The reason I know Ioan Gruffudd is an amazing husband (formerly to Alice Evans and now to his loving wife Bianca) and, is and always will be, an amazing dad is because Alice’s behaviour tells us so. The same Alice Evans who still has a shrine of photographs of Ioan on her Instagram (some of Ioan and the kids, lots of Ioan and Alice as a couple and even ones of Ioan just by himself).
If Ioan was all the terrible things Alice has verbally accused him of, why do her actions directly contradict that? She has verbally said he is emotionally distressing and mistreating her children, she’s let her followers say the same and hearted their comments. Going one further, she’s never sought to correct the view that her kids also think he’s a bad dad, she’s tried to reinforce it so why keep an homage to him/them as a couple/him as a dad on her social media?
One explanation is that she actually really does think he is a bad dad and she keeps pictures of Ioan on her social media because she’s telling herself it’s Ioan and Bianca who are looking and commenting on this behaviour (rather than an ordinary mum like myself who just thinks it’s unnerving and weird unless your break up is amicable - and even then, old wedding photos are next level odd behaviour from someone divorced). If that’s the case and she prioritising spite of an ex and his wife over respect and solidarity to the kids that he’s apparently hurting, that is one of the most cruel and disloyal things she’s done to her kids throughout this divorce if he really is a bad dad as she says.
The more likely reason she keeps the photos of him is because she’s still utterly and hopelessly in love with him and will never be able to move on. The photos (now years and years old) give her a link to him still, even if it’s minuscule and fans have more recent photos of him than she does.
If she were a nice person and a judge hadn’t ruled that he needed a DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RESTRAINING ORDER to keep Ioan and Bianca safe, I might have had a little empathy but she’s a court declared abuser even now in present day so abusers are undeserving of attempts to feel sorry for them.
The kindest thing I can manage is to try not to laugh at her but she’s making that soo hard with her continued photo worship of him on her social media. It’s almost like she is proactively trying to achieve the title of the ex-wife who displayed the least amount of pride and self respect in the world, ever.
MNHQ, as this post relates solely to Alice, Ioan, Bianca, I would hope there’s no grounds for reporting and deletion?