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Do you believe in God/a higher power?

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CuriousAboutWhatYouThink · 08/10/2025 07:09

Not religion. I have no time for organised religion and the associated man made rules.

But do you believe in 'something'?

For context, my grandad was a CofE vicar but my parent rebelled against it and we were brought up broadly l in the religion (eg we celebrated main religious festivals like Easter and Christmas) but not as practising Christians and without a particular belief in God.

As an adult, I have friends of different faiths and none and it's something we have discussed from time to time. It's also something I used to discuss with my grandma who had a very strong belief in God but also believed the Bible until she became older when she still had a strong faith but admitted she thought the Bible was largely nonsense!

I suppose I've always felt that there is 'something' but I refer to it as the universe. I don't know, I always feel that there has been 'something' looking out for me.

That doesn't mean bad things have never happened because they have and religion/belief doesn't protect anyone from that. And it doesn't mean my life is anywhere near perfect because it's not. But the universe has always seemed to 'step in' when needed.

I don't know. I'm going through a tough time at the moment but I have a feeling everything will turn out to be OK because it always does.

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GasperyJacquesRoberts · 10/10/2025 11:58

@SorcererGaheris
Deities are not particularly invested in whether or not humans in general believe they exist

How do you know this?

RealPerson · 10/10/2025 12:00

Tibetans say dieties actually really do care whether we worship them or not they are very prideful

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:02

@thisishowloween

I'd be curious to see your thoughts on this post by John Beckett - titled 'Facts and Reason in Paganism'.

I expect you'll disagree with a lot (perhaps most) of it, but are there any statements that you think are reasonable in themselves, even if you don't agree yourself?

^https://www.patheos.com/blogs/johnbeckett/2017/11/avoiding-materialist-assumptions.html^

Even though I've provided the link, I will copy and paste the entire blog post below.

JB:

"I’ve had more than my share of criticism from atheists lately. That’s fine. Answering their critiques helps me refine my own beliefs and the reasoning behind them.

Not all the atheists are arguing in good faith. Some of them are “sealioning” – constantly moving the bar and changing the subject to continue the argument, either because it gives them a juvenile sense of control or because they don’t want to admit a theistic viewpoint has merit. My patience with them is limited.
But in the debates it’s become apparent that there’s a misunderstanding about what constitutes facts and reason. It’s important to clear up these misunderstandings, not so we can win arguments with atheists (let’s be honest – that’s fun but it’s not very important) but so the Pagan beliefs and practices that are so important to us remain on a firm foundation of both experience and reason.

Fantasy is pleasant and enjoyable, and it can be inspiring. But it can only take us so far. Our deepest responses to the Big Questions of Life need to be grounded in reality. But the question of what constitutes reality is often confused by unstated materialist assumptions.

Materialist assumptions are assumptions, not facts
Materialism is not consumerism. Materialism is the philosophical assumption that all that exists is matter and the products of its interactions. It reduces human experiences of love and beauty to the interactions of brain chemistry. It assumes that Gods and spirits not only do not exist, they cannot exist.

Some scientists believe that quantum physics disproves materialism. I’m not sure it does, and in any case I’m very uncomfortable invoking quantum physics to “prove” anything. As a field of science, it’s still in its infancy. But whether it does or it doesn’t, materialism remains an assumption of science (or rather, of many scientists), not a finding of science.

So when someone says “there’s no way magic could work” what they’re really saying is “there’s no way magic could work in a materialist universe.” Magic could work by the intercession of Gods and spirits, but materialism refuses to consider that possibility. It says there is no evidence, but it excludes non-material evidence. All the times magic does work are dismissed as coincidences and confirmation bias, because the evidence points toward conclusions that invalidate their materialist assumptions and they refuse to question them.

That isn’t science – it’s claiming science proves something when it doesn’t.
Materialism need not lead to nihilism. Naturalists, humanists, and other non-theists take the assumptions of materialism and say “yes, and life is still beautiful and meaningful.” That’s a valid spiritual path, and for some, the only spiritual path they can embrace with integrity. But like all religious and philosophical paths it’s based on foundational assumptions that are ultimately unprovable.

Some materialists like to say our religious, spiritual, and magical experiences aren’t real. Those people are absolutely wrong – these experiences are undeniably, unquestionably real. It is our interpretations of these experiences that are open to debate. Unfortunately some people can’t seem to separate facts from interpretations of the facts.

