Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Alice Evans is losing the plot again

1000 replies

CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 30/09/2025 18:49

This time at the neighbours in her new flat block. Seems like she parks badly blocking other people in, they leave notes asking her to park better and she goes crackers banging on doors and screaming like a banshee at 2am

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15148429/Let-you-f-ing-b-Watch-Alice-Evans-Ring-doorbell-meltdown-old-woman-neighbours-tell-KATIE-HIND-control-star-terrorising-reveal-disgraceful-behaviour-new-LA-block.html

https://archive.ph/j39ds

obviously all the craziness over her divorce, custody arrangements is well documented and iirc she once lost her shit with someone in a car park , proper road rage/parking rage type incident. She really needs therapy/help.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
28
Viviennemary · 08/10/2025 17:04

Vivi0 · 06/10/2025 16:35

This isnt a gossip thread. It’s is a simply thread that someone has created on a forum. An open forum. Which is the reason I am able to reply.

Mumsnet is not a gossip site.

It’s quite frankly, bizzare, that you are trying to make it such.

Some threads are gossipy and its daft to think otherwise.

TheSunnySide · 08/10/2025 18:59

I have pictures of my child’s father on my fridge and on my Instagram because I am a grown up and we have kids together. And it wasn’t a pleasant break-up. If fans of Ioan can’t handle a few historic photos of Ioan Gruffudd on his ex wife’s social media then that speaks volumes.

I am sure both Ioan and Bianca are also grown up enough to not care about that. It’s a shame he deleted or archived almost every photo he had of his kids on his Instagram.

Merlin69 · 08/10/2025 19:53

TheSunnySide · 08/10/2025 18:59

I have pictures of my child’s father on my fridge and on my Instagram because I am a grown up and we have kids together. And it wasn’t a pleasant break-up. If fans of Ioan can’t handle a few historic photos of Ioan Gruffudd on his ex wife’s social media then that speaks volumes.

I am sure both Ioan and Bianca are also grown up enough to not care about that. It’s a shame he deleted or archived almost every photo he had of his kids on his Instagram.

All respect, you haven’t likely even denigrated your children’s dad in front of them, let alone to an audience of tens of thousands?

I also presume you didn’t go on Twitter and make claims like your child’s father had left not only the home but had specifically left your child?

Can I assume you also didn’t go on your social media and make claims that your child’s father disliked them and didn’t want to be their dad?

I would also hazard a guess that there isn’t a court transcript of you asking your child to let you know if their dad is ‘ever weird’ with your child?

Hopefully your child’s father doesn’t have a restraining order against you?

If the answer is no, then comparing your situation to Alice’s is like comparing apples and oranges and you shouldn’t do yourself a disservice. Likewise people should not be pretending after the above actions of Alice (plus many, many more like exposing her genitalia in front of the children) it is in ANY way appropriate for her to have photos of Ioan. Even if you just consider her public claims he mistreats her kids, THAT’s reason enough for her to not want him anywhere near her social media

TheSunnySide · 08/10/2025 19:58

Their kids.

Merlin69 · 08/10/2025 20:18

TheSunnySide · 08/10/2025 19:58

Their kids.

Their kids that she claims he is mistreating/hurting/ignoring even? The same dad who she claimed only a few months ago was responsible for them about to become homeless and the kids were devastated he wouldn’t help. The same kids who wanted a restraining order against him so he couldn’t contact either of them for 5 years?

Listen to what you’re admitting to, that Alice claimed Ioan is such a bad dad for all the above but she’s still keep photos of him on SOCIAL MEDIA. That in keeping photos so readily public available, she’ll allow them to be disrespected in such a public manner (rather than suggest the kids’ keep copies on their own personal devices). Such photos which exclude the kids such as her wedding photo and other photos of them as a couple. I don’t know any mum who would let a man hurt their kids and still honour him in a public way, it’s such a betrayal by her to her kids

DipsyDee · 08/10/2025 20:21

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

GoGas · 08/10/2025 21:41

Merlin69 · 08/10/2025 20:18

Their kids that she claims he is mistreating/hurting/ignoring even? The same dad who she claimed only a few months ago was responsible for them about to become homeless and the kids were devastated he wouldn’t help. The same kids who wanted a restraining order against him so he couldn’t contact either of them for 5 years?

