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Do you believe in God/a higher power?

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CuriousAboutWhatYouThink · 08/10/2025 07:09

Not religion. I have no time for organised religion and the associated man made rules.

But do you believe in 'something'?

For context, my grandad was a CofE vicar but my parent rebelled against it and we were brought up broadly l in the religion (eg we celebrated main religious festivals like Easter and Christmas) but not as practising Christians and without a particular belief in God.

As an adult, I have friends of different faiths and none and it's something we have discussed from time to time. It's also something I used to discuss with my grandma who had a very strong belief in God but also believed the Bible until she became older when she still had a strong faith but admitted she thought the Bible was largely nonsense!

I suppose I've always felt that there is 'something' but I refer to it as the universe. I don't know, I always feel that there has been 'something' looking out for me.

That doesn't mean bad things have never happened because they have and religion/belief doesn't protect anyone from that. And it doesn't mean my life is anywhere near perfect because it's not. But the universe has always seemed to 'step in' when needed.

I don't know. I'm going through a tough time at the moment but I have a feeling everything will turn out to be OK because it always does.

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MyHeartyCoralSnail · 10/10/2025 13:05

Myoldbear · 10/10/2025 13:04

We are all unique, as this thread shows.

I think that if you align with who you really are, then what is right for you is what will happen for you eventually, and it will be fine, even very good.

Personally,I think there's something beyond science which is spirit.

In the end, love is all there is, some people say;
The journey may be beyond difficult though.

Indeed “Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law”

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 13:08

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:31

Also, not that my opinion should matter much at all because I'm an internet stranger, but I agree with every single point that you, Howloween, have said.

Also also, completely off-topic, but is the "Howl" in your name a reference to Howl's Moving Castle?

@GarlicBreadStan

Noticed your reference to Howl's Moving Castle, so assuming you've read the book? Just wanted to mention that a member of the witchcraft/occult community was conversing in an occult FB group and mentioned that he was a personal friend of the late Diana Wynne Jones - and stated that she herself was a practicing witch, though she kept quiet about that.

I think he said that she based one of the characters in her novels on him.

Rubyupbeat · 10/10/2025 13:10

Yes, very strongly and I believe in life after death.
OK I can't prove this, but then no one can prove the opposite.

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 13:13

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 13:08

@GarlicBreadStan

Noticed your reference to Howl's Moving Castle, so assuming you've read the book? Just wanted to mention that a member of the witchcraft/occult community was conversing in an occult FB group and mentioned that he was a personal friend of the late Diana Wynne Jones - and stated that she herself was a practicing witch, though she kept quiet about that.

I think he said that she based one of the characters in her novels on him.

Edited

I actually haven't read the book, but I've seen the film (I'm not much of a reader, to be honest!) and it's absolutely amazing to me. I find the concept of witchcraft (I apologise if that is the wrong word!) and everything like that absolutely fascinating to learn about. I love learning about different religions etc because it just means that I can become more open minded 😊

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 13:16

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 13:03

See, this is the type of conversation I want to have! (And I hope that doesn't come across as rude, I struggle to write tone correctly in messages)

Maybe I have a pessimistic point of view, but I would question people as to WHY they believe those things and to explain exactly what they've experienced, how it made them feel and what kind of confirmation it gave them.

I don't think I'll ever be religious, but I am genuinely glad that some people do have a belief system that gives them hope and comfort. As long as they don't push it on me and try to make me feel like a bad person for not believing, and as long as they can respect my decision to not believe in something, then I will always be happy for them.

@GarlicBreadStan

Thank you. I wouldn't say it never happens, but I would say it is shockingly rare to find a pagan polytheist who would try to push their beliefs on someone else. We do like to talk about them and explain our own reasonings for our beliefs, but the many traditions of paganism are not proselytising religions. People must form their own conclusions, and if someone is not personally convinced, then they should be atheists.

I will give my reasons for believing and accept that they aren't sufficient for other people to be believe, nor should they be. But I do want to contest the idea that personal experiences and other people's testimonies are not reasonable grounds for the pagan polytheists' personal belief.

There IS a difference between proselytising and publicising, though. People sometimes refer to the 'marketplace of religions' - modern society is more religiously diverse now, and I do believe it's good for pagan polytheists to have a voice. We advertise who we are, what we believe and what we do in order that people who might be curious or interested have an awareness that we're out there and know how to find us/find information.

It's also important, I believe to help combat stigma and prejudice against pagans, polytheists, witches and occultists.

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 13:19

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 13:13

I actually haven't read the book, but I've seen the film (I'm not much of a reader, to be honest!) and it's absolutely amazing to me. I find the concept of witchcraft (I apologise if that is the wrong word!) and everything like that absolutely fascinating to learn about. I love learning about different religions etc because it just means that I can become more open minded 😊

@GarlicBreadStan

Witchcraft is the right word. :)

Part of the reason I share blog posts from other people in these communities is so that people CAN learn if they find it interesting and wish to. It's nice to give my own thoughts as well, but some of these bloggers write pretty eloquently and summarise things better than I think I'd be able to.

