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To Think that Grad & Apprenticeships are now only for Diversity Candidates

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reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 10:34

Slight hyperbole but not far off.

Yes, of course I suppose my DS should be appreciative of his 'white privilege' (I do detest the term though), but he's been applying to over 100 x spring & summer internships and apprenticeships.

Invariably, he finds that lots of programmes are only open to black/female/social mobility/ND candidates. In one recent case - a global consultancy - there were NO openings for anyone outside of these categories.

And today, on LinkedIn, he forwarded me several links from leading banks reaching out about apprenticeships etc. In most photos, you might be lucky to spot 1-2 white males and in the video of one, there were not a single white male (or female for that matter).

I get that these firms need to do outreach to disadvantaged groups but if you look at the population level percentage of the various group categories, this really has swung too far the other way.

I get that many of these organisations have years to catch up with diversity hires but to try to rebalance in such an aggressive way and in a short space of time, makes it very difficult for young, white males (unless they have qualified for 'free school meals') to get a foot in the door which is especially tough in an incredibly tough grad market as it is.

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2boysm · 21/10/2025 12:35

For another example, the new president of the royal college of physicians is female. She is vocal about the representation of women in leadership in medicine. Quite right too, you might say… but she was taking over from a woman.

In another medical leadership panel, there were four posts. Two were reserved for ethnic minorities and one for female candidates. So if you are a white man, you can only apply to one. It’s absolutely bonkers.

DareMe · 21/10/2025 12:38

2boysm · 21/10/2025 12:35

For another example, the new president of the royal college of physicians is female. She is vocal about the representation of women in leadership in medicine. Quite right too, you might say… but she was taking over from a woman.

In another medical leadership panel, there were four posts. Two were reserved for ethnic minorities and one for female candidates. So if you are a white man, you can only apply to one. It’s absolutely bonkers.

The vast majority of NHS CEOs are white males. Ambulance services in particular have a long way to go.

Codyrhodesisaheel · 21/10/2025 12:39

Rosesfornoses · 21/10/2025 12:05

Ever since I started teaching we were taught that the worst achieving children with the poorest outcomes were poor white boys.
https://committees.parliament.uk/committee/203/education-committee/news/156024/forgotten-white-workingclass-pupils-let-down-by-decades-of-neglect-mps-say/
I did hear a Labour MP recently on Radio 4 explaining that this is the real issue in education today.
Most London Grammar schools are dominated by minority ethnic groups.There is no such representation from poor white boys. There are influential people now fighting to change this. Wes Streeting is one such campaigner.
I remember one pupil from an ethnic minority who had six brothers and sisters. All went to Oxbridge. None of them were startingly clever. His male classmates from ordinary and poor backgrounds did not stand a chance.
Look up the proportion of poor white boys in Higher Education compared to ethnic minority students. Don't take my word for it. There has to be a campaign to recruit more students from poor white backgrounds. Otherwise you have significantly disadvantaged groups who are the feeding ground for far right groups.

I was going to say the same thing.

there is a significant issue that white boys/young men are constantly being told they are the problem with society, it’s why the likes of Andrew Tate have grown in such prominence. It’s also feeding through to the rise of the far right and the growing levels of racism.

I don’t know what the solution is, but equally denying that there is a growing issue isnt going to help anyone.

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 12:40

2boysm · 21/10/2025 12:35

For another example, the new president of the royal college of physicians is female. She is vocal about the representation of women in leadership in medicine. Quite right too, you might say… but she was taking over from a woman.

In another medical leadership panel, there were four posts. Two were reserved for ethnic minorities and one for female candidates. So if you are a white man, you can only apply to one. It’s absolutely bonkers.

It’s depends. What is a medical leadership panel? It’s presumably not a job, but an advisory or guidance board?

In which case, who would suffer from two less white males? Only the white males who want the role. Who would benefit from more representation, in terms of the panels impact? Arguably everyone who isn’t a white male.

marryescargatoire · 21/10/2025 12:45

reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 11:44

Yes this. He can definitely handle the competition but a lot of opportunities are closed.

Of course I'm not saying that people from diverse groups can't be top of the class and the best, not at all, but I've heard some banks saying they want 20% diversity hires which is an awfully high number given the fabric of the population.

I know lots of white males with 4A*s and even masters (with both degrees from 'target' unis) who have not managed to get into any spring or summer internships.

I went to Oxbridge. Lots of candidates with straight As (before A*s) from my cohort weren't getting onto these internships when I was at university. It was nothing to do with them being white males (in fact many weren't). It's always been ridiculously competitive and there have always been candidates with top grades and even masters who haven't gotten places.

It's nothing to do with diversity hires.

