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Labour are lifting the 2 child benefit cap

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PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:43

AIBU that this is a terrible decision?

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clipboardz · 30/09/2025 22:00

South Korea and Japan are already on the precipice of societal collapse, and we're not that far behind.

Japan at least planned for it and tried to mitigate years ago. We have done nothing

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 30/09/2025 22:01

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 21:50

@ChardonnaysBeastlyCat

"An ageing population is a demographic trend where the proportion of older people in a society increases relative to younger age groups, causing the average age of the population to rise. This happens due to two main factors: increased life expectancy, as people live longer thanks to better healthcare and living conditions, and declining fertility rates, which mean fewer children are born"

"e UK is experiencing a significant ageing population, with a growing proportion of people aged 65 and over"

"The ratio of working-age people to pensionable-age people is projected to fall, placing greater pressure on the workforce and public services to support a larger older population. "

@ChardonnaysBeastlyCat

Why on Earth are you overusing the @ sign?

I'm on the bloody thread.

"An ageing population is a demographic trend where the proportion of older people in a society increases relative to younger age groups, causing the average age of the population to rise. This happens due to two main factors: increased life expectancy, as people live longer thanks to better healthcare and living conditions, and declining fertility rates, which mean fewer children are born"

People get older, ie age, and the population ages. Fertility rates might be declining, but we have a net immigration in the hundreds of thousands. Who needs children, when we have ready made adults?

There, in your own Googled, copied and pasted quote.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/09/2025 22:02

Nestingbirds · 30/09/2025 20:54

I have actually lived in both, and other countries and they have an extraordinary quality of life. NZ and Australia are also options for most.

I found each awful. Each to their own, though.
Exception being NZ. Would happily live there. Probably wouldn’t take us now though 😁

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 30/09/2025 22:02

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 21:55

How do you know this?

Well if they don’t want more, then the two child cap isn’t a problem.

Upstartled · 30/09/2025 22:02

The aging population didn't make Reeves have to indebt us to a further and unexpected £11 billion pounds in August. The number of old people was a known-known at the 2024 budget.

Businesses hobbled by government interference and individuals who have been taxed into apathy have swung the fortunes of the treasury and bond traders who see us as an increasingly risky bet putting up the interest on borrowing did that.

cadburyegg · 30/09/2025 22:02

Lots of people on this thread seem to think only non working parents claim UC which is simply not the case.

I think the cap should be lifted from 2 to 3 children. 3 children is not an absurd amount of children to have. Someone could have made the choice to have 3 children whilst being able to afford it only for their circumstances to change some time later.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 22:02

Hahahaha! This comment wins the thread!

I wish we could give out awards 😆

pinkpopcorn123 · 30/09/2025 22:03

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 30/09/2025 21:49

What makes you think that children impacted by the benefit cap havent been already born? Odd.

Well, the fact that I’m suggesting supporting families now with childcare costs and other family friendly policies, to me, makes it clear I know these children already exist. I’m not sure why you read that into my post. Not odd at all. Your interpretation is odd to me. I don’t like seeing children in poverty but I also believe it is a choice to have children and therefore we should at least consider whether we can support them and what kind of life we can provide for them.

winewolfhowls · 30/09/2025 22:03

A much better idea would be to bring back and expand early start centres

FlyMeSomewhere · 30/09/2025 22:04

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 18:56

Working people get CB too

Many working people have limited how many kids they have to what they can afford, a family with 1 or 2 kids that work aren't the burden that the huge benefit families are. They have kid after kid and end up never joining the world of work.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 22:05

@ChardonnaysBeastlyCat I tagged you before and after in case the post was too long for you and you were distracted by a bright light or something.

Who needs children, when we have ready made adults?

Christ it gets better 🤣🤣

I'm on the bloody thread.

I'm not convinced you are on the planet...

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 30/09/2025 22:06

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 21:56

Have you factored in what the workplace will be in 28 years? And what do you think the birth rate needs to be?

We don't know what the workplace will look like in 28 years, or what that will mean for economic productivity.

There's a good argument for having a birth rate marginally lower than the replacement rate for a few decades (a manged decline in total population) but we certainly don't want a cliff-edge drop we have no idea how to face.

And even if it were the case that, in the future, 1 child could support multiple retirees, a society where the majority are elderly and there are very few children does not sound an ideal one, to me.