Listen to what you’re admitting to, that Alice claimed Ioan is such a bad dad for all the above but she’s still keep photos of him on SOCIAL MEDIA. That in keeping photos so readily public available, she’ll allow them to be disrespected in such a public manner (rather than suggest the kids’ keep copies on their own personal devices). Such photos which exclude the kids such as her wedding photo and other photos of them as a couple. I don’t know any mum who would let a man hurt their kids and still honour him in a public way, it’s such a betrayal by her to her kids

They started this by going public, publicly humliating her, disgarding her online and for the world to see.

They are still doing it rubbing her face in it.

If Ioan had any sense he would have prevented Bianca from posting that first picture, Alice was in the dark about their union, and to say nothing happened before he left her is laughable, the whole world knows he was unfaithful to her.

Why would anyone believe the words of that selfish couple.
He cared little that her emotional breakdown was played out in public, in fact that became his excuse, "see I told you Alice is mad" just like any other man playing out the script.

He thought he could shame Alice into keeping quiet but in the end she had nothing to lose, he'd already taken away any pride she had of being a wife and mother.
I honestly don't know anyone who has screwed the ending of his marriage up so badly in the public eye, it isn't Alice, it's him, there is something wrong with him, and Bianca is no better, a heartless woman.

Their sickly smiles on social media make my stomach turn when I think of the heartbreak he has left behind and how those children must feel when they see the pictures, a disloyal father who has abandonned them for a fame hungry nobody.

I hope the girls can recover.

Merlin69 · 08/10/2025 21:46

GoGas · 08/10/2025 21:41

They started this by going public, publicly humliating her, disgarding her online and for the world to see.

They are still doing it rubbing her face in it.

If Ioan had any sense he would have prevented Bianca from posting that first picture, Alice was in the dark about their union, and to say nothing happened before he left her is laughable, the whole world knows he was unfaithful to her.

Why would anyone believe the words of that selfish couple.
He cared little that her emotional breakdown was played out in public, in fact that became his excuse, "see I told you Alice is mad" just like any other man playing out the script.

He thought he could shame Alice into keeping quiet but in the end she had nothing to lose, he'd already taken away any pride she had of being a wife and mother.
I honestly don't know anyone who has screwed the ending of his marriage up so badly in the public eye, it isn't Alice, it's him, there is something wrong with him, and Bianca is no better, a heartless woman.

Their sickly smiles on social media make my stomach turn when I think of the heartbreak he has left behind and how those children must feel when they see the pictures, a disloyal father who has abandonned them for a fame hungry nobody.

I hope the girls can recover.

And after all that you say/ Alice has said, she is still so deeply in love with Ioan (and so disloyal to her kids that SHE says he hurts) she chooses to keep that shrine of Ioan and his photos up. Every day she has his photos on Instagram is another day Alice betrays her children. That’s so sad she doesn’t love them enough to remove some pictures

LovingRoseLurker · 08/10/2025 22:11

GoGas · 08/10/2025 21:41

They started this by going public, publicly humliating her, disgarding her online and for the world to see.

They are still doing it rubbing her face in it.

If Ioan had any sense he would have prevented Bianca from posting that first picture, Alice was in the dark about their union, and to say nothing happened before he left her is laughable, the whole world knows he was unfaithful to her.

Why would anyone believe the words of that selfish couple.
He cared little that her emotional breakdown was played out in public, in fact that became his excuse, "see I told you Alice is mad" just like any other man playing out the script.

He thought he could shame Alice into keeping quiet but in the end she had nothing to lose, he'd already taken away any pride she had of being a wife and mother.
I honestly don't know anyone who has screwed the ending of his marriage up so badly in the public eye, it isn't Alice, it's him, there is something wrong with him, and Bianca is no better, a heartless woman.