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/10/2025 12:46

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 12:20

I think the mistake (white men usually) make in these discussions is it’s about THE BEST THE BEST THE BEST

employment rarely needs the (subjective) best. There are many, many young people who could equally smash the shit out of a grad scheme at Deloitte’s/ slaughter and may/ Tesco/ Royal Mail etc etc.

they don’t need to be the best in their school or attending the best university. There are thousands of 22 year olds who could be brilliant future employees

companies are allowed to access those people.

what you’re really pissed off about what the the social contract as you perceptive it has been broken.

4A* tick, oxbridge tick, DofE tick and yet those bastards have the grad scheme to some care leaver from Cardiff WTF?!? It wasn’t worth all the hard work after all

the documentary “try harder” is a perfect demonstration of this- Asian kids hyper achieving then finding that Ivy League doesn’t want them because they’re over
achieving asians

the issue is commonly exaggerated but maybe rooted in some truth, or at least perception of truth.

This is a good insight.

If getting good grades, participation in community stuff, volunteering, etc. are not relevant for securing future opportunities, what should white boys being doing to show they are worthy of a chance?

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 12:48

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 12:31

Did you bollocks 😂

I did, how do you think they would prove I wasn’t bisexual? Even “mixed race” is pretty ambiguous and could mean half British half polish. The definition is in the eye of the beholder.

Anyway MAYBE it was just a coincidence I finally got a job after I started lying despite having a non existent cv. Maybe

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 21/10/2025 12:48

We recently had an email from a white male candidate who was unsuccessful in our recruitment process. He complained that he had been a victim of our "woke diversity hiring" practices. I'm not sure what gave him that impression, unless it was the fact that we do blind shortlisting. But he got through to the interview stage regardless, so I can't really see why he would have had an issue with that.

The successful candidate was in fact an Asian female, but that had fuck all to do with any non-existent diversity targets and everything to do with the fact that she was by far the stronger candidate.

This guy was just another entitled white male who assumed that he should be given a job despite the fact that he didn't demonstrate any aptitude for it. He would do better to focus on addressing his own weaknesses instead of railing against the unfairness of it all. Ironically, his email merely confirmed to us that he was totally unemployable.

Zebedee999 · 21/10/2025 12:48

ExtraOnions · 21/10/2025 11:18

I’m in the Civil Service, just checked our Apprentices for this year … and I can only base this on a picture.

7 white men
5 white women
2 Black / Asian Women
2 Black / Asian Men

Not sure about Disability, or Demographics … but, having been part of the process, there were no “targets”

It’s a competitive market … I just advertised a lower graded role, and got 250 applications

Our local council always state BAME candidates will be prioritised. I've seen that in CS jobs too. The jobs ads used to explicitly state that, they are a little more measured nowadays but the intent is still there.Some remain explicit like the Bank of England 'Black Future Leaders Sponsorship Programme'.
As well as two tier justice the government and local government operate two tier recruitment.

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/10/2025 12:49

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 12:24

Maybe ethnic minorities are overrepresented because certain professions are now so in demand that they need 4 A stars. Which few white people get.

🙄 rude.

My two white children both have a clean sweep of A*s. They also competed in elite level sport. White people aren’t dullards.

Rosesfornoses · 21/10/2025 12:50

@Codyrhodesisaheel
Thank you. So many supposedly 'lefty' posters on here who haven't got a clue about the most disadvantaged in our society. As you rightly say it is feeding the rhetoric of the far right.
Something tells me that these 'lefties' won't be campaigning for better educational opportunities for poor white boys.
Sorry, Wes Streeting, I know you feel that this group is deserving of more support.

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 12:50

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 12:48

I did, how do you think they would prove I wasn’t bisexual? Even “mixed race” is pretty ambiguous and could mean half British half polish. The definition is in the eye of the beholder.

Anyway MAYBE it was just a coincidence I finally got a job after I started lying despite having a non existent cv. Maybe

It’s nothing to do with wither they can prove it or not. It’s because you don’t get jobs for just being bisexual so this information wouldn’t make you any better at the selection process and the fact that at the level you’re talking about no one gives a crap about diversity hires

Rainbows12344 · 21/10/2025 12:51

UK is becoming more and more diverse and less and less white. In 20 years it will be like 50:50 or even more? So it might not necessarily be a diversity policy working here, just the statistics.

PlayWeather · 21/10/2025 12:51

If your son doesn't qualify under the "social mobility" category he probably doesn't need the kind of internship being offered. Traditionally people with parents with money have the advantage of being able to work for low or no wages, whereas others without this opportunity won't be able to access certain kinds of careers or work experiences. If these are paid internships that are for people from a more disadvantaged socio-economic background, they exist to give some young people opportunities they otherwise would not have.

NancyJoan · 21/10/2025 12:54

Try JP Morgan Chase. The white, privately educated kid whose parents live next door to me is currently on the degree apprenticeship.

Egregiousabsolute · 21/10/2025 12:54

EmeraldRoulette · 21/10/2025 11:34

As a non-white woman, I objected to these things 25 years ago

I never applied for any of them because I did not want to be the diversity hire

Unfortunately, these things have become entrenched. I was even greeted with surprise recently when I explained to someone - who really should know me better - that I would never apply for those things.

