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To Think that Grad & Apprenticeships are now only for Diversity Candidates

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reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 10:34

Slight hyperbole but not far off.

Yes, of course I suppose my DS should be appreciative of his 'white privilege' (I do detest the term though), but he's been applying to over 100 x spring & summer internships and apprenticeships.

Invariably, he finds that lots of programmes are only open to black/female/social mobility/ND candidates. In one recent case - a global consultancy - there were NO openings for anyone outside of these categories.

And today, on LinkedIn, he forwarded me several links from leading banks reaching out about apprenticeships etc. In most photos, you might be lucky to spot 1-2 white males and in the video of one, there were not a single white male (or female for that matter).

I get that these firms need to do outreach to disadvantaged groups but if you look at the population level percentage of the various group categories, this really has swung too far the other way.

I get that many of these organisations have years to catch up with diversity hires but to try to rebalance in such an aggressive way and in a short space of time, makes it very difficult for young, white males (unless they have qualified for 'free school meals') to get a foot in the door which is especially tough in an incredibly tough grad market as it is.

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MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 13:35

PlayWeather · 21/10/2025 12:51

If your son doesn't qualify under the "social mobility" category he probably doesn't need the kind of internship being offered. Traditionally people with parents with money have the advantage of being able to work for low or no wages, whereas others without this opportunity won't be able to access certain kinds of careers or work experiences. If these are paid internships that are for people from a more disadvantaged socio-economic background, they exist to give some young people opportunities they otherwise would not have.

Now this makes me fume.

Just because you didn’t have free school meals you are not living a life of luxury and privilege. Ridiculous.

There’s this very nasty narrative (indeed seen on this thread) that white boys are entitled, have had their time and goody if they’re sidelined.

As for white working-class boys - who needs them? They’re somewhere vague outside the M25 anyway…

ScholesPanda · 21/10/2025 13:37

Crikeyalmighty · 21/10/2025 12:29

Personally I think if people want equality then it should be a genuinely totally level playing field - at the moment in some quarters it’s becoming like apartheid in reverse- don’t bother applying if you are white and/or straight etc - and I say this as a centre left voter - see also today on news in our industry that someone had opened a ‘black artists only’ record shop or the’MOBO awards ( music of black origin) - can you imagine the absolute hoo ha if someone had set up ‘the music of white origin awards’ , or a white artists only record shop ?? No wonder we end up with a ton of people with Reform type views - it’s not as if black artists and music are totally under represented in the industry -they dominate in some sectors.

White artists have won MOBO awards. The music has to be of black origin , the winning artists can be of any colour. They're awards for a particular style of music.

People can open shops to sell whatever they want- bookshops that only sell female authors; bars that cater to gay men. If No-one is interested the business will close again.

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 13:37

MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 13:35

Now this makes me fume.

Just because you didn’t have free school meals you are not living a life of luxury and privilege. Ridiculous.

There’s this very nasty narrative (indeed seen on this thread) that white boys are entitled, have had their time and goody if they’re sidelined.

As for white working-class boys - who needs them? They’re somewhere vague outside the M25 anyway…

Free school meals are for kids whose parents earn less than 7.4k.
please check your privileges with that hefty 8k salary you bigots

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 13:46

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 13:37

Free school meals are for kids whose parents earn less than 7.4k.
please check your privileges with that hefty 8k salary you bigots

Families don’t live on £7.4k though, at that salary they also get universal credit and possibly housing benefit. They could have a lot more to live on than a family on a higher salary - for example if they had a mortgage on a home in negative equity that needs repairs. Check your own privilege before deciding other people are bigots for understanding more about how difficult financial circumstances can work.

Whyherewego · 21/10/2025 13:50

DareMe · 21/10/2025 12:38

The vast majority of NHS CEOs are white males. Ambulance services in particular have a long way to go.

