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Alice Evans is losing the plot again

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CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 30/09/2025 18:49

This time at the neighbours in her new flat block. Seems like she parks badly blocking other people in, they leave notes asking her to park better and she goes crackers banging on doors and screaming like a banshee at 2am

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15148429/Let-you-f-ing-b-Watch-Alice-Evans-Ring-doorbell-meltdown-old-woman-neighbours-tell-KATIE-HIND-control-star-terrorising-reveal-disgraceful-behaviour-new-LA-block.html

https://archive.ph/j39ds

obviously all the craziness over her divorce, custody arrangements is well documented and iirc she once lost her shit with someone in a car park , proper road rage/parking rage type incident. She really needs therapy/help.

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AliceMaforethought · 02/10/2025 13:51

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 13:07

And you think violence, lies and self endangerment, all gleefully egged on by their mother is reasonable? OK, then.

They are children. Hurt children. Acting out.

They needed their dad and he chose Bianca.

Terrible.

I agree with this. I don't condone Alice's behaviour at all, but he was very selfish towards his children and I don't think much of Bianca, either.

Baninarama · 02/10/2025 14:25

@YesThatsATurdOnTheRug and @AliceMaforethought - nice bit of victim blaming there. 'He didn't stand up for himself' is a horrible thing to say about someone that lived with abuse.Men can be abused by women - read this if you don't believe it: www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/81a8f303-5849-45b8-85a0-e8532b5d948b

I also don't get how spending tons of money on lawyers and therapy is choosing Bianca or being selfish? And for that matter why does Bianca come into this, anyway? She's just someone he got together with and married after he left Alice.

Nicknacky · 02/10/2025 14:27

AliceMaforethought · 02/10/2025 13:51

I agree with this. I don't condone Alice's behaviour at all, but he was very selfish towards his children and I don't think much of Bianca, either.

What has Bianca done wrong?

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 02/10/2025 14:33

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 02/10/2025 13:40

That video is horrific, I don't really know anything about either of them but that he's cheerfully telling that horrific tale as though it's normal or ok when she was so awfully abusive, really chilling. Those poor children, absolute insanity that the courts seemingly have all that information (just the couple of transcripts I've seen in this thread should be enough) yet have left the kids in her care is frightening. I guess he is the kind of person who can't stand up for himself (hence he ended up in this mess) and now isn't standing up for them. He sat there in those transcripts while she said all those things to/in front of the kids and he let it happen, they've both let the kids down horrifically.

What do you suggest he should have done to stop her abuse?

Honish · 02/10/2025 14:35

PortSalutPlease · 02/10/2025 09:27

It’s clear he’s been abused their entire relationship - poor man. It’s the fact he tells the story like it’s some sweet anecdote I find most chilling - that he was so beaten down he really thought behaviour like that was ok.

Makes you wonder what his parents and upbringing were like. I remember once she posted a nasty Instagram post saying he'd never liked his family but pretended to. Quite awful as it was completely besides the point and there couldn't have been any other motive other than trying to damage his relationship with his family.

EeewDavid · 02/10/2025 14:37

Honish · 02/10/2025 14:35

Makes you wonder what his parents and upbringing were like. I remember once she posted a nasty Instagram post saying he'd never liked his family but pretended to. Quite awful as it was completely besides the point and there couldn't have been any other motive other than trying to damage his relationship with his family.

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He still has a good relationship with his parents and siblings. She is estranged from her family. And his (since before the marriage).

Common denominator?

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 02/10/2025 16:07

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 02/10/2025 14:33

What do you suggest he should have done to stop her abuse?

I don't doubt it can be incredibly hard to stand up to abuse, but I think when there are children involved there is a duty to at least try to seek help if you can't help yourself, to tell someone. Obviously she is the one manifestly and hugely in the wrong, and he was a victim. He actively brought children into the situation and he should actively have fought to protect them, even if that is by disclosing abuse to the authorities so that he could be helped and them by extension.

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 16:25

AliceMaforethought · 02/10/2025 13:51

I agree with this. I don't condone Alice's behaviour at all, but he was very selfish towards his children and I don't think much of Bianca, either.

