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Do you believe in God/a higher power?

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CuriousAboutWhatYouThink · 08/10/2025 07:09

Not religion. I have no time for organised religion and the associated man made rules.

But do you believe in 'something'?

For context, my grandad was a CofE vicar but my parent rebelled against it and we were brought up broadly l in the religion (eg we celebrated main religious festivals like Easter and Christmas) but not as practising Christians and without a particular belief in God.

As an adult, I have friends of different faiths and none and it's something we have discussed from time to time. It's also something I used to discuss with my grandma who had a very strong belief in God but also believed the Bible until she became older when she still had a strong faith but admitted she thought the Bible was largely nonsense!

I suppose I've always felt that there is 'something' but I refer to it as the universe. I don't know, I always feel that there has been 'something' looking out for me.

That doesn't mean bad things have never happened because they have and religion/belief doesn't protect anyone from that. And it doesn't mean my life is anywhere near perfect because it's not. But the universe has always seemed to 'step in' when needed.

I don't know. I'm going through a tough time at the moment but I have a feeling everything will turn out to be OK because it always does.

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Whoiam · 08/10/2025 17:29

Whoiam · 08/10/2025 17:26

Science asks us to believe in one miracle: that everything comes from nothing. It posits that DNA, consciousness, and the intricacies of human existence all exist without reason or purpose. In contrast, Christianity asks us to believe in more miracles. Personally, I have explored various religions and can say with certainty that they do not all worship the same God. Christianity is unique in that it teaches you cannot reach heaven by your actions; it's not about doing more good than bad or being a good member of society. Redemption does not come through your works; rather, salvation is a free gift, available to anyone who wants it.

Also, I love the questioning, and God Himself gave us minds for this reason. However, we must be aware that the finite mind is ultimately unable to fully comprehend the infinite mind.

SorcererGaheris · 08/10/2025 17:33

CurlewKate · 08/10/2025 17:25

The “the can’t get something from nothing” point is not a suggestion God exists for me because t don’t see it as any more likely that God has existed for ever than matter has. And it’s also important to remember when talking about scientists in the past being Christians that you had to say you were a Christian to enter University or hold any position of authority. Even now, there was a stir when we had a non Christian Prime Minister, and I suspect the PofW will suddenly become more Christian when he becomes King.

@CurlewKate

And it’s also important to remember when talking about scientists in the past being Christians that you had to say you were a Christian to enter University or hold any position of authority.

That is true, but there are numerous examples of scientists who, from what we now know of their lives, definitely genuinely believed in the mystical, the spiritual, the paranormal. I'm not just talking about Christianity here, I'm talking about the mystical/occult generally.

Newton 100% took alchemy seriously. Alfred Russel Wallace, the co-founder of evolutionary theory, was a big proponent of spiritualism (the movement that popularised mediumship/communication with spirits.)

Scientists are still carrying out research into psychic phenomena and mediumship to this day. Dean Radin, Rupert Sheldrake, Julie Beischel, for example.

dizzydizzydizzy · 08/10/2025 17:35

No! Especially not after my Catholic education. (Was very happy at the school but it put me right off religion)

Southshore18 · 08/10/2025 17:36

nope, and I cannot get my head around why anyone would believe there is a higher power (in whatever shape or form) when it's so obvious there is absolutely nothing at all.

SorcererGaheris · 08/10/2025 17:38

dizzydizzydizzy · 08/10/2025 17:35

No! Especially not after my Catholic education. (Was very happy at the school but it put me right off religion)

@dizzydizzydizzy

I can understand why it would put you off Catholicism or Christianity, but there are quite a few religions that do not operate or have the same premises as Christianity, so it needn't necessarily put you off them.

Pagan religions, for example, are VERY different, and based around entirely different premises.

Not saying you should be one, just that there's no reason a negative experience with a particular religion should put you off every single one.

SorcererGaheris · 08/10/2025 17:42

Southshore18 · 08/10/2025 17:36

nope, and I cannot get my head around why anyone would believe there is a higher power (in whatever shape or form) when it's so obvious there is absolutely nothing at all.

@Southshore18

For me and my fellow polytheist pagans, it's because we have experiences that we interpret as being with deities, as well as taking the accounts of others in our communities seriously.

https://www.patheos.com/blogs/agora/2020/01/irish-american-witchcraft-do-i-believe-in-fairies/

This blog post by Morgan Daimler is about her belief in fairies, rather than deities (though she does believe in deities as well) - but her underlying reasoning is the same. Some people have experiences which makes it hard for them to accept the premise that it's "obvious there is absolutely nothing".

Irish-American Witchcraft: Do I Believe In Fairies?

My reality includes fairies as both a cultural concept and an experienced subject. Like my experiences with anything else, some of these encounters have been brief, shallow, and in passing while others have been deeper, more involved, and more complex.

https://www.patheos.com/blogs/agora/2020/01/irish-american-witchcraft-do-i-believe-in-fairies/

CountryGirlInTheCity · 08/10/2025 17:48

Southshore18 · 08/10/2025 17:36

nope, and I cannot get my head around why anyone would believe there is a higher power (in whatever shape or form) when it's so obvious there is absolutely nothing at all.