Indeed and an article published today said the NHS management training scheme more likely to reject minority ethnic applicants. Given the high percentage of NHS workforce that are from ethnic minority backgrounds, I think it's reasonable to expect that the leadership should in some way reflect the workforce. And it does not. Really does not

ScholesPanda · 21/10/2025 13:51

These schemes are imperfect, but I still support their existence. The internship schemes at not designed to exclude white males, they are supposed to encourage people who would never have applied in the first place, rather than people like your son who are already applying in their first year of Uni.

Similarly, if he's applying anyway, why does your son need to see people like him in the (stock) photos? He must know already that people like him get these jobs, or he wouldn't have thought to apply.

Discrimination in actual recruitment for paid work is illegal, so if your son has proof of that he should see an employment solicitor.

There is a problem for white working class boys, that is absolutely true and it should be tackled. Hence newer schemes looking at social mobility. These schemes are very hard to get right and they also cause upset, it's difficult to ensure the right metrics are used. Free school meals and benefits claims may well be insufficient as metrics, they might well exclude children whose parents have had better paid blue collar jobs but wouldn't otherwise apply. Is a working class boy in Tower Hamlets more likely to apply for a job in banking because he has some idea of what it involves, as opposed to a working class boy in Consett who doesn't? Likely, yes.

Do schemes for women and ethnic minorities attract a greater proportion of these groups from more affluent backgrounds? Yes, almost certainly.

So, these schemes are imperfect. But perfect shouldn't be the enemy of good, and we shouldn't default back to a system of 'white, middle class men must know best because otherwise they wouldn't have these jobs in the first place'; just because designing good schemes is hard.

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 13:52

Whyherewego · 21/10/2025 13:50

Indeed and an article published today said the NHS management training scheme more likely to reject minority ethnic applicants. Given the high percentage of NHS workforce that are from ethnic minority backgrounds, I think it's reasonable to expect that the leadership should in some way reflect the workforce. And it does not. Really does not

Does it reflect the workforce of thirty years ago though? Because surely that is the relevant workforce against whom the current group of senior management competed?

And why does the NHS workforce not reflect the UK population?

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 13:56

There is a problem for white working class boys, that is absolutely true and it should be tackled. Hence newer schemes looking at social mobility.

They ignore physical mobility - that white working class boys cannot afford the travel and rent to move away to university or to do an internship in a city they have no contacts with. Or that they are not even aware of these opportunities because companies do not set up in their area or move away from it in order to promote ‘diversity’.

MaeTeekay14 · 21/10/2025 13:56

This is likely due to all the years of minorities being excluded from many professions due to unconscious and conscious bias. I am a mother to a mixed race son who got fantastic results in his GCSE's last year. He has been trying for the last 8 months to get an apprenticeship with no success. He's not come across one application that states it is for black/female/disabled applicants only though. That's discriminatory in itself. Due to the industry that I am in, I am aware that many businesses have pledged that they will hire a certain amount of ethnic groups and other marginalised groups, as for so long they have been overlooked. I would encourage your son to continue to look for things and the right thing will come along at the right time.

PermanentTemporary · 21/10/2025 13:56

I suppose I am bound to feel a bit sick reading this as my ordinary white son has just got a job, doing what he wants to do, at a London firm, having got 4 A*s, internships every year and an oxbridge degree. His skin colour and sex don’t appear to have held him back. He got several jobs in fact, but picked the one that suited him.

If a job at the top end firms appears to be out of reach, because an organisation has decided to recruit in a particular way or because you’ve missed out on that application round (my son obviously applied for multiple things he didn’t get as well as those he did) then go and get a job somewhere else. If you were in the running for those very high end jobs, you will get something else. Based on my son’s experience, a lot of this is hot air. If someone tells you ‘it’s pointless to apply for X’ have a good look at who is saying it, their real experience and why. What they may mean is ‘I didn’t get in’ or ‘it took me six months to get something’ but it’s much more exciting to say that female doctors from families of Indian origin aren’t good enough (I’ve heard that said) or various vapid statements about ‘diversity’.

MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 13:57

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 13:52

Does it reflect the workforce of thirty years ago though? Because surely that is the relevant workforce against whom the current group of senior management competed?

And why does the NHS workforce not reflect the UK population?

Exactly - senior positions will in time reflect the make-up of the workforce. But if you’re 60 then when starting out your peers would not have been very diverse.

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 13:58

PermanentTemporary · 21/10/2025 13:56

I suppose I am bound to feel a bit sick reading this as my ordinary white son has just got a job, doing what he wants to do, at a London firm, having got 4 A*s, internships every year and an oxbridge degree. His skin colour and sex don’t appear to have held him back. He got several jobs in fact, but picked the one that suited him.

If a job at the top end firms appears to be out of reach, because an organisation has decided to recruit in a particular way or because you’ve missed out on that application round (my son obviously applied for multiple things he didn’t get as well as those he did) then go and get a job somewhere else. If you were in the running for those very high end jobs, you will get something else. Based on my son’s experience, a lot of this is hot air. If someone tells you ‘it’s pointless to apply for X’ have a good look at who is saying it, their real experience and why. What they may mean is ‘I didn’t get in’ or ‘it took me six months to get something’ but it’s much more exciting to say that female doctors from families of Indian origin aren’t good enough (I’ve heard that said) or various vapid statements about ‘diversity’.

Your son’s experience does not prove this doesn’t exist

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 14:01

I am aware that many businesses have pledged that they will hire a certain amount of ethnic groups and other marginalised groups, as for so long they have been overlooked.

‘Overlooked for so long’ or because the demographics of the UK population has been undergoing huge and rapid change? Don’t believe the BBC historical dramas - the non-white ethnic groups made up only a tiny proportion of the UK population until forty/fifty years ago.

1dayatatime · 21/10/2025 14:02

pikkumyy77 · 21/10/2025 13:21

But he’s not. The whole field of all jobs isn’t (possibly) available to him but so what? The previously disadvantaged, outsider, applicants havd for once in history been given a slight advantage so that massively white top heavy groups can try to rebalance their books now as they face an increasingly muced population. Maybe the nonwhite, female, disabled customer base would like to see beanch managers snd financial counselors who look like them? Maybe they want an international (refugee) representative because those candidates have more to offer than mr standard type. Thats a business decision. Why are you complaining about it. You didn’t complain when the old boys club simply delivered your jobs to you directly by shutting outsiders out. You thought it was merit but it was based on artificial exclusion just the same.

So your answer to right the wrong of historical discrimination against coloured minorities is to recreate discrimination today against the white majority today.

You do realise that the white children of today are not responsible for the discrimination that took place in the past.

MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 14:02

I can say that publishing is really bad. There seems a concerted effort to eliminate men full stop, no matter what their creed or colour (trans excepted - but then I suppose they are women (!) ).

You’d have thought in the interests of diversity they would want a few males, but no. Not welcome.

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 14:06

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 13:46

Families don’t live on £7.4k though, at that salary they also get universal credit and possibly housing benefit. They could have a lot more to live on than a family on a higher salary - for example if they had a mortgage on a home in negative equity that needs repairs. Check your own privilege before deciding other people are bigots for understanding more about how difficult financial circumstances can work.

I was obviously joking really couldn’t give less of shit if you or anyone think I’m privileged, I don’t play the sob story olympics, my employer thinks I’m mixed race and bisexual, I have zero qualifications or previous work experience and working a pretty cushty job considering my poor life decisions as a youngster

I am privileged and technically stole an opportunity from someone who isn’t with my bullshittery😉 oh well you do what you have to in 2025

MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 14:08

@pikkumyy77 - you’ve got all the cliches there. Old boys club? So every white boy from no matter where is definitely taking advantage of the old boys club ?

Why do you want to demonise and punish blameless individuals?

Betcha call a dreaded man when you need a removal company or your drains are blocked. They’re good enough for that, eh?

