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Men violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking, is what the Taliban do. Why is it happening in the UK?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/10/2025 12:27

The FiLiA Women's Liberation Conference was targeted overnight, the attackers even live tweeted the violence.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25532194.live-brighton-centre-vandalised-feminist-conference-begins/

Local politicians are so far silent.

This is literally terrorism, using fear and violence to shut down legitimate peaceful discussions.

Video of the incident: https://x.com/TransBashBack/status/1976555969439223934

Live: Venue vandalised and protesters demonstrate at feminist conference

The Brighton Centre has been vandalised as a feminist conference begins there today.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25532194.live-brighton-centre-vandalised-feminist-conference-begins/

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miraxxx · 10/10/2025 15:57

This is just the latest in a long campaign of intimidation including physical violence. Nearly every single GC women's meeting has experienced this over the last 8 years.

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 15:58

Kimura · 10/10/2025 15:11

So it’s okay to cause criminal damage and terrify women, completely misunderstanding and deliberately misrepresenting their cause, is it?

Which women were terrified at 3am when some windows of an empty building were smashed? And who has suggested that it's ok?

It's criminal damage and the police were on the scene immediately. Angry people break stuff when they feel like they're not being listened to. Especially when the people who aren't listening pop up in their back yard.

It's a bit of vandalism. You'd think they'd blown the place up in the middle of the conference or something.

Vandalism is not acceptable either.

RedNine · 10/10/2025 15:58

It is v depressing and also not surprising.

#The Filia conference in 2022 Cardiff, had a credible online threat issued to burn down the venue Police investigate apparent online threat to 'burn' venue hosting a feminist conference in Cardiff | Wales Online .

As we know from male patterns of offending, escalation is a thing.

Police investigate threat to 'burn' venue hosting a feminist conference

The online comments are being investigated by South Wales Police

https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/police-investigate-apparent-online-threat-25169290

RedNine · 10/10/2025 15:59

(ignoring the vandalism apologist on here)

miraxxx · 10/10/2025 15:59

Kimura · 10/10/2025 15:11

So it’s okay to cause criminal damage and terrify women, completely misunderstanding and deliberately misrepresenting their cause, is it?

Which women were terrified at 3am when some windows of an empty building were smashed? And who has suggested that it's ok?

It's criminal damage and the police were on the scene immediately. Angry people break stuff when they feel like they're not being listened to. Especially when the people who aren't listening pop up in their back yard.

It's a bit of vandalism. You'd think they'd blown the place up in the middle of the conference or something.

Ah we see the standards at which Kimura feels proper attention is warranted : women were not blown up, why the fuck are you bitches whining.

exiledfromcornwall · 10/10/2025 16:00

ILikeDungs · 10/10/2025 12:49

Still not mentioned on BBC news website. There is:

Stuck dog rescued from garden fence after chasing ball

Priorities.

Our so-called 'news' channels are a joke. 7.4 earthquake in the Philippines earlier and I heard no mention on BBC news.

mintydoggyv · 10/10/2025 16:04

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Petitchat · 10/10/2025 16:08

HothouseFlower · 10/10/2025 12:45

Male aggression.

Women gathering to talk without them is seen as a threat.

Causes deaths, you know...

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deltapanda · 10/10/2025 16:09

Thank you @SingleSexSpacesInSchools, you got in there first with a reply very close to my own thoughts!

This is behaviour that was no doubt meant to intimidate and silence women, but because nobody was around at the time we can’t describe it as terrifying, apparently. Got it.

Petitchat · 10/10/2025 16:11

It's been lovely having a break for a while.
Wondered where they'd gone?

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:13

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/10/2025 15:46

Yes you did, you literally said “the people not listening” “had popped up” so the “angry people” felt like smashing things, as if these misogynistic wankers own Brighton or something.

So we agree, I didn't say that you - or anyone for that matter - were supposed to be listening to anything.

To be clear - Angry people break stuff when they're not being listened to. The people this particular bunch are angry about popped up in their back yard, so they went and broke their stuff. It's not that deep.

Everything else - that you are supposed to be listening to them, that they're 'justified' in their criminal damage - these are things you appear to have up. Nobody in this thread has suggested them, except you.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/10/2025 16:14

Not engaging with you further, I’ve made my point quite adequately.

Kucinghitam · 10/10/2025 16:15

Some posters are desperate to stop people talking about this, aren't they?

lcakethereforeIam · 10/10/2025 16:16

Words are violence but actual violence is criminal damage. The women at Filia was to talk, to be listened to but this is not acceptable to the traliban. However, the women manage to not be violent commit criminal damage. I can't think of a single event for transpeople that has suffered an iota of the obstruction, violence and intimidation that is par for the course when women try to speak.

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:16

miraxxx · 10/10/2025 15:59

Ah we see the standards at which Kimura feels proper attention is warranted : women were not blown up, why the fuck are you bitches whining.

Proper action was taken by the police, immediately.

People are aghast that some smashed windows in Brighton weren't breaking news on the BBC.

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:17

Angry people break stuff when they're not being listened to.

This is absolutely NOT a hard and fast rule, otherwise women would be smashing stuff up all over the place. Your central premise does not hold up. That's why it sounds like you're making excuses for them.

Kucinghitam · 10/10/2025 16:19
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hydriotaphia · 10/10/2025 16:20

No, spray-painting and smashing windows isn't terrorism. No more than vandalising aeroplanes is. It is criminal damage, absolutely fair enough to prosecute as such, but it is not terrorism. I don't agree with the current government approach of characterising protest as terrorism.

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:21

Also why SHOULD Filia listen to these people? Filia is a women's rights organisation.

TheProfoundlyPeculiarPointOfPete · 10/10/2025 16:22

where rape and violence against women in their own homes is considered perfectly acceptable

You're right that it's not as widespread and extreme as the Taliban but the principle is the same. And unfortunately I don't believe that this country finds rape and violence against women unacceptable when the consequences of committing rape are frequently small to none for the perpetrator.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/10/2025 16:24

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:21

Also why SHOULD Filia listen to these people? Filia is a women's rights organisation.

mysterious really, isn’t it.

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:28

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:17

Angry people break stuff when they're not being listened to.

This is absolutely NOT a hard and fast rule, otherwise women would be smashing stuff up all over the place. Your central premise does not hold up. That's why it sounds like you're making excuses for them.

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Nothing is 'hard and fast' 100% of the time.

And women have smashed plenty up throughout history. You've never seen a woman in a riot? Who was smashing whisky bottles with hatchets during the temperance movement?

I haven't made a single excuse for anyone on this thread. I can't help it if people don't know their history.

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:31

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:21

Also why SHOULD Filia listen to these people? Filia is a women's rights organisation.

Again, nobody in this thread has suggested that Filia should listen to them.

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:32

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:28

Nothing is 'hard and fast' 100% of the time.

And women have smashed plenty up throughout history. You've never seen a woman in a riot? Who was smashing whisky bottles with hatchets during the temperance movement?

I haven't made a single excuse for anyone on this thread. I can't help it if people don't know their history.

Which protesters throughout history have attacked a rights organisation's meeting venue simply for meeting, please?