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Do you believe in God/a higher power?

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CuriousAboutWhatYouThink · 08/10/2025 07:09

Not religion. I have no time for organised religion and the associated man made rules.

But do you believe in 'something'?

For context, my grandad was a CofE vicar but my parent rebelled against it and we were brought up broadly l in the religion (eg we celebrated main religious festivals like Easter and Christmas) but not as practising Christians and without a particular belief in God.

As an adult, I have friends of different faiths and none and it's something we have discussed from time to time. It's also something I used to discuss with my grandma who had a very strong belief in God but also believed the Bible until she became older when she still had a strong faith but admitted she thought the Bible was largely nonsense!

I suppose I've always felt that there is 'something' but I refer to it as the universe. I don't know, I always feel that there has been 'something' looking out for me.

That doesn't mean bad things have never happened because they have and religion/belief doesn't protect anyone from that. And it doesn't mean my life is anywhere near perfect because it's not. But the universe has always seemed to 'step in' when needed.

I don't know. I'm going through a tough time at the moment but I have a feeling everything will turn out to be OK because it always does.

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StrikeForever · 10/10/2025 18:08

Rubyupbeat · 10/10/2025 13:10

Yes, very strongly and I believe in life after death.
OK I can't prove this, but then no one can prove the opposite.

Defending a belief based on no evidence by stating no one can prove it isn’t so is a bit infantile. A negative cannot be proven.

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 18:09

MumChp · 10/10/2025 17:51

The quick, simple and true answer is that only God knows and we humans can't and should not judge. Having said that I understand your question.

What does it really take to be saved? And will all people ultimately be saved?

In the so-called little Bible John 3:16 says: "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life."

And in the words used for infant baptism it says (Mark 10:15): "Whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will not enter it at all."

So according to the New Testament it is about believing in and accepting Jesus. That is the only thing we must do and the only thing that is required of us: That we accept God's outstretched hand in Jesus Christ. It is like a gift. If you reject it and do not want to accept it you will not enjoy it.

Does that mean that an atheist does not have a chance to go to heaven?
Your question had more questions than answers. For what does it mean to be an atheist?
Is it someone who rejects the living God or someone who rejects some ideals?
Who - except God - can judge what lives in a person's heart? Even if you say no to God with your mouth it may well be that deep down is a yes. Does it mean to have a chance?

I would like to ask: Who are you who asks? Are you someone who considers yourself an atheist? Are you a worried DH/DW or a parent who is worried about your loved one will not have a chance to go to heaven?
In the case I would encourage you to pray for him or her.

I can't give you a clear answer or the one true answer. I hope it can help you to hold on to your hope and trust in in God or seek this in Good.
He is the only one who can open our heavens and who can ultimately answer your questions.

In my heart I think God created all people equal and right and He will lead everybody on the right way but people aren't alway aware of it happening.

As an atheist I’m not looking to be saved as there is nothing to be saved from - for anyone.

I’ve not been baptised and wouldn’t start praying to someone I don’t believe exists. Heaven and hell don’t exist - they are just controlling mechanisms to force people to behave in a certain way- it’s a threat, hardly loving as we are meant to think.

What do you think will happen on the day of judgement (keeps getting quoted) - when is it??

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 18:16

@GarlicBreadStan

Okay, I've been looking for some videos - this may turn out to be quite a list, so hold onto your hat!

^https://www.youtube.com/@OceanKeltoi^

Pagan Polytheist Ocean Keltoi has a channel where he explains and explores polytheism and paganism. He believes in the existence of ALL gods and goddesses from all religions and pantheons, which is the common way of polytheists generally - we make concentrate our focus and interest on specific pantheons, but we don't deny the existence of other deities. Ocean, for example, believes that the Abrahamic God of Judaism, Christianity and Islam exists, he just focuses on other deities. For him, it's the Norse Gods - if you watch his videos, you may see him wearing a Thor's hammer pendant.

Some particular videos of his I would recommend are:

Defining the Gods A Pagan Response to Atheism

(Here Ocean gives the perspective that, since the majority of atheist arguments are in response to Christian monotheist claims of, and about, deity, they don't work as well against polytheism, because polytheism is built upon totally different premises and philosophical views of deities.)

How Do I Learn about Paganism and Heathenry (Heathenry being a pagan religion based around the Norse deities)

https://www.youtube.com/@themodernfairysightingspod8421

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(MANY pagans and polytheists do indeed engage and honour deities from multiple pantheons.)

He has other videos, but I think these are good ones of his to start off with.