Last June I saw a green glowing bird. It is something that many people say cannot exist, but there it was.

Let me be as precise and as non-presumptive as I can. I saw something that looked and acted like a bird. It was green, and it was glowing in a way that living, this-world creatures just don’t do. It was in a place where there are no native birds that are green, and it was with a large group of other birds that appeared to be of the same species, except they weren’t green.

The skeptical commenter “Guest” listed a variety of materialist explanations for this experience (and did so respectfully, which I appreciate). I described why each explanation didn’t fit, and why my Otherworldly explanation makes the most sense to me.

That I saw something is a fact. My interpretation of it is an opinion about which reasonable people can have reasonable disagreements. But reasonable disagreements should only be around the interpretation, not around the facts of the experience.

Too often we do this to ourselves. We have a religious or magical experience, we are unable to come up with a “proper” materialist explanation for it, and so we start to tell ourselves it wasn’t real. It didn’t really happen.
We gaslight ourselves. Or we stand by as other do it to us.
Our experiences are real. Let’s explore all possible interpretations, and if the facts lead us to an ordinary this-world explanation, so be it. Sometimes a mysterious light in the middle of the night is just a neighbor playing with a flashlight.

But sometimes it isn’t.

Another recent complaint was that my arguments have no reason or reasoning in them. This complaint incorrectly conflates reason with materialism. Reason and reasoning are a process – materialism is an assumption.

My experience of the green glowing bird was the effect. What was the cause? I eliminated the skeptical explanations, for the reasons listed in that post and its comments. I considered reports of similar experiences from other people who I trust to relay them accurately. I considered the lore of our ancestors, who weren’t so caught up in looking “educated” and “sophisticated” as we are. I considered other, similar experiences of my own. That line of reasoning led me to conclude (tentatively, since we can never be sure about such things) that the Otherworld is bleeding over into this world.

I don’t expect everyone to agree with this reasoning. A skeptic can argue that one of the possibilities I rejected is a more likely cause. They might be right. But to argue that there is no reason in that assessment is to argue that reason and materialism are the same things, and they are not.

I can’t prove the Gods are real. I can prove that my life is better (more meaningful and less fearful, though certainly no easier) since I began this Pagan journey. It is a very reasonable (i.e. – properly connecting cause and effect) thing for me to be a Pagan, even if I can’t convince skeptics of the absolute truth of my beliefs and practices.

Reason is a process that does not belong to materialists.

The American legal system is hardly a paragon of justice. But it does have some concepts that are useful in our religious debates.

In a criminal case, where someone’s life and liberty are at stake, the defendant is presumed innocent and the jury must be convinced of guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. In practice, the deck is heavily stacked against defendants, but that’s another rant for another time. In theory, though, unless the jury is absolutely convinced, the defendant must be acquitted. A criminal charge places a heavy burden of proof on the prosecutor.

If someone claims their religion – or lack thereof – is the One True Way, then they’re taking the role of prosecutor and they have that high burden of proof. If they’re asking someone to abandon beliefs and practices that are deeply meaningful, and in some cases reflect tribal identity dating back centuries (as with the world’s remaining indigenous religions), it’s up to them to provide convincing evidence why anyone should do that.

“My holy book says my God will send you into eternal torment when you die” is hardly proof beyond a reasonable doubt. “Your beliefs have no evidence (that I approve of)” isn’t either.

This is a Pagan blog, written for a Pagan audience – I’m not trying to convert anyone. I don’t have to prove a thing to atheists, or to fundamentalist monotheists. I won’t think less of anyone if they decide to read an atheist blog instead. I welcome honest questions, and if anyone thinks I’m missing something, I want them to point it out. I want to challenge my religion so I can make it as robust as it can be.

But if anyone expects me to change my beliefs, the burden of proof is on them, not on me.

Evidence is more than double blind peer reviewed studies
I have to laugh when I see people claiming there’s “no evidence” that magic works. If you want to see evidence for magic, then practice magic. Magic doesn’t work on belief, it works on action. Do the spells and you’ll get results.

you have to do the spells right. Waving a wand like a baboon brandishing a stick isn’t going to accomplish anything. And understand that magic doesn’t make things happen – it increases the odds that things will happen. It is possible to do everything right and still not get the result you expect. So working magic once or twice isn’t going to prove anything to anyone.

But over time, the results start to add up. Eventually these results are impossible to ignore – it’s easier to accept that magic is real than to continue with denials and rationalizations.

