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Alice Evans is losing the plot again

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CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 30/09/2025 18:49

This time at the neighbours in her new flat block. Seems like she parks badly blocking other people in, they leave notes asking her to park better and she goes crackers banging on doors and screaming like a banshee at 2am

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15148429/Let-you-f-ing-b-Watch-Alice-Evans-Ring-doorbell-meltdown-old-woman-neighbours-tell-KATIE-HIND-control-star-terrorising-reveal-disgraceful-behaviour-new-LA-block.html

https://archive.ph/j39ds

obviously all the craziness over her divorce, custody arrangements is well documented and iirc she once lost her shit with someone in a car park , proper road rage/parking rage type incident. She really needs therapy/help.

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mantlepiece · 01/10/2025 21:07

The reason this woman’s behaviour has become of interest is because it is so extreme.
Curiously it is Alice Evans that uses social media and feeds information to the Daily Mail via her friend Boshoff for money, Alice publicises this herself.

This lady has not worked for years so expects her ex husband to fund living expenses for her and the 2 children of the marriage. She thinks she has no obligation to contribute towards this at all. The court issued a Gavron order at least a year ago to her, telling her to find work and contribute to household expenses.

The court documents are publicly available and show with no doubt that Alice Evans is one vindictive woman who abused her husband before and after he left her.
Her behaviour is no doubt fuelled by alcohol and drugs. She appears to be an extremely manipulative person and has no shame. She will damage all around her because of her obsessive behaviour. I really wish she would stop, it is awful to read about her behaviour.

Honish · 01/10/2025 21:15

PortSalutPlease · 01/10/2025 19:08

this is not new behaviour from her. This is the “charming” proposal story of her engagement to Ioan - she was an abusive bully even back then.

Good Lord.

Honish · 01/10/2025 21:24

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 18:40

Here are another couple of transcripts from videos that were filmed by the children where she was evidently a drunken abuser then too - Just to be clear, this was when they were still together!

Transcription of 2 June 2020 – Video #1 received from Ella
Alice: “You never make any, done anything off your own back you... You can’t even keep a
fucking show on the ABC going because, there, you’re too pathetic that they just cancel the
show. Hello darling.”
Ella: “Hi Mommy.”
Ioan: “Sorry what are you talking about?”
Alice: “You’re such an arse licker to your Australian producers that you would rather them
walk all over you. Listen, hey, Beans, tell Daddy that I’ve got nothing to fucking say, and I will
call the police if he doesn’t get off my bed.”
Ioan: “I, this is um, I am allowed to sit here.”
Alice: “Tell him to get off my bed.”
Ioan: “I’m allowed to sit here. I’m just sitting here?”
Alice: “Get off my bed. Get off, I’m going to sleep, get off my bed.”
Ioan: “Okay, but I am just going to sit here.”
Alice: “Daddy’s going to have to find another job. A different job.”
Ioan: “A different job?”
Alice: “You’re going to have to look for a different vocation!”
Ioan: “Why?”
Alice: “You’re not going to succeed in acting.”
Ioan: “Okay.”
Alice: “You don’t have it in you. You’re so worried about like, he… [inaudible] Oh, oh, oh
because I’m worth it… Leave him call people here, I said, I’ve got a list of people you should
call you said, he doesn’t even bother, he says, he shouldn’t have to call people [inaudible] …
Listen, Beans, I want a better life for you, okay?”
Ella: “Okay.”
Alice: “And he can give you.”