Now, onto other people:

Mhara Starling is a Welsh witch and polytheist who has a number of Youtube videos about practicing witchcraft within a specifically Welsh cultural lens, as well as information about the Welsh deities and Welsh paganism.

Here are some of the videos on her Youtube page that I would recommend.

The Welsh Witch Podcast - Finding Welsh Magic with Kristoffer Hughes What is Welsh Polytheism

The Irish Pagan school has LOTS of videos exploring Irish paganism and Irish deities specifically, as well practicing a witchcraft that is culturally Irish.

https://www.youtube.com/@IrishPaganSchool

The Modern Fairy Sightings podcast is a podcast that explores modern-day fairy sightings, including one by the academic Professor Ronald Hutton.

https://www.youtube.com/@themodernfairysightingspod8421

To finish with, here is a video of experienced sorcerer/occultist Clifford Hartleigh Low giving a description of his life as a sorcerer and the experiences he's had.

This should be enough to get you started! 😊

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SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 18:18

Lemonadepie · 10/10/2025 17:54

A quick search reveals that Dr Julie Beischel not only lacks the relevant medical background in death research (having studied Pharmacology & Toxicology), but she makes money from offering “afterlife connection coaching services”
She is clearly NOT impartial to this research!!!

Are you honestly so gullible??

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@Lemonadepie

Personally, I don't think that that invalidates the research. I can try to find some other examples that aren't from her, though.

I would request that you please be polite to me. Calling me "gullible" is name-calling and considering I have been polite to you, it is not justified. I expect courtesy from people that I am courteous towards.

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 18:21

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 18:16

@GarlicBreadStan

Okay, I've been looking for some videos - this may turn out to be quite a list, so hold onto your hat!

^https://www.youtube.com/@OceanKeltoi^

Pagan Polytheist Ocean Keltoi has a channel where he explains and explores polytheism and paganism. He believes in the existence of ALL gods and goddesses from all religions and pantheons, which is the common way of polytheists generally - we make concentrate our focus and interest on specific pantheons, but we don't deny the existence of other deities. Ocean, for example, believes that the Abrahamic God of Judaism, Christianity and Islam exists, he just focuses on other deities. For him, it's the Norse Gods - if you watch his videos, you may see him wearing a Thor's hammer pendant.

Some particular videos of his I would recommend are:

Defining the Gods A Pagan Response to Atheism

(Here Ocean gives the perspective that, since the majority of atheist arguments are in response to Christian monotheist claims of, and about, deity, they don't work as well against polytheism, because polytheism is built upon totally different premises and philosophical views of deities.)

How Do I Learn about Paganism and Heathenry (Heathenry being a pagan religion based around the Norse deities)

https://www.youtube.com/@themodernfairysightingspod8421

|

(MANY pagans and polytheists do indeed engage and honour deities from multiple pantheons.)

He has other videos, but I think these are good ones of his to start off with.

Now, onto other people:

Mhara Starling is a Welsh witch and polytheist who has a number of Youtube videos about practicing witchcraft within a specifically Welsh cultural lens, as well as information about the Welsh deities and Welsh paganism.

Here are some of the videos on her Youtube page that I would recommend.

The Welsh Witch Podcast - Finding Welsh Magic with Kristoffer Hughes What is Welsh Polytheism

The Irish Pagan school has LOTS of videos exploring Irish paganism and Irish deities specifically, as well practicing a witchcraft that is culturally Irish.

https://www.youtube.com/@IrishPaganSchool

The Modern Fairy Sightings podcast is a podcast that explores modern-day fairy sightings, including one by the academic Professor Ronald Hutton.

https://www.youtube.com/@themodernfairysightingspod8421

To finish with, here is a video of experienced sorcerer/occultist Clifford Hartleigh Low giving a description of his life as a sorcerer and the experiences he's had.

This should be enough to get you started! 😊

Thank you! I have copied and pasted the links into my notes app 😊

MumChp · 10/10/2025 18:21

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 18:09

As an atheist I’m not looking to be saved as there is nothing to be saved from - for anyone.

I’ve not been baptised and wouldn’t start praying to someone I don’t believe exists. Heaven and hell don’t exist - they are just controlling mechanisms to force people to behave in a certain way- it’s a threat, hardly loving as we are meant to think.

What do you think will happen on the day of judgement (keeps getting quoted) - when is it??

But why ask or worry if it isn't a matter for you. I wouldn't spent time if it has no influence on your personal life.
Tbh I don't believe being baptisted or not is that important to go to heaven.
I my life, marriage, family life and church life Christanity has no controlling issues or forcing any elements. No thrests. Only love and kindness.

It's the trick question. All the time. I can't name time, place or outcome. You knew that already, didn't you?

