

CypressGrove · 27/10/2025 06:45

KoalaBlue1 · 27/10/2025 04:12

Aussie here, back in the day I used to think his father was good looking too.
Looking At photos now, god, what was I thinking.

Which father? Young Fidel Castro I can kind of understand, Pierre I can not!

ResusciAnnie · 27/10/2025 06:46

Wow he’s an incredibly plain, pillowy looking sort of man IMO. To each his own I suppose!

Tolkienista · 27/10/2025 06:54

Great title.
Yes they look good together, but who knows what he's really like behind closed doors..
Will it last? Anyone's guess, no idea.

PersephoneParlormaid · 27/10/2025 07:19

I don’t find him attractive, but he must have something she likes

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