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 14:15

GreenSweeties · 21/10/2025 13:25

Has he really applied to 100? What feedback has he had. Maybe needs to make less but higher quality applications (and worry less about not seeing anyone who looks like him on recruitment materials).

My employer switched to only offering widening access internships as previously all the spots were taken up by existing members of staff family and friends who generally didn't need the insight to the industry or a leg up. No restriction on who can apply for the actual jobs on graduation.

DDs grad scheme has a diversity internship (but takes anyone if spaces not filled). Not sure doing the internship gives much advantage as her cohort is still very white and middle class.

All for the workforce being more representative of the communities they serve.

My brown son applied for more than a 100 . Feedback was that he didn't suit the corporate culture and was rubbish at personality tests. So he worked harder at those and learned how to " fit in". And was successful.

Meanwhile my DD who didn't work quite as hard and doesn't have as good grades didnt get on a grad scheme. Her fault as she didn't put in that effort. We dont whine about racism. She will try again after acquiring more skills.

Whyherewego · 21/10/2025 14:18

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 13:52

Does it reflect the workforce of thirty years ago though? Because surely that is the relevant workforce against whom the current group of senior management competed?

And why does the NHS workforce not reflect the UK population?

Well the percentage of BME at senior levels in the NHS still doesn't relect the overall percentage of BME 10 years ago.

As to why we like to recruit people from overseas to do the lower paid jobs in the NHS ... that's a whole other thread

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 14:19

Also, I hate to bore on about it but many target unis and grad schemes are looking for FM, especially for analyst roles.

If your kid didnt take FM and has not got on a grad scheme, it's not because they are white. It could be because they didn't take FM.

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 14:22

Whyherewego · 21/10/2025 14:18

Well the percentage of BME at senior levels in the NHS still doesn't relect the overall percentage of BME 10 years ago.

As to why we like to recruit people from overseas to do the lower paid jobs in the NHS ... that's a whole other thread

it takes more than ten years to reach senior roles (and then they stay in them until retirement). And it is not just lower paid jobs that are recruited from abroad. 48% of UK FY2 doctors this year failed to find specialist training and were left unemployed whilst thousands of overseas doctors were recruited to specialist training posts instead.

FairKoala · 21/10/2025 14:23

Beedeeoh · 21/10/2025 11:32

The reason for this is that it's much more likely for white, male middle class candidates to be successful through other routes. You're talking as if your son will have no chance of getting a position in future. Statistically that's unlikely. White males generally do very well in grad scheme applications or just open applications. The point of offering internships and apprenticeships to disadvantaged groups is that it gives them a better chance when it comes to the latter type of application or an alternative way to get a foot in the door. That's why they are not usually open to candidates who have those advantages already.

I work in the public sector and the vast majority of our grads this year are white, middle class females - not great. If other areas are achieving better diversity, I'm all for that.

But if no or very few grad schemes have openings for white males then how can all these white males get on them?

viques · 21/10/2025 14:24

Fellontheground · 21/10/2025 11:37

Excuse me? Yes - in many cases, these are the stated eligibility requirements. She ticks one box (state school) and that’s it. She’s not black, not a refugee, not a traveller, not disabled, not estranged from us, etc etc etc etc

So in the wider sense of privilege she has already won the lottery simply by NOT being black, a refugee, a traveller, disabled, PP, in care etc etc.

How many more advantages do you think she needs to be given to make up for not ticking boxes? Super model good looks, perfect pitch, parents best friends with the CEO of international companies, generous financial legacy from granny, athletic prowess …………

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 14:24

FairKoala · 21/10/2025 14:23

But if no or very few grad schemes have openings for white males then how can all these white males get on them?

Why do you believe that grad schemes dont have opps for white males? They do!

Regardless of OP"s whining.

Northerngirl821 · 21/10/2025 14:26

I’m in medicine and white men (not “males”) are definitely still well represented amongst newly qualified doctors. All interview shortlisting is done with redacted application forms - we don’t have access to EDI date at this stage.