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 18:22

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 18:21

Thank you! I have copied and pasted the links into my notes app 😊

@GarlicBreadStan

I hope you find them enjoyable and interesting.

Lemonadepie · 10/10/2025 18:23

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 18:18

@Lemonadepie

Personally, I don't think that that invalidates the research. I can try to find some other examples that aren't from her, though.

I would request that you please be polite to me. Calling me "gullible" is name-calling and considering I have been polite to you, it is not justified. I expect courtesy from people that I am courteous towards.

You have a point and I’m sorry to call you gullible. I appreciate having this discussion with you

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 18:30

MumChp · 10/10/2025 18:21

But why ask or worry if it isn't a matter for you. I wouldn't spent time if it has no influence on your personal life.
Tbh I don't believe being baptisted or not is that important to go to heaven.
I my life, marriage, family life and church life Christanity has no controlling issues or forcing any elements. No thrests. Only love and kindness.

It's the trick question. All the time. I can't name time, place or outcome. You knew that already, didn't you?

Where’s the love and kindness of saying sinners will go to hell so you’d better worship me?
Where’s the love and kindness in refusing to marry my friends in a same sex relationship?

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MumChp · 10/10/2025 18:37

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 18:30

Where’s the love and kindness of saying sinners will go to hell so you’d better worship me?
Where’s the love and kindness in refusing to marry my friends in a same sex relationship?

The church I attend would never say sinners go to hell as a statement, as hate or as a threat.
We welcome people in a same sex relation. It's not a issue.

Churches and denominations are very different.

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 18:41

MumChp · 10/10/2025 18:37

The church I attend would never say sinners go to hell as a statement, as hate or as a threat.
We welcome people in a same sex relation. It's not a issue.

Churches and denominations are very different.

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Which religion are you?

GarlicPound · 10/10/2025 18:44

Thought I'd better jump to the end of this thread to see where it wandered! I may have engaged with @SorcererGaheris at other times with other usernames but, whatever, it's always interesting to read 'spiritual' theories on how the world/universe works.

I'm way too fascinated by how things are to get excited by random musings about glowing birds, angels, demons, intentional forces and the like. This world is really fucking weird and amazing as it stands, there's no need to invent higher powers or to attribute meaning. The real meaning of everything is that humans are part of an accidental process that began on an accidental space rock trapped in the gravitational field of a radioactive mass. That star is dying, at which time it will compress everything in its orbit and new processes will begin.

None of this has anything to do with 'energies' lurking inside accidental life forms or manifestations of 'energies' trying to communicate with them. It's true that humanity doesn't know everything; we probably never will. This is not a terrible thing, there's excitement in curiosity and discovery for their own sake.

Some people evidence a desperate need for explanations, driving them to create beliefs - which, even so, can never be complete - that feel to them like certainties. Tbh, I think this was more understandable when people didn't know what causes lightning, say, and earthquakes. It strikes me as odd that people of faith now dismiss scientific discoveries if they can't convince themselves the science fits their beliefs. That certainty thing, I guess?

At the same time, those people also dismiss what we do know about mental health and human pheromones, hormones and the like. If you're seeing glowing birds, it's far more likely that your brain's having some sort of blip and you should get an eye test, than that 'the force' is trying to tell you something.

In short, the higher powers I believe in have nothing to do with gods and spirits: they don't have minds to think with, so neither know nor care about human beings. I haven't got a soul and neither have you. It's still an amazing world!

MumChp · 10/10/2025 18:46

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 18:41

Which religion are you?

I am Christian.

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 18:47

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I can't tell if this is satire or not. To be honest, if I was going to go anywhere, I'd prefer to go to Hell anyway (not that that exists to me either)

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If Heaven and Hell are real, which I have every reason to believe that they are not, I would rather go to Hell and party with Satan than be judged on every single thing that I do, good or bad

Idstillratherbepaddleboarding · 10/10/2025 18:53

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Ahh I see so the very religious person I deal with at work who raped his own children in the most unthinkable horrific ways is going to heaven but I’m going to hell??

I think I’ll choose hell in that case.

Momtotwokids · 10/10/2025 18:54

Definitely

Parker231 · 10/10/2025 18:54

MumChp · 10/10/2025 18:46

I am Christian.

The Bible says sinners go to hell (non believers) and your church refuses to marry in church those in a same sex relationship.

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GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 18:56

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Good thing I didn't ask for sympathy then!

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 18:59

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Why would she want sympathy from you? 😂

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The devil doesn’t exist anymore than heaven and hell. Being religious doesn’t make you a better person. There doesn’t seem to be much kindness in religion.

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