If you want to understand my own personal reasoning, then fair enough, but when learning beyond that, pagan/polytheist/occult blogs can be a good resource (as well as books, of course.)

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 13:22

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 13:19

@GarlicBreadStan

Witchcraft is the right word. :)

Part of the reason I share blog posts from other people in these communities is so that people CAN learn if they find it interesting and wish to. It's nice to give my own thoughts as well, but some of these bloggers write pretty eloquently and summarise things better than I think I'd be able to.

If you want to understand my own personal reasoning, then fair enough, but when learning beyond that, pagan/polytheist/occult blogs can be a good resource (as well as books, of course.)

Do you have any suggestions for books (preferably audiobooks, or even podcasts) that would allow me to learn more about these things? I don't like being ignorant (though not purposefully, I might add) to people's beliefs. I like to be well educated on things so if a discussion ever comes up regarding religion, I can listen to people's thoughts and feelings and be able to state my thoughts and feelings respectfully (for example, believing Vs non believing)

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 13:25

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 13:22

Do you have any suggestions for books (preferably audiobooks, or even podcasts) that would allow me to learn more about these things? I don't like being ignorant (though not purposefully, I might add) to people's beliefs. I like to be well educated on things so if a discussion ever comes up regarding religion, I can listen to people's thoughts and feelings and be able to state my thoughts and feelings respectfully (for example, believing Vs non believing)

@GarlicBreadStan

I'm not much of a podcast or audiobook listener, but if blogs are not your preference, I can try to find some YouTube videos. Might have to give me some time, though. 😊

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 13:27

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 13:25

@GarlicBreadStan

I'm not much of a podcast or audiobook listener, but if blogs are not your preference, I can try to find some YouTube videos. Might have to give me some time, though. 😊

YouTube videos are definitely preferable for me if you don't listen to audio books or podcasts yourself.

Thank you for having an open, helpful conversation with me!

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 13:34

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 13:27

YouTube videos are definitely preferable for me if you don't listen to audio books or podcasts yourself.

Thank you for having an open, helpful conversation with me!

@GarlicBreadStan

You're welcome. I'll see what I can find.

Dappy777 · 10/10/2025 13:36

I certainly don’t believe in a higher power that intervenes in the world. Any God/higher power clearly does nothing to ease human or animal suffering (and if it does then it isn’t very good at it). Still, if there is a higher intelligence, then I doubt it is especially interested in humans anyway. We are animals. A chimpanzee is genetically closer to a human than it is to a gorilla. That is the single most incredible discovery of the last 200 years - that we are just one more species. Maybe the higher intelligence is more interested in baboons or dolphins or snails. Nothing about us is unique expect our ability to reason. And at our worst we are far worse than any animal

So maybe there is some kind of ‘higher intelligence,’ but it is non-human, detached and uninterested in us or our misery and cruelty. Either that or the materialists are right and no such being exists.

Myoldbear · 10/10/2025 13:46

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 10/10/2025 13:05

Indeed “Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law”

Well, not without forethought beforehand and self reflection afterwards, because doing those things will evolve and change what your will to do is in the future.

BunnyLake · 10/10/2025 14:29

Dappy777 · 10/10/2025 13:36

I certainly don’t believe in a higher power that intervenes in the world. Any God/higher power clearly does nothing to ease human or animal suffering (and if it does then it isn’t very good at it). Still, if there is a higher intelligence, then I doubt it is especially interested in humans anyway. We are animals. A chimpanzee is genetically closer to a human than it is to a gorilla. That is the single most incredible discovery of the last 200 years - that we are just one more species. Maybe the higher intelligence is more interested in baboons or dolphins or snails. Nothing about us is unique expect our ability to reason. And at our worst we are far worse than any animal

So maybe there is some kind of ‘higher intelligence,’ but it is non-human, detached and uninterested in us or our misery and cruelty. Either that or the materialists are right and no such being exists.

Ha yes. Has it ever occurred to people that god might actually have a particular love and care for cockroaches, no one can ever get rid of the darn things, seems they are very well protected.

RealPerson · 10/10/2025 14:36

Dappy777 · 10/10/2025 13:36

I certainly don’t believe in a higher power that intervenes in the world. Any God/higher power clearly does nothing to ease human or animal suffering (and if it does then it isn’t very good at it). Still, if there is a higher intelligence, then I doubt it is especially interested in humans anyway. We are animals. A chimpanzee is genetically closer to a human than it is to a gorilla. That is the single most incredible discovery of the last 200 years - that we are just one more species. Maybe the higher intelligence is more interested in baboons or dolphins or snails. Nothing about us is unique expect our ability to reason. And at our worst we are far worse than any animal

So maybe there is some kind of ‘higher intelligence,’ but it is non-human, detached and uninterested in us or our misery and cruelty. Either that or the materialists are right and no such being exists.