The same thing is true for first-hand experiences of Gods and spirits. Once might be a coincidence and twice might be self-delusion, but as experiences start to stack up, it gets harder and harder to come to any conclusion other than they’re as real as real can get.

And some experiences are so strong and so real that doubt isn’t even possible anymore. Gordon White calls this “becoming invincible.” I would use other words, but he’s right – at some point you simply can’t go back to materialist thinking.

You decide your standard of evidence, I’ll decide mine
We are not free to believe anything we like. Some things are demonstrably false. Others are so unlikely they’re not worth our time and effort. But in the realm of religion and spirituality, much is uncertain.

The choice of what religion to follow and how to follow it is deeply personal. Each of us must make our own decisions, and we must make them based on the standards of evidence that make sense to us.

I have Pagan friends who happily practice magic but who find insufficient evidence for the existence of many real Gods. I have other Pagan friends who join me in the worship of the Gods but who find magic either implausible or impious. Their beliefs are no less reasonable because they are different.

And if someone really and truly believes their materialist assumptions? That is also a reasonable approach, and one I respect even if I don’t share it.
But facts and reason are not exclusive to materialism, and materialists should not be surprised when I develop and defend my beliefs and practices based on my experiences and my interpretations of them.

Materialism - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Materialism

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:03

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 10/10/2025 11:58

@SorcererGaheris
Deities are not particularly invested in whether or not humans in general believe they exist

How do you know this?

@GasperyJacquesRoberts

I don't know it. It's my personal speculation/opinion. I suppose I should have clarified that when I said it, though.

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:04

RealPerson · 10/10/2025 12:00

Tibetans say dieties actually really do care whether we worship them or not they are very prideful

@RealPerson

Interesting - I know very little about Tibetan deities, so will accept that.

Lobelia123 · 10/10/2025 12:06

I do. I cant explain it and there are times in my life where my faith has waned, but its something I feel inside of myself.

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 12:06

@SorcererGaheris I’m at work and don’t have she time to read or respond to such a long post right now.

I would personally prefer to read your thoughts anyway, not random blogs and websites that you’ve copy pasted.

Unfortunately that’s often a common theme on these threads - someone asks a question but instead of getting an answer, they get told to read a random blog, or essay, or bible verse. It’s not very helpful and blocks any meaningful discussion.

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:13

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 12:06

@SorcererGaheris I’m at work and don’t have she time to read or respond to such a long post right now.

I would personally prefer to read your thoughts anyway, not random blogs and websites that you’ve copy pasted.

Unfortunately that’s often a common theme on these threads - someone asks a question but instead of getting an answer, they get told to read a random blog, or essay, or bible verse. It’s not very helpful and blocks any meaningful discussion.

Edited

@thisishowloween

Well, my thoughts are very similar to what John Beckett wrote in the blog post. I'd encourage you to read it when you do have time.

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:19

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:02

@thisishowloween

I'd be curious to see your thoughts on this post by John Beckett - titled 'Facts and Reason in Paganism'.

I expect you'll disagree with a lot (perhaps most) of it, but are there any statements that you think are reasonable in themselves, even if you don't agree yourself?

^https://www.patheos.com/blogs/johnbeckett/2017/11/avoiding-materialist-assumptions.html^

Even though I've provided the link, I will copy and paste the entire blog post below.

JB:

"I’ve had more than my share of criticism from atheists lately. That’s fine. Answering their critiques helps me refine my own beliefs and the reasoning behind them.

Not all the atheists are arguing in good faith. Some of them are “sealioning” – constantly moving the bar and changing the subject to continue the argument, either because it gives them a juvenile sense of control or because they don’t want to admit a theistic viewpoint has merit. My patience with them is limited.
But in the debates it’s become apparent that there’s a misunderstanding about what constitutes facts and reason. It’s important to clear up these misunderstandings, not so we can win arguments with atheists (let’s be honest – that’s fun but it’s not very important) but so the Pagan beliefs and practices that are so important to us remain on a firm foundation of both experience and reason.

Fantasy is pleasant and enjoyable, and it can be inspiring. But it can only take us so far. Our deepest responses to the Big Questions of Life need to be grounded in reality. But the question of what constitutes reality is often confused by unstated materialist assumptions.

Materialist assumptions are assumptions, not facts
Materialism is not consumerism. Materialism is the philosophical assumption that all that exists is matter and the products of its interactions. It reduces human experiences of love and beauty to the interactions of brain chemistry. It assumes that Gods and spirits not only do not exist, they cannot exist.

