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Do you believe in God/a higher power?

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CuriousAboutWhatYouThink · 08/10/2025 07:09

Not religion. I have no time for organised religion and the associated man made rules.

But do you believe in 'something'?

For context, my grandad was a CofE vicar but my parent rebelled against it and we were brought up broadly l in the religion (eg we celebrated main religious festivals like Easter and Christmas) but not as practising Christians and without a particular belief in God.

As an adult, I have friends of different faiths and none and it's something we have discussed from time to time. It's also something I used to discuss with my grandma who had a very strong belief in God but also believed the Bible until she became older when she still had a strong faith but admitted she thought the Bible was largely nonsense!

I suppose I've always felt that there is 'something' but I refer to it as the universe. I don't know, I always feel that there has been 'something' looking out for me.

That doesn't mean bad things have never happened because they have and religion/belief doesn't protect anyone from that. And it doesn't mean my life is anywhere near perfect because it's not. But the universe has always seemed to 'step in' when needed.

I don't know. I'm going through a tough time at the moment but I have a feeling everything will turn out to be OK because it always does.

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RedAdmirals · 12/10/2025 12:51

thisishowloween · 12/10/2025 12:48

Of course not, but that doesn't mean I have to agree with their decisions.

You have the freedom of choice. I have the freedom to think you're bonkers.

No argument with that.

ninjahamster · 12/10/2025 12:52

I never did. But now I have angels who speak to me all day. I see them and they hang around in the corners of the room. They wake me up at night.
They literally rule my life. They tell me who I can trust and who I can’t. They explained I’ve been put on this earth to complete missions. My ultimate goal they have set me is to get rid of evil people.

ToWhitToWhoo · 12/10/2025 13:01

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 12/10/2025 01:52

Where did the idea of doing the right thing come from? I suggest it came fro the Ten Commandments.

No, basic ethical principles are not limited to cultures that follow the Ten Commandments. For example, the 'Golden Rule', that you should treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself, can be found in many religions:

https://medium.com/@daniel-nimbus/one-teaching-all-religions-have-in-common-0c74b4650e94

One Teaching All Religions Have In Common

The Golden Rule Across Religions — The Shared Moral Principle That Unites Diverse Beliefs

https://medium.com/@daniel-nimbus/one-teaching-all-religions-have-in-common-0c74b4650e94

No33 · 12/10/2025 15:48

This has been a great thread to read.

And I'm now reading up up on polytheistic paganism.

thisishowloween · 12/10/2025 15:53

ToWhitToWhoo · 12/10/2025 13:01

No, basic ethical principles are not limited to cultures that follow the Ten Commandments. For example, the 'Golden Rule', that you should treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself, can be found in many religions:

https://medium.com/@daniel-nimbus/one-teaching-all-religions-have-in-common-0c74b4650e94

It’s interesting that many Christians assume that everything good must come from their religion - as nobody could possibly understand that stealing is wrong without the Bible 🙄

Insanityisnotastrategy · 12/10/2025 19:27

ninjahamster · 12/10/2025 12:52

I never did. But now I have angels who speak to me all day. I see them and they hang around in the corners of the room. They wake me up at night.
They literally rule my life. They tell me who I can trust and who I can’t. They explained I’ve been put on this earth to complete missions. My ultimate goal they have set me is to get rid of evil people.

Exsqueeze me?!

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 20:15

thisishowloween · 12/10/2025 15:53

It’s interesting that many Christians assume that everything good must come from their religion - as nobody could possibly understand that stealing is wrong without the Bible 🙄

Is stealing wrong?

thisishowloween · 12/10/2025 20:26

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 20:15

Is stealing wrong?

Of course it is.

ToWhitToWhoo · 12/10/2025 22:33

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 20:15

Is stealing wrong?

Yes. How would you like it if people stole your things?

Obviously there can be mitigating circumstances, e.g. if someone is starving and can't get food any other way; but in general it's a violation of other people's rights.