I don't think much of Bianca, either.

I agree.

She was happy to move in with and start living with Ioan, when she hadn’t even met his children. And he was happy with this arrangement too. Such red flag behaviour from both of them. A woman would be crucified for coming home from a work trip with a new live in partner, who was a complete and total stranger to her children.

She doesn’t seem to have encouraged Ioan to maintain his relationship with his children, independent of her, either.

The bottom line is that his children had made clear that they wanted a relationship with him, but not with Bianca. Why then, was he relentlessly pushing Bianca on them? All his text messages to his children were, Bianca this, Bianca that.

His daughters were sitting outside Ioan and Bianca’s apartment in his car, crying and begging him not to force them to go into the apartment to meet with Bianca, because they didn’t want to. But he did force them.

It’s awful. He would still be seeing his children now if he and Bianca had just respected their wishes to have a relationship with their father only.

Bianca also can’t seem to stop goading and insulting his ex wife and mother of his children online, either.

No, I don’t think much of Bianca at all. Nor do I think much of Ioan. Or Alice.

I feel awful for those girls. It’s really upsetting to me to see not one of the three adults involved in this shit show seemingly able to put their needs first.

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 16:28

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 02/10/2025 16:07

I don't doubt it can be incredibly hard to stand up to abuse, but I think when there are children involved there is a duty to at least try to seek help if you can't help yourself, to tell someone. Obviously she is the one manifestly and hugely in the wrong, and he was a victim. He actively brought children into the situation and he should actively have fought to protect them, even if that is by disclosing abuse to the authorities so that he could be helped and them by extension.

I don't doubt it can be incredibly hard to stand up to abuse, but I think when there are children involved there is a duty to at least try to seek help if you can't help yourself, to tell someone.

Of course there is a duty when children involved.

Social services will actively remove children from the care of a non abusive parent, if that parent is unable (or unwilling, for whatever reason) to protect them from exposure to domestically abusive relationships.

Nicknacky · 02/10/2025 16:35

@Vivi0 How exactly has she been goading Alice and insulting her?

Arraminta · 02/10/2025 16:38

I follow Bianca on social media and genuinely haven't seen a single post where she has goaded and insulted anyone. Let alone AE? She has never once even vaguely alluded to AE.

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 16:40

Nicknacky · 02/10/2025 16:35

@Vivi0 How exactly has she been goading Alice and insulting her?

Have you not seen her stories and her highlights on Insta?

Considering the situation and the fact that there are two little girls in the middle and suffering, it’s highly inappropriate at best.

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 16:41

Arraminta · 02/10/2025 16:38

I follow Bianca on social media and genuinely haven't seen a single post where she has goaded and insulted anyone. Let alone AE? She has never once even vaguely alluded to AE.

Yes she has!

She outright accused Alice of abusing “thousands” of people 😂

Should be saved on her highlights.

Nicknacky · 02/10/2025 16:41

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 16:40

Have you not seen her stories and her highlights on Insta?

Considering the situation and the fact that there are two little girls in the middle and suffering, it’s highly inappropriate at best.

I have, that’s why I’m asking. Can you give me and example of when she has insulted Alice?

ThisCyanPoet · 02/10/2025 16:49

Honish · 02/10/2025 14:35

Makes you wonder what his parents and upbringing were like. I remember once she posted a nasty Instagram post saying he'd never liked his family but pretended to. Quite awful as it was completely besides the point and there couldn't have been any other motive other than trying to damage his relationship with his family.

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She was awful to his mother too. Refused to let her see the children and made it difficult for Ioan to have a relationship with them, bombarded her with e-mails when Ioan left slagging him off and even now she periodically contacts her begging for money.

FlyingUnicornWings · 02/10/2025 17:28

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 16:25

I don't think much of Bianca, either.

I agree.

She was happy to move in with and start living with Ioan, when she hadn’t even met his children. And he was happy with this arrangement too. Such red flag behaviour from both of them. A woman would be crucified for coming home from a work trip with a new live in partner, who was a complete and total stranger to her children.