Some scientists believe that quantum physics disproves materialism. I’m not sure it does, and in any case I’m very uncomfortable invoking quantum physics to “prove” anything. As a field of science, it’s still in its infancy. But whether it does or it doesn’t, materialism remains an assumption of science (or rather, of many scientists), not a finding of science.

So when someone says “there’s no way magic could work” what they’re really saying is “there’s no way magic could work in a materialist universe.” Magic could work by the intercession of Gods and spirits, but materialism refuses to consider that possibility. It says there is no evidence, but it excludes non-material evidence. All the times magic does work are dismissed as coincidences and confirmation bias, because the evidence points toward conclusions that invalidate their materialist assumptions and they refuse to question them.

That isn’t science – it’s claiming science proves something when it doesn’t.
Materialism need not lead to nihilism. Naturalists, humanists, and other non-theists take the assumptions of materialism and say “yes, and life is still beautiful and meaningful.” That’s a valid spiritual path, and for some, the only spiritual path they can embrace with integrity. But like all religious and philosophical paths it’s based on foundational assumptions that are ultimately unprovable.

Some materialists like to say our religious, spiritual, and magical experiences aren’t real. Those people are absolutely wrong – these experiences are undeniably, unquestionably real. It is our interpretations of these experiences that are open to debate. Unfortunately some people can’t seem to separate facts from interpretations of the facts.

Last June I saw a green glowing bird. It is something that many people say cannot exist, but there it was.

Let me be as precise and as non-presumptive as I can. I saw something that looked and acted like a bird. It was green, and it was glowing in a way that living, this-world creatures just don’t do. It was in a place where there are no native birds that are green, and it was with a large group of other birds that appeared to be of the same species, except they weren’t green.

The skeptical commenter “Guest” listed a variety of materialist explanations for this experience (and did so respectfully, which I appreciate). I described why each explanation didn’t fit, and why my Otherworldly explanation makes the most sense to me.

That I saw something is a fact. My interpretation of it is an opinion about which reasonable people can have reasonable disagreements. But reasonable disagreements should only be around the interpretation, not around the facts of the experience.

Too often we do this to ourselves. We have a religious or magical experience, we are unable to come up with a “proper” materialist explanation for it, and so we start to tell ourselves it wasn’t real. It didn’t really happen.
We gaslight ourselves. Or we stand by as other do it to us.
Our experiences are real. Let’s explore all possible interpretations, and if the facts lead us to an ordinary this-world explanation, so be it. Sometimes a mysterious light in the middle of the night is just a neighbor playing with a flashlight.

But sometimes it isn’t.

Another recent complaint was that my arguments have no reason or reasoning in them. This complaint incorrectly conflates reason with materialism. Reason and reasoning are a process – materialism is an assumption.

My experience of the green glowing bird was the effect. What was the cause? I eliminated the skeptical explanations, for the reasons listed in that post and its comments. I considered reports of similar experiences from other people who I trust to relay them accurately. I considered the lore of our ancestors, who weren’t so caught up in looking “educated” and “sophisticated” as we are. I considered other, similar experiences of my own. That line of reasoning led me to conclude (tentatively, since we can never be sure about such things) that the Otherworld is bleeding over into this world.

I don’t expect everyone to agree with this reasoning. A skeptic can argue that one of the possibilities I rejected is a more likely cause. They might be right. But to argue that there is no reason in that assessment is to argue that reason and materialism are the same things, and they are not.

I can’t prove the Gods are real. I can prove that my life is better (more meaningful and less fearful, though certainly no easier) since I began this Pagan journey. It is a very reasonable (i.e. – properly connecting cause and effect) thing for me to be a Pagan, even if I can’t convince skeptics of the absolute truth of my beliefs and practices.

Reason is a process that does not belong to materialists.

The American legal system is hardly a paragon of justice. But it does have some concepts that are useful in our religious debates.

In a criminal case, where someone’s life and liberty are at stake, the defendant is presumed innocent and the jury must be convinced of guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. In practice, the deck is heavily stacked against defendants, but that’s another rant for another time. In theory, though, unless the jury is absolutely convinced, the defendant must be acquitted. A criminal charge places a heavy burden of proof on the prosecutor.

