You are very naive op. Erika Kirk puts many young, religious women in danger. Most have grown up in very religious families and are encouraged by people like her and CK to drop out of school, marry young, submit to there husband. She herself is well educated, did not marry young, has a business, podcasts, speaking engagements, an LLC and worked as a realtor. She has assets, help at home, stylists, a mansion, etc.
The women who must live as submissive biblical wives have none of that. They may be subjected to violence, non consensual bdsm, have no bank account, my work for their husbands business for free,etc. Many have ended up homeless and with ptsd after leaving. Men are taught to keep their women in line as head of the family, and they will be judged by their god at death if they don't.
Check some interviews by the amazing Tia Levings, or youtuber "Life take two" for their experiences and views on this subject. The later ended up homeless after leaving, and was told by her husband that they were unadopting their son and he gave their 4 year old away the next day. The violent marital rape that Tia endured was horrifying.
EK called her husband a martyr. She would like to be one too. Of course she'll say she forgives, it's part of the image, part of the grift. Just like when she post herself crying over his coffin, lashes, hair and make-up done. Nothing is sacred.
ETA that EK is not alone, she is part of a "former feminist" movement that the Christian nationalist patriarchy is using to push their cause, while living lives of luxory themselves.