This is a genuine question: why is it obvious to you that there’s nothing beyond what we can see? I’m interested to know your thoughts.

inamo · 08/10/2025 17:51

A higher power is the catch all explanation for things we don't understand and cannot explain. Science and nature are my higher powers.

RealPerson · 08/10/2025 17:52

CountryGirlInTheCity · 08/10/2025 17:48

This is a genuine question: why is it obvious to you that there’s nothing beyond what we can see? I’m interested to know your thoughts.

I can take this a step further: consider that we do not obviously have brains in our heads. If you look for it and scan, there it will suddenly be. I wonder why

Enigma54 · 08/10/2025 17:52

No

Lemonadepie · 08/10/2025 17:54

LivingTheDreamish · 08/10/2025 17:06

I believe God is real and I think what you are sensing in your life is probably God. He’s staying in the background because you resist Him.

Do you really believe that there’s a god who keeps an eye on and understands the views of all the billions of humans currently on the planet? Do you honestly think that that is possible??

CurlewKate · 08/10/2025 18:02

CountryGirlInTheCity · 08/10/2025 17:48

This is a genuine question: why is it obvious to you that there’s nothing beyond what we can see? I’m interested to know your thoughts.

Well, MY response to that is that if I’m presented with something that goes against what we know now, and seems completely impossible according to current knowledge, I’m not going to believe it. Should we make new discoveries which make those things possible, I will change my beliefs accordingly.

LivingTheDreamish · 08/10/2025 18:02

Lemonadepie · 08/10/2025 17:54

Do you really believe that there’s a god who keeps an eye on and understands the views of all the billions of humans currently on the planet? Do you honestly think that that is possible??

Yes I do. If you consider how tiny our planet earth is in comparison to the universe (and that’s just the known universe) doesn’t it make sense that there are things that are bigger than we can comprehend?

Lemonadepie · 08/10/2025 18:18

LivingTheDreamish · 08/10/2025 18:02

Yes I do. If you consider how tiny our planet earth is in comparison to the universe (and that’s just the known universe) doesn’t it make sense that there are things that are bigger than we can comprehend?

So why would this god want to follow all of us around and see all our actions and thoughts? What’s in it for him??

CoffeeCantata · 08/10/2025 18:18

LivingTheDreamish · 08/10/2025 18:02

Yes I do. If you consider how tiny our planet earth is in comparison to the universe (and that’s just the known universe) doesn’t it make sense that there are things that are bigger than we can comprehend?

She/He’s not doing a great job then.

Either God is NOT omnipotent and cannot prevent suffering or God IS omnipotent and he/she is very cruel.

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 08/10/2025 18:20

Yes

ThatNaiceMember · 08/10/2025 18:21

No

CoffeeCantata · 08/10/2025 18:22

Camelcarpet · 08/10/2025 07:11

Yes. You should do an alpha course. Ask questions. 👍

Edited

I don’t think the Alpha course could answer the sort of questions I’d have.

I suspect I’d get shown the door pdq!

TheSwarm · 08/10/2025 18:27

LivingTheDreamish · 08/10/2025 18:02

Yes I do. If you consider how tiny our planet earth is in comparison to the universe (and that’s just the known universe) doesn’t it make sense that there are things that are bigger than we can comprehend?

Of course.

But "God did it" is just a human invented cop-out to fill in the gaps we don't understand. Ultimately everything has an explaination and I can guarantee you it has nothing to do with what is in the bible or any other religious book.

CoffeeCantata · 08/10/2025 18:30

The old saying goes “”If God did not exist, man would have to invent him!”

NormasArse · 08/10/2025 18:38

Yes. I don’t follow a religion, but I do believe there is something. I feel it most out in nature, and I feel deep gratitude.

LivingTheDreamish · 08/10/2025 18:39

Lemonadepie · 08/10/2025 18:18

So why would this god want to follow all of us around and see all our actions and thoughts? What’s in it for him??

He loves us.

SorcererGaheris · 08/10/2025 18:41

CoffeeCantata · 08/10/2025 18:18

She/He’s not doing a great job then.

Either God is NOT omnipotent and cannot prevent suffering or God IS omnipotent and he/she is very cruel.

@CoffeeCantata

That's the pagan polytheist perspective on deities. Pagan polytheists do not have the same premises for deity as Abrahamic monotheists. We do not believe, or claim, that the deities are all-powerful or all-knowing, or even necessarily all-loving.

We do believe they have skills, abilities and powers, just like any other entity, but there are limits. In polytheist theological frameworks, deities have specific skills and abilities related to certain fields.

So unnecessary suffering exists, I would say, because the deities do not necessarily have the power to prevent it, and may not be aware of all of it.

LivingTheDreamish · 08/10/2025 18:44

CoffeeCantata · 08/10/2025 18:18

She/He’s not doing a great job then.

Either God is NOT omnipotent and cannot prevent suffering or God IS omnipotent and he/she is very cruel.

Well you’ve hit on the great conundrum. God is omnipotent and allows suffering for various reasons that are explained in the bible but never quite to our human satisfaction, because suffering is very hard to experience and witness. So your question is valid. No one believes in God ultimately because the arguments make sense.

RealPerson · 08/10/2025 18:44

I had an OBE a long time ago. I could see a soft white light emanating from the walls and surfaces, and I could see that the material universe was made out of it. Maybe that's what god is. I felt very happy and at peace there

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