If someone claims their religion – or lack thereof – is the One True Way, then they’re taking the role of prosecutor and they have that high burden of proof. If they’re asking someone to abandon beliefs and practices that are deeply meaningful, and in some cases reflect tribal identity dating back centuries (as with the world’s remaining indigenous religions), it’s up to them to provide convincing evidence why anyone should do that.

“My holy book says my God will send you into eternal torment when you die” is hardly proof beyond a reasonable doubt. “Your beliefs have no evidence (that I approve of)” isn’t either.

This is a Pagan blog, written for a Pagan audience – I’m not trying to convert anyone. I don’t have to prove a thing to atheists, or to fundamentalist monotheists. I won’t think less of anyone if they decide to read an atheist blog instead. I welcome honest questions, and if anyone thinks I’m missing something, I want them to point it out. I want to challenge my religion so I can make it as robust as it can be.

But if anyone expects me to change my beliefs, the burden of proof is on them, not on me.

Evidence is more than double blind peer reviewed studies
I have to laugh when I see people claiming there’s “no evidence” that magic works. If you want to see evidence for magic, then practice magic. Magic doesn’t work on belief, it works on action. Do the spells and you’ll get results.

you have to do the spells right. Waving a wand like a baboon brandishing a stick isn’t going to accomplish anything. And understand that magic doesn’t make things happen – it increases the odds that things will happen. It is possible to do everything right and still not get the result you expect. So working magic once or twice isn’t going to prove anything to anyone.

But over time, the results start to add up. Eventually these results are impossible to ignore – it’s easier to accept that magic is real than to continue with denials and rationalizations.

The same thing is true for first-hand experiences of Gods and spirits. Once might be a coincidence and twice might be self-delusion, but as experiences start to stack up, it gets harder and harder to come to any conclusion other than they’re as real as real can get.

And some experiences are so strong and so real that doubt isn’t even possible anymore. Gordon White calls this “becoming invincible.” I would use other words, but he’s right – at some point you simply can’t go back to materialist thinking.

You decide your standard of evidence, I’ll decide mine
We are not free to believe anything we like. Some things are demonstrably false. Others are so unlikely they’re not worth our time and effort. But in the realm of religion and spirituality, much is uncertain.

The choice of what religion to follow and how to follow it is deeply personal. Each of us must make our own decisions, and we must make them based on the standards of evidence that make sense to us.

I have Pagan friends who happily practice magic but who find insufficient evidence for the existence of many real Gods. I have other Pagan friends who join me in the worship of the Gods but who find magic either implausible or impious. Their beliefs are no less reasonable because they are different.

And if someone really and truly believes their materialist assumptions? That is also a reasonable approach, and one I respect even if I don’t share it.
But facts and reason are not exclusive to materialism, and materialists should not be surprised when I develop and defend my beliefs and practices based on my experiences and my interpretations of them.

Not that this post was directed at me, but I didn't read past "juvenile sense of control", because it seems very judgy.

And while anecdotal evidence may be a recognised or accepted form of evidence, I don't think posting stuff like this (blogs) on an online forum (Mumsnet) shows a good argument as to why god is "real". There's no hard, scientific proof that he is. That's what people are asking for, and this isn't being provided.

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 12:24

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:13

@thisishowloween

Well, my thoughts are very similar to what John Beckett wrote in the blog post. I'd encourage you to read it when you do have time.

Edited

Can you not write your own beliefs down rather than relying on others to give your argument for you?

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 12:27

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:19

Not that this post was directed at me, but I didn't read past "juvenile sense of control", because it seems very judgy.

And while anecdotal evidence may be a recognised or accepted form of evidence, I don't think posting stuff like this (blogs) on an online forum (Mumsnet) shows a good argument as to why god is "real". There's no hard, scientific proof that he is. That's what people are asking for, and this isn't being provided.

Exactly.

IMO, copy pasting blogs, essays and bible verses is just a way of saying “I don’t know/can’t prove it, but here’s some waffle to read as a distraction”.

Edit: And there’s nothing wrong with not knowing, but at least admit you don’t know or can’t answer, rather than trying to rely on someone else’s thoughts and knowledge.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 10/10/2025 12:29

Maybe what we are seeing is this being played out ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.’

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:31

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 12:27

Exactly.

IMO, copy pasting blogs, essays and bible verses is just a way of saying “I don’t know/can’t prove it, but here’s some waffle to read as a distraction”.

Edit: And there’s nothing wrong with not knowing, but at least admit you don’t know or can’t answer, rather than trying to rely on someone else’s thoughts and knowledge.