Their sickly smiles on social media make my stomach turn when I think of the heartbreak he has left behind and how those children must feel when they see the pictures, a disloyal father who has abandonned them for a fame hungry nobody.

I hope the girls can recover.

Well someone is still so very obviously in love with someone and not even vaguely over him…………such bitterness and anger at someone leaving a person they no longer loved.

DipsyDee · 08/10/2025 22:14

Merlin69 · 08/10/2025 21:46

And after all that you say/ Alice has said, she is still so deeply in love with Ioan (and so disloyal to her kids that SHE says he hurts) she chooses to keep that shrine of Ioan and his photos up. Every day she has his photos on Instagram is another day Alice betrays her children. That’s so sad she doesn’t love them enough to remove some pictures

Edited

Interesting you say that so I went to Alice’s Instagram page and the last picture she shared of her then husband was in 2021. 4 years ago when they were still together.

Merlin69 · 09/10/2025 01:30

LovingRoseLurker · 08/10/2025 22:11

Well someone is still so very obviously in love with someone and not even vaguely over him…………such bitterness and anger at someone leaving a person they no longer loved.

It’s the complete lack of self respect that astounds me. After everything Alice has claimed negatively about him as a husband and a dad and his pictures are still there. Get some pride Alice, he’s never coming back and also, show solidarity to your kids you disloyal mum.

She tried to take photos of him in the court room recently didn’t she (but the bailiff made her delete them). You just know she’d post more recent pictures of him if she was allowed anywhere near him to get pictures, thankfully she isn’t. She’ll just have to settle for drooling over the old ones she has on her Instagram and the new ones other people post instead. She’s that desperately in love with him still 🤣

Arraminta · 09/10/2025 09:26

I don't think AE still having his photos all over her Instagram and trying to take his photo in court is anything at all to do with love. It's actually about her obsessive need to still control and possess him, even if only in such a tiny way.

It isn't heartbreak that has driven AE to such extreme behaviour. It's the loss of power and control. She doesn't care how she still plays a role, any role, in Ioan's life just so long as she still has some role, no matter how destructive and negative it is.

DipsyDee · 09/10/2025 09:47

Arraminta · 09/10/2025 09:26

I don't think AE still having his photos all over her Instagram and trying to take his photo in court is anything at all to do with love. It's actually about her obsessive need to still control and possess him, even if only in such a tiny way.

It isn't heartbreak that has driven AE to such extreme behaviour. It's the loss of power and control. She doesn't care how she still plays a role, any role, in Ioan's life just so long as she still has some role, no matter how destructive and negative it is.

I’ve taken a look at her instagram page and a quick scroll through showed the last time she posted a picture of him was in 2021 so they are hardly all over her socials. I’ve seen no evidence of her posting recent photos of him either

Motnight · 09/10/2025 10:24

Arraminta · 09/10/2025 09:26

I don't think AE still having his photos all over her Instagram and trying to take his photo in court is anything at all to do with love. It's actually about her obsessive need to still control and possess him, even if only in such a tiny way.

It isn't heartbreak that has driven AE to such extreme behaviour. It's the loss of power and control. She doesn't care how she still plays a role, any role, in Ioan's life just so long as she still has some role, no matter how destructive and negative it is.

Surely re AE not removing all the photos of her ex husband just shows that she's not re-writing history? They were married, they aren't anymore. It happened. It's a different thing if she's still posting photos of him, but I don't think that is the case.

AE may or may not be batshit crazy but she doesn't need criticism for leaving photos of IG up on social media accounts.

DipsyDee · 09/10/2025 10:32

Motnight · 09/10/2025 10:24

Surely re AE not removing all the photos of her ex husband just shows that she's not re-writing history? They were married, they aren't anymore. It happened. It's a different thing if she's still posting photos of him, but I don't think that is the case.

AE may or may not be batshit crazy but she doesn't need criticism for leaving photos of IG up on social media accounts.

I agree. People are making it sound like she is putting up pictures of Ioan ALL the time and this is just not true from taking a look at her Instagram page. The pictures that are reminding are over 4 years old of when they were together.