Transcription of 2 June 2020 – Video #2 received from Ella
Alice: “And until you realize it’s not going to happen, baby, I am going to have a new
boyfriend and you’re going to have two Dads. It’s not that you’re not going to have your
Daddy. But you’re also have another lovely person who I will meet who will be like a second
Daddy to you. Okay?”
Ella: “I don’t want one.”
Alice: “You don’t have to. I want one. Okay? You’ve seen what he does to me, you seen the
way he says horrible things to me. I’m done. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done. You seen it! I was
happy last night, he did that thing. I was happy tonight, he did that thing. Ok? It’s not fair on
me.”
Ella: “Could he ”
Alice: “I gave up my career, I helped him through everything. I did so many gen generous
things to him. The fact that I made one mistake and he couldn’t give it up.”
Ioan: “No, no, this, no we did draw a line under all that. We drew a line under it all.”
Alice: “And Beans it shouldn’t be under, up to you when you, you don’t have to be, you
don’t have to know my new man, but you will learn to love whoever it is, because whoever
it is I’m going to make fucking sure that he’s not somebody that despises me.”
Ella: “Could Daddy at least have one therapy session and make “
Alice: “If he would go to a therapist and really proper therapist and try and work out what’s
wrong with him, yes, but that’s “
Ella: “I’ll be the therapist, I’m a proper therapist!”
Alice: “I would have to have him go somewhere like really, at this point, I’d have to have him
go somewhere really good, and, and work out what his issue is. He’s not going to have jobs
in the future. He, you guys are not going to have a nice house. He is not capable of getting
jobs. Do you know how stupid the thing they sent him was? That’s what they think of him.
Because he, he’s, he doesn’t have it! He’s having a terrible hair problem and he’s going to
lose all his hair. It’s not ”
Ella: “Are you sure you’re not just tired?”
Alice: “Beans, I’ve been saying this for like two years. I’m, everything he does is about him. I
never get any, it’s like, time after time after time, I just hear this shit about, and you know I
stood up about something with Harvey Weinstein all I got back from him was how that
affected him, all I got back. It’s just… Guys don’t be upset. I’ll still see Daddy, I just want
somebody who loves me really for who I am and doesn’t worry about my, I want somebody
who finds it funny when I do the TMZ thing. That’s what I want.”Ella: “I can teach him to do that, I promise, if you just give “
Alice: “You can’t! I’ve tried!”
Ella: “I can! I can, if you just give me a month I can change Daddy!”
Alice: “Really?”
Ella: “Yes I promise! If you just give me chance.”
Alice: “I can’t handle somebody who hates me for what I do, I just can’t handle it.”
Ella: “I will change him, I promise.”
Ioan: “I didn’t say, I didn’t say that I hated you.”
Ella: “I will change him a promise, I’ll just, just give me a month.”
Alice: “Ok, if you can work, if you can make him understand in a month I will change my
mind, until then I want us to live here, but I don’t want any physical contact. If you can talk
him around, I will change my mind.”
Ella: “Okay.”
Elsie: “Guess what Daddy, I died in the game.”
Ioan: “Oh no!”
Alice: “Oh no Elsie!”
Elsie: “In the big game….”
Ioan: “In Minecraft?

That is such a painful read. That little girl, desperately trying to make things OK. I had no idea that woman was quite so deranged. Ioan has been very weak, he failed them.

DisforDarkChocolate · 01/10/2025 21:49

No @Honish

Ioan has been very abused.

Alice has failed those girls, she abused them.

DisforDarkChocolate · 01/10/2025 21:49

No @Honish

Ioan has been very abused.

Alice has failed those girls, she abused them.

Baninarama · 01/10/2025 22:06

Those transcripts are a horrible read. Poor girls. Poor Ioan.

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 22:07

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Notatallanamechange · 01/10/2025 22:26

Alice Evans is a certified Domestic Abuser. Next time anyone wants to defend her just keep that in mind.

She has no moral compass, she is lazy, she is a liar and all of that is very clear.

She needs to get a job. Whenever your two biggest jobs are 102 Dalmatians and half a dozen episodes of The Vampire Diaries (and then replaced because of her behaviour. There’s a theme here..) you are not an actress. You have tried to have an acting career and not made it. There’s no shame in that.

The neighbours should call the police. This will only escalate now it’s out in public.