Edited

Also, not that my opinion should matter much at all because I'm an internet stranger, but I agree with every single point that you, Howloween, have said.

Also also, completely off-topic, but is the "Howl" in your name a reference to Howl's Moving Castle?

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 12:34

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:31

Also, not that my opinion should matter much at all because I'm an internet stranger, but I agree with every single point that you, Howloween, have said.

Also also, completely off-topic, but is the "Howl" in your name a reference to Howl's Moving Castle?

Thank you!

It’s not - it’s just a Halloween name with a reference to my beagle who loves a good howl 🤣

BunnyLake · 10/10/2025 12:37

Lobelia123 · 10/10/2025 12:06

I do. I cant explain it and there are times in my life where my faith has waned, but its something I feel inside of myself.

And I think that’s absolutely fine. I personally have never once felt a god presence inside me or outside despite trying to. I’m in my sixties now so I think I gave it a good go. But there’s nada. Obviously people who do feel something godly is there inside them are going to feel a lot less cynical than me.

A bit like a romantic relationship that’s not working or going anywhere because he won’t pull his weight I LTB 😁

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:37

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 12:24

Can you not write your own beliefs down rather than relying on others to give your argument for you?

@thisishowloween

Well, I believe I have done that as well in this thread, but I can do so again if you like.

I agree with John Beckett's view that materialism (the philosophical view that all that exists is matter) is an assumption, not a proven fact. And that when people say there's no way that magic could possibly work, what that means is that magic cannot work within the bounds of materialism. Magic can work outside of the bounds of materialism.

I also agree with Beckett when he says that people's EXPERIENCES are real - it is the INTERPRETATION of such experiences that is up for debate. To briefly quote him - that we (believers) have experiences is a fact. "My interpretation of it is an opinion about which reasonable people can have reasonable disagreements. But reasonable disagreements should only be around the interpretation, not around the facts of the experience."

I also agree with his point that reason/reasoning are not solely equated with materialism. They are processes that people engage in.

And I agree that, in the area of religion, spirituality and mysticism, areas which are pretty much uncertain either way, that people have the right to determine their own standards of evidence.

You have your standards of evidence - you don't believe based upon people's experiences/testimonies, and that's fine. You don't have to. Those are your standards.

However, people like myself find our own experiences, as well as the testimonies of others, including people we personally know and trust, to be an acceptable standard of evidence for ourselves.

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:37

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 12:34

Thank you!

It’s not - it’s just a Halloween name with a reference to my beagle who loves a good howl 🤣

Fair enough! Sometimes I could do with a good howl 🤣

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:43

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:19

Not that this post was directed at me, but I didn't read past "juvenile sense of control", because it seems very judgy.

And while anecdotal evidence may be a recognised or accepted form of evidence, I don't think posting stuff like this (blogs) on an online forum (Mumsnet) shows a good argument as to why god is "real". There's no hard, scientific proof that he is. That's what people are asking for, and this isn't being provided.

@GarlicBreadStan

Well, it's a shame if that puts you off, because the post itself overall is not very judgy. Anyway, that's just an assessment of some of his personal experiences with SOME people.

I'm not posting these blogs to try to convince people that deities are real. That's not my intention. I don't WANT people to change their beliefs. People have the right to believe or disbelieve as they like.

As far as I see this thread, this is simply a conversation, not a conversion exercise or an attempt to convince atheists/agnostics to change their mind.

If atheists think there is no good evidence for them to believe in deities, then they should continue to disbelieve.

I post such blogs to give insight and information into the minds of pagan polytheists, who have very different theological and philosophical frameworks to Christianity (which is what the majority of posters on Mumsnet are exposed to and familiar with.)

I am not sharing these things to try to change anyone's mind, I am sharing in order to (hopefully) provide information and insight into the pagan polytheist community generally, as well as give people an understanding as to WHY pagans polytheists and occultists have come to believe as we do.

BunnyLake · 10/10/2025 12:45

TwoBagsOfCompost · 08/10/2025 07:56

Only when the plane starts shaking.

Haha 😄 only for me my calls to god would be bookended by some very loud profanities!

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:49

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:43

@GarlicBreadStan

Well, it's a shame if that puts you off, because the post itself overall is not very judgy. Anyway, that's just an assessment of some of his personal experiences with SOME people.