LovingRoseLurker · 09/10/2025 10:54

DipsyDee · 09/10/2025 10:32

I agree. People are making it sound like she is putting up pictures of Ioan ALL the time and this is just not true from taking a look at her Instagram page. The pictures that are reminding are over 4 years old of when they were together.

I wouldn’t think anything of this in a normal divorce or even a difficult divorce where there is joint custody or kids having contact between both parents. But AE has constantly reiterated her DDs have no contact with Ioan and despise him. She has been vituperous about him, accusing him of being abusive to her and her DDs. Yet she still keeps his name in Insta (even though she never took his name or used his name). The girls don’t have his surname - they are legally Griffiths - and Alice has said they both use Evans. So it makes no sense to keep that name and videos and photos on your public SM, unless she is not over him or unless, as has been observably noted, she want to keep exerting control/possession over him “You’ll never get rid off me, you can’t discard me”. I understand the pain of rejection but also recognise when an inability to accept reality becomes toxic for the person trying to deny the reality. Divorce is shit, it upends and can destroy lives. But people have to move forward and move on. Getting stuck trying to deny a situation that has already happened or being stuck in a bitter angry vortex is completely self destructive

DipsyDee · 09/10/2025 10:59

LovingRoseLurker · 09/10/2025 10:54

I wouldn’t think anything of this in a normal divorce or even a difficult divorce where there is joint custody or kids having contact between both parents. But AE has constantly reiterated her DDs have no contact with Ioan and despise him. She has been vituperous about him, accusing him of being abusive to her and her DDs. Yet she still keeps his name in Insta (even though she never took his name or used his name). The girls don’t have his surname - they are legally Griffiths - and Alice has said they both use Evans. So it makes no sense to keep that name and videos and photos on your public SM, unless she is not over him or unless, as has been observably noted, she want to keep exerting control/possession over him “You’ll never get rid off me, you can’t discard me”. I understand the pain of rejection but also recognise when an inability to accept reality becomes toxic for the person trying to deny the reality. Divorce is shit, it upends and can destroy lives. But people have to move forward and move on. Getting stuck trying to deny a situation that has already happened or being stuck in a bitter angry vortex is completely self destructive

I don’t think she is denying the situation as how could she? He has got married again with another baby on the way.l and there ain’t no denying that! But for some posters to claim she is posting pictures of him all the time on her social media are wrong. There is a huge difference between a post that appeared 4 years ago than ones that supposedly appear all the time . 💃

Merlin69 · 09/10/2025 14:06

Alice can’t post recent pictures of him because he doesn’t allow her anywhere near him to take them (you only have to see her attempts to take some of him in court this year to prove she actually does want present day pictures of him that she’s taken, ones taken by Bianca and his fans aren’t enough for her). She had to be forced to delete them because when the choice was left to her, she was going to keep them. That’s absolutely absurdly obsessed, where is her self respect??????

l don’t care how old the photos are that she has of Ioan on his grid, that’s irrelevant, the key takeaway is that she has them at all when it makes her look like a pining simp for the man that ran out of the door. The most unforgivable part for me though is why she would be so disloyal to her kids by doing this when she’s told the world that he mistreats them? Why would any mum choose to publicly display pictures of the dad who she says is hurting her kids? Only a bad mum picks a man above her kids and she is picking Ioan because her actions tell the kids, there’s nothing he can do to hurt you kids that will ever make me devalue him enough to not keep my public photo shrine of him (and and his name in my social media username). She should be ashamed

DipsyDee · 09/10/2025 14:34

Merlin69 · 09/10/2025 14:06

Alice can’t post recent pictures of him because he doesn’t allow her anywhere near him to take them (you only have to see her attempts to take some of him in court this year to prove she actually does want present day pictures of him that she’s taken, ones taken by Bianca and his fans aren’t enough for her). She had to be forced to delete them because when the choice was left to her, she was going to keep them. That’s absolutely absurdly obsessed, where is her self respect??????