OldTiredMum1976 · 01/10/2025 22:33

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Butchyrestingface · 01/10/2025 22:58

Alice: “I gave up my career, I helped him through everything. I did so many gen generous
things to him. The fact that I made one mistake and he couldn’t give it up.”
Ioan: “No, no, this, no we did draw a line under all that. We drew a line under it all.”

Is this a reference to the rumours she cheated on him?

SapphireBeach · 01/10/2025 23:11

Honish · 01/10/2025 21:24

That is such a painful read. That little girl, desperately trying to make things OK. I had no idea that woman was quite so deranged. Ioan has been very weak, he failed them.

He probably stayed as long as he did for the kids. In the end, he was strong enough to leave her. He's shown the patience of a saint for not reacting to her lies. Instead, he hasn't said anything about Alice publicly.

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 23:12

Butchyrestingface · 01/10/2025 22:58

Alice: “I gave up my career, I helped him through everything. I did so many gen generous
things to him. The fact that I made one mistake and he couldn’t give it up.”
Ioan: “No, no, this, no we did draw a line under all that. We drew a line under it all.”

Is this a reference to the rumours she cheated on him?

I think it is.

I also think this is in relation to her being reported on TMZ for her car park antics when she crashed into the parked car and then blamed the owner. She clearly never cared about bad press, whilst he was obviously deeply embarrassed by her behaviour.

I just want somebody who loves me really for who I am and doesn’t worry about my, I want somebody who finds it funny when I do the TMZ thing.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 23:16

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Did you actually just quote another MN user, and address her as if you were actually speaking to THE Alice Evans.

How embarrassing.

SapphireBeach · 01/10/2025 23:17

Greenmouldycheese · 01/10/2025 18:09

I feel really bad for her. She was a beautiful woman and spent her life behind the scenes, raising her family while her husband worked and built a career. She probably thought the were a happy family until he left her for a woman half his age. Her story reminds me of the Betty Broderick case (only Alice hasn't murdered anyone). It's really sad that the infidelity and divorce put her on this path and i hope she can somehow pick herself back up and eventually find happiness.

I dont have any sympathy for her. She didn't give up her career to raise her children. She did work on a few things after the kids were born. Alice had a full time nanny, even when she wasn't working. Her career gave up on her. It's blatantly obvious her ex-husband didn't leave her for another woman. He left Alice because of Alice. He began a relationship with Bianca 9 months after filing for a divorce. He left an abusive marriage before moving on.

Notatallanamechange · 01/10/2025 23:25

SapphireBeach · 01/10/2025 23:17

I dont have any sympathy for her. She didn't give up her career to raise her children. She did work on a few things after the kids were born. Alice had a full time nanny, even when she wasn't working. Her career gave up on her. It's blatantly obvious her ex-husband didn't leave her for another woman. He left Alice because of Alice. He began a relationship with Bianca 9 months after filing for a divorce. He left an abusive marriage before moving on.

Correct. Indeed Alice can’t even keep her own story straight on whether she wanted to work or not. Then she did work doing a bit of acting. Then ‘designed’ handbags (Lord help us). Then did nothing. And had a full time nanny the whole time.

You cannot trust a single thing that comes out the woman’s mouth. Even without any legal filings, the majority of her spraffing is usually discredited by another one of her own posts. She is so filled with hate and a need for revenge she can’t even stay consistent.

And her hatred for Ioan far outweighs her love for her daughters. Let’s not forget she literally set up the situation where they kicked off at him and ran away. She instigated the ‘sleepover’ and the girls were caught unaware. She knew what she was doing. And revenge and hurting him was more important than her daughters’ feelings.

StElwicksNeighbourhoodAssociation · 02/10/2025 00:58

Am I right in thinking that Alice was approached by Weinstein? Ioan stepped in to defend her and HW told him that he would never work in Hollywood again? Hence his limited acting work? As implied above it seems like AE is using this against him.

OldTiredMum1976 · 02/10/2025 01:10

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 23:16

Did you actually just quote another MN user, and address her as if you were actually speaking to THE Alice Evans.