It's really annoying for me because I find it reinforces a stereotype on two levels in my case

As for what happens to the next generation, I'm sorry to say I don't know. There will be stuff that your son can apply for hopefully? So places who expressed that they will give preference on a DEI basis but they won't be exclusive about it.

I am definitely not the only person who thinks it's got ridiculous but it's the kind of view you won't hear expressed very often. I worry about typing it out on here! People have been trained to shout "prejudice" at everything from school. And it gets worse at university from what I can see. It's batshit.

I suspect it will get worse because it takes organisations about 20 years to catch up with what everyone else is thinking. Especially if they're following government!

I wish your son all the best in his job hunting 💫

LOVE THIS! 👏 👏 👏

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 12:55

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 12:50

It’s nothing to do with wither they can prove it or not. It’s because you don’t get jobs for just being bisexual so this information wouldn’t make you any better at the selection process and the fact that at the level you’re talking about no one gives a crap about diversity hires

Sure whatever, they just ask for “monitoring purposes” I’m open to it being a big fat coincidence although after countless rejections while being honest about being straight and white it was a pretty big coincidence.

My contribution to the thread is for anyone in the ops son’s situation to just lie, be the mixed race gay man, they can’t prove you’re not. This is sadly the world we live in and we must adapt hate the game not the player 👌🏻

herbalteabag · 21/10/2025 12:56

My son is white and got an internship at an investment bank before graduating two years ago. Since then he's worked in finance/banking in the city at more than one place and gets contacted quite frequently on LinkedIn, it doesn't seem to have been an issue for him.

RhaenysRocks · 21/10/2025 12:57

reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 11:44

Yes this. He can definitely handle the competition but a lot of opportunities are closed.

Of course I'm not saying that people from diverse groups can't be top of the class and the best, not at all, but I've heard some banks saying they want 20% diversity hires which is an awfully high number given the fabric of the population.

I know lots of white males with 4A*s and even masters (with both degrees from 'target' unis) who have not managed to get into any spring or summer internships.

But if in "diversity" you include ethnic background, disadvantage markers, ND then actually I would think 20% of the population might well come under it, so it would be representative?

OhDear111 · 21/10/2025 12:58

Internships are about getting some experience and insight into the career you want. Employers should be even handed in their selection processes. Working at the local cafe isn’t the same.

It’s certainly been the case in some areas of work (law) that the tiny number of apprenticeships are being used to boost the disadvantaged employee stats for those companies. However the standard jobs are open to all. However the jobs are ludicrously competitive! These openings are being manipulated to boost the diversity stats - no doubt about it!

PlayWeather · 21/10/2025 12:58

2boysm · 21/10/2025 12:35

For another example, the new president of the royal college of physicians is female. She is vocal about the representation of women in leadership in medicine. Quite right too, you might say… but she was taking over from a woman.

In another medical leadership panel, there were four posts. Two were reserved for ethnic minorities and one for female candidates. So if you are a white man, you can only apply to one. It’s absolutely bonkers.

Why should more than one of them be a white man though?

OneDivineHammer · 21/10/2025 13:00

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/10/2025 12:49

🙄 rude.

My two white children both have a clean sweep of A*s. They also competed in elite level sport. White people aren’t dullards.

Rude - or racist? FWIW, not many people of any hue get 4 A*s.

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/10/2025 13:01

Rainbows12344 · 21/10/2025 12:51

UK is becoming more and more diverse and less and less white. In 20 years it will be like 50:50 or even more? So it might not necessarily be a diversity policy working here, just the statistics.

I think this is very true. I work in London in a white collar job. The office is naturally diverse, and if you hire the candidates reflect the local population which is diverse. You’d have an impossible task to build a high performing team, especially in more junior roles, out of just white males. It would restrict your choice too much.

The sooner they quit categorising everyone and quit asking intrusive information about race, gender snd sexuality, the better. This stuff creates grievances. I am not a Trump fan. I think his election was in part a backlash against EDI.

RubySquid · 21/10/2025 13:03

herbalteabag · 21/10/2025 12:56

My son is white and got an internship at an investment bank before graduating two years ago. Since then he's worked in finance/banking in the city at more than one place and gets contacted quite frequently on LinkedIn, it doesn't seem to have been an issue for him.

Is he also working class though? Those are the white boys that are left behind

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 13:03

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/10/2025 13:01

I think this is very true. I work in London in a white collar job. The office is naturally diverse, and if you hire the candidates reflect the local population which is diverse. You’d have an impossible task to build a high performing team, especially in more junior roles, out of just white males. It would restrict your choice too much.

The sooner they quit categorising everyone and quit asking intrusive information about race, gender snd sexuality, the better. This stuff creates grievances. I am not a Trump fan. I think his election was in part a backlash against EDI.

There’s a big difference between London and the uk in general tbh