l don’t care how old the photos are that she has of Ioan on his grid, that’s irrelevant, the key takeaway is that she has them at all when it makes her look like a pining simp for the man that ran out of the door. The most unforgivable part for me though is why she would be so disloyal to her kids by doing this when she’s told the world that he mistreats them? Why would any mum choose to publicly display pictures of the dad who she says is hurting her kids? Only a bad mum picks a man above her kids and she is picking Ioan because her actions tell the kids, there’s nothing he can do to hurt you kids that will ever make me devalue him enough to not keep my public photo shrine of him (and and his name in my social media username). She should be ashamed

Edited

You said that she has pictures of Ioan on her Instagram every day when in fact the ones she has date back 4 years. She was married to him so she of course she can keep pictures of him up there from when they were together. These photos are over 4 years old. She’s hasn’t posted pics of him since then.

Merlin69 · 09/10/2025 15:06

Arraminta · 09/10/2025 09:26

I don't think AE still having his photos all over her Instagram and trying to take his photo in court is anything at all to do with love. It's actually about her obsessive need to still control and possess him, even if only in such a tiny way.

It isn't heartbreak that has driven AE to such extreme behaviour. It's the loss of power and control. She doesn't care how she still plays a role, any role, in Ioan's life just so long as she still has some role, no matter how destructive and negative it is.

Given her personality type and how many people have cut her off and she’s still looking to get revenge on them then you’re probably right, it’s this reason which is more likely than her unrequited love for Ioan.

The facts are she has been sharing on her social media that Ioan (at least post separation) is an unworthy dad who has hurt his kids (and her) and she supported the kids attempts to get a restraining order because they felt endangered.
The facts also are that she’s decided to keep pictures public of the man that she’s described as above.

In the face of facts where Alice’s actions don’t match her words, I’m still surprised there might be people unwilling to ever even acknowledge that, least of all question it but that’s their right

Merlin69 · 09/10/2025 15:27

Merlin69 · 08/10/2025 21:46

And after all that you say/ Alice has said, she is still so deeply in love with Ioan (and so disloyal to her kids that SHE says he hurts) she chooses to keep that shrine of Ioan and his photos up. Every day she has his photos on Instagram is another day Alice betrays her children. That’s so sad she doesn’t love them enough to remove some pictures

Edited

‘Every day she has his photographs on Instagram is another day Alice betrays her children…’ is NOT saying she puts photos of him up on Instagram every day.

I’d really appreciate if misquotes and misinformation were kept away from the thread, disingenuity spoils the thread for everyone.

TheSunnySide · 09/10/2025 16:00

Describing historical photos of the father of your children as. Shrine is just ridiculous over the top nonsense perpetuated by a bunch of sad cases who have to keep their vitriol going because it gets them excited when they slag off a well known person online. It is very sad indeed that these people have reduced themselves to this.

TheSunnySide · 09/10/2025 16:02

I mean come on! Using the logic shown here the whole of the threads on Tattle are a shrine to Alice. It is these nasty bitchy women who are obsessed.

TheSunnySide · 09/10/2025 16:06

Also, she wasn’t taking a picture of Ioan in the courtroom. She was taking a picture of an online YouTube lawyer who seems a bit obsessed with Ioan Gruffudd and was live tweeting from the court.

if I remember correctly it is Ioan Gruffudd who has been attempting to take pictures of his ex wife. At the kids’ school and when she was driving around LA. Tell me again which one of them is obsessed?

DipsyDee · 09/10/2025 16:13

Merlin69 · 09/10/2025 15:27

‘Every day she has his photographs on Instagram is another day Alice betrays her children…’ is NOT saying she puts photos of him up on Instagram every day.

I’d really appreciate if misquotes and misinformation were kept away from the thread, disingenuity spoils the thread for everyone.

Edited

You said that “And after all that you say/ Alice has said, she is still so deeply in love with Ioan (and so disloyal to her kids that SHE says he hurts) she chooses to keep that shrine of Ioan and his photos up. Every day she has his photos on Instagram is another day Alice betrays her children. That’s so sad she doesn’t love them enough to remove some pictures”

Alice’s Instagram is hardly a shrine to Ioan when the last picture of him was uploaded in. 2021.

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.