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Is it ridiculous to spend this much money on a bed?

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Ribenafan98 · 03/10/2025 17:29

After months of searching I've found a bed that I love. But its £1600. And I'll need to buy a mattress. Ive never had money to spend on furniture before and I've never had a new bed, only second hand. Is it ridiculous to spend this much money on a bed?

OP posts:
Judecb · 05/10/2025 11:02

It's an investment in your physical and mental health. You can't put a price on a really good night's sleep.

TheGrimSmile · 05/10/2025 11:32

Not if you can afford it. You sleep in it every night and will have it for probably 10 or more years so it's worth it.

ComfortFoodCafe · 05/10/2025 11:33

I spent £1800 on a bed & a mattress. Best thing I ever did after years of sleeping on crappy metal beds.

NapoleonsToe · 05/10/2025 11:35

ChillBarrog · 03/10/2025 18:29

But if it's important to OP, then it is. She can spend what she wants 🤷

She was asking for opinions Grin

SpottyAardvark · 05/10/2025 11:41

Whatever else I might have to economise on, there are two things which I will never, ever skimp on : Beds & tyres.

zingally · 05/10/2025 13:11

Beds are horrifyingly expensive!
I was recently in the market for a simple single bed for the spare bedroom, nothing fancy. Still over £500!

GoldBalonz · 05/10/2025 13:15

I wouldn't skimp on a mattress...our Simba is the best money we ever spent.

A bed, without mattress though...it would have to be pretty damn special at that price 😂

Owl55 · 05/10/2025 13:24

I’m considering buying the premier inn mattress direct as I’ve never had a bad nights sleep there , they are not cheap but are so comfortable .

GoldBalonz · 05/10/2025 13:26

zingally · 05/10/2025 13:11

Beds are horrifyingly expensive!
I was recently in the market for a simple single bed for the spare bedroom, nothing fancy. Still over £500!

They're really not though 🤔 Like many other things, they're as expensive as you make them.

Our kingsize bed cost £125 (Argos). We were very lucky this time last year and got it on sale but it was only £225 at full price...it's still for sale at that price now. It's kingsize, and a very simple but attractive design - white wood with a wooden headboard. It looks lovely in our room and it's as solid as a rock. Zero chips, marks, creaks or movement, it's really sturdy and decently made.

There's nothing wrong with spending £500 on a bed frame if you want of course, but it's absolutely not necessary, especially just for a single!

zingally · 05/10/2025 13:37

GoldBalonz · 05/10/2025 13:26

They're really not though 🤔 Like many other things, they're as expensive as you make them.

Our kingsize bed cost £125 (Argos). We were very lucky this time last year and got it on sale but it was only £225 at full price...it's still for sale at that price now. It's kingsize, and a very simple but attractive design - white wood with a wooden headboard. It looks lovely in our room and it's as solid as a rock. Zero chips, marks, creaks or movement, it's really sturdy and decently made.

There's nothing wrong with spending £500 on a bed frame if you want of course, but it's absolutely not necessary, especially just for a single!

That did include the mattress...

£125 sounds very, very cheap for a bed. I'd be concerned about longevity and quality at that price, but if you're happy with it, then great!

user5972308467 · 05/10/2025 13:41

Don’t skimp on shoes or mattresses, you’re either in one or the other!

GoldBalonz · 05/10/2025 13:48

zingally · 05/10/2025 13:37

That did include the mattress...

£125 sounds very, very cheap for a bed. I'd be concerned about longevity and quality at that price, but if you're happy with it, then great!

Ahhh apologies, I thought you meant just the bed.

We're about 14 months in now and so far the bed is still perfect...time will tell though!

YourWinter · 05/10/2025 14:14

The solid wooden frame for my bed was £25 from an advert in the village shop window in 2005 and it will still be as good when I’m long gone. I replace the mattress every 10 years.

angela1952 · 05/10/2025 14:59

Nothing wrong with spending this much if you have the money. I recently spend £800 on a lovely mattress, but it was ex-display so very good value. I wouldn't often replace the actual bed, just the mattress - assuming the base was still in reasonable condition.
If not then a simple bed base is relatively cheap and I'd spend most on the mattress.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 05/10/2025 15:08

Absolutely not. Shoes and beds are the two things worth spending on.

dh280125 · 05/10/2025 22:32

Hell no. I spent an amount I'm too embarrassed to admit to on my bed, then bought an identical one when we had a loft extension because the original was too much of a hassle to move. Best two things I ever bought. Guests love it when they see it.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 06/10/2025 16:14

Spend OP if you can afford it. We got a cheap devan and cheap headboard and had it upholstered then spent more on the mattress.

lilkitten · 07/10/2025 17:39

I would on the actual bed. I'm just never as keen on spending a huge amount on a mattress, as you have to get rid of them so often. I've had my bed 19 years, so I think it's well worth any money spent on the bed. I keep putting off a new mattress as they're so much

user1471538283 · 07/10/2025 17:50

I would do it! Years ago when my DS was small and I didn't earn that much I paid £500 for a bed and then whatever the going rate was for a decent mattress. Like you I'd never had a new bed. I absolutely love it and still have it!

In that time my DS has had several beds!

Calamitousness · 07/10/2025 17:51

YANBU. Mine was double that 10 years ago. Best thing I ever did. No more back problems. Sleep amazing. That included the mattress mind you which was over £2000 alone.

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