I'm not posting these blogs to try to convince people that deities are real. That's not my intention. I don't WANT people to change their beliefs. People have the right to believe or disbelieve as they like.

As far as I see this thread, this is simply a conversation, not a conversion exercise or an attempt to convince atheists/agnostics to change their mind.

If atheists think there is no good evidence for them to believe in deities, then they should continue to disbelieve.

I post such blogs to give insight and information into the minds of pagan polytheists, who have very different theological and philosophical frameworks to Christianity (which is what the majority of posters on Mumsnet are exposed to and familiar with.)

I am not sharing these things to try to change anyone's mind, I am sharing in order to (hopefully) provide information and insight into the pagan polytheist community generally, as well as give people an understanding as to WHY pagans polytheists and occultists have come to believe as we do.

But why can't you post your own, individual thoughts rather than relying on blogs to do the talking for you? I'd be much more open to a conversation about your beliefs if I knew YOUR thoughts - and I know, you said your beliefs are similar to his. But it doesn't land the same when you're posting blogs. I want to hear YOUR experiences because I value those types of conversations between myself and other people. Just because I don't believe doesn't mean I'm not open to conversing - I'm a very open minded person and as long as people aren't insulting me, the way I identify and the things I hold close to my heart, then I will have a respectful, warm conversation.

I'd like to hear your thoughts on why you believe.

Ponderingwindow · 10/10/2025 12:56

No.

There are things about the universe and existence we don’t yet understand, but magic doesn’t exist. We may have even been someone’s intentional creation, but that doesn’t make them a higher power. I don’t think it’s possible that the skills necessary to do something can’t be developed with enough time, even if it requires millennia of a species evolution and scientific development.

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:57

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 12:49

But why can't you post your own, individual thoughts rather than relying on blogs to do the talking for you? I'd be much more open to a conversation about your beliefs if I knew YOUR thoughts - and I know, you said your beliefs are similar to his. But it doesn't land the same when you're posting blogs. I want to hear YOUR experiences because I value those types of conversations between myself and other people. Just because I don't believe doesn't mean I'm not open to conversing - I'm a very open minded person and as long as people aren't insulting me, the way I identify and the things I hold close to my heart, then I will have a respectful, warm conversation.

I'd like to hear your thoughts on why you believe.

@GarlicBreadStan

The reasons why I believe are:

Because the people in my communities (fellow pagans, polytheists, witches and occultists) speak of their own personal experiences with deities (as well as other spirits and entities - people speak of their experiences with spirits of the dead and fairies, for example.)

I see no reason to doubt their interpretation of such experiences. They have these experiences, they see them as such, I accept it.

I also believe based on some experiences of my own. I have had experiences which I interpret as deities communicating with me, such as when I asked Hekate for advice on how I might better connect with the dead.

GarlicBreadStan · 10/10/2025 13:03

SorcererGaheris · 10/10/2025 12:57

@GarlicBreadStan

The reasons why I believe are:

Because the people in my communities (fellow pagans, polytheists, witches and occultists) speak of their own personal experiences with deities (as well as other spirits and entities - people speak of their experiences with spirits of the dead and fairies, for example.)

I see no reason to doubt their interpretation of such experiences. They have these experiences, they see them as such, I accept it.

I also believe based on some experiences of my own. I have had experiences which I interpret as deities communicating with me, such as when I asked Hekate for advice on how I might better connect with the dead.

See, this is the type of conversation I want to have! (And I hope that doesn't come across as rude, I struggle to write tone correctly in messages)

Maybe I have a pessimistic point of view, but I would question people as to WHY they believe those things and to explain exactly what they've experienced, how it made them feel and what kind of confirmation it gave them.

I don't think I'll ever be religious, but I am genuinely glad that some people do have a belief system that gives them hope and comfort. As long as they don't push it on me and try to make me feel like a bad person for not believing, and as long as they can respect my decision to not believe in something, then I will always be happy for them.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 10/10/2025 13:04

thisishowloween · 10/10/2025 11:09

What is it then?

Religion is a set of rules and beliefs based round the concept of a deity or deities with associated stories.

Faith is a trust that something is real regardless of the lack of scientific or objective evidence.

Myoldbear · 10/10/2025 13:04

We are all unique, as this thread shows.

I think that if you align with who you really are, then what is right for you is what will happen for you eventually, and it will be fine, even very good.

Personally,I think there's something beyond science which is spirit.

In the end, love is all there is, some people say;
The journey may be beyond difficult though.

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