Based on current birth rates, more than 50% of South Korea's population will be aged 60 or older by 2100, and only about 11% will be children, and the shift will continue to accelerate.

Yes, that's a potential economic disaster, but also a disaster for national defence, culture, and the basic social fabric.

Things arent quite so severe in the UK, yet, but it is well along that path (as is most of the West).

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 22:06

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 30/09/2025 21:54

But lifting it means those families will have more DC- more dc living in poverty.

Sadly the truth of it is that very little of the extra money will reach it way to the children. There is a reason there are more betting shops, takeaways and off licenses in deprived areas of the country.

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 30/09/2025 22:07

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 30/09/2025 22:02

Well if they don’t want more, then the two child cap isn’t a problem.

This is true - children are, of course, only born to people who want them.

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 22:07

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 30/09/2025 22:06

We don't know what the workplace will look like in 28 years, or what that will mean for economic productivity.

There's a good argument for having a birth rate marginally lower than the replacement rate for a few decades (a manged decline in total population) but we certainly don't want a cliff-edge drop we have no idea how to face.

And even if it were the case that, in the future, 1 child could support multiple retirees, a society where the majority are elderly and there are very few children does not sound an ideal one, to me.

Based on current birth rates, more than 50% of South Korea's population will be aged 60 or older by 2100, and only about 11% will be children, and the shift will continue to accelerate.

Yes, that's a potential economic disaster, but also a disaster for national defence, culture, and the basic social fabric.

Things arent quite so severe in the UK, yet, but it is well along that path (as is most of the West).

I meant to post 18 years but it doesn’t matter. We should be thinking about what it’ll be like. You may well have a mass of young people without jobs.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 22:07

we certainly don't want a cliff-edge drop we have no idea how to face.

This is the problem isn't it, the steep drop and years of ignoring the looming issue.

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 22:09

We need government policy that will reshape who has children. Too often those who can afford it aren't having enough and those who can't afford it are having too many.

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 30/09/2025 22:09

pinkpopcorn123 · 30/09/2025 22:03

Well, the fact that I’m suggesting supporting families now with childcare costs and other family friendly policies, to me, makes it clear I know these children already exist. I’m not sure why you read that into my post. Not odd at all. Your interpretation is odd to me. I don’t like seeing children in poverty but I also believe it is a choice to have children and therefore we should at least consider whether we can support them and what kind of life we can provide for them.

Well, the choice to have children is one that we desperately need more people to make.

I agree with the things you propose (and more), FWIW, but it isn't an either-or.

caringcarer · 30/09/2025 22:09

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 30/09/2025 21:48

That doesnt make sense.

Why would boosting the birth rate to the replacement rate, to keep the total population stable, mean we run out of space?

The replacement rate is 2.1 kids per woman (or, roughtly 1 child per adult).

We've been below that since the late 70s (which is why we're reliant on high immigration, which is not a viable long term solution).

Because you are ignoring the huge amount of immigrants coming to UK every year. They take up space and need accommodation too

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 30/09/2025 22:09

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 22:05

@ChardonnaysBeastlyCat I tagged you before and after in case the post was too long for you and you were distracted by a bright light or something.

Who needs children, when we have ready made adults?

Christ it gets better 🤣🤣

I'm on the bloody thread.

I'm not convinced you are on the planet...

Oh perfect.

Cheap attacks, nothing of substance.

Not that I expected anything else.

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 22:09

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 22:09

We need government policy that will reshape who has children. Too often those who can afford it aren't having enough and those who can't afford it are having too many.

That sounds a bit like eugenics.

comoatoupeira · 30/09/2025 22:10

Do benefits really lift people out of poverty?

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 30/09/2025 22:11

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 22:07

I meant to post 18 years but it doesn’t matter. We should be thinking about what it’ll be like. You may well have a mass of young people without jobs.

Of course we should be thinking about what technology will mean for jobs, in the future, but that does not mean that population collapse isn't an existential societal problem.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 22:11

Cheap attacks, nothing of substance.

Well I tried explaining the difference to you between an ageing population & "people get older" and it still went over your head so I'm not really sure how else I can help. 🤷🏻‍♀️

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 30/09/2025 22:11

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 22:07

I meant to post 18 years but it doesn’t matter. We should be thinking about what it’ll be like. You may well have a mass of young people without jobs.

Of course we should be thinking about what technology will mean for jobs, in the future, but that does not mean that population collapse isn't an existential societal problem.

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