I think this is probably why aliens aren't interested in us

MyDogHumpsThings · 10/10/2025 14:49

I never have, but I was desperate to believe something when my mum died suddenly. I went to a psychic, begged empty rooms to send me signs, etc etc. But no, it was wishful thinking. I don’t believe in anything and when we die, we die. I wish I did believe in something. It would be very comforting.

WinterFrogs · 10/10/2025 15:54

RealPerson · 10/10/2025 14:36

I think this is probably why aliens aren't interested in us

Yes as a species we are a bit full of our own importance aren't we?

Lemonadepie · 10/10/2025 16:14

Rubyupbeat · 10/10/2025 13:10

Yes, very strongly and I believe in life after death.
OK I can't prove this, but then no one can prove the opposite.

What would be the purpose of an afterlife? Why would a god choose to ‘resurrect’ some homo sapiens from the tiny planet Earth, given how many thousands of other planets and probably life forms there are??

There are lots of crazy suggestions that can’t be disproven - that doesn’t make them true!

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 16:53

@Lemonadepie

There is some scientific evidence for continued existence after death with the research done with mediums. Julie Beischel, a researcher at the Windbridge Institute has done studies with mediums with produced statistically significant evidence that suggested they were communicating with discarnate personalities.

Below is a list of their completed studies.

Completed Studies – Windbridge Research Center

This isn't the only example.

Completed Studies – Windbridge Research Center

https://www.windbridge.org/research/completed-studies/

MumChp · 10/10/2025 17:16

Yes. I do. I studied theology for 6 yeats at university and served as a vicar in a Scandinavian church and later CofE.
We go to church on Sundays as a family, enjoy it and is involved in youth ministry.

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 17:17

MumChp · 10/10/2025 17:16

Yes. I do. I studied theology for 6 yeats at university and served as a vicar in a Scandinavian church and later CofE.
We go to church on Sundays as a family, enjoy it and is involved in youth ministry.

What do you believe happens to atheists when they die?

MasterBeth · 10/10/2025 17:35

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 16:53

@Lemonadepie

There is some scientific evidence for continued existence after death with the research done with mediums. Julie Beischel, a researcher at the Windbridge Institute has done studies with mediums with produced statistically significant evidence that suggested they were communicating with discarnate personalities.

Below is a list of their completed studies.

Completed Studies – Windbridge Research Center

This isn't the only example.

Well they certainly appear to be approaching their research from a strictly objective position...

"Studying dying, death, and what comes next"

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 17:44

MasterBeth · 10/10/2025 17:35

Well they certainly appear to be approaching their research from a strictly objective position...

"Studying dying, death, and what comes next"

Edited

Fair point, but one could argue that researchers who are non-believers aren't always necessarily completely objective either - i.e. they often start with the presumption that there's absolutely nothing, when an objective position would be a neutral "who knows."

MumChp · 10/10/2025 17:51

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 17:17

What do you believe happens to atheists when they die?

The quick, simple and true answer is that only God knows and we humans can't and should not judge. Having said that I understand your question.

What does it really take to be saved? And will all people ultimately be saved?

In the so-called little Bible John 3:16 says: "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life."

And in the words used for infant baptism it says (Mark 10:15): "Whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will not enter it at all."

So according to the New Testament it is about believing in and accepting Jesus. That is the only thing we must do and the only thing that is required of us: That we accept God's outstretched hand in Jesus Christ. It is like a gift. If you reject it and do not want to accept it you will not enjoy it.

Does that mean that an atheist does not have a chance to go to heaven?
Your question had more questions than answers. For what does it mean to be an atheist?
Is it someone who rejects the living God or someone who rejects some ideals?
Who - except God - can judge what lives in a person's heart? Even if you say no to God with your mouth it may well be that deep down is a yes. Does it mean to have a chance?

I would like to ask: Who are you who asks? Are you someone who considers yourself an atheist? Are you a worried DH/DW or a parent who is worried about your loved one will not have a chance to go to heaven?
In the case I would encourage you to pray for him or her.

I can't give you a clear answer or the one true answer. I hope it can help you to hold on to your hope and trust in in God or seek this in Good.
He is the only one who can open our heavens and who can ultimately answer your questions.

In my heart I think God created all people equal and right and He will lead everybody on the right way but people aren't alway aware of it happening.

Lemonadepie · 10/10/2025 17:54

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 16:53

@Lemonadepie

There is some scientific evidence for continued existence after death with the research done with mediums. Julie Beischel, a researcher at the Windbridge Institute has done studies with mediums with produced statistically significant evidence that suggested they were communicating with discarnate personalities.

Below is a list of their completed studies.

Completed Studies – Windbridge Research Center

This isn't the only example.

A quick search reveals that Dr Julie Beischel not only lacks the relevant medical background in death research (having studied Pharmacology & Toxicology), but she makes money from offering “afterlife connection coaching services”
She is clearly NOT impartial to this research!!!

Are you honestly so gullible??

RealPerson · 10/10/2025 18:00

I find it weird that non believers will as the Bible puts it be cursing god's name and gnashing their teeth as they suffer in hell because it presumes they will at that point know of his existence but god's like no you're too late to believe in me

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