She doesn’t seem to have encouraged Ioan to maintain his relationship with his children, independent of her, either.

The bottom line is that his children had made clear that they wanted a relationship with him, but not with Bianca. Why then, was he relentlessly pushing Bianca on them? All his text messages to his children were, Bianca this, Bianca that.

His daughters were sitting outside Ioan and Bianca’s apartment in his car, crying and begging him not to force them to go into the apartment to meet with Bianca, because they didn’t want to. But he did force them.

It’s awful. He would still be seeing his children now if he and Bianca had just respected their wishes to have a relationship with their father only.

Bianca also can’t seem to stop goading and insulting his ex wife and mother of his children online, either.

No, I don’t think much of Bianca at all. Nor do I think much of Ioan. Or Alice.

I feel awful for those girls. It’s really upsetting to me to see not one of the three adults involved in this shit show seemingly able to put their needs first.

I’m curious, do you know them personally?

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 17:35

FlyingUnicornWings · 02/10/2025 17:28

I’m curious, do you know them personally?

No, no more than any one on this thread knows Alice Evans.

If it’s fair game to infer x, y and z from Alice’s actions, then it’s fair game to infer x, y and z from Ioan and Bianca’s, no?

Lunde · 02/10/2025 17:37

Alice really doesn't help herself. Today she has taken her daughters for a pap-walk and sold the pictures to the Daily Mail.

I guess it's a payday for her

FlyingUnicornWings · 02/10/2025 17:58

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 17:35

No, no more than any one on this thread knows Alice Evans.

If it’s fair game to infer x, y and z from Alice’s actions, then it’s fair game to infer x, y and z from Ioan and Bianca’s, no?

I dunno. I only asked because it comes across that you knew them personally by what you said.

garlicandsapphires · 02/10/2025 18:17

Nicknacky · 02/10/2025 16:41

I have, that’s why I’m asking. Can you give me and example of when she has insulted Alice?

She should set her IG to private, IMO.
The fact she doesn’t makes me side-eye her massively.

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 18:18

@FlyingUnicornWings have you asked everyone else on the thread if they know Alice Evans personally?

I’m just speaking about Ioan and Bianca in the same way everyone is speaking
about Alice.

Zero difference.

FlyingUnicornWings · 02/10/2025 18:20

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 18:18

@FlyingUnicornWings have you asked everyone else on the thread if they know Alice Evans personally?

I’m just speaking about Ioan and Bianca in the same way everyone is speaking
about Alice.

Zero difference.

Edited

I was literally only asking because of what you said. I wasn’t attacking you. I was just asking. No need to be so defensive!

Merlin69 · 02/10/2025 18:32

Why has Alice allowed herself to get so overweight when her mum died from a heart attack? Even with her height, she’s probably at the very edge of overweight BMI but possibly even tipping into the obese category (before anyone starts throwing around misogyny claims, I’d be saying the same if she were a man with that family history)

I’d say it will be the children who would suffer if the unnecessary pressure caused her heart to stop beating but actually I believe they’d be better without her. I don’t feel guilty for saying that anymore, if Alice doesn’t care enough about herself or the children to keep herself healthy and alive, as a stranger I’m not going to care if she’s healthy or alive either. I’m not wishing death on her but she’s spent years emotionally abusing and destroying the children so if her heart gives up because of her lifestyle choices, I’m not going to pretend them having to endure less years of her trying to destroy them is a bad thing.

DipsyDee · 02/10/2025 18:40

ThisCyanPoet · 02/10/2025 16:49

She was awful to his mother too. Refused to let her see the children and made it difficult for Ioan to have a relationship with them, bombarded her with e-mails when Ioan left slagging him off and even now she periodically contacts her begging for money.

The dizzy heights of terrible behaviour being mean to Ioan’s mother

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 18:46

FlyingUnicornWings · 02/10/2025 18:20

I was literally only asking because of what you said. I wasn’t attacking you. I was just asking. No need to be so defensive!

I’m not being defensive.

I just can’t see any difference in how I’m speaking about Ioan Bianca compared to how people are speaking about Alice.

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