How embarrassing.

More embarrassing for you if you don’t know that she regularly posts on Mumsnet, calling herself beautiful and hard-dome-by 😂

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 01:16

OldTiredMum1976 · 02/10/2025 01:10

More embarrassing for you if you don’t know that she regularly posts on Mumsnet, calling herself beautiful and hard-dome-by 😂

Sure she does.

GranofBagpuss · 02/10/2025 03:08

MidnightPatrol · 30/09/2025 19:37

She’s obviously very unwell and needs professional help, and the press printing her struggles really is a bit exploitative IMO.

She’s been like this for years. Don’t use mental ill health as an excuse, she’s a nasty person who has always thought herself better than anyone else. She’s ruined herself and is ruining the lives of her children.

SerafinasGoose · 02/10/2025 07:31

Vivi0 · 02/10/2025 01:16

Sure she does.

I'm a seasoned, hardened Mumsnetter. I've been around a good many years and seen some real excessses of weirdness, but this thread far surpasses itself for sheer batshit quotient. Posters - several of them, not one-offs - cheerfully admitting to voyeuristicically poring over total strangers' legal documents, an inventory of every piece of behaviour this woman has apparently indulged in over a span of years, and the icing on the cake, addressing other posters as though they were the her. It's the level and depth of apparent knowledge that perplexes me. It's bordering on pathological.

You have to wonder where they bake these people, because in no one's language is this healthy or disinterested behaviour. The only thing on the www I've seen to equal it is the harassment of Meghan Markle.

Who are these people, anyway, to generate such a response? I'd never heard of either of them until reports of their divorce.

Cuckoo.

EeewDavid · 02/10/2025 08:39

If the sexes were reversed here it would be a VERY different thread!

Shame on you abuse apologists.

Also great deflection re trying to turn it on those who’ve followed the case. Alice Evans wanted EVERYONE to know her husband ‘left his family’ and shouted it from the rooftops. Blame her for attracting the attention.

If someone acts mad as a bat, people will look. Normal human nature.

PortSalutPlease · 02/10/2025 09:27

Honish · 01/10/2025 21:15

Good Lord.

Edited

It’s clear he’s been abused their entire relationship - poor man. It’s the fact he tells the story like it’s some sweet anecdote I find most chilling - that he was so beaten down he really thought behaviour like that was ok.

fancifree · 02/10/2025 09:34

MissFancyDay · 01/10/2025 15:37

Nope, wrong again. He left an abusive marriage, and had the luck to meet a sane woman.

He stopped trying to see the kids when it was obvious that their mental health and wellbeing was being affected by the obstacles Alice was putting in his way. He cares more for them than she does.

I just can't imagine a woman who abandoned her children to an abusive man being given the same slack tbh. If I believed my DH was damaging my children like you're assuming she is, there's no way I'd draw a line under it after a couple of years, "oh I've done everything I could" and set about creating a second family.

EeewDavid · 02/10/2025 12:01

fancifree · 02/10/2025 09:34

I just can't imagine a woman who abandoned her children to an abusive man being given the same slack tbh. If I believed my DH was damaging my children like you're assuming she is, there's no way I'd draw a line under it after a couple of years, "oh I've done everything I could" and set about creating a second family.

But men and women are treated very differently by the system and he’s tried very hard to parent the girls, get custody and get the girls therapy. All thwarted by Alice.

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 02/10/2025 13:40

That video is horrific, I don't really know anything about either of them but that he's cheerfully telling that horrific tale as though it's normal or ok when she was so awfully abusive, really chilling. Those poor children, absolute insanity that the courts seemingly have all that information (just the couple of transcripts I've seen in this thread should be enough) yet have left the kids in her care is frightening. I guess he is the kind of person who can't stand up for himself (hence he ended up in this mess) and now isn't standing up for them. He sat there in those transcripts while she said all those things to/in front of the kids and he let it happen, they've both let the kids down horrifically.

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