Pricelessadvice · 13/10/2025 07:08

ninjahamster · 12/10/2025 12:52

I never did. But now I have angels who speak to me all day. I see them and they hang around in the corners of the room. They wake me up at night.
They literally rule my life. They tell me who I can trust and who I can’t. They explained I’ve been put on this earth to complete missions. My ultimate goal they have set me is to get rid of evil people.

And how do you plan on doing this, while not committing sin??

The world has truly gone mad.

Lemonadepie · 13/10/2025 07:23

ninjahamster · 12/10/2025 12:52

I never did. But now I have angels who speak to me all day. I see them and they hang around in the corners of the room. They wake me up at night.
They literally rule my life. They tell me who I can trust and who I can’t. They explained I’ve been put on this earth to complete missions. My ultimate goal they have set me is to get rid of evil people.

What is an ‘evil’ person?

thecatneuterer · 13/10/2025 10:00

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MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 10:07

ToWhitToWhoo · 12/10/2025 22:33

Yes. How would you like it if people stole your things?

Obviously there can be mitigating circumstances, e.g. if someone is starving and can't get food any other way; but in general it's a violation of other people's rights.

If I didn’t believe in personal property would taking something off me be wrong?

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 10:08

thisishowloween · 12/10/2025 20:26

Of course it is.

Why?

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 10:09

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 10:08

Why?

Because (except in very rare cases where people are starving and have no other choice) taking things that don’t belong to you is shitty.

But then, you know that. You’re just trying to be provocative.

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 10:13

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I guess laughing at that is another reason I’m going to hell 🫣

GarlicBreadStan · 13/10/2025 10:17

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 10:13

I guess laughing at that is another reason I’m going to hell 🫣

Same tbh. I've accepted my fate. Especially if Satan does participate in satanic orgies with people 🤣

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 11:27

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 10:13

I guess laughing at that is another reason I’m going to hell 🫣

It probably wasn’t an appropriate comment on any level in relation to that post, it certainly wasn’t funny -but then I’ve know a few people take their own lives so our positions might be different

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 11:33

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 10:09

Because (except in very rare cases where people are starving and have no other choice) taking things that don’t belong to you is shitty.

But then, you know that. You’re just trying to be provocative.

No I’m not..if I don’t believe in personal property, I pressumably don’t think I own” anything. I might think your need or desire for that thing is greater than mine - therefore you think theft is just objectively wrong. Where does that come from?

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 11:57

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 11:27

It probably wasn’t an appropriate comment on any level in relation to that post, it certainly wasn’t funny -but then I’ve know a few people take their own lives so our positions might be different

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So have I. Have you not heard of dark humour?

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 11:59

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 11:33

No I’m not..if I don’t believe in personal property, I pressumably don’t think I own” anything. I might think your need or desire for that thing is greater than mine - therefore you think theft is just objectively wrong. Where does that come from?

Morals and common sense?

Theft is wrong in pretty much single country on the planet and they’re not all Christian, so the idea of it being wrong clearly isn’t a religious thing.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 12:00

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 11:57

So have I. Have you not heard of dark humour?

There’s a difference between dark humour and making personal attacks on someone’s mental health when you don’t know how precarious that is.

Eyesopenwideawake · 13/10/2025 12:02

RedAdmirals · 12/10/2025 09:08

The 10 Commandments were the law of God as given to Moses on Mount Sinai. They form the basis of Judeo-Christian culture.

The other laws that came along later were written by Jewish Elders as a guide for their people and are written in Leviticus.

Yeah right. Who witnessed this law giving? If no one saw it, then just Moses having had one too many and telling a good story.

Do people really still believe this stuff?

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 12:02

thisishowloween · 13/10/2025 11:59

Morals and common sense?

Theft is wrong in pretty much single country on the planet and they’re not all Christian, so the idea of it being wrong clearly isn’t a religious thing.

Most countries have religion as part of their power structure and history - Christianity is a code of morals which has shaped our views on much of our society’s morals whether we like it or not

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 13/10/2025 12:03

Eyesopenwideawake · 13/10/2025 12:02

Yeah right. Who witnessed this law giving? If no one saw it, then just Moses having had one too many and telling a good story.

Do